Good Dad System

The atmosphere in the living room suddenly became awkward. The yellow crystal lamp in the middle of the ceiling seemed to be less soft and warm at the moment.

Pei Naochun, who was sitting there silently, suddenly patted the table, he frowned and looked at Lin Shuqi: "Shu Qi, what's wrong, when the child is old, it's time to fly, always let her go and think for yourself the way to go."

Lin Shuqi was stunned by this situation. She and her husband have always had discussions, and it is rare for each other to lose their temper, but this involves a matter of principle, so how could she agree: "Whatever your own way, don't bring bad children. She turned her head to look at Pei Qiaoqiao, and said earnestly, "Qiaoqiao, my mother is not such a tyrannical person, but look, you are a girl, how can you go so far? When you are alone outside, you will be affected by What a bad grievance, let’s talk about it, when you come back to us, can’t your parents help you and help you?”

She said that many people in this province have common beliefs, and the locals do not like to be far from their homeland. It is precisely because of this reason that the local school scores are much higher, but there are still students who are rushing to enter.

"There is no help now, the child has the ability and can work well anywhere. If he is wronged, it will be too late to come back." Pei Naochun added quietly, obviously standing on the side of his daughter , "Going outside is definitely going to be hard, but it can also train people. Our economy is not good, and the pace is slow. There are indeed many industries that are not very good here."

Lin Shuqi was furious with her husband. If her daughter said... well, she would be angry too, but her husband who was supposed to be on her side betrayed her, so she couldn't bear it: "You have to fight with me today, right? It's all for the sake of my daughter!"

"Me too." Pei Naochun sighed, there is nothing in this world that can be both. Children are people, not objects, just like parents. When you are around, some wish for their children to be far away. Isn't that the case with children? "So let's be more reasonable and make this matter clear. Good is good, bad is bad, and don't mix so many personal emotions."

"You're right?" Lin Shuqi pointed at her husband at once, "We are just such a precious daughter who has worked so hard to raise such a big girl, and you are willing to let her go outside and fly freely. Isn't it? Then what if we are old? Don't we need children to take care of us? At that time, we will be an old man and an old lady, who will take care of whom? They say raising children to prevent old age. By then, she will feel comfortable going abroad to study, and then find a suitable partner, take root in the place where she is, and take care of her parents for others, what about us?"

She is half angry and half sincere. She loves her children and does not conflict with the concept of raising children to prevent old age. She hopes that her daughter will have a good life, but this good should also include her and her husband. In the second half of her life, almost every point of her life plan includes the existence of her daughter, such as how much money she has to save for her children, how much she has to raise grandchildren for her children, etc. Pei Qiaoqiao's idea cost her half of her life.

Pei Qiaoqiao heard that her parents were arguing because of her, and her heart started to panic. She looked around in embarrassment. Waves of guilt surged like a sea, almost suffocating her, especially when she heard the words of grievances behind her mother, Yes, if she goes far, what will the parents do? She can't be so selfish, her parents have given her so much, and she has to think about her parents too.

"Shu Qi." Pei Naochun sighed heavily, and he looked at his wife, "Do you want Qiaoqiao to be happy? I understand your concerns, and the same goes for me as a father. Reborn to what we are now, are we the kind of authoritarian parents? Can't we let our children chase their dreams?"

Lin Shuqi couldn't help but her eyes were a little red, she turned her face away, and her chest kept heaving with anger and grievance: "Who doesn't like children, okay?"

Who knows how wronged she is, doesn't everyone do this? In the first half of her life, her parents worked hard as cattle and horses for their children and daughters. In the second half of their lives, they could also enjoy their children's blessings. Besides, she sacrificed so much for her daughter in this life, and her whole life revolved around her. I hope the child stays here, why is it like her fault?

Isn't what she said for her daughter?

"Shu Qi, shall we talk about this later?" Pei Naochun patted his wife reassuringly. He knew that his wife didn't want to quarrel with him in front of his daughter, so he turned to Pei Qiaoqiao again, with encouragement in his eyes, "Qiao Qiao, It's good that you have your own ideas, then you have to work hard first, like you said before, check the information and make a detailed plan for your parents? We are also worried that you are impulsive and not doing enough Ready, you show us the plan, it is feasible, of course we will support you, okay?"

Pei Qiaoqiao had a thousand words in her heart. After thinking about it for a long time, she nodded and said in a low voice, "Okay." In fact, she could see that Dad was trying to smooth things out. Why was it because she didn't plan well?

