Scene language skills that college students must know

Chapter 17 Scene Seventeen - When Persuading Drinks at the Banquet

Chapter 17 Scene Seventeen - When Persuading Drinks at the Banquet
It is a great pleasure in life to get together with relatives and friends during festivals and festivals. Chinese people pay attention to being lively and do not like dull,

Stuffy atmosphere.As the host, you should let everyone drink as much as they can, drink to their heart's content, and let the banquet start moderately.
Always maintain a festive, lively and prosperous atmosphere.It depends on your eloquence in the banquet.talk at the banquet
, Using the function of language to control the crowd at the banquet is the real ability that everyone admires.Here, we introduce a few persuasion
Wine tricks. ?
([-]) Praise the other party's academic or work achievements?

People's resistance to praise is often weak, especially at the wine table, the lively atmosphere makes people's vanity easily inflated

Once the vanity is inflated, people will inevitably have to make some "heroic acts" beyond the routine.Also, on the wine table
Compliment the other party's drinking capacity or academic performance or work performance. If the other party still insists on not drinking, it will involve a problem of face
, the eyes of everyone on the wine table will cause him an invisible pressure: since you can drink, since your career is so proud, even a glass of wine

You don't even want to drink, are you looking down on us?This kind of pressure is easily felt by the other party, so even if he is under pressure, he has to

Pick up the wine glass.Please see the following example: ?

Zhang Jing was sent to graduate school by recommendation. When several classmates drink and congratulate together, you can persuade them to drink like this: "Zhang Jing, you are
Recommended for postgraduate study, this is the result of your hard work since you entered the university, the hard work pays off, and the sweat has yielded fruitful results

.We congratulate you today, this glass of wine is sure to be drunk. "In this case, Zhang Jing had to drink other people's persuasion.

([-]) Emphasize the special significance of the occasion?
People are in good spirits on happy occasions.Some people never drink or drink too little, but are willing to drink two sips or more on special festive occasions
Drinking a few glasses, on the one hand, is because of the joy in the heart, and on the other hand, it is also due to the particularity of the occasion.Then, when persuading drinkers to drink, they may wish to
Emphasize the importance and particularity of this occasion, and point out its value and significance to the other party, so as to stimulate the other party's enthusiasm.
The sense of joy, happiness and honor made him have to have another drink happily due to specific occasions.Please see the following example: ?

At a class reunion, if a classmate doesn’t drink, you can say this when persuading him to drink: “Okay, I won’t persuade you this drink,

Drink if you want to drink, don't drink if you don't want to drink.Anyway, today is the first big gathering of our grade graduates, and it will be really nice to meet again next time
When is it.I know you can't drink, if you think you shouldn't drink this glass of wine, and everyone agrees, then I will

I didn't say a word..." When the words came to this point, the classmate would generally not refuse any more. This kind of emphasizing the specialness of the occasion
significance
The methods of persuading people to drink are generally effective, because no one wants to leave a bad impression of not paying attention to the occasion on this occasion
. ?
([-]) Emphasize the significance of the banquet to oneself?

The banquet is an important place to communicate and enhance the relationship. By toasting and persuading classmates and friends, the relationship between the two parties can be promoted.

Communication makes the relationship with each other closer and more stable.Generally speaking, if the persuasion itself can really achieve this goal
, the other party will not easily refuse.In response to this kind of psychology, we can emphatically emphasize the relationship between ourselves and the other party when persuading us to drink.

The special relationship between the two parties makes persuasion a unique way of emotional communication between the two. In this case, if the occasion can be emphasized
The meaning of oneself is that one takes this opportunity to express one's gratitude, admiration and gratitude to the other party, and the other party generally needs to

With this feeling, it is natural to drink this glass of wine.Please see the following example: ?

When you thank Wang Lei who has helped you at a banquet, you can express it like this: "Wang Lei, our relationship is not ordinary.

of.I still remember that you were the first person to receive me when I first arrived at the university 5 years ago, and I was very disappointed that day
, because of acclimatization, I went to school as soon as I arrived at school.

Vomiting and diarrhea, you were the one who sent me to the infirmary.Over the years, I always remember this incident, just because you usually give
There are too many cares and help, and I can't thank you one by one, so I will remember each one in my heart.Today, you must drink this glass of wine

! "?
In this case, Wang Lei will drink this glass of wine in order to express his gratitude to you. ?
([-]) Use irony to provoke the other party?
Everyone has self-esteem. In order to maintain their self-esteem, people sometimes easily break through the conventional framework and make some tough moves.

The same is true at the wine table. If we can use irony properly to provoke the other party, making them realize that not drinking this glass of wine will
If you hurt your dignity so much, then the other party will often "drink" it out and play a hero.However, using this method advises
You must pay attention to drinking in moderation, if you are too aggressive, just give up, so as not to really hurt the self-esteem of the other party, and the two will work harder

Come, it may even hurt the peace, then the gain outweighs the loss.Please see the following example: ?

At a class reunion, Xiao Zhang stopped drinking after drinking a glass of wine.Liu Chengyu provoked him like this: "Xiao Zhang, look

All of us classmates are men, and each of us has a glass of wine, except for female students.If you're not a man, this

You don't have to drink a glass of wine.How about I call you a bottle of 'Lulu'?You see, the female classmates have a bottle for everyone. "Xiao Zhang was provoked
Jiang said, "Who says I can't drink? I just want to show you." He raised his head and toasted.Take the aggressive method here
Got the effect. ?
([-]) Adopt the method of retreating into advance?
For some people who really have a limited capacity for alcohol, especially female students, it is obviously not good to be too reluctant, so it is inevitable to drink too much.
Make some concessions on the amount of alcohol, drink a glass for yourself, half a glass for others, or drink beer instead, so as to persuade the other party.The other party is trying to persuade you

If you insist on not drinking, you are somewhat embarrassed. If you make a concession at this time, the other party may not be able to evade it anymore.

Fortunately, drinkers are generally people with a good capacity for alcohol, so it is not a big deal to suffer a little "loss" in this regard.

Here is an example of this: ?

Xiao Li can use this method when he persuades a female classmate to drink: "Liu Li, I'm almost done talking, you still

Don't drink, it seems that you really don't want to save face for me.Well then, I don't want to lose face.You drink half a small cup, I will accompany this
Big cup head office, right?If you refuse this time, I will have to find a crack in the ground and get down! "?
After Xiao Li finished speaking, he drank it up as soon as he raised his neck. Seeing this, Liu Li had no choice but to drink the glass of wine. ?
When using the above methods and techniques, we must pay attention to the occasion.In fact, the most important point is that everyone should not forget that drinking is also a culture

Therefore, the banquet should become a civilized and polite communication place.Everyone reminisces about the past, talks about life, learns about skills, and exchanges ideas.
It is the purpose of the banquet, therefore, it should be a scene that reflects harmony, kindness, elegance and joy.

(End of this chapter)