Modern social etiquette and eloquence

Chapter 37 Grooming and dress etiquette (3)
(4) Thick and short earrings and necklaces should be worn for a rectangular face. The earrings should be larger and round, and the headwear should be developed to both sides to produce a shorter face and softer lines. It is not suitable to wear long and thin earrings. Or necklaces with pendants and slender earrings and earrings.

(5) Larger earrings should be worn for regular triangular faces, and one corner of short hair should be used to cover the forehead. Eye-catching hairpins, hair clips, flower clusters, etc. can also be worn on the sideburns of fluffy hairstyles to increase the width of the forehead.You can also wear a long necklace with elongated effect to make up for the defects and deficiencies of the face shape.

(6) Round hair accessories, earrings, necklaces and pectorals with a sense of roundness should be worn for inverted triangle faces, so as to make them feel more round and avoid giving people a sharp feeling.

2. Accessories and figure

(1) A well-proportioned figure is suitable for wearing a variety of accessories.

(2) Those who are thin and tall should wear accessories with horizontal lines and block surface feeling, and the color is best to choose lighter colors such as white and pink.

(3) Fat people should wear vertical strips, flakes, simple, bright, and small accessories.

(4) People with slender necks should wear thick and short necklaces; those with thick and short necks should wear slender necklaces.

(5) Those with slender arms should wear wide bracelets or multiple thin bracelets; those with short arms should wear narrow bracelets or no bracelets.

(6) Those with slender fingers should wear square rings, diamond rings and other thick-line styles; those with plump fingers should wear round, pear-shaped or heart-shaped fingers; those with slender fingers can wear various types of rings.

3. Accessories and clothing

(1) The accessories and clothing should match in color.Bright and gorgeous clothing can wear simple and subtle accessories; monotonous and calm clothing should choose bright and changeable accessories.Such as a brown dress with a transparent amber bracelet and brooch; a white suit dress with a necklace and earrings inlaid with black bright beads.For men, choose the appropriate tie clip according to the color of the suit.Such as a blue suit with an orange tie clip to emphasize the color contrast.

(2) Accessories and clothing should be coordinated in terms of materials, craftsmanship, and grades. Generally, high-end clothing should be matched with high-end materials, expensive and exquisitely crafted precious stones and precious metal ornaments; middle and low-end clothing should be matched with natural materials with low materials and ordinary craftsmanship. and synthetic jewelry.

(3) Accessories and clothing should be unified in style and shape.Generally, loose clothes are paired with rough and loose accessories; tight-fitting clothing that reveals the body shape is matched with compact and small accessories.

4. Pay attention to daily accessories

(1) Wearing the ring.The ring is an ornament, a mascot and a sign of life changes, and it is very particular about wearing it.The more common wearing standard in the world is that the ring is worn on the left hand, and the thumb does not wear a ring.As a specific conveyance, rings have different meanings depending on how they are worn: when worn on the index finger, it means unmarried courtship; when worn on the middle finger, it means that they are in love; Expresses celibacy.

(2) Wearing of the bracelet.The way to wear the bracelet is not very particular.Under normal circumstances, wearing it on the left wrist or both wrists at the same time means that you are married; wearing it only on the right hand means that the wearer is free and unrestrained.

(3) Wearing of tie clips and cufflinks.Tie clips are one of the most common and eye-catching men's accessories.The tie clip fixes the tie on the chest, and the position should not be too high, preferably at the fourth button of the shirt from top to bottom.If you wear a neckband clip on a formal occasion, you need to wear a tie clip with beautiful lines, exquisite workmanship and exquisite materials.

Cufflinks are a unique decoration worn on the cuffs of men's shirts, and are often used in conjunction with tie clips.Therefore, the two should have a unified style and coordinate with each other in terms of shape, pattern, color, and material.

Eight, perfume etiquette

Choose different perfumes for different moods and occasions. It does not depend on whether it is a famous brand or how high the grade is. The most important thing is that it can highlight your own personality.If the type of perfume is not chosen well, not only the charm will be greatly reduced, but also the social atmosphere may be destroyed.