But seeing her father trying so hard to reconcile between her and her mother, she can only accept this kindness, at least, try harder to see it? Maybe if the plan is made, my mother really agrees?

Holding unrealistic expectations, Pei Qiaoqiao cautiously got up, walked to her mother, and gently tugged at her sleeve: "Mom, don't you get mad at me? I'll make a plan and tell you later. "

Lin Shuqi is not someone who likes to toss with her daughter. Looking at Pei Qiaoqiao's appearance, she could only hold back her anger, and snorted with a straight face: "Go to sleep, wait until I can't get up in the morning and say it again. I’m scolding people, I’ll talk about it when the time comes anyway.” She didn’t care about her daughter’s actions, and immediately began to put away the tableware and chopsticks, and she didn’t plan to let her intervene. After all, the quarrel tonight delayed her daughter’s study, which was already a big deal in her plan. Mistake.

As for what future?

Let's talk about it when you fill in the volunteers! What dreams can a child have, at this age, it has not yet been determined. What about the future? It changes every day, maybe you won't think so when you wake up tomorrow, and besides, it's not her who checks it out in the end! Wait until the time.

But the first thing to solve is the serious problem around her. Lin Shuqi said, and looked at her husband who was sitting next to her. She must first solve this internal traitor and unite before she can get her daughter.

At the same time, Pei Naochun, who was sitting next to him, also looked over. It seemed that tonight was a night of eating and sleeping, and he had to convince his wife.

…

Pei Naochun and Lin Shuqi's room was well-decorated. Behind the big bed was the couple's wedding photos, and the one facing the bed was the TV. A quilt of flowers was laid out, which neutralized the seriousness. Decorative style.

"Old Pei, are you free now?" Lin Shuqi crossed her hands and sat on the bed waiting for her husband for a long time. She didn't smile, and she didn't call her first name. Anger, "Come on, now the child is not here, let's have a good talk."

"Okay, let's talk." Pei Naochun sat directly on the other side, also looking at his wife, neither of them were arrogant, but the undercurrent was faintly surging. After all, they were all clear, this matter No one wants to step back.

"Don't you think what you said in front of Qiao Qiao today is too irrational?" Lin Shuqi snorted coldly, "Have you ever thought that raising our children is so easy? When I started small, I was preparing for the school district room, and what kind of nursery classes and school assignments, including when I didn’t want to work for the children, didn’t we pay much? Do you think you only know what is good for the children? But the piece of flesh that fell from my body, I dig my heart and my lungs, and do so much for her. What now? I want to be a white-eyed wolf when I am old? I want to fly away, be free, and leave our parents behind, right? Does it make sense?"

The more he talked, the more wronged he became. He couldn't help thinking about the past. Thinking of the hardships he suffered for his daughter in the past, Lin Shuqi felt that tears were about to come out: "Anyway, if you are a good person, can you be? I will make trouble without reason, no To be fair, as a mother, I hope that my daughter can be obediently by our side, and we will take care of it, is this a sin?"

"No guilt, I understand." Pei Naochun replied, he understands that he has traveled through so many worlds, and he already understands that deciding to raise a child is not only responsible for the child, but also for his own life.

How many unprepared parents wait for their child to be born in the end, suffering unbearable pain, and doing things that make the child suffer and they themselves suffer.

Parenting is raising and giving birth, bringing a life into this world, and then raising and building relationships. How can it be so easy.

"What do you know!" Lin Shuqi was already in a heart-wrenching pain, "I did so much, for whom, not for her?

"Don't feel bad first, and listen to me." Pei Naochun sighed. After he finished speaking, he quietly waited for his wife to calm down.

The mature performance of an adult is probably how embarrassed he is, and he can sort himself out. Lin Shuqi quickly adjusted back. She looked at her husband and said, "Tell me."

"Don't you regret it later?" Pei Naochun asked suddenly.

"Regret what?"

"I've been thinking, if you wanted to be promoted for Qiao Qiao's sake, but when you didn't get promoted, you almost couldn't get back to the training class. Would you regret it?" Pei Naochun could see the stunned look in his wife's eyes. "Over the years, our husband and wife have done a lot for Qiao Qiao. It's hard to say it. We just revolve around her every day as if we didn't have our own lives. Do you regret it sometimes?"

