First Marriage Then Love (Mr. Mayor Please Be Kind)

According to local customs, before the fifteenth year, the New Year has not passed, and it is a serious day of fun. Those with many relatives are busy visiting relatives, while those with few relatives find friends with whom they have a good relationship to chat or play poker and mahjong.

As for the children, what they look forward to most all year round is this period. They have delicious food, fun things, and don’t have to work. It’s just like the days of gods.

Firecrackers are set off on New Year's Eve and the third day of the Lunar New Year to welcome and send off the new year. There are always those dumb cores that have fallen down, so the children pick them up and put them away. They set off one or two every day to enjoy themselves.

Chu Xia and Luo Xiaoqiong were strolling around when they noticed a wisp of smoke "suddenly" rising in front of their eyes, followed by a "bang!" explosion, and the debris collapsed on the arms that the two of them had reflexively blocked in front of their faces.

When the children who had caused trouble saw this, they "coaxed" them to disperse. The two people were so angry that they had nowhere to find anyone to settle the score with.

Observing the shredded paper in front of her, Luo Xiaoqiong frowned: "These naughty kids are not afraid of having their fingers blown off when they play with short-core firecrackers with their hands."

Every year during the Chinese New Year, there are children whose hands are injured by explosions. This is the only time of the year when there are firecrackers to play with. The braver children will take them in their hands, light them up, and then throw them out. Those with too short wicks will burn quickly. It often explodes before being thrown out, which can be expected for young hands.

"If you knew you were afraid, you wouldn't play like this..." Chu Xia said and laughed, "How dare you tell others? It's only been a few years since you stopped playing like this?"

Luo Xiaoqiong smiled sheepishly. Indeed, she was bold enough in the past. As soon as the fat aunt finished giving her instructions, she would ask Chu Xia to go on adventures with her.

In early summer, I was too timid to play. She asked Chu Xia to stand aside and watch, while she lit some incense and threw them one after another. Fortunately, she listened to the fat aunt's words when she wouldn't let her play by the haystack, and finally she didn't cause any serious trouble.

Of course, Chu Xia cannot remember these things, but Fat Auntie talks about these things every New Year. Of course she knew it.

"You're just going to bring this thing to your door?"

"Isn't this enough? A letter of biscuits and a pack of fried fruits. What else do you want?"

"You are the prospective son-in-law who comes to the door. Why do you have the nerve to show me your hand? Didn't I tell you before I came back to buy more!"

"Our family always sends biscuits to relatives. I have an extra pack of fried fruits here."

"you……"

A young man and a young woman were standing at the corner of the alley arguing with their voices lowered.

Chu Xia and Luo Xiaoqiong quickly slowed down.

"Turn around or go forward?" Luo Xiaoqiong asked Chu Xia in a low voice.

"No need to ask, of course it's a U-turn." Just as Chu Xia was about to pull Luo Xiaoqiong to turn around, she heard the young woman shout to her, "Chu Xia, when did you come back?"

Chu Xia had no choice but to turn around and smile at the other party: "I just came here today. Sister Su Qin is on holiday too?"

"Yeah, I'm on vacation too, and I'll go play with Qi Hui later. Please tell her."

"Okay." Chu Xia responded and waved to her, "Sister Su Qin, you are busy, we are going home."

"Okay. I'll go find Qi Hui after lunch. By the way, is Jiang Wenyuan here too?"

"Yes, I just came here not long ago."

"That's great..." Su Qin looked at the man who had been standing aside with a straight face, "Xinshan, why don't we go find Qi Hui now, Wen Yuan happens to be here too. You can have a chat."

Yao Xinshan looked displeased: "Su Qin, don't say it so nicely. You think it's embarrassing for me to bring these things to your house, and you deliberately want to drive me away, right?"

Taking advantage of this time, Chu Xia and Luo Xiaoqiong hurried away.

"Sister Su Qin is a nice person, why do you fall in love with such a man?" After passing the corner, Luo Xiaoqiong couldn't help but mutter, "Is it true that everyone is attracted to each other?"

Chu Xia sighed: "When she went on a blind date, she knew everything about Yao Xinshan and Lin Chuxia. Under those circumstances, she still agreed to get engaged with Yao Xinshan. She probably really took a fancy to it."

"If a woman really marries such a man, she won't even have to think about what kind of life she will live in her whole life..." Luo Xiaoqiong also sighed, "Chu Xia, why do I think Sister Qihui's one is not reliable?"

"Well..." After a pause, Chu Xia said, "Jiang Wenyuan is still too young, and he has just entered college. His personality is inevitably a bit ungrounded. Maybe he will get better in two years."

Luo Xiaoqiong stroked her forehead speechlessly: "You are younger than others."

"I'm younger than him, but I'm a bystander." Chu Xia patted Luo Xiaoqiong, "Listen to me and don't mix things up. It might be counterproductive."

