Scene language skills that college students must know

Chapter 19 Scene Nineteen - When Helped
Chapter 19 Scene Nineteen - When Helped
In daily life, when others give you help and support when you encounter difficulties and other situations, you have to express to the other party
Thank you, even if sometimes you may not be able to solve any problems, you should still be grateful for his kindness.as a daily life

Thank you in a polite language, although it is just a few words, but it can give people pleasure, it is a kind of "feedback"

, but also a kind of encouragement. ?
It is not only the need of etiquette, but also the heartfelt gratitude for everything others have done for us, and it should also promote the friendship between the two sides.
A "booster" for further deepening development. ?
Thank you, not just "Thank you!", "Thank you so much", etc., because of the different situations, you have to be specific

Only in this way can the other party feel your true gratitude from the heart. ?
([-]) From the heart, full of emotion?
When the other party has done something for us, we will thank the other party from the bottom of our hearts.Be full of gratitude when saying thank you
Express emotion rather than using a dry tone that will make the other person doubt your thanks.then you can say
: "

Thank you so much", "Thank you so much", "Thank you very much for your selfless assistance", "I really don't know how to thank you

Thank you", etc., or use repeated sentence patterns, such as "Thank you, thank you, thank you! "This way of expression is no longer

Coupled with the expressions and movements of the thank-you, it seems to give "thank you" emotion and life, which can quite infect the other party. ?
When someone has given you a gift, the best way you can express your gratitude is to express your love and need for the gift: "Oh, I really appreciate it."

like! ""So cute! ’ ‘I’ve wanted one for a long time! "It's exactly what I want!" "Regardless of the value of the gift, the giver is

It took a lot of thought.Therefore, when the recipient opens the gift box, the giver will feel somewhat uneasy: "Is the gift too small?"

Thin? " "Would he like it?" "" Is it useful? "And so on. Therefore, he must watch the recipient's face, carefully
Watch the reaction.Once I heard "That's great, I've been looking forward to it for a long time..." I felt relieved and felt that all my hard work had been paid off.
Rewards, thus creating a sense of psychological balance: "These days of searching and searching are finally not in vain." So far, each other's feelings

also reach

complete communication.There are two kinds of reactions from the recipients that will be disappointing: one is to see that the value of the gift is not high and show disdain
facial expressions; the second is to blurt out: "I already have...".After such a reaction, you can say something like "very grateful."
"Words like ", instead of making people feel happy, will make people feel that you are insincere. Of course, due to everyone's hobbies
It is different, and because it is inconvenient to investigate whether he already has the gift before giving the gift, there will also be cases where the gift cannot satisfy the recipient.

condition.This is precisely a test of the accomplishment of the recipient.At this time, you should think more about other people's thoughts than you should
If you have already had the gift, the gift may be passed on to someone else, but this will not affect you

Accept the kindness of the giver while sincerely expressing gratitude.Because in the final analysis, the gift is just a kind of "carrier".

To receive a gift is to receive your heart through it.The so-called "goose feathers are sent thousands of miles away, the gift is light and the affection is heavy!" This is the truth.only

Snobbish people will regard accepting gifts as a purpose and weigh its material value, which is not desirable. ?
([-]) Be proactive and timely to avoid delays?
After others help yourself, you should express your gratitude immediately in the shortest and fastest time.

I feel that our side is sincerely thanking him, instead of being perfunctory under the "pressure" of time.if we do temporarily

If you can't thank you in time, you should explain the specific reasons for the delay and apologize to the other party when you say thanks. ?
For example, Lao Li asked Section Chief Zhang to transfer his son to a key middle school. Section Chief Zhang ran up and down to complete the matter. At this time, Lao Li
You should come to the door to thank: "Mr. Zhang, I came here to express my thanks to you today! You helped me——no, can you help me?"

It has been a great help to our family!My wife urged me to thank you after hearing it yesterday, and my son also said: "Thank you Uncle Zhang for me.

uncle! 'So, I am here today on behalf of our family of three, and I sincerely thank you..." Just imagine, if these words
Delaying it until several months or half a year later, or meeting someone on the road and remembering to say it, there will still be such a strong feeling.

The taste of sincerity and gratitude? ?

([-]) Grasp the measure, just right?
When thanking others, try to be moderate according to the size of the other person's help to you and how much you have benefited.

Show your thanks.When others give you a lot of help, you should be "heavy" when thanking you;

"Lighter" some, the degree of severity, just right, so that both parties can feel at ease. ?
For example, Director Li helped Zhang Min's child enter a key middle school. This kind of thing is usually very difficult, and the other party has to worry a lot about it.

, took a lot of effort, and Zhang Min expressed his gratitude solemnly, earnestly and sincerely at this time: "Director Li, I really don't know how to thank you."

Thank you!For Ning Ning's matter, you really rubbed your mouth and broke your legs!According to Xiao Wang from the Education Bureau, you just ran away from the Education Committee
Once again, it's really hard for you to take care of our common people's affairs as your own at your age. Now a good leader like you really

It is too little!Director Li, I, Lao Zhang, will keep your great kindness and virtue in mind, and our whole family will keep it in mind.If Ning Ning in the future

If you are promising, the first person I want to thank is you, Director Li..." The words of thanks are already on point,
Even so, compared with the help Director Li provided to Lao Zhang's family, such a "grand" thank you is still appropriate

. ?
([-]) Pay attention to small things and be considerate?
The other party sometimes helps you with some small things, and you should also express your gratitude.Although the other party thinks that the little thing he helped you is just

When the effort is not worth thanking at all, or the other party has no intention of helping you do anything but just accidentally or incidentally
Your business, but you say a sincere "thank you" to the other party, and the result of doing so will make the other party get unexpected satisfaction

, let him feel that you are considerate and value every labor and every emotion of others, unlike those who blindly use others and
The "guy" who takes for granted.For example, someone bought you a newspaper, a piece of clothing or a
This book, etc., for this kind of little effort, the other party may not care at all, and your thanks will have the effect of surprising you.
Fruit: "Thank you, I was going to buy this newspaper, but I didn't expect you to deliver it to me!" "Thank you, I'm going to buy this book
Hurry to see it, great! "How can such a simple and sincere thank you not bring an unexpected satisfaction to the other party? ?

([-]) Clear return, close relationship?
In interpersonal communication, of course others do things for you mainly out of responsibility or sympathy, but maybe others will ask you for help next time

, This factor is more or less considered by others.If we express our gratitude to others for their help, we can express clearly

Express your desire to help the other party with all your strength next time something happens, then the other party will feel that your efforts are not just psychological.

There will be practical satisfaction, and there will be tangible returns, and the relationship between the two parties will be further strengthened and closer.

Consider this example below: ?
Wang Qiang caused trouble due to an oversight, but because Liu Jian interceded with his superiors, he was not held accountable too severely.
Thank you Liu Jian in the same way: "Liu Jian, if you hadn't interceded for me this time, I'm afraid that my salary for this month would be ruined. It's really good!"

Thank you!Next time if you have any troubles in work or life, feel free to come to me, as long as I can help, I will definitely not
Say a 'no' word!If you have time, I will invite you to eat seafood outside at night..." Liu Jian was overjoyed when he heard Wang Qiang's words.
Moved by the sincerity of repayment, and thus consciously close the relationship with Wang Qiang.

(End of this chapter)