According to different occasions, choosing different types of perfume is one of the indispensable etiquettes for a professional.Whether in the office, banquet hall, or playground, you should choose the perfume that suits you best and highlights your own characteristics according to the situation, so that you can show your unique charm and elegant taste in front of others.

It is worth noting: Be sure to pay attention to the amount when spraying perfume.The fragrance should be light and elegant, especially in a fixed space for a long time, if you spray too much in the office, it will inevitably emit a pungent fragrance, which may arouse disgust from others, and not only fail to achieve the purpose of increasing charm , On the contrary, it will be self-defeating and cause displeasure to the people around.

In addition, when visiting patients, especially those with respiratory diseases, the concentration of perfume should be well controlled, and the concentration of perfume must not be too pungent, otherwise it may make the patient feel uncomfortable.Before visiting a patient, just put some perfume on the back of the ears, chest, elbows, inside of the wrist and behind the knee joints. Applying perfume on these parts will not only not emit a pungent fragrance, but will make yourself look Refreshing, giving patients a sense of comfort.

Never put perfume on all parts of your body, as if you are taking a perfume bath. In this way, not only will you not be able to add points to your charm, but it will be annoying.

When using perfume, pay attention to the time change of fragrance.It can generally be divided into three stages: the first stage is the initial fragrance, that is, the fragrance about 3 minutes after application; the second stage is the strong fragrance, that is, the fragrance about 1 to 10 minutes after application; The fragrance emitted from 2 minutes to 10 hour after application.In the process of communicating with people, we must pay attention to this point, because it contains etiquette factors. If you grasp it well, it can add charm and improve your taste; if you grasp it well, it will damage the image and destroy the atmosphere.

A person who really understands perfume etiquette can skillfully use the different fragrances emitted by perfume at different times, and use the time difference to shape his own image.

1. Perfume type
Choosing a perfume that suits you is the most basic etiquette when using perfume. Taking women as an example, we provide several different types of perfumes. Women can choose the perfume that suits them according to their own characteristics, and modify and dress themselves up.

(1) Oriental fragrance series

The oriental fragrance series of perfumes are mainly refined from oriental trees or spices, resins, animal spices, etc. It can emit sweet, strong and evocative fragrance, which is suitable for more formal banquets.

(2) Western fragrance series

The perfume of this series is mainly composed of oak moss, supplemented by spices such as rose or jasmine, and has a variety of different fragrances.This kind of perfume has a complex and mysterious color, which is suitable for elegant, mature and intellectually beautiful women.

(3) Qiacheng flavor series

This series of perfumes is mainly made of synthetic spices and various floral fragrances.Its biggest feature is its complex and intriguing aroma.Suitable for dinner parties, it can show a woman's delicate and soft personality to the fullest.

(4) Floral series
Floral fragrance series perfumes are extracted from various flowers, which can be said to be the foundation of perfumes, and the most intimate type of perfumes, which are characterized by natural and refreshing.It is suitable for anyone to use. Spraying this type of perfume can make women have a strong affinity and leave an unforgettable feeling.

(5) Plant fragrance series

The plant-scented perfume series is made of grass and leaves as raw materials. It can give people a fresh feeling of returning to nature. Even people who don't like perfume will fall in love with this fragrance involuntarily.What's more convenient is that this perfume can be used from morning to night, regardless of time and place.

Perfumes of different fragrance types are suitable for different moods, occasions and activities. The use of perfume is like wearing clothes, which needs to be changed frequently to continuously create life interest.

2. Perfume usage skills

Pay attention to the following points when using perfume.

(1) The sequence of spraying perfume
Perfume should be the first thing that comes into contact with the body. When you take a shower, the first thing to do is to spray it first, and then put on your clothes; after washing your hair, spray your favorite perfume when your hair is about to dry , After getting dressed, spray the same perfume on the warm pulse of the body, such as the wrists and behind the knees.

(2) The spraying of perfume depends on the climate.

When spraying perfume, it can be appropriately increased or decreased according to the humidity of the climate.If the climate is dry, you can sprinkle a little more, so that it will slowly dissipate and last for a long time; when the climate is humid, you can use less, because the perfume dissipates quickly, it should be used repeatedly.

(3) Frequently change the type of perfume.

