Good Dad System

Divorce is simple and simple to say - if the other party agrees, go directly to the Civil Affairs Bureau to handle the divorce. If the other party does not agree, then slowly procrastinate, sue, and take time; it is difficult to say that it is difficult - in many cases Under such circumstances, it is difficult to make a decision easily when a marriage that lasts for a long time ends. In addition, people are not isolated individuals in society, and many things are further complicated.

Just like this moment.

"...This matter, I don't think it's very good!" The woman stood upright with her waist on her back, her voice was quite loud, and she looked agitated.

"Second sister, you sit down first." Pei Naochun coughed twice, and then comforted his sister to sit down. The other party glanced at him, but he still looked anxious and anxious.

The Pei family is a big and small family. Under Pei Naochun, there are two younger sisters. The three brothers and sisters grew up together and have a good relationship. Later, with Pei Baoshu, the two younger sisters treat her as their daughters and love her. In the past, when Pei Baoshu was young, these two aunts helped to buy the clothes from top to bottom. When she got married, the two aunts also took 50,000 yuan each and some gold ornaments as toppings. Shu Feng married happily.

In a previous life, Pei Baoshu's idea of ​​getting a divorce was persuaded by two aunts. Their reasons for persuasion at that time were very realistic. Pei Baoshu was already in his thirties, and he was carrying a sick father. There is also her son who is reluctant to let go. Both sides are big holes that cost money. If they are divorced, bringing them with them will not sound good, and it will be difficult to find them again. Besides, they have heard of them all around. A similar example, if you don't divorce a man, no matter how stingy the other party is, he will at least give out his son's money. Once he chooses to divorce, even a rich man will start to support him without knowing why. Fei Shang began to struggle... In short, for this series of reasons, Pei Baoshu was directly knocked unconscious, and the two remaining relatives she could rely on persuaded her to hold back. After she struggled, she also obeyed the two aunts. Intentionally, he chose to continue to maintain that fragmented family.

But it was these two aunts. Later, the seventy-year-old people went to the house that Yu Haotian bought outside, and yelled at the door. They almost didn't splash paint and stick the cloth strips. They kept holding on to it. The old concept, I always feel that after playing around, I will always calm down, but I did not expect that the cherished niece has been trapped in the marriage and tortured in her heart, but it was too late to say anything at that time.

Pei Baoshu was sitting in the middle of the couch, with her father on the left and two aunts on the right. She fidgeted and lowered her head subconsciously. For her, her husband's cheating was not only a big blow, but also made her feel ashamed. After all, at least at home, from the grandfather's generation to her generation, among all the cousins, she was the only one who had problems in their marriage.

"What are you doing with your head down? Abao, it's not that you found one outside, don't lower your head!" Pei Ermei has a big temper, and she speaks like a gun, one sentence after another.

Pei Naochun originally brought his daughter to behead first and then play it, but in this family, there are already established rules. For any major event, a few elders should be seen and known, that is, with such a rule, the original father passed away. Afterwards, the big family still maintained its original appearance, and it was scattered without saying so. Besides, Pei Baoshu also felt that the family should know about this matter. It's not good that they are all getting divorced. When the family sees Yu Haotian, they should secretly call her son-in-law.

Pei Baoshu only posted a simple sentence in the group called [Blind Date and Love Family], "I'm sorry to tell you a news, I plan to discuss divorce matters with Yu Haotian in the near future, thank you for your kindness to our small family. Help." Before she sent the message, one of Pei Naochun's actions was to remove Yu Haotian from the group. As for how he felt when he received the message, he would not care about his business. I just don't have any interest in doing **** with him.

As soon as this news came out, it immediately turned the sky over. First there were a series of question marks and news bombardment, and then Pei Naochun's two younger sisters were called directly. Young people in their twenties and thirties are not as active as they are.

So...that's it now.

"Okay, little aunt." Pei Baoshu raised her head. She had been crying for the past few days, her eyes were a little swollen, and the original double eyelids suddenly became three, four or five.

"You..." Big sister Pei saw her niece like this, and her heart also tugged and hurt. You must know that this niece was taken care of by the two of them since she was so young. "It's alright, it's alright."

"Auntie, Auntie, I don't have any ideas. I'm just very simple. I don't think I can live anymore. I want to get a divorce." Every time I say something again, it's like opening the wound again and letting people see it again. Pei Baoshu was still sad, "He didn't just cheat, he also had a home outside, and the whole hospital basically knew about that woman, who was pregnant, and it was estimated that she was about to give birth in three or two months. , if he is a little worried about me, he shouldn't cheat, let alone do it to this point." She smiled bitterly, the bitterness from the bottom of her heart to her mouth.

