Scene language skills that college students must know

Chapter 18 Scene Eighteen - When Refusing to Drink at the Banquet

Chapter 18 Scene Eighteen - When Refusing to Drink at the Banquet
When holding a banquet, everyone cheers and drinks.Since everyone has a limited amount of alcohol, it is beneficial to drink in moderation.
It is harmful, but if you drink too much and get drunk, it will do no good to others or yourself.Therefore, in the face of other people's kind persuasion,
We must also learn the art of refusing to drink.Successful refusal to drink not only saves oneself from stomach pain, but also prevents the other party from feeling

If you don't give face, you won't hurt your peace or ruin things because of it.Here are a few tips and methods for refusing alcohol;

([-]) Using physical health as a shield?

Drinking is for the exchange of emotions, but also for physical and mental pleasure, which everyone knows.If you drink for the sake of drinking, so that
If you torment your body and damage your health, it is obviously a small loss that makes a big difference. This is something no one wants to see.therefore, we
You can refuse on the grounds that you are not feeling well or suffering from a disease that prohibits alcohol (such as poor liver, high blood pressure, heart disease, etc.)
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Persuade the other party to drink, so that the other party will not be able to force it anyway.For example, Zhang Yu attended a birthday party.Wang Qiang has not had a relationship with Zhang for a long time.

Yu met and proposed to drink three cups with him. Zhang Yu said: "I appreciate your kindness. Unfortunately, I have been ill recently.

Unwell, I am taking medicine, and I have not touched alcohol for a long time, so I have to ask you to take care of me.Fortunately, there will be a long time in Japan, and there will be a period later. In the future, I will
I must get drunk with you, okay? "As soon as this remark came out, everyone praised it, and Wang Qiang had no choice but to accept it. ?
([-]) Mention the consequences of excessive drinking?

Of course, drinking should be done well and not overwhelmed, so that guests can come and return with pleasure.The style of persuading people to drink regardless of reality, in the final analysis

, it is only for the purpose of drinking people down, which can only be said to be a vulgar persuasion technique at best, and it is a taboo to persuade people to drink.

As a passive person, when drinking more than half, you should explain the situation to the host or the drinker.Such as: "Thank you for my

It's a big deal, I originally only had three liang of wine, but today I drank it to my heart's content, so I was greedy for a few more glasses, and it would be 'something wrong' if I drank any more.

I hope you can understand me. "After such an excuse, never drink again. This kind of alcohol refusal that really explains the consequences and hidden dangers
As long as the drinker understands the truth of "extreme joy begets sorrow" and is considerate, he will accept it as soon as it is good. ?
([-]) Emphasize the importance of safety?
This is also a good reason to say no to alcohol.Some people get dizzy and drunk when they drink alcohol. If they go to work after drinking alcohol, it will be very dangerous

, such as riding a bicycle.In addition, as long as you can make up a reasonable and well-founded reason to prove that drinking is dangerous to you, then you are right

Out of consideration for your safety, Fang did not force it.Please see the following example: ?

When you ride your bike to a friend's house for a party at night, you can say no to alcohol like this: "I really can't drink anymore, or I won't be able to go home."
up.You see there is not a single star tonight, and there are no street lights in our house, it is too dangerous to ride a bicycle in the dark
.Coupled with my corrected vision of 0.9, don't fall into the ditch dizzy at that time! "

([-]) On the grounds of disapproval from family members?

Generally speaking, refusing to drink on the grounds of parental prohibition is often easy for the other party to think that you are making excuses to shirk, because he cannot imagine

How serious this problem is to you.Therefore, you must speak truthfully and vividly when refusing to drink, and put yourself in the position of not listening to the "prohibition"
Show the consequences and let the other party feel that letting you drink is really harming you, so he will stop persuading you to drink.so to speak, put
Giving authentic reasons is the key to using this method to refuse alcohol.You can say: "My dad scolded me when he came back from drinking.

