Scene language skills that college students must know

Chapter 2 Scene [-]—Communicative Salutations
Chapter 2 Scene [-]—Communicative Salutations
In daily communication, salutation is widely used.The salutation expresses the relationship between people and reflects a

Human
Self-cultivation and morality, and the correct use of address terms are of great significance for strengthening interpersonal communication and promoting mutual communication.From the following

These aspects are introduced. ?
([-]) The title in daily life?

There is a "job title" commensurate with the position; there is a "name title" with the surname or name plus "comrade"; there is no one who does not know the other party's position

The "general name" with the name, such as "comrade"; there is a "professional name", such as "comrade conductor"; there is also "pronoun name",
Such as"

You"; there are more affectionate titles, such as "Lao Ye" and "Xiao Guan"; as for relatives, there are also many titles, which can be called "relative titles".

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It is more common to call each other "Master" in the factory, "Teacher" at school, and "Lao Mou" for those who are more familiar.

"Xiao Mou" generally referred to each other as "comrade" in society. ?
Leading comrades (except troops) should be referred to as "Comrade XX" in accordance with the spirit of the Central Committee, rather than titles.on some occasion for

In order to meet the needs of the work, it is also possible to explain the identity of a person and call the position. ?
For the elderly, they should be called "grandpa" and "grandmother".For the older ones, they are called "uncle" and "aunt".

, can also be called "uncle", "uncle", "aunt" and so on. ?
For students in lower grades and kindergarten children, they can be called "little classmates", "little comrades", "little comrades" according to their ages.
friend".?
For people of similar age, some young people are used to calling "big brother", "big sister-in-law" and "big sister".

.However, it seems uncivilized to address things like "brothers" and "sisters", and don't blindly imitate overseas names such as "Mr."

"Miss", "Ms." ?
For overseas compatriots, they can be called "Mister", "Madam", "Miss", etc. according to age and gender, and "comrade" should not be abused.

"This kind of title.?
The People's Liberation Army should be called "comrade" instead of "soldier".Salespersons and conductors cannot be called "sellers"

"Ticket sellers" should be called "comrade". ?
In short, we should use civilized and polite language address according to the object and the occasion. ?
([-]) What is the title in international exchanges?

In international exchanges, men are generally called "Mr.", and women are called "Madam", "Ms.", and "Miss".pair married
Women are called "madam", and unmarried women are collectively called "miss".For women who don't know their marital status, they can be called "Miss".
The older one with the wedding ring can be called "Madame".These titles can be named after names, titles, titles, etc., such as "Black
Mister", "Mr. Councilor", "Miss Mary", "Miss Secretary", "Miss Nurse", "Mrs. White", etc.

Officials with high status, such as senior officials above the minister, are called "Your Excellency", title or Mr. according to the national situation.

Such as "His Excellency, Minister", "His Excellency, Prime Minister", "His Excellency, Mr. Prime Minister", "His Excellency, Mr. Ambassador", etc.But the United States, Mexico

Colombia and other countries do not have the habit of calling "Your Excellency", so they can be called "Mr."Ladies with status can be called "Mrs."

Women with senior official titles can also be called "Your Excellency". ?
Doctors, professors, judges, lawyers, and people with doctoral degrees can be called "doctors", "professors", "professors"

"Judge", "lawyer", "doctor", etc. You can add the surname at the same time, and you can also add "Mr". For example, "Professor Carter

", "Mr. Judge", "Mr. Lawyer", "Mr. Doctor", "Mr. Dr. Martin", etc.?
Soldiers are generally called military ranks, or "Mr." is added to the military ranks, and those who know their names can also use their first and last names.Such as "Mr. Colonel", "

Major Morley", "Mr. Wells Lieutenant", etc. In some countries, senior officers such as generals and marshals are called "Your Excellency". ?
Service personnel can generally be called "waiters", and those who know their names can be called by their names alone.But now there are more and more countries

Properly refer to the waiter as "Sir", "Madam", "Miss". ?
For the priests in the church, they can generally be called the title of the church, or name plus title.Such as "Father Kate", "Mr.

"Sheng", "Mr. Pastor", etc. Sometimes the clergy above the bishop can also be called "Your Excellency".?
All countries that are commensurate with my country have comrades, and all kinds of personnel can be called comrades, and those with professional titles can add professional titles.Such as "Comrade Chairman"

, "Comrade Speaker", "Comrade Ambassador", "Comrade Secretary", "Comrade Colonel", "Comrade Driver", "Comrade Waiter"
Chi", etc., or name plus comrades.?
Some countries also have customary titles, such as "citizens" and so on.In Japan, women are generally not called "Ms." or "Miss".

, and called "Mr." ?
([-]) Appellation among relatives?