You can't always use one kind of perfume, as it will cause olfactory fatigue, and you are tired of the smell that emanates from your body, so you can imagine how others feel.Changing the type of perfume often can also adjust your mood.

Paying attention to perfume etiquette can not only reflect the taste and self-cultivation of women, but also be comfortable for modern men.In the social process, this practice can also improve self-confidence, shape independent personality, and leave a good first impression on others.

Nine, let the hair show your charm

Hair is a part of a person's overall image. Conventionally, when you look at a person, the first thing you pay attention to is the other person's hair, because the hair grows on the top of the head, which is easy to attract the attention of others.Therefore, when grooming the appearance, the hair cannot be ignored.

Hair can show a person's taste and charm, and it is also another form of etiquette. So, how to make hair show personal charm?

1. Keep it clean
In daily life, keep your hair clean at all times, no matter whether you have social activities or not, and how busy you are at work, you must take time to take care of your hair.Be diligent in grooming and washing on weekdays, don't grind your guns in front of the battle, let alone ignore the care of your hair.There are many benefits to combing hair frequently, for example: it can remove dirt, eliminate peculiar smell, maintain the cortex of the head, and promote the metabolism of the scalp.If you don't pay attention to the cleanliness and hygiene of your hair, your hair will often smell of sweat and oil, and dandruff will be everywhere, which will definitely damage your personal image.No one wants to be with such a person.

It is worth noting that: when you know that you are going to attend a certain social occasion, you should wash your hair in advance, and don't appear in social occasions with a sloppy image. This will not only damage your personal image, but also be very rude.It should be noted that it is best to arrange hair at home. If you need to arrange your hair during the entertainment process, it is best to go to the bathroom. Do not comb your hair in public.

2. Grasp the length
From the perspective of social etiquette and aesthetics, the length of the hair will affect the personal image, especially for men, the hair can not be allowed to grow freely in pursuit of individuality, which is of no benefit to shaping the personal image.There are 3 elements to standardize hair length.

First, men and women are different.Under normal circumstances, men can have long hair, but the length should be moderate. Long hair shawls are not suitable, and braiding is even more irregular.Ladies can have short hair, but it can't be cut too short, and inch hair is generally not suitable for ladies.

Second, occupation affects hair length.Occupation has a great influence on the length of hair.For example, female textile workers are not suitable to wear long hair to avoid danger during work; politicians should not shave their heads or cut their heads, and should not have long hair and shawls; business people also have regulations on the length of hair; Show people in the image of coiled and bundled hair; men should not keep sideburns and hair curtains, and the length should be about 7 cm, so as not to touch the collar of the shirt.

Third, age determines the length of hair.With age, the length of hair should be adjusted accordingly.For example, long and flowing hair is suitable for women under the age of 40, which is a sign of youth. If an eighty-year-old lady still has long hair, it is not suitable.

Designing a good hairstyle also needs to pay attention to the following factors.

(1) Personal factors.

The choice of hairstyle varies from person to person. Factors such as hair quality, face shape, height, fat and thin, age, clothing, accessories, personality and other factors should be considered when choosing a hairstyle. These may affect the overall effect. Therefore, when designing a hairstyle , not to be taken lightly.

Of all the factors that influence hairstyle selection, face shape has the greatest impact.When choosing, we must achieve coordination and consistency so that the two complement each other.For example, it is not suitable for men with square eyelids to adjust their size, which will make the whole face look more square, like a playing card.Ladies with round faces are suitable for long hair, so that the face looks thinner.

(2) The occasion factor.

Differences in occupation, identity, and working environment determine the difference in hairstyles.People who frequently show up at business meetings should have traditional, dignified, and conservative hairstyles, while those who often attend social occasions should have individual, fashionable, and avant-garde hairstyles. Of course, the avant-garde mentioned here does not mean that people should design their hair styles Weird, outrageous.

(3) Aesthetic factors.

People often adopt some technical means when modifying their hairstyles, but no matter what means are used, the purpose is to make people more beautiful, and beauty also needs a standard.What kind of hairstyle can be called beautiful?It should be beautiful, natural, and unpretentious.

It takes a certain method to make your hair look attractive, and if you follow the above guidelines, it will be a piece of cake.

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