First Marriage Then Love (Mr. Mayor Please Be Kind)

"This is between you and Wang Meifeng. There is no need to explain it to me..." Chu Xia smiled at Lin Chuxia, who looked embarrassed, "To be honest, it's quite awkward for us to sit together and talk."

"Yeah, I also feel it's quite awkward. When I call you, it's like calling me myself. If I don't call you, I feel rude..." Lin Chuxia scratched her head uncomfortably, "However, I should be glad that I am the same as you. Name, otherwise, I would never be where I am today.”

"Are your parents okay?" Chu Xia asked, changing the subject. Although she was very curious, it didn't mean she was curious about everyone. She knew this Lin Chuxia, so she didn't want to mess with her. Meddling in her affairs.

"Ah?" Lin Chuxia was stunned for a moment before she realized what Chuxia was asking about was her parents. She quickly said, "They are both very nice and very grateful to you. If I had known that I saw you again today, I wouldn't have known what to do." How happy are you?"

"Don't be so polite. The fact that you are so popular with your great-aunt and her family is entirely the result of your own efforts. When I helped you, it was just a matter of convenience, so don't worry about it all the time."

"I..." After hesitating, Lin Chuxia looked at Chuxia seriously, "I still want to tell you about Lu Ping and I. Can you listen?"

Having said this, how could she refuse to listen? Helpless, Chu Xia had no choice but to nod: "Okay, you say it."

"I met Lu Ping when I went to deliver food to Brother Qiao. Brother Qiao worked overtime at noon that day, and my great-aunt asked me to deliver food to Brother Qiao. Because the first time I went there, I couldn't find the door to Brother Qiao's office, so I looked for someone. inquire about.

The person who inquired happened to be Lu Ping. His office was opposite Brother Qiao's office when I left. He took the initiative to see me off again. I said I knew the way and there was no need to see me off. He insisted and sent me to the door.

A girl my age would be just pretending to be stupid if she didn't know what a young man's behavior meant. Besides, I was indeed old enough to find a boyfriend, so I didn't reject his advances.

but. When I found out that his father was the magistrate of our county. I immediately backed down. Yao Xinshan could despise me just because he was an ordinary worker, let alone someone like him?

I was afraid that he had misunderstood my identity. I told him truthfully that I was just the nanny of the Qiao family and that we were not on the right foot with him. He said that he didn't mind and would treat me the same as before.

Of course I don't believe what he said. Even if he doesn't mind, his family will. I don't want to marry into a family like that and be criticized all day long.

To be honest, for me, I just want to find someone with the same conditions as me,

He will feel sorry for my man even if he knows how hot or cold he is. I'm not afraid of hardship. What I'm most afraid of is the cold violence from the elders when I'm not in the right family.

It was at that time that Wang Meifeng found me. Let me stay away from Lu Ping, saying that she met Lu Ping before me. Remembering how you helped me, I have to let her go.

I told her that if she liked Lu Ping, she could just pursue her. I had no intention of being with Lu Ping, so it was meaningless to tell me that.

But what I didn't expect was that Lu Ping actually went to my house, bought a lot of things for my parents and my siblings, and helped them work in the fields, just to ask them to accept him and accept him as a member of the Lin family. son in law.

Regarding this pie-in-the-sky thing, my parents absolutely agreed with both hands, so they made a special trip to the county to tell me how good Lu Ping was, and also said that they had recognized this son-in-law and let me I don't want to make things difficult for others anymore.

It was quite beyond my expectation that he could do that, so I went to him and asked him what he liked about me, a country girl. He said that what he liked was my personality, and as for my status, it was all external things, it was nothing. Very interested.

He also said that things decided at birth are the most meaningless. What he has to do is to get what he wants step by step based on his own ability. He also hopes that I can be like him and get what I want with my own efforts. of.

Then, I agreed to try talking to him for a while. After all, I am not young anymore. If he is really the right person for me, I don't want to miss it.

In any case, everything I have today was given to me by you, and Wang Meifeng is indeed your cousin, so I must make this matter clear. I really didn't mean to play tricks on her. "

"Outsiders can't interfere with emotional matters. If you think this person is good, stay with him. If you don't think it's suitable, break up. This is your personal freedom and no one has the right to interfere. .

As for Wang Meifeng going to find you, it's her fault. You don't have to feel guilty for what you did, and I won't mind. I won't hide it from you. Before you guys came, Wang Meifeng did ask me to help her. .

