Scene language skills that college students must know

Chapter 7 Scene [-] - When Borrowing Something Cleverly
Chapter 7 Scene [-] - When Borrowing Something Cleverly
In our daily life, there will always be times when there is a shortage of money and goods. In order to meet the emergency, we ask the people around us for help.

, which is inevitable.However, this borrowing and exchange also has a lot to pay attention to, why some people can make the owner happy?

Borrowing each other, but some people have hit a snag?Among other reasons, it is also closely related to the appropriateness of the borrower's language expression.

relation.Therefore, when we borrow things from others, we must always pay attention to certain skills:?

([-]) Do you want to use a discussion tone?
When borrowing things from others, the tone of your speech must not be too harsh, and you should not say anything that hurts others, but should be gentle and sincere.
I know you are begging for help.For example, if you are hospitalized due to illness and you are short of money, you can go to the neighbor’s house to borrow money and say, “I need to be hospitalized, but
I still need some money, I wonder if you have a lot of money?I will pay you back when I get paid next month. "In this kind of negotiating tone, just

If people have money in their hands, they will not help them.But some people don't pay attention to this point. When they borrow money from people, they say: "Who doesn't know you

I have saved tens of thousands of yuan, and lending me 1000 yuan is still not pulling the hair out of a cow. "And so on. Acquaintances can't joke about this kind of words.
It's important, but people don't want to hear this when they borrow things.Therefore, when borrowing things, you must speak in a negotiable tone.
Only in this way can the other party feel that you need him and respect him, and he is willing to help you. ?
([-]) Need to explain the return time?
As the saying goes, if you borrow frequently and repay frequently, it is not difficult to borrow again. ?
When borrowing something from others, it is very important to state the return time and return it to the person on time.like you and your colleagues

Going to the store together, you see a new dress, you want to buy it, but you don’t have enough money, so you can say: "Xiao Wang,
Lend me five yuan first, and I'll send it to you when I get back. "Explain the return time, so that people feel that the loaned money is guaranteed
, so I will lend it to you with confidence. ?
([-]) To speak honestly?
When borrowing things from others, you must tell the truth, and you should not make up lies to deceive people just because it is easy to borrow.For example, when you borrow money, it is obvious that you can’t pay it back in the near future.
In order to make people willing to borrow, they say "repay it in a few days", or say "repay it tomorrow".If the results cannot be returned on time, they will
If you are regarded as a person who does not keep promises, it will be difficult to borrow again next time.And don't change your mouth casually when borrowing things, start saying to borrow 20 yuan
, Waiting for someone to agree to borrow 50 yuan, this will make the lender feel embarrassed.

([-]) Can't you be angry when you can't borrow?

When borrowing things from others, there are always times when you can't get what you want. You can't say impolite words just because they don't lend you something.for example

When you borrow money from someone, and they say, "I'm sorry, I just deposited it in the bank yesterday." Don't say, "What a coincidence.

You deposited it in the bank when I came to borrow it. "The result is very hurtful. When you fail to borrow money, if you can say to others: "I know your hand
My head is not wide enough, I will go to other people's houses to have a look. "This makes people think that you can understand others.?
([-]) Does the borrowing language vary according to the relationship?

If you have a good relationship, you might as well be casual, and close friends should be straightforward, so as not to make the other party feel "unknown".if ordinary friends
Friends, the relationship is normal, you might as well come to a "curve borrowing", try it out first, and then adapt to the situation of the other party.such as borrowing

Money, old friends can express their intentions like this: "Hey, I'm running out of money these two days, can I borrow some money to use it?"

! "If you are an ordinary friend, you might as well say this: "Hey, I spend a lot of money these days.
There are still ten days, this day is really tight! "If a friend can understand what you mean and offer to help you, then you can say how much money you want to borrow."

If the other party is like you, talking about how much money is not enough, please refrain from opening your mouth, because the other party's intention
The thought is obvious: he doesn't want to borrow or really can't.

(End of this chapter)