Good Dad System

"Jojo, Jojo..."

Pei Qiaoqiao could feel someone calling out to her. She opened her heavy eyelids with difficulty. The first thing that caught her eye was the dazzling sunlight. She asked her to blink subconsciously, and then she recognized the moment when she saw the person coming. He lowered his head slightly, bit his lip and said softly, "Dad."

Pei Naochun looked at her daughter worriedly, Pei Qiaoqiao seemed to have had a nightmare, there was so much sweat on her forehead that her hair had become strands: "Jo Qiao, what kind of nightmare did you have? Dad, don't you think? Exactly."

"No, no." Pei Qiaoqiao staggered the eyes that were facing her father, and tried to squeeze a big smile, "Dad, I'll go clean up first and prepare for class."

"...Well." Pei Naochun walked out of his daughter's room, turned around thoughtfully and closed her daughter's door. With the gap getting smaller and smaller, he could see that her daughter was still sitting on the bed, stunned. stay.

"Qiao Qiao hasn't gotten up yet?" Lin Shuqi was putting chopsticks by the dining table, raised his eyes to look at the clock, and couldn't help frowning, "I procrastinate like this every morning, I have no sense of time, wait until it's over. She, there is still something on the other side of my company, if it wasn't for her, I could have an extra hour of sleep."

Hearing the familiar key words, Pei Naochun couldn't help frowning, he coughed and looked at his wife: "Shu Qi, I'm fine this morning, why don't I take Qiaoqiao to class, you go first busy."

"Alright." Lin Shuqi agreed neatly, sitting down and planning to eat, but her eyes kept looking inside, "This Qiao Qiao is getting slower and slower, and I don't know that the adults are waiting for her."

Speaking of Cao Cao, when Cao Cao arrived, Pei Qiaoqiao had already changed into her school uniform and walked out with her schoolbag on her back. Her shawl-length hair was neatly tied up, and even the small bits of hair at the edges and corners were carefully sorted out. She looked good when she smiled. smiling eyes: "Dad, Mom, good morning."

Lin Shuqi just nodded after hearing this: "Okay, come and sit down to eat, look, I got up early to cook for you, I'm afraid you won't be able to go to school in time, look at you, the emperor is really not in a hurry, **** Anxious, so procrastination, I don't know who I learned from."

Here again, Pei Naochun hurriedly interjected: "Qiao Qiao, sit down and eat, or the food will be cold, your mother is also afraid that your stomach will feel uncomfortable when you eat cold, I will take you to school this morning, let's I'll go after eating." He noticed that his wife seemed to want to say something, and immediately took the initiative to find a topic, "By the way, Shu Qi, haven't you been busy with work recently? I've been fine for the past two days, I'll come back to cook at night, if you want What to eat, remember to tell me."

"Okay." When Lin Shuqi was interrupted, he just nodded as if he had forgotten what he was saying before, "Then you buy some seafood, doesn't Qiaoqiao like crabs? The latest crab fat is the season, so buy more."

"become."

Pei Qiaoqiao couldn't help but looked at her mother with her eyes, and the smile she showed was a little bitter. What is half flame, half ocean, that's all around her, she has a pair of parents who love her deeply, but at the same time, this love is not It is also heavy, and often wears a shackle that makes people breathless.

She is really "unconscionable".

Pei Naochun seemed to be concentrating on eating with his head down, but his eyes were always looking around inadvertently. He couldn't help sighing in his heart. Sometimes, many things are really hard to tell right from wrong.

...

Pei Naochun was very accustomed to teleportation after the end of the world. He entered the dark space and calmed down. When he opened his eyes, he saw the soul of a man who was squatting there in a daze.

The man was wearing a suit with the buttons buttoned to the highest level. He could see that he was usually a very particular person, but at the moment he was full of sullen breath, and the appearance of squatting there was only one cigarette away from showing people that Seeing the sad look that Yu Xin couldn't bear.

"I..." The man sighed heavily, and then told the story of his life.

This time, what Pei Naochun entered is an adaptation of a true story. According to the author's description, what she wrote was a story that happened to a close friend beside her. The name was "For You, For Me, For Him". The joys and sorrows that happened to the heroine Pei Qiaoqiao.

And this heroine is the only daughter of the original body, Pei Qiaoqiao.

Pei Qiaoqiao was born in a particularly cold winter. Her father was an employee of a local foreign trade company, and her mother was employed in a local after-school tutoring institution. Both parents' salaries were considered moderate in this city. Even though he was rich and wealthy, he still lived happily ever after.

And all this started when Pei Qiaoqiao was born.

