Scene language skills that college students must know

Chapter 14 Scene Fourteen - When Visiting a Patient
Chapter 14 Scene Fourteen - When Visiting a Patient
Everyone has a time when they are sick. When they are sick, on the one hand, they will be irritable because of the pain itself, and they will be deeply worried about the development of the disease.

On the other hand, because they cannot live a normal life, they tend to have disturbed thoughts and mood swings, especially when they suffer from more serious diseases.
Patients who are admitted to the hospital will be worried, lonely and depressed.The patient's family members will also be cranky, and they will be confused.

host.Therefore, if relatives, friends and colleagues can often go to comfort patients and their families, they can often play a role that doctors cannot. ?
When visiting a patient, if you speak inappropriately, not only will it fail to comfort the patient, but it will make the patient more troubled and bring
Bad effect.For example, when a young man went to visit his aunt who had been ill for a long time, he asked her with concern: "How is your appetite?"

A greeting, but attracted the patient's face full of sadness.She said worriedly: "Oh! Don't talk about it!"
Feeling very embarrassed, he just said a few comforting words and left unhappy.It turned out that his aunt was seriously ill, and the most distressing symptom was
I can't eat.What he asked was exactly the question that the patient was worried about day and night, which immediately aroused the patient's annoyance and made the atmosphere of the conversation extremely unpleasant.

quick.It can be seen that when visiting patients, we must pay attention to certain conversation content and skills.So, how to do it? ?

([-]) Do not touch the patient's pain?
When visiting an unfortunate person who is seriously ill, there is no need to talk too much about the disease, and the conversation should not touch the most uncomfortable part of the patient, so as not to cause the patient to worry.

bother.If the other party already has the mental burden of illness, if you talk about the illness too much, the burden will inevitably increase.when you see a patient

When you look haggard, you should not be surprised and ask: "Why is your face so ugly?" Instead, you should say: "The medical conditions here are good.
, your illness will definitely get better soon. "?
A better way to talk during the visit is: first briefly ask about the illness, and then talk more about the lively and interesting news in the society to divert

The other party's attention, reduce the mental burden.After living in the ward for a long time, this kind of new news was exactly what he was eager to know.talk as much as possible
Happy events and good news related to the other party will make him happy, open-minded and fat, which is more conducive to a speedy recovery.

([-]) Talk more about pleasant and comforting things?
Try to talk about words and things that make the patient feel happy and relieved.To comfort the patient, the purpose is to ease his mind,
Therefore, you must not bring news that may increase your anxiety and uneasiness, and avoid talking about things that may irritate you.
Excite the other party or the other party's taboo topic.However, generally speaking, patients always tell visitors about their illness and feelings.
You should listen carefully and find out some factors that are beneficial to the patient, so as to take over the topic and comfort the patient.example
If the patient said "the appetite is good", the visitor can use the topic to "play" and talk more about the importance of a good appetite to overcome the disease.

To make sense, so that patients agree that this is a favorable condition, thereby enhancing the confidence to overcome the disease.

([-]) See the meaningful side from being sick?
When a person is sick, it has no positive meaning from any angle.However, in order to reassure patients, we can change the phase

From the opposite point of view, from the perspective of the process of life, give some value and meaning to the illness, so that the patient feels that he has exhausted his body

, Delayed work, but can also gain some special experience or ability, so as to have a sense of compensation in spirit.certainly

Before that, it is best to emphasize the improvement of the patient's condition so that it has a psychological basis for in-depth thinking. ?
For example, when someone went to visit a friend, contrary to the usual practice, he neither asked about the illness nor the method of treatment, but comforted him in this way: "It seems

, your dangerous period has passed, that's good.In the future, you will have an additional immune function, and compared with us, you will also increase your immune function.
With a barrier, this disease may never bother you again! 'Visitor's unique take on the meaningful flip side of being sick

arrive.He first pointed out that the patient's dangerous period has passed, so that the patient felt a little relieved, and then emphasized that although being sick is not a good thing, it is still a good thing.