Lin Shuqi's heart was complicated. She didn't look at her husband, but bit her lip. After a while, she said, "I have nothing to regret for what I have done. I will not regret it when I look at Qiao Qiao."

In fact, she also knew that when she said this sentence, it was like she answered her husband's question.

That's right, she did regret it, and the things she regretted were gone, but the moment she saw her daughter, she was relieved, especially Pei Qiaoqiao was indeed a sensible child.

"I regret it too. I don't regret having Qiao Qiao. I was just thinking, before we were Qiao Qiao's parents, you were you, I was me, and we also had our own days to live." Pei Naochun's voice was very soft, "You have friends, so do I. We all have jobs and things to fight for. Does Jojo really need us to put all of our lives on her?"

"I don't think it's necessary. It's too heavy. What did we have Jojo for? We all want to have a child. She is the crystallization of our love and marriage, and it also makes our lives more complete. When she was with her, we were all happy, so why did we all become for her?"

"..." Lin Shuqi didn't say a word, she just listened.

"Shu Qi, we have spent more than ten years together on Qiao Qiao in our life. The more we give, the more we want in return. Do you remember how many words we said to Qiao Qiao for you? I don't know how to count, but what's the point? Jojo is not an ignorant child. As parents, shouldn't we also have some measure and don't press her every day."

"Why is this pressing her down..." Lin Shuqi hesitated, not because she was suddenly persuaded by her husband, but after hearing how many words she said for you, her heart throbbed.

"We are so old and have experienced a lot of things. Do you think Jojo won't be under any pressure to talk about this?" Pei Naochun said heavily, "If I could start all over again, I would rather wait for you to finish your promotion. Or earlier, when you gave birth to Jojo, the two of you should not be so frugal, hire a nanny, find someone you know, and don't delay your work. Jojo, including those around you, may not know that you used to be. What a great person, but I know that at that time, any teacher would be poached to the training institution."

Pei Naochun still remembers that Lin Shuqi, in her original memory, was high-spirited when she was young. Her lecturing ability was among the top among her colleagues and was highly valued. She's about to be turned into a trainer.

Lin Shuqi was seduced by her husband and recalled herself when she was young. She paused: "What are you talking about? It's all in the past."

"It's not the past." Pei Naochun said very sincerely, "I know how much you have sacrificed and how much you are doing for your daughter, so I don't want you to regret it in the future, Shu Qi, you sacrificed too much for your daughter. , but do you hope this child, because the two of us, like you before, folded our wings and obediently be a caged bird? Obedience is obedience, as you said, regret is regret, and we will see later The child will be fine, maybe the child will not regret it when she sees us in the future, but that doesn't mean she never regrets it."

"It's not like that, everyone does it."

"But every child is different. Some children don't have any ideas about the future, and they don't dare to venture out. Staying here is happiness for them, but since Qiaoqiao has this idea, he is willing to try it out. Try, why can't we give her a chance?"

Pei Naochun was reluctant to say too much: "Shu Qi, as parents, we can let this bird open the cage door and go out to fly. Of course, she may encounter bad people, wind and rain, and we can also By closing the cage door, she will be less likely to encounter a crisis. And this is not happy, and sometimes I can't give a confident answer. I only know that now Jojo is cautiously looking out, like Fly outside and take a look."

"Back then, you broke your wings and stayed in the cage for the sake of this family. I know you had a lot of sadness and grievances. Do you hope that Jojo would do the same?"

"Whose life isn't like this?" Lin Shuqi took a deep breath and sighed again, "Who isn't like this?"

I don't know whether she is convincing Pei Naochun or convincing herself.

"Is this really the case?" Pei Naochun threw a question, "There are so many people in the world who can stay with their parents obediently, why is it that Qiaoqiao wants to go out? There are so many people in the world who can have it and go out. Why can't Qiao Qiao have the opportunity to become an eagle by making a fortune and becoming an eagle?"

"We are the backing, not the cage." Pei Naochun lay down and covered the quilt. He looked at Lin Shuqi, who was still sitting beside the bed in a daze, knowing that the other party was very emotional at the moment, "Shu Qi, when my daughter goes to college, We are also about to retire, and we can travel together as a husband and wife, learn some hobbies, and dance square dancing is not bad, what is the age now, who have to go around."

"You just danced the square." Lin Shuqi hit her husband hard, then turned off the light and lay on the bed.

This night, some people tossed and turned, some people couldn't sleep at night, it was extraordinarily long.