Pei Qiaoqiao's mother, Lin Shuqi, used to be a very professional woman. She was repeatedly rated as an excellent teacher by local training institutions. When she encountered promotion opportunities, she became pregnant. This pregnancy made her suffer a lot. From the strong pregnancy reaction in the early stage, to the middle stage, because of threatened abortion, I was in bed to protect the fetus for two months. When the child was finally about to be born, it was directly difficult to give birth, and then Pei Qiaoqiao was born. The elders above the couple were all He is no longer there, so he can only **** to take care of the children and live confinement.

At that time, the guarantee of childbirth was not enough. The wife missed the opportunity for promotion, and the original body did not dare to relax at work, so there was only one wife left at home. Lin Shuqi's confinement work was exhausted, feeling the stones to cross the river, almost She made all the mistakes she could make, and by the end of the confinement period, she had already suffered from big and small problems, such as migraine headaches, back pains, everything.

Since only one of the couple was at work, Lin Shuqi hesitated and had to quit her job and took care of her daughter at home until she was two years old. She was able to go to morning care, and then returned to the original unit to apply for a job, but at that time, her position It is no longer there, so I have to start all over again.

Out of the local traditional concept, the two couples planned to strike while the iron is hot and have another one. They just thought it would be fine to hide for a while, but who knew that family planning was too strict, and there was no way to hide in Tibet. The last six months of Lin Shuqi were taken away. Induced labor, it was a baby boy.

These are just stories that may happen to most ordinary families in this world with average economic conditions and living in that era, but this pressure is enough to completely change a person. Lin Shuqi seems to have changed a person and likes to complain , also hung up a new mantra, this sentence is: "I'm for you..." And this sentence, most of the time, is said to her daughter Pei Qiaoqiao.

Pei Qiaoqiao's growth process has always been shrouded in the strong love of her parents.

When she was in kindergarten, she quarreled with her classmates, and her mother, who had asked for leave from the training class, waited until she had finished dealing with the teacher, and said all the way: "Because of you, I have to ask for leave again today. In order to give birth to you, I almost lost my good job. Now that you have finally grown up and come again, when the time comes when your mother's job is not good, you will be happy."

When she chose the interest class, she was very interested in the taekwondo newly launched by the Children's Palace. Looking around, she cautiously made a request to her parents, but her mother did not agree. She said, "When I gave birth to you, I thought that you would She is a baby like a little princess, what kind of taekwondo do you learn, listen to your mother, learn the piano, how elegant, your mother sacrificed so much for you, can you listen to your mother once?"

When she was in elementary school, she couldn't sit still, and she had the problem of Ma Daha, and her test scores were average. When she got home, her father said sternly: "Jojo, in order for you to go to the best elementary school, parents, Selling all the previous houses and buying such a small house specially, you are not only sorry for yourself, but also sorry for your parents, and even more sorry for the money spent by your parents!"

There are many, many more things like this.

"If it wasn't for you, why wouldn't your brother be gone?" My mother said this, she just had the final say. After all, although there was a bit of a patriarchal concept, there were no two people who were pressed by the older generation. The speaker has no intention, and the listener has a heart, "If you are a boy, your father and I don't have to worry about it. Girls will be obedient, and life will be better in the future."

"Look, your high school entrance examination is average. If you want to go to the best school, your parents will pay the school selection fee. Those who are positive will only need one or two thousand tuition fees a year. You need eighteen thousand. , your parents spent so much money for you, you child, you still don't know how to make progress?" This was said during the college entrance examination.

When applying for volunteers, they said again: "Mom and Dad have spent so much money and effort to raise you well over the years, and now you are a child, and you still want to go to such a far place to study, when the time comes You left, have you ever thought about what to do if your parents are sick or dead? Everything you do for you is the same as what you do for nothing. In the end, we both live on our own? Just listen to your father's words, stay here for us Here, my parents are here, not traveling far, haven't you heard of it?"

She obediently followed her parents' request and found a university in the province to study. Four years later, she obediently returned to her home and a new round of crusade began.

"Tell me, you kid, I don't want you to fall in love, and I don't want you to have a blind date. You don't know how much gossip you can have outside if you don't get married. How embarrassing do you say you embarrass your parents? Even for us, you Gotta go on a blind date too!" This is for "us".

Pei Qiaoqiao's blind date did not go well. This was the first time she resisted in her life. She quietly showed her worst side in front of her blind date, and then temporarily escaped from this cage. When she was close to twenty-nine, almost every time she returned At home, she would be talked and scolded by her parents, but she held back.

But after thirty, she was finally defeated again.