Sister Pei was so angry that she directly patted the sofa: "He is too much! This matter is not over with their family! How can you bully people like this!" Like the second sister, she is a resolute person with a big temper. " Bao, I will come to his door later to ask his good parents and ask them how to discipline their own son, and this kind of thing can be done."

Pei Ermei also agreed: "yes, you can't be too much, don't worry, Bao, you can solve it. When he sends the woman away, life can go on, we're not uncomfortable, the aunts are here."

"I don't want to solve it." Pei Baoshu laughed embarrassedly, "I just want a divorce. He wants to be with a woman outside, so let him go. I don't care, I can't care anymore."

go back, can you go back? She doesn't even want to go back to that home now, because there are beautiful memories of the two of them in almost every place there. As long as she sees those, she is touched by the situation and begins to doubt whether the relationship between the two is all fake. .

Pei Ermei was very impatient, she couldn't sit still, she stood up directly, and was facing Pei Baoshu: "A Bao, listen to aunt's advice, you are leaving now, isn't it cheap for the woman Yu Haotian was looking for outside? If you can hide and hide outside, as soon as you leave, she will enter the room!"

"Then let her be Mrs. Yu, and I would like to wish them a good luck for a hundred years."

"You child, why are you so stubborn! You are such an old man, and you still don't understand, how to say that sentence, take a step back and open the sky, this family is yours, he Yu Haotian, who just graduated before, isn't it? Don't you deserve credit for being an ordinary doctor who can be promoted so quickly? You filial piety to your parents, cared about his health, and gave birth to such a good son for him. Now that you have done everything you need to do, the fruit will be picked by others?" Pei Ermei in a hurry.

She just felt unwilling for her niece. Anyone who knows doctors better knows that the first few years of doctors' graduation are generally more difficult. Most hospitals will require them to perform appropriate rotations. In the hospital's lowest-level resident doctor, it can be said that You have to do all kinds of work, and then your professional title slowly climbs up, your status is high, people are more leisurely, and you make more money. Now the hardest few years, let their family A Bao accompany you, if you want to enjoy happiness She wanted to get a promotion to get rich and change his wife, no matter how she thought about it, she was not convinced.

"Then let her enjoy it, I don't want it anymore." Pei Baoshu shook her head.

Pei Ermei was helpless: "You, it's too sad right now. I don't want you to regret your second aunt. I'm afraid you will calm down by then, and you won't be reconciled." At her age, she has seen too many, like In this way, many of those who are thrown away after their husbands have some money will resent and regret repeatedly afterwards. It is better not to divorce in the first place.

Pei Baoshu took a deep breath and looked at Er Gu solemnly: "Second Gu, I really think about it, I will not regret it, I can support myself, no matter how successful he is, it has nothing to do with me."

"Eldest sister, look at this girl." Pei Ermei was helpless.

Sister Pei chose another angle: "A Bao, you also know that the aunt and the second aunt are really thinking for you, and some of them are plain and very hurtful, but the aunt wants to ask you a question, do you have any questions? I've thought about it, what will you do after the two of you separate? You're almost thirty-five now, so you're not too young. My aunt tells you honestly at this age. When you get old, you're especially afraid of being alone and having someone by your side. It's really a lot different from no one, but this Yu Haotian, when he leaves you, he can find a little girl immediately, you are different, what kind of person can you find after you leave?"

"Yeah!" Pei Ermei came over, "We know better than you, the reality is like this, we usually help people to introduce people to a certain number of people, this divorced woman, no matter how good people are, no matter how good the conditions are, it is for no reason. It's one level lower, but men after divorce are not like this. As long as the conditions are good, they are still popular! We all know you are good, but outsiders may not know."

"Then don't get married anymore, I can live alone, I don't need anyone to accompany me, and I still have Ze Yi."

Speaking of Ze Yi, Sister Pei and Second Sister Pei looked at each other, exchanged glances, and sighed at the same time.

"Then have you ever thought about what Zeyi will do in the future?" Pei Ermei squatted in front of her niece, "Abao, a motherless child is like a grass..."

"I will take him away, and I will raise him in the future!" Pei Baoshu has thought about this issue for a long time. Since her husband is planning to raise a child outside, she does not intend to leave Zeyi to be wronged at home.