In Chinese traditional concepts, relatives occupy an important position in people's minds.Communication between relatives has become daily communication

an important aspect of the future.In the ancient feudal patriarchal society, all family members with the same surname and foreigners with different surnames who were related by blood were all

relatives.In the long-term historical development, a complicated appellation system has also been formed, which will not be described here.modern relatives

The appellation between relatives is developed from the ancient appellation and has formed modern characteristics. The following is a specific introduction to the appellation between relatives. ?
1. What do you call your elders?

According to the traditional customs of our country, the names of elders in the family mainly include:?
The father's father is called grandfather or grandpa, and he calls himself grandson or granddaughter. ?
The father's mother is called grandmother or grandma, and she calls herself grandson or granddaughter. ?
The elder brother of the father is called uncle or uncle, and he calls himself nephew or niece. ?
The father's sister-in-law is called aunt or aunt, and she calls herself nephew or niece. ?
The father's younger brother is called uncle or uncle, and he calls himself nephew or niece. ?
The father's sister-in-law is called aunt or aunt, and they call themselves nephew or niece. ?
The husband's father is called father-in-law or father, and he calls himself daughter-in-law. ?
The husband's mother is called mother-in-law or mother, and she calls herself daughter-in-law. ?
The husband's uncle is called uncle or uncle, and he calls himself niece and daughter-in-law. ?
The husband's aunt is called aunt or aunt, and she calls herself niece and daughter-in-law. ?
The husband's uncle is called uncle or uncle, and he calls himself niece and daughter-in-law. ?
The husband's aunt is called aunt or aunt, and she calls herself niece and daughter-in-law. ?
Grandfather's brother is called uncle or grandfather, and he calls himself grandnephew or grandniece. ?
The grandfather's younger brother is called uncle or grandfather, and he calls himself grandnephew or grandniece. ?
Grandfather's sister is called grand aunt or aunt, and she calls herself grandnephew or grandniece. ?
Grandfather's younger sister is called grand-aunt or aunt, and she calls herself grand-nephew or grand-nephew. ?
Grandmother's elder brother is called uncle or granduncle, and he calls himself grand-niece or grand-niece. ?
Grandmother's sister-in-law is called aunt or uncle, and she calls herself grand-niece or grand-niece. ?
Grandmother's younger brother is called uncle or granduncle, and he calls himself grandnephew or grandniece. ?
Grandmother's sister-in-law is called aunt or uncle, and they call themselves grand-niece or grand-niece. ?
The father's brother-in-law is called uncle or uncle, and he calls himself nephew or niece. ?
The father's elder sister is called aunt or empress, and she calls herself nephew or niece. ?
The mother's father is called grandfather or grandfather, and he calls himself grandson or granddaughter. ?
The mother's mother is called grandmother or grandma, and she calls herself grandson or granddaughter. ?
The mother's brother is called uncle or uncle, and he calls himself nephew or niece. ?
The mother's sister-in-law or sister-in-law are called aunts or concubines, and they call themselves nephews or nieces. ?
The mother's brother-in-law or brother-in-law is called uncle or uncle, and they call themselves nephew or niece. ?
The mother's elder sister or younger sister is called aunt or aunt, and she calls herself nephew or niece. ?
The wife's father is called father-in-law or father, and he calls himself son-in-law. ?
The wife's mother is called mother-in-law or mother, and she calls herself son-in-law. ?
The wife's uncle is called uncle, and he calls himself nephew and son-in-law. ?
The wife's aunt is called aunt, and she calls herself nephew and son-in-law. ?
The wife's uncle is called uncle, and he calls himself nephew and son-in-law. ?
The wife's aunt is called aunt, and she calls herself nephew. ?
2. What do you call your peers?

According to the traditional customs of our country, the names of peers in the family now mainly include:?
The elder brother is called brother or elder brother, and he calls himself younger brother, younger sibling, younger sister. ?
Sister-in-law is called sister-in-law or sister-in-law, and they call themselves younger brothers and younger siblings. ?
The younger brother is called younger brother or younger brother, and he calls himself brother, sister-in-law, or sister. ?
Sister-in-law is called younger brother and sister, and they call themselves brother and sister-in-law. ?
Elder sister calls elder sister, self-proclaimed younger brother, younger brother and sister. ?
Brother-in-law is called brother-in-law, and he calls himself brother-in-law or brother-in-law. ?
The younger sister calls her younger sister, and she calls herself brother or sister-in-law. ?
Brother-in-law is called brother-in-law or brother-in-law, and he calls himself brother-in-law, sister-in-law, or sister-in-law. ?
The sons of uncles and uncles are called cousins ​​or cousins, and they call themselves cousins, cousins, cousins, and cousins. ?
The daughters of uncles and uncles are called cousins ​​or cousins, and they call themselves cousins, cousins, cousins, and cousins. ?
The sons of aunts, uncles, and aunts are called cousins ​​or cousins, and they call themselves cousins, cousins, cousins, and cousins. ?
The daughters of aunts, uncles, and aunts are called cousins ​​or cousins, and they call themselves cousins, cousins, cousins, and cousins. ?
The wife's elder brother is called brother-in-law or elder brother, and he calls himself brother-in-law or younger brother. ?
The younger brother of the wife is called the brother-in-law or younger brother, and he calls himself brother-in-law or elder brother. ?
The wife's elder sister calls her elder sister and calls herself brother-in-law. ?
The wife's younger sister is called younger sister, and she calls herself brother-in-law. ?
The wife's brother-in-law is called brother-in-law, and he calls himself brother-in-law or younger brother; the brother-in-law of the wife is called brother-in-law, who calls himself brother-in-law or elder brother. ?
3. What are other folk names for relatives?