Pei Qiaoqiao came home and saw the parents holding the neighbor's child, with envious expressions in their eyes, they stopped scolding, but looked very pitiful: "We are retired, it's nothing, if you If you have children, we can also take care of you." The parents had a tacit understanding, and after saying this, they went back to the room, and then there was a sigh that seemed to never stop, and even when it was passing, it seemed You can see the corners of their wet eyes.

Yes, children can't be by their side all the time, and the two of them are quite lonely from morning to night.

The lobbyist came soon: "Jojo, listen to your uncle's advice, look at how much your parents did for you in the past, now that they are old and don't want to drag you down, they just want to take care of your children for you. You can also take care of your life and enjoy the joy of caring for your grandson. They have paid so much for you, can't you just follow their heart once?"

"Yeah, children are all debts, and they have to revolve around you in their entire lives. Now that you are old, you suddenly left, and they have nowhere to turn around. It's so hard in your heart, you should take pity on them. "

In short, in the end, Pei Qiaoqiao once again chose to compromise. She quickly met a husband who met her parents' requirements through a blind date. The two were not very affectionate and sincere. At this age, suitability is more important than anything else. Not long after marriage, Pei Qiaoqiao got pregnant.

But she seems to have inherited her mother's physique. This child has been extremely difficult. She was pregnant for ten months, and she spent almost all of it in pain and struggle. Everyone said that raising a child can only know the kindness of the parents, and she really did. Feeling everything that her mother gave for her at the beginning, but at the same time, Pei Qiaoqiao couldn't help but want to ask her mother from the bottom of her heart—

"Mom, you know how painful it is to get pregnant and give birth to a child, why are you willing to force me to bear such pain once?"

She couldn't ask this sentence. After all, the mother who was by her side would always say something else before her.

"In those days, I suffered more for you than now. You are now enjoying yourself, and I will take care of me. I used to have a mother-in-law and mother to take care of me. Look at how happy you are."

"Now you know how hard I used to feel for you?" Mom smiled and poked her forehead, "Women who want to have children have to pass this level. I gritted my teeth for you, and now you are for you. Your child, you have to grit your teeth and push through."

These words are so warm, but Pei Qiaoqiao feels that her heartless heart is indifferent.

——But Mom, I'm really sad, not everyone in the world can be so great, I don't want to give everything for my child, and then force her to give her life for me like you and my father. .

Although Pei Qiaoqiao's delivery was not so smooth, it was not as painful as her mother's. She was in labor pains for a long time, and finally gave birth successfully. She was pushed out of the delivery room and saw her parents secretly wiping tears. They wiped away their tears, then gave her a huge smile and hugged the baby and said to her, "Baby, you're awesome."

I don't know why, but Pei Qiaoqiao felt relieved at that moment. She thought, this should be over, right?

But this is not over yet, the next day will be a new repetition.

Mother took the initiative to move to the house to take care of the child for her, and also helped her to confine her. It is undeniable that with the help of her mother, the hard work was indeed much less. Pei Qiaoqiao could see her mother's exhaustion and hard work. She thought about it several times. I persuaded my mother to rest or hire a nanny, but she was immediately rejected. My mother smiled and said, "For you, there is no hard work." By the end of the confinement period, Lin Shuqi had already lost a few laps, including her mother's hands and other old problems again. Relapse, due to poor rest and hard work, her high blood pressure could not be controlled for a time, and she almost fainted and was sent to the hospital.

Pei Qiaoqiao almost went crazy, she shed tears with guilt, and her father said, "It's okay, we are parents, we are willing to do anything for you." But she herself knew that she would rather her parents not sacrifice so much for her. , she's not finished yet.

After that, she embarked on the path of her mother.

She wanted to stop breastfeeding earlier - this thing was a lot more painful than many people thought, and she couldn't bear it since she was not in pain, but her parents and husband jointly stopped her, they said: "Every time when All mothers have to go through this. If you eat more breast milk, your child will be healthy. There is no reason to sacrifice your child's body for yourself! You have to support it for the sake of your child."

Pei Qiaoqiao is eager to return to work, and appreciates that her boss has left her with an important opportunity, but this requires the child to go out for training and study for half a year when the child is one year old. As long as the half-year training is completed, she can be successfully promoted and stabilized in her original position. , she struggled to bring it up at home, and then it was the persuasion of the whole family to go into battle: "Jojo, look at Mom, this was the one who almost became the leader of the company in the past. Don't you give up everything for you? Go back then. When I go to work, I almost can’t get in. I have to recalculate my length of service and work experience, and I have to pass the internship period. You say how uncomfortable I am, but as long as I think of you, everything is worth it. Look, I recall it now, I don't regret it at all, you'll know it later, for the sake of the baby, we won't go and spend more time with the child."