She said she wanted to be with that man named Lu Ping, and she hoped that I could tell you to let you fulfill her wish. I rejected her outright at that time. How could I do that?

So, you don’t have to worry about my thoughts on this matter. I can tell you very clearly that I don’t have any thoughts on this matter.

All you have to do is to open your eyes and see clearly whether this man is suitable for you. If it is your happiness, just hold on. If it is not your happiness, just let it go. No one can force you. "

After hesitating, Lin Chuxia looked at Chuxia, "Do you think... he is not good?"

"I can't feel this. We just met once and we didn't even say anything. How can I know whether he is good or not?" Chu Xia smiled and waved her hand, "This is a matter of your personal feelings. You really don't need to worry too much. For others, it is enough for you to observe and understand them with your heart."

"Actually..." After a pause, Lin Chuxia sighed, "I know you don't like hearing me say this, but I still force you to talk about it here. In fact, I have doubts in my heart.

Today was the first time that I faced a scene with three people together. I found that Lu Ping's attitude towards Wang Meifeng was not what he had promised me before.

Of course, I don't want him to ignore Wang Meifeng directly, but there has to be a difference, right? Now the feeling he gives me is that after knowing that Wang Meifeng is your cousin and that you have a good relationship, he seems to be a little shaken.

I don’t know if what I feel is right, so I force you to say this, because apart from you, I really don’t know who to tell. If I tell my family, they will think that I am full. of random thoughts.

If I tell my friends and classmates, they will think I am showing off, so..." Sighing, she said with a wry smile, "I really hope you can help me sort it out. "

"You are trying to force someone to do something difficult..." Chu Xia spread her hands helplessly, "I don't know that Lu Ping, how can I help you figure it out? If you have doubts, just observe more to avoid regrets in the future."

"That's right, you can't just agree casually when you're not sure..." Luo Xiaoqiong put down the child and looked at her seriously, "It's a major event in a lifetime. If a woman chooses the wrong man, it's really... It just ruins a life.

No matter how good your conditions are, as long as you are divorced, it will be difficult to find a satisfactory marriage. This is not because we don't think for the best, but because many worldly things will lead to such consequences.

Therefore, you must keep your eyes open before getting married. You must not compromise just because you are a little older and others are always urging you. "

"I know..." Lin Chuxia nodded, "I think so too, but now I don't know whether what I saw is real or fake, hey..."

"Do you like him?" Luo Xiaoqiong asked, staring at her seriously.

"Like it?" After thinking for a while, Lin Chuxia shook her head, "I'm not sure either."

"Let me give you an analogy. If you now know that Lu Ping is with you because you are valued in the Qiao family, but it turns out that compared to you and Wang Meifeng, Wang Meifeng may have helped him more, so he chose Wang Meifeng. Are you sad and disappointed, or are you just disappointed?"

After thinking for a long time, Lin Chuxia said: "He performed so well before, my family already likes him so much, and I have begun to look forward to the future. If I find out that everything he did was to lie to me, it was all for utilitarianism." Yes, I think I will be very, very disappointed, and as for sad, I should be a little bit sad."

"That's good..." Luo Xiaoqiong breathed a long sigh of relief, "Your feeling should mean that you only agreed to him because you needed to find a partner, not because you particularly liked him. A woman, as long as she does not love her wholeheartedly, If you go up, you can recognize the other person clearly, otherwise, even if the other person is lying to you, you won't find out."

"It's fair to say that, as if you know a lot..." Chu Xia looked at Luo Xiaoqiong amusedly, "I bet you haven't studied psychology in the past few months since you went to the capital to attend lectures?"

"You're really right..." Luo Xiaoqiong nodded super seriously, "I really hope to become a psychiatrist in the future. Didn't you say it? It's too scary for a careless person like me to perform surgery on people. Not to mention taking care of people, so I learned the hard way that psychiatrists don’t need to use the knife, nor do they need to take care of people. They just need to understand people’s hearts and give good advice. This is still suitable for me.”

Chu Xia: "..." Someone thinks that being a psychiatrist is too simple, right?

Fortunately, another sister with the same name was very supportive and looked at Luo Xiaoqiong with approval: "What you analyzed just now is very right. You will definitely be a very powerful psychiatrist in the future!"

Chu Xia rolled her eyes speechlessly: "Don't put a high hat on her, she won't know who she is."

In the following time, Lin Chuxia was a little preoccupied and glanced out from time to time. Obviously, she was wondering what Lu Ping was doing... (To be continued)

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