First Marriage Then Love (Mr. Mayor Please Be Kind)

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Nuan almost died today, she was always missing things, and ended up running to the bank all afternoon. She owes an update. I will make up for it tomorrow. I shed tears..

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"Um."

Regarding what his daughter said about his wife not sleeping all night, Jin Tao just responded lightly and had no other reaction.

"Dad..." Jin Lan, who knew her father very well, was a little panicked. She reached out and grabbed her father's sleeve, "Mom has such a temper. When she gets anxious, she doesn't know what she is talking about. You are not really angry with her. Are you angry?"

"Lan Lan..." Sighing, Jin Tao looked at his daughter, "I don't want to go home for the moment, give me time to calm down, okay?"

"Dad, what do you mean by calm down?"

"It's nothing, you can go back." Jin Tao once again issued an expulsion order to his daughter.

"Dad, if you think of me as your daughter, don't be so hasty to push me away. You already guessed that I went to see Liu Zhenqiang yesterday, but you probably couldn't guess the result.

Liu Zhenqiang was not having a conflict with me, but he told me clearly that it was no longer possible between him and me, and that he wanted to marry the woman who was eight months pregnant. "

"Oh?" Jin Tao was stunned for a moment, then sighed again, "That's fine. Dad thought there was something wrong with him in the past. However, since he likes you so much and you rarely accepted him, Dad doesn't want to It will cause trouble in your heart.

Hey, speaking of it, dad is still a little selfish, but this is human nature, and dad is not immune to vulgarity. Now that he has chosen that woman, it just shows that you were not wrong about the person originally.

Lan Lan, you are only twenty-seven years old. If you are so good, a good man will definitely marry you home, but the prerequisite is that you don't always listen to your mother.

Regardless of whether they are men or women, they do not want their partner to be with them just to benefit from them. Only when you treat others sincerely can they treat you sincerely.

Dad has said this to you many times, but every time you can't listen, now Dad says it again. I hope you can seriously think about what dad said. "

"Dad, Liu Zhenqiang wants to marry that woman not because he wants to be responsible, but because he wants to save his own future. In other words, he has no future, and he wants to save the last bit of survival.

certainly,

I can't blame him. If it were me, I would make such a choice, and I think he understands. It was impossible for me to be with him after knowing that he had nothing left.

It's just that it's one thing that I don't want to be with him, it's another thing that he takes the initiative to break up with me, a man who keeps saying he loves me for more than ten years. To say break up so easily, Dad, makes me feel really uncomfortable. "

"Child, you should think this way, why did he end up like this?" Jin Tao said earnestly and patted his daughter on the shoulder. "If he hadn't gained fame and fortune, he wouldn't have dared to say he wanted to be with you.

But in the end, if he still persists in this situation, he is overestimating his own abilities, because he knows your character, in fact. He didn't wrong you either, right?

You can't let a man live for you and ask for nothing. He still has a mother and a sister. If he really throws everything away and doesn't care, that's called selfishness! "

"Dad, why are you turning towards him?" Jin Lan looked at his father with a dissatisfied look on his face, "Originally I didn't want to blame him, but when you said that, I became particularly angry with him.

He didn't even give it a try, so how did he know that I wouldn't be with him? Could it be that I am really such a snobbish woman in his eyes? "

Jin Tao looked at his daughter dumbfounded: "Look at you, are you messing around? I just said it myself, it's impossible to be with him when he's in this situation, but now you think he doesn't believe you, what do you mean by this?"

"I..." Jin Lan's face turned red. She also felt that she was making trouble unreasonably, but people are so strange. The reason is very clear, but they just got into trouble and couldn't get out.

"Okay, Dad is not saying that you are wrong. People, living in this world, all want to be more relaxed, and what your mother taught you cannot be said to be useless.

If a girl only has love in her eyes and doesn't care about anything else, she won't be happy. However, if a girl only has interests in her eyes and has no nostalgia for feelings, she won't be happy either.

Dad just hopes that you can make a compromise. While you open your eyes to find the right person for you, you can also be more demanding on yourself. In this way, you can be more considerate of others. "

"Okay..." Jin Lan nodded, "I listen to dad. So, can dad go home today?"

"This is not the same thing..." Jin Tao's face darkened, "I didn't sleep all night last night. I was thinking back on the years of marriage to your mother. It was very sad. I found that your mother had never had feelings for me.

Back then, she took the initiative to pursue and marry me, not because she liked me as a person, but because she was old and my job was enviable. Moreover, your grandfather was also developing very well at that time.