This end opened, as if she couldn't stop the car, all her ambitions and ideas were completely ended after the child was born.

In the past, she would travel with her best friend for ten days and a half months every year, and she could not go out until the child was seven years old. She was once appreciated by the boss, and she was about to be promoted. Day after day, unchallenging work.

And all of this is probably the phrase "for him". As time went by, Pei Qiaoqiao found in dismay that she was slowly becoming more and more like her mother, and she inevitably kidnapped everything that happened in her life. After taking care of her son, she often thought in the dead of night that if her son had not been born in those days, or if she had persevered to the end, she would have had other choices in life.

A seven-year-old boy, at the age where cats dislike dogs, can make a mess in the house. Pei Qiaoqiao looked at the mess in the house and jumped hysterically. She couldn't help shouting: "I get up early and go to the dark every day for you. You've worked so hard, don't you know how to be obedient?"

The words naturally came out of her mouth, but after hearing that sentence, she couldn't help but go back to the room and cry. The son seemed to be frightened, so he apologized timidly, and immediately swore that he knew that his mother was working hard, and he would do it again later. I dare not.

Only Pei Qiaoqiao knew that it wasn't her son's mischievous cry that she was crying, but that she had grown into a mother without knowing it.

She tried to change, but found that it was like a huge cage, and she could not get out without the key.

Whenever she wants to have her own life and wants to be an irresponsible mother for a period of time, her parents and husband appear: "Jojo, why are you so ignorant? Look at your mother. You have paid so much for you, how old are you now, and you still lose your temper, how important it is for your child to study, you have affected his grades now, and you will regret it for the rest of your life."

Well, it’s very important. Elementary school lays the foundation and strives for a good junior high school. Junior high school is a transition period to high school, and it is also very important. High school is the most important thing. Many things are decided.

There is probably only four years of respite in college, why? Because once I graduated, I had to start worrying again. I first looked for a job, then helped my children save money, bought a house and a car, and found a partner. After finding a partner, I had to have a child, and I had to help take care of the child. Now that I have a second child, I still have to Urge the second child, and continue to take care of the second child after giving birth.

And then, it's not liberation, but you're finally getting old, and you can't do anything if you can't do anything.

When the son graduated from the college entrance examination, Yuanshen and Lin Shuqi were not in good health. When the two elders heard that their grandson was going to study abroad, they immediately became anxious, and ran to their daughter and grandson and began to nagging: "Baby, when you go out, When will I be able to come back, my grandfather and grandmother are old, and the people will be gone by then, and I won't be able to see you for the last time. Besides, your father and your mother are alone in the country, how uncomfortable." Pei Qiaoqiao's husband He also nodded in agreement, he was more old-fashioned and did not want his son to go too far, for fear that the child would never return.

But this time Pei Qiaoqiao insisted, she said, "enough, I hope he can do what he wants to do."

"But we worked so hard to raise him so big." The implication of his father's words was understood by everyone present.

"So what? This is his life." Pei Qiaoqiao looked at his parents, "Why do you always think that raising children is for him? In the beginning, it was us who wanted to raise children."

The conversation broke up, and after a long period of separatism, the child still went to the United States to study.

Before two years, the old couple had been admitted to the ward one after another. Seeing that their lifespans were about to end, the air ticket back home was not so easy to buy, and they still needed to transfer, plus leave, at least three days before the grandson could come back.

When the old couple was weak, they couldn't help complaining again: "Tell me, I told you back then, don't let the child go so far, look at now, we are almost gone, and we can't even see the child for the last time. Children, we are all heart and lungs, and when we get old, we can't even take care of them."

Pei Qiaoqiao suddenly burst into tears. She was already middle-aged, crying embarrassingly. She looked at her parents and said, "If you let him stay, will you be satisfied? Parents, it's really enough, you know, I will live my whole life. I have never lived for myself, I know you love me, and I know I want to repay, but I am really in pain." She struggled through countless nights, but on the one hand, she knew that she had received a lot of love and should To repay, but on the other hand, she is indeed very painful.

She said: "I'd rather you do nothing for me, I can't afford it, I really can't afford it."

...

"As for later..." The soul was silent for a moment before speaking. "After we left, Jojo blamed herself. She thought she was the one who made us mad, and she always blamed herself..." He didn't elaborate. The story that happened after Pei Qiaoqiao, but anyone can see that this ending should not be very happy.

"I hope she can live a good life for herself." The soul twitched the corners of his mouth, "This love is to hope that she can be happier and better, not a shackle that makes her miserable."