Entertainment: I'm Not Just a Hundred Billion Actor

Chapter 414 No need to please the public!

It turned out that Wang Wu, like most other people, didn’t quite understand why Huqing was able to fit into the group of Hua Shaoer like everyone else.

Now that he has been with Hu Qing for a few days, he fully understands Hu Qing.

She is accustomed to the social circle and the mode of getting along with her as the protagonist held in the palm of the hand by others, and naturally she can’t integrate into a harmony and superficial peace that only pursues hypocrisy. Cater to the collective.

This mode of getting along without touching the depths of the soul, grieving herself, and only asking for the performance of the show and the positive evaluation of the public, she has always acted rashly, and suddenly found that she seemed to have come to the wrong place, and she couldn’t do it. .

She is accustomed to either not talking or having deep-level spiritual communication between people, instead of superficial and worthless excitement, greetings and politeness. In this regard, she believes that she pays great attention to her inner feelings and her personality. People who have a full understanding of their personality will feel very empathetic, that is, they would rather not speak or communicate at all than force yourself

Saying something unimportant to cater to, please, please the group, and appear to be very gregarious. Of course, some people will not be able to do it in their lifetime, and of course they do not need to do it.

If it is acting, Hu Qing can easily pretend to be a gregarious and reasonable appearance (but in fact she has never played a mediocre role with low eyebrows and pleasing to the eye), which is too easy for an old drama. However, this is a reality show. Everyone hopes that the audience can understand and like themselves when they see themselves in a real state, so Huqing will be true to himself.

Exhibit it all.

The original intention of Hu Qing was to naturally reveal the uniqueness of his personality that is different from ordinary people, hoping to resonate. However, the group faced by this show is just idle without problems, love to follow the trend to join in the fun, and easily be affected by others. The majority of ordinary Chinese people who instigate and are influenced by the opinions of others, and the average aesthetic and intellectual level of the Chinese public is in the four major portals

The ridiculous and ridiculous comment area under the website news can be seen, and the characteristics and charm of Huqing are really high and unpopular to the public, and it seems uncomfortable and unpleasant. After all, her life experience is too far from ordinary people.

We cannot ask anyone to break through their own class attributes or intellectual level and stand on an objective standpoint to evaluate others. This makes sense, because the public will only make “々”good” and “bad” crude and crude. Their value judgments, and even more common, are that they are very willing to use their not clever insights to save others by themselves.

For the weak of destiny, if you can’t make yourself strong, you are actually not qualified to make value judgments, because your opinions are insignificant, abuse and criticism, only your own character and appearance are corrupted. Other than that, there is no other use.

For the boring topic of emotional intelligence, there is no value at all. Children care about the so-called IQ and emotional intelligence. Adults only talk about success or failure. There is only one criterion for judging whether a person has a deep sense of self-cultivation, and that is his state of mind and life state. , If it is full of health, happiness, and happiness, then it is profound, and it does not lie in what he said.

What book has been, where has been, or what behavior has been done, these one-sided details, many truly profound insights, flashes of inspiration, or the poetry and beauty of the moment that the soul feels, most of the time I can’t express myself, or I’m not eager (disdain) to express myself. People who don’t have the same mind are sometimes better to choose silence.

All beauty is wisdom, and all good living conditions are the result of long-term and deep self-discipline, rather than falling into the sky.

Therefore, in terms of emotional intelligence, Huqing, such a smart person, of course knows how to behave to please the public, but she is not happy and can’t commit it. Being a true self, but unable to meet the expectations and tastes of the public, she has done it. Some things that are unaccustomed to everyone, and some things that people are unaccustomed to hear, but this has nothing to do with the level of emotional intelligence.

The so-called emotional intelligence is nothing more than a skill to manage their emotions and behaviors. Some people do not use emotional intelligence, relying solely on God-given chances and talents and diligent character (good for the king). Maybe they are still hitting walls everywhere. Such examples are too many to be cited in the school.

Therefore, some people fail to make you feel comfortable and cannot conclude that they have low EQ. It may just be that they don’t like you, are too lazy to please you, and offend you, so they don’t care what you think and your evaluation of him. , And don’t want to spend precious time and patience to make you feel comfortable. He doesn’t care if you think he has high EQ.

People who only need to care about him think that his emotional intelligence is high enough. The inner feelings are always more precious than the worldly and curious evaluations, that’s all. .