"Okay, after taking it away, do you know what to do?" Sister Pei sighed and said, "You are a teacher who has contact with many children. Let's ask ourselves whether children from single-parent families will be affected in school alone. Less vague discrimination? Of course, not every one, but can you guarantee that Zeyi won't? City C is not big, and things are spreading fast. You hope everyone knows that Zeyi's father cheated and found someone outside. Has the third child raised a child?"

Pei Baoshu: "..."

"My second aunt and I, both of us often help people introduce people to people. We have all encountered such situations. I heard that it is a single-parent family, and the family cares about it. They feel that children who grow up in such a family are mentally unhealthy, even if We do not discriminate, can you guarantee that others will not discriminate? If Zeyi grows up and meets a good girl, what will he do if he is discriminated against because he is a child of a single-parent family? Then he will ask you, Mom, what did I do wrong? How do you answer when something happens?"

Pei Baoshu's face was pale, she bit her lip and couldn't speak, just because she knew that the two aunts were for her good, and that they were talking about the current situation, she felt even more uncomfortable, she really wanted to separate from Yu Haotian, but She didn't want to hurt Zeyi.

Aunt Pei patted Pei Baoshu's hand lightly: "A Bao, Auntie knows you're uncomfortable, but not everyone in the world has a smooth marriage. Of course there are many divorces, but many endure it, not because they are all stupid. , deserve to be wronged, but sometimes, there are so many perfect things in life, if you want sesame seeds, you may lose watermelon."

"Ze Yi's child hasn't even gone to primary school yet. So young, are you willing to let him grow up without a father?" Pei Er Gu also had tears in her eyes. She said this and felt uncomfortable.

"Yeah, how pitiful, do you want him to lose his father like this?"

"I..." Pei Baoshu stopped crying, she just looked at the eldest and second aunts in a trance, was it really a bad decision to divorce? On the two ends of the scale, the things placed on one side are self and dignity, and the other side is Yu Zeyi, which has begun to pour out slowly.

"Big sister, second sister." Pei Naochun listened for a long time, and suddenly opened his mouth. He didn't interrupt the two immediately, just because he respected their opinions and hoped to use their mouths to compare the advantages and disadvantages of divorce. Let the daughter talk about it - even if he has always been in favor of the divorce faction, he does not want his daughter to regret the divorce later. As long as he knows all the possible consequences and the decisions he can make, he will not regret it easily.

"Brother, say it." Sister Pei drew a piece of paper, gently wiped away the tears that had been transferred, and looked at her brother quietly.

"You all say Ze Yi is pitiful."

"It's pitiful. There is such a **** father. In case of divorce, he is only so young, and he will live a life without a father in the future." Pei Ermei's voice was full of bitterness.

"But who will take pity on my daughter again?"

After saying these words, the three people who were sniffing just now were silent at the same time and looked at him quietly.

Pei Naochun's glasses were also stained with mist: "Ze Yi is my grandson and my baby, but A Bao is my daughter and my Half-Life. For me, there is nothing in this world, It's more important than making A Bao happy, eldest sister and second sister, I know you are doing A Bao's good, but have you seen it? That Yu Haotian, he made A Bao uncomfortable."

"I'm very selfish, I can't control Ze Yi, I just want to care about A Bao, what I feel most distressed is my daughter." Pei Naochun took a deep breath, "So I also hope that you can be like me, at this time, Give Bao a support, no matter what she decides, I will support her, whether it is to divorce or continue to maintain this marriage, I agree."

"But people only live in this life. A happy life is also a life. An unhappy life is also a life. I hope that Bao chooses to be happy instead of living for others." Pei Naochun finished speaking and watched quietly. The two people in front of him, he can almost say his attitude clearly, there is even a bit of selfishness in it. In fact, Ze Yi is his own grandson, but he can only choose one of his daughter and grandson. If so, he will choose his daughter.

Silence spreads quietly in the house, and it seems that a long, long time has passed.

"You think it's just you who love Abao, and we do too." Ermei Pei was rude and pushed her brother hard, "I just don't think divorce is good... But, you're right, if you're really unhappy , it's time to leave."

Big sister Pei glared at Ermei Pei, she clearly agreed to persuade Pei Baoshu well and tell her not to divorce, but the other party surrendered first... But even she was also persuaded: "I told your aunt that this is the case. Too much, just to break things apart and show you, we think you will regret it if you get divorced, but no one can tell what will happen, and how to choose things depends on what you think."

"A Bao, you have to make your own decision." Pei Naochun took her daughter's hand, "but Dad will always be on your side, no matter when."

"...Okay." Pei Baoshu nodded, looking into her father's eyes, tears stopped.

She wants to make this decision herself and be responsible for her own life.