This is an analysis based on the description of college students of this era based on the movies and TV shows she has watched before. Furthermore, although Zhao Qihui said that he would listen to other people's opinions, in fact, he has a deep love for Jiang Wenyuan, and it is definitely not just a few words. Can be persuaded.

The ages of her and Luo Xiaoqiong also mattered here. Although Zhao Qihui asked for their opinions and would be influenced by their opinions, it was impossible to give up because of their opinions.

After swinging back and forth for a while, Zhao Qihui will definitely become distant from her and Luo Xiaoqiong after getting back together with Jiang Wenyuan. If this happens, they will probably never get close to each other in this life.

Why do you have to do it when you know it won't be broken up and the good thing won't be left behind?

She has little experience, but has she never seen a pig running or eaten pork? The descriptions in movies and TV shows are all based on life, and most of the examples she has seen have made it clear to her that when a woman is really in trouble, no one will listen to her.

Also, when a woman says that she is still hesitant or dissatisfied with a man, don't take it seriously. You have to look at some of her casual expressions, which are her truest feelings.

"Then it's obvious that it's not appropriate to look at them, but let them go?" Luo Xiaoqiong said with a look of reluctance.

"Yes, it seemed inappropriate, so she had no choice but to let them go. One day, she discovered that it was inappropriate and found that she couldn't bear it anymore, so she naturally made a decision."

"You can obviously prevent it in advance, why do you have to wait until she gets hurt before you regret it?"

"The problem is, you can't stop it." Chu Xia put his arms around her shoulders, "Think about the couples who eloped in our village. Everyone saw their inappropriateness, but what did they do?"

When Chu Xia said this, Luo Xiaoqiong was speechless.

Indeed, there were several young men and women who eloped in the village in the past few years. Except for one couple who did not agree because of the grudges of the family elders, the other couples could clearly see that it was inappropriate, but it was precisely because their relatives saw it. This inappropriateness, and the extremely violent opposition, led to their elopement.

After they really eloped and lived together for a period of time, the conflicts between their personalities that could not be reconciled emerged. Then, now two couples have completely fallen out, almost like enemies.

If they had known today, would they still choose that path? However, no one in this world would have known it earlier, and when others tell you, you may not believe it.

Everyone's road must be walked and missed before they can truly think about what is right and what is wrong. Some people may walk on the wrong road throughout their lives until the day they leave this world. I don't even know where I went wrong.

"Hey!" With a heavy sigh, Luo Xiaoqiong looked at Chu Xia, "I found that we are both very lucky, or should I say, I am very lucky to be friends with you, because I found that you are very clear about what you want to do. What kind of person are you looking for, and what kind of life do you want to live.”

In early summer, there was a black line: "I feel a little uncomfortable wearing such a high hat."

"I'm telling the truth." Luo Xiaoqiong glared at her, "Why are you being so modest with me? In fact, you are filled with beauty, right?"

"Look, this is the heart of a villain, isn't it?" Chu Xia hugged her shoulders in a funny way, "Everyone can't understand things sometimes, and of course I am no exception.

It's just that I am the only one in our family, and you all know what life my parents lived in the past. Therefore, my goal has always been to work hard to let them live a good life.

Marrying Zhou Mikang was an accident, but this accident was a good thing, because meeting him made my life a lot easier. However, I am a person with a strong sense of crisis.

I know that if many people knew who I was marrying, they would think that I am blessed despite all my blessings. Why should I have to work hard in a thankless way when I can clearly live a happy life with my husband and children.

However, in this world, you believe that no one can be as practical as you are capable of. Of course I believe that Zhou Mikang will always protect me, but if I can help him, I won’t have to distract him to take care of me most of the time. , is it better than me completely relying on him?

Don't imagine that a man will never get tired of looking at you in your life. If you have no requirements for yourself, when one day you are forced to give up by others, it will be too late. "

"Chu Xia, where did you learn this argument?" Luo Xiaoqiong looked at her with a puzzled expression, "If you put it this way, why do I think women's lives are so miserable?

Of course, I'm not saying that I don't want to work, but after a woman gets married, she has to take care of the family and the children. If she has to take care of the family and take care of the children at the same time, she also has to do a better job than a man, how can she be divided?

And if I am not careful, I will be forced to give up my throne. Why do I sound like the concubines fighting for the throne in the palace of the old society? Early summer, have you seen this too much recently? "

In Chu Xia, she would pounce on each other: "Go, go, go, I won't talk to you anymore, I'm home." How did she get so excited that she brought out all the theories of later generations? In today's society, everyone still attaches great importance to family and marriage. Although there are some who can't live apart, compared with the divorce rate in later generations, it can be ignored at all. As for the mistress, it is even less likely to have a chance to exist. How could Luo Xiaoqiong understand her thoughts? ()