, my mother is even stricter.I'm not kidding you, so if you're really thinking about me, then let's replace the bar with tea? "Such a
Said, the other party has nothing to say. ?
([-]) Luring the other party into a trap?

To lure the other party into your trap, first of all, you must remain calm, listen to his words, wait for the opportunity, and once the time is right, grab the other party
The "breakthrough" in the words is used to cut in and turn the defense into an offense, so that the other party can't argue and refuse to drink.Liu Bing's newlyweds are overjoyed
One day, when the feast was at its climax, a certain "Jiu Xian" seemed drunk and talked eloquently. He asked three of Liu Bing's college classmates to "bloat" each other.
"One bottle. Faced with the "Jiu Xian"'s aggressive words, one person stood up and said: "I want to ask you a question, 'Three people

OK, there must be my teacher', isn't that what Confucius said? "Jiuxian" immediately replied: "Yes." The man asked again: "Are you
Do you want the three of us to drink together? "Jiuxian" replied: "Not bad." Seeing that he had fallen into the "trap", he said: "Since the holy
Said: "Threesomes, there must be my teacher", and you asked the three of us to drink together, now you are our three best teachers
, would you please demonstrate a bottle first, how about it? This sudden blow made the "Jiu Xian" helpless, speechless,

The "drinking order" had to be lifted. ?
This persuasion to drink is wonderful because the student keeps his face and listens to his words, and then grasps the entry point in the words of the "Jiu Xian" and puts forward

Question, quietly set up a "trap" to induce them to express (or agree with) views similar to their own, please enter the urn, and then "

Close the trap", use "promise" to attack "promise", fight back, and achieve the goal of winning and refusing to drink.?
([-]) Find faults in the other party's persuasive language?

When the other party persuades us to drink, we have to find a reason, and this reason is sometimes unreliable.Especially some not very clever persuasion

For those who are young, there are often many loopholes to be caught in their persuasion words.Grab these loopholes, analyze the reason, and finally prove that you should drink
It's not me who drinks, but the other party, or someone else. In short, it doesn't matter in the end.As long as this loophole is caught accurately, the analysis
If there is reason and evidence, then the other party has nothing to say and has no choice but to give up this difficult "work partner".For example at one time

At a friend gathering, someone persuades you to drink like this: "Xiao Zhang, there are only two of us surnamed Zhang at this table. The same surname was 500 years ago.

Family, it seems that we are destined, this glass of wine should be done away with! "At this point you can catch its omissions and refuse to drink like this: "Oh,

I really want to drink this glass of wine with you, but I'm really sorry, you may have made a mistake, my 'chapter' is 'Li Zao Zhang', not
Gong Chang Zhang', so I don't know if these two surnames with the same pronunciation and different characters were also in the same family 500 years ago?So, I don't want your glass of wine
delicious. "The other party's reason is not valid, and there is no way to persuade you to drink anymore.?
([-]) Ask others to drink instead?
If you really can't drink, and there are close friends or classmates present at this time, and they drink a lot, you can ask them to replace you.

you drink.Generally speaking, as long as the other party is willing to serve, it is not easy for the drinker to say anything.Please see the following example: ?

At a banquet, a friend of Liu Ming insisted on persuading Zhang Nan, whom he was not familiar with, to drink. Zhang Nan said at this time: "I am very grateful."
Thank you for your kindness, but I'm really not a drinker by nature, so I can only appreciate your kindness.If you insist on me drinking,
Then I can only let my friend Xiao Huang (introduce a friend) drink instead.Xiao Huang and I grew up together, we love brothers and sisters, so
If he drinks it, it means I drink it. Do you agree with my proposal? "The other party agreed when they heard what Zhang Nan said.

The above skills of refusing to drink are just a few of the many methods and skills. As long as you can find out the right reason, you can generally solve the problem.

Get out of the "dilemma".

(End of this chapter)