All of this contributed to my marriage with her. When we first got married, we got along pretty well. However, as some of her classmates got better and better, she began to feel unbalanced.

Then, she became less and less patient with me and your grandparents. You may think that she was just angry yesterday and that I was making a fuss out of a molehill. But, do you know why I made a fuss out of a molehill? I believe your mother never told you this reason. "

"Why?" Jin Lan looked at her father with some anxiety, "I just know that you are very filial to your grandparents, so you don't tolerate others saying anything about your grandparents. I really don't know about the rest."

"Your grandfather is just an ordinary citizen now because he was implicated by your mother. If your mother hadn't been collecting benefits behind our backs, your grandfather would not have retired so early.

Moreover, in order to prevent your mother from being punished, your grandfather took all the charges. For this reason, your mother felt a little guilty at the beginning, but later it became more and more natural.

She doesn't know how to respect an old man who is willing to sacrifice his own reputation for hers. What other reason do I have to be with her? Your grandparents didn’t raise me so that I could have a wife to bully them. "

Jin Lan had never heard of this. What Guo Caiping told her was that he was blind before he recognized his father. When he regretted it, he already had her, so he had no choice but to put all his hopes on her.

Moreover, I also said this in front of my father. And every time, her father responded silently, so she thought her mother was right, but she didn't expect it. The truth is this.

She believed that her father was a man who would never slander her mother just to get rid of her, but she still felt that divorcing her mother over this matter was a bit much.

"Dad, Mom didn't mean it..." Biting her lip, Jin Lan continued to persuade, "If I didn't regret it, Mom wouldn't have stayed up all night. Dad, please stop arguing with Mom, okay?"

"Lanlan, everyone has their own principles and bottom line. I can tolerate other things, but this matter cannot be tolerated. Moreover, I once told your mother that no matter how she scolded me or bullied me, she would not tolerate it. Okay. But if she dares to be disrespectful to your grandparents, I will never stay with her.

Since she married into the Jin family, your grandparents have never felt sorry for her. They have given her everything they should have and shouldered everything they should have shouldered for her. I don't blame her for not knowing, but..." Jin Tao closed his eyes in pain and continued, "But, she went too far. I can't face her. "

"Dad..." After hesitating, Jin Lan said, "Actually, you don't just mind mom's attitude towards grandpa. You have been tolerant of mom for so many years. This time, she just accidentally ignited the passion in your heart. lead.

Dad, have you ever thought about it. Over the years, your tolerance for Mom has become a habit for her. She didn’t mean to insult Grandpa, but she got used to being angry with you, so she forgot about it.

When my mother told me this, I could feel her annoyance. I also believe that she regretted it when she said it. However, she is used to being tough with you and doesn't want to admit her mistake.

If Dad really wants to separate from Mom, I guess Mom's life will be ruined. After all, I have been in a relationship with Mom for more than 20 years. Dad, do you really have the heart to watch Mom live in pain from now on? "

"This is her own choice, and she can't blame others." Jin Tao looked at his daughter with a more determined expression, "Lan Lan, there's no need to persuade her, I won't go back for the time being."

"When will you go back?" Jin Lan asked.

"I don't know." Jin Tao smiled forcefully, "It won't be long, believe me."

"Dad, what do you mean, you won't be separated from mom?"

"Your mother and I will solve these problems." Jin Tao avoided his daughter's question, "Lanlan, what you need to do now is to sort out your emotions and figure out what you want. As for your mother and I, Don’t get involved in this matter.”

"Dad, I understand, but I want Dad to think about it for me. I am twenty-seven years old and single. If others know that my parents are not in a relationship or even..." After a pause, Jin Lan continued, "Not even If we get together, then my marriage will probably be delayed forever."

She had no other choice but to use the love between father and daughter to threaten her father, or be a little selfish, but she really couldn't help but watch her parents separate like this.

Moreover, what she said was true. If her parents really divorced, her desire to marry into a good family would be completely shattered. Even ordinary working-class families would dislike her.

Sure enough, when she said this, Jin Tao's expression changed. He held the hand in his pocket and unconsciously touched the bottom of the bag, his eyes quickly filled with pain.

"Dad..." Jin Lan looked at her father unbearably, "Do you really have no nostalgia for mom?"

"I don't know." Jin Tao shook his head. After a moment, he took his hand out of his pocket. He was holding a kraft paper envelope. He flicked it with his fingers. "This is the divorce application I wrote to my boss early this morning. Shu, originally, I wanted to wait until your mother calmed down before discussing this matter."