Due to the vast territory of our country and the large differences in folk customs, there are also differences in appellations.Here are some folk stories about relatives

special title. ?
Great-grandfather: great-grandfather, great man, great-grandfather, great-grandfather. ?
Grandfather: grandfather, father-in-law, princely father, Ah Weng. ?
Grandmother: Grandma, Queen Mother, Great Mother. ?
Grandfather: master, great father, grandpa, grandpa, grandpa, grandpa. ?
Grandmother: Grandma, Laolao, Laoniang, grandma, good woman, mother-in-law. ?
Father: Papa, Daddy, Abba, Adie, Grandpa, Big, Daddy. ?
Mother: mother, mother, grandma, grandma, grandma, mother, muma. ?
Uncle: uncle, uncle, uncle, in father, from father. ?
Aunt: Da Da, Aunt Niang, Da Ma, Da Niang, Zai Mu. ?
Uncles: Uncle, Uncle Grandpa, Uncle Zhong, Father Ji, Father Cong, Uncle A. ?
Aunt: aunt, aunt, aunt, aunt, aunt, quarter mother. ?
Uncle: uncle, uncle. ?
Aunt: aunt, girl, aunt, aunt, aunt. ?
Uncle: uncle, uncle, uncle. ?
Aunt: aunt, aunt, aunt, aunt, concubine. ?
Uncle: Uncle, uncle, uncle, uncle. ?
Aunt: aunt, aunt, concubine, concubine. ?
Father-in-law: father-in-law, grandfather, old father-in-law. ?
Mother-in-law: mother-in-law, grandma, aunt, old lady. ?
Father-in-law: Father-in-law, father-in-law, Abba, Yue Weng. ?
Mother-in-law: mother-in-law, mother-in-law, grandmother, aunt. ?
Husband: lover, husband, husband, master, husband. ?
Wife: lover, madam, wife, wife, wife, housewife, wife. ?
Brother: brother, brother, Kun, brother. ?
Younger brother: brother, brother, Zhongshi, younger brother. ?
Sister: Sister, Sister, Brother, Sister, Sister. ?
Sister: sister, younger sister, female brother, di. ?
Sister-in-law: sister-in-law, sister-in-law, sister-in-law, sister-in-law, sister-in-law. ?
Brother-in-law: sister-in-law, sister-in-law, brother-in-law, sister-in-law. ?
Sister-in-law: younger siblings, mother, aunt, aunt. ?
Brother-in-law: sister-in-law, sister-in-law. ?
Son: heir, son, child, male. ?
Daughter: daughter, boudoir love, girl, nan, female. ?
Daughter-in-law: daughter-in-law, son-in-law, son-in-law, daughter-in-law. ?
Son-in-law: son-in-law, son-in-law, son-in-law, daughter-in-law, jock. ?
Nephews: Congzi, Youzi, Ah Xian, Xian Ruan. ?
Niece: Cong Dv, Jewish Daughter. ?
Nephew: male, nephew, nephew. ?
When using salutations, there are some considerations: ?

1. Simple and accurate.You can't call "uncle" "my father's younger brother", and you can't call a young girl "sister-in-law",
It is not allowed to say some titles such as "aunt and lover's father" that describe the object with unclear relationship. ?
2. To distinguish between different objects and occasions.It is necessary to accurately distinguish between close and distant relationships and the age, seniority, and position of the other party.exist
On different occasions, at different times, and for different objects, you must choose the correct address.If you go to the home of your classmates and colleagues, ask your parents

They cannot be called titles or comrades, but should be called "uncle and aunt" or "uncle and aunt".Intimate titles between lovers and husband and wife, not
It is advisable to appear in public, in front of parents and children. ?
3. Sincerity is in the middle and appearance is in the outside.Addressing people kindly and courteously is the embodiment of spiritual beauty.Don't think of addressing as a mere communication
It is not advisable to call someone for the sake of address, and the effect will not be good.As for treating respectful titles as flattery, modesty as

Flatter
, even worse. ?
4. Elegant language.The address not only expresses the friendliness and respect for the person being called, but also reflects the personality civilization of the person who is called.have
Some people speak rudely and use vulgar words, such as "hey", "old man", "butcher", etc., even with

Unbearable swear words, which seem to belittle others, actually discredit themselves and show their lack of civilized cultivation.

(End of this chapter)