"Dad..." Jin Lan's voice was trembling. Although she guessed it, when her father handed this thing to her, she still couldn't accept it.

Jin Tao continued: "But now, I decided to put this aside. When you find a suitable in-law, I will talk about this matter.

As for going home, I don’t want to talk about it anymore. Now that you know what I really think, don’t force me anymore, okay? "

"Dad..." Jin Lan didn't know what to say. She really didn't expect that her father would be so stubborn when he became stubborn. At this point, she really had no choice.

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"What did you say?" Guo Caiping jumped up from the chair and looked at her daughter in disbelief, "You actually asked me to admit my mistake to him. Lanlan, what kind of soup did you make him drink?"

"Mom, Dad has been admitting his mistakes to you all his life. You just admit your mistakes to him once in a while. Isn't it difficult?" Jin Lan looked at her mother pitifully. "Even if it's for me, Mom will admit your mistakes to Dad, okay?"

"Why do I have to admit my mistake to your father for you? What does this have to do with you?" Guo Caiping glared at her daughter with a look of dissatisfaction on her face, "Is it possible that in your heart, your mother's life must be centered on you?"

"Mom..." Jin Lan frowned, "Suppose Dad has made up his mind that he doesn't want to be with you. Can you really accept it?"

"What can't you accept?" Guo Caiping snorted, "I've said it a long time ago. If he has the guts not to come back, he will never come back again."

"This house is allocated by my father's work unit." Jin Lan reminded.

Guo Caiping looked stagnant: "Then I don't care. The reason why my employer didn't allocate a house to me is because he has already been allocated a house. Therefore, this house should be mine."

"However, if dad and mom get divorced, dad's employer will definitely ask for the house to be taken back. It's not like mom doesn't know that the housing standards for singles and married people are different."

"Your dad is a technician. I don't believe that the factory dares to treat him like this."

"That's not how the factory treats him. It's how it treats you. If you and Dad divorce, whatever they do to you in the factory will have nothing to do with Dad.

Moreover, dad is still young and skilled. It's not difficult to find another one. Then, even if dad doesn't want to return to the house, stepmother will want to return to the house when the time comes. What about mom? "

"You...are you my daughter?" Guo Caiping looked at her daughter angrily, "Why are you always going against me? After hearing what you said, I went to find your father. Not only did you not persuade him to go home, but you also persuaded him to go home." Are you going to divorce me?"

"It wasn't me who persuaded Dad to divorce, it was Dad who was determined not to accept what Mom did, so he didn't want to go home. If this continues, Dad will definitely divorce Mom.

It was for the sake of my mother that I asked my mother to compromise with my father. My mother also said more than once that women age faster than men, so in the future, my father should take care of my mother. It’s really hard for my mother to push him out like this. Don't you regret it? "

Unable to persuade her father, Jin Lan had to put all her bets on her mother. She believed that if her mother would take the initiative to apologize, perhaps her father would forget about it.

After all, she was already fifty years old, and she didn't believe that her father really wanted to be a bachelor at this age. If nothing else, the discussions from work and relatives and friends alone were enough for him to drink.

Jin Lan's words touched Guo Caiping's mind, and she finally looked relieved.

She is already fifty-two, and her husband is one year younger than her. If she really gets divorced, it will definitely be easier to find a husband than her. As a doctor, she knows the difference in appearance between men and women better than anyone else.

In other words, it is easy for her husband to find someone younger than her, but it is difficult for her to find someone as big as herself.

As for being single after divorce, that is even more unimaginable. It is not a joke to be with you when you are old. The older you are, the more you need a companion.

He already agreed with his daughter's words in his heart, but he didn't want to admit it with his mouth, so he kept a straight face and said nothing.

Seeing her mother's thoughts, Jin Lan no longer struggled with this issue, but turned to her own work: "Mom, our group has the opportunity to perform in Beijing, but there are only three places. I want to compete for it."

Guo Caiping's eyes lit up: "Mom supports you. Going to the capital is a chance. You might meet a desirable man. Lan Lan, you must seize the opportunity."

"Mom, I will." Jin Lan sighed, "To be honest, I doubt now, will I ever meet a man who truly loves me in this life? All the men who keep saying that I am his life have left me. Now that I'm gone, can I still believe in feelings?"

"Of course!" Guo Caiping quickly sat down next to her daughter to comfort her, "You are different from mom. You are more educated, better-looking, and have a better figure than mom. You will definitely have the chance to marry better than mom."

"If I were given a choice, I would marry a man like Dad..." Jin Lan said with a faint sigh, "I used to think Dad was a coward, but now I don't think so anymore. All his tolerance is for this." Home.

Dad is a responsible man, and he is not indecisive. Mom, you really don’t know your blessings in the midst of blessings. If you don't cherish it, I think dad will be someone else's sooner or later. "

"Did you notice any signs?" Guo Caiping frowned and stared at her daughter, "Did you go to your dad's factory and find a woman flirting with your dad?"

"Mom. You are overthinking. Who dares to flirt with Dad in front of me? I just want to tell Mom that everyone can see Dad's good character. As soon as you let go, someone will rush to pick him up. "

"Hmph, just praise him."

Although she was still unconvinced, it was clear from Guo Caiping's expression that she really listened to her daughter's words.

There is no benefit in saying more, and. With work matters, her mother couldn't help her, so Jin Lan got up and went back to her house, also wanting to give her mother a chance to find her father.

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"Madam, there is a comrade named Guo Caiping who wants to see you." Zhang Ma came to Lin Yanqiu who was chatting with her mother-in-law and daughters-in-law. He whispered, "She said she was in a hurry."

"We finally found her." Lin Yanqiu frowned and said to Zhang's mother, "Let her come in."

Five minutes later, Guo Caiping came in behind Zhang Ma.

Not only Lin Yanqiu, but also Yu Tao and Chu Xia looked at her and were stunned.

It's just that I haven't seen him for a few days. Guo Caiping obviously looks five or six years older. Her originally neatly combed hair is a little frizzy, her complexion is sallow, and the corners of her mouth are droopy. She looks like an elderly woman.

"Yanqiu, please help me. Okay?" As soon as she entered the door, Guo Caiping took Lin Yanqiu's hand and said with a begging face, "I'm really desperate, don't refuse me. Okay?"

"Caiping, sit down and talk." Lin Yanqiu calmly took out her hand and pushed her to sit on the sofa. "What happened, please tell me slowly."

"Jin Tao wants to divorce me..."

"How is it possible?" Lin Yanqiu asked unconsciously. In the impression, Jin Tao was completely obedient to Guo Caiping. How could he divorce her? She thought that the other party came here because of Jinlan's affairs, but she didn't expect that it would be so different from what she expected.

"It's true, otherwise, I wouldn't have the shame to come here..." Guo Caiping wiped away her tears and recounted everything that happened the day before yesterday, including what happened to her daughter and Liu Zhenqiang, including her unscrupulous remarks to provoke her The things that make the husband angry include the daughter going to find her husband and the daughter going to find her husband.

Originally, she thought that as long as she took the initiative to admit her mistake to her husband, her husband would happily follow her home. However, what happened was completely beyond her expectation.

Her husband clearly told her that he could no longer be with her, but he did not need to divorce her for the time being until his daughter's marriage was settled. He also told her that if there was a suitable man, he would not mind divorcing her in advance to satisfy her.

What is this word?

She was angry at that time, and ended up saying something unscrupulous.

The final result was that her husband looked at her with a calm face and scolded her. Finally, he said "I'm busy" and left her.

After all, after living together for so many years, she had never seen her husband like this before, so she understood that this time, her husband was serious about it. Whether she coaxed him or not, the result would be the same.

Reluctantly, she went to find her parents-in-law. Although they didn't like her very much, they didn't want them to break up again at this age, so they helped to persuade her husband.

She fully thought that this time it would definitely be a good outcome.

However, when her parents-in-law came home, they told her calmly that they were getting older and did not want to get involved in their children's affairs.

This is tantamount to telling her clearly that she doesn't care about her divorce from Jin Tao.

At this point, she was really scared.

After much thought, the only person she could ask for was Lin Yanqiu.

Because the director of the glass factory is Lin Yanqiu's classmate Meng Ningbo, if Lin Yanqiu is willing to offer help, the director will definitely take back the note given to Jin Tao.

At this point, her daughter's marriage is not what she is anxious about. If she and her husband break up, what happiness will her daughter have? So at the moment, she was preoccupied with her own affairs.

After Lin Yanqiu came back to her senses, she also understood the reason why Guo Caiping begged her. She clearly refused: "Caiping, it is not convenient for me to interfere in the affairs between you and your husband. It is not easy for me to interfere. I'm sorry."

"Yanqiu, if you don't help me, my life will really be over..." Guo Caiping sighed quietly, "Lanlan is not young anymore. If she doesn't even have a complete family, who is willing to marry her?"

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