However, the patient has an advantage that others do not have: immunity to the disease, and will not get the disease again in the future.patient listen to him

In this way, I naturally got some kind of compensation psychologically, and my mood was much better. ?
([-]) Emphasize the patient's strengths in other areas?

Afflicted by illness, the patient only cares about the severity of the illness itself, but seldom considers other important factors that determine the illness and recovery.

important factor.As a patient visitor, it is very necessary for us to dig out the advantages of patients in other aspects and put them in a prominent and important position.
important status, emphasizing that these advantages are not possessed by other patients, so the patient has every reason to take the advantage over others.

more optimistic attitude.When patients recognize these advantages of their own, they will definitely have the confidence they should have in recovery.E.g,
A young construction worker accidentally fell and was in a coma while working at heights.Patient wakes up in hospital feeling down
His limbs could not be controlled, so he suspected that he would be disabled for life, and had the idea of ​​committing suicide.A friend of the patient discovered his idea
Immediately after the emergence of symptoms, he encouraged and said: "You are young and strong, with strong physiological functions and strong metabolism. As long as you actively cooperate with the treatment,
If you exercise more in the future, you will definitely not be disabled. This is what the doctor said, please believe me! "Just a few words of encouragement finally made the patient

Abandoned the idea of ​​suicide and enhanced confidence in treatment.In the days to come, the patient not only actively cooperated with the treatment, but also devoted himself firmly

Physical recovery exercise.After several months, he recovered and was discharged from the hospital.Later he said to his friends: "If you hadn't given me encouragement at the right time,

, I will not have confidence in my recovery anyway. "Here the patient is based on the fact that his lower limbs are not listening.

He thought that he would be disabled for life, which showed that he considered the illness too much, but did not realize other influencing factors.

The friend seized the advantage of the patient's good physical fitness, highlighted it, and tried his best to make him believe that he would not be disabled, and emphasized that this is a medical treatment.

As a result, the patient regained confidence in recovery, the doctor said. ?
([-]) Pay attention to subtle changes in others?
When sick, due to the distress of illness, patients often have deep worries about their illness.
Can lead to the breeding of pessimism, a negative attitude towards treatment.When visiting a patient, we might as well grasp the subtleties of the patient's body.

Changes make a fuss, emphasizing that this change means that the condition is slowly improving, indicating that there is great hope for recovery.talking about this time

When we talk, we can pretend to be inadvertent. The more we do this, the more we can make patients believe it is true and make them take care of their illness.
make an optimistic estimate.For example, a patient with jaundice hepatitis always thought that his
The disease did not improve, and pessimism was generated, and the confidence in treatment was lost.At this time, a friend came to visit and hinted: "

Your complexion is much better than before. According to the doctor, your jaundice index has dropped, which means that your condition is improving!

"This suggestive language lifted the patient's spirit, so he accepted the treatment optimistically and accelerated the recovery process.

Soon after, he recovered and was discharged from the hospital.The visitor caught the change in the patient's face, implying that the patient's condition was "much better than before", and then

Later, he quoted the doctor's words to prove it, so that the patient naturally believed it was true.In fact, is the patient's complexion really good?

It doesn't matter if there are too many, the important thing is to cheer him up, build up his courage, and strengthen his confidence. ?
([-]) Cultivate patients' patience in treatment?

After the patient fell ill, his normal study, work, and life were forced to be interrupted, and he had to temporarily isolate himself from the outside world and live a normal life.
The boring life accompanied by illness, anyone who changes, will probably feel irritable and anxious about it, especially a
Some impatient people are eager to recover immediately and make up for lost time.For such patients, tell a story or call
For example, it is very necessary to make them realize the principle of "one mind should not be used for two purposes".Only by understanding this truth can the patient
Be able to realize that your anxiety is not only useless, but harmful, so that you can recuperate with peace of mind.Here is an example of this: ?

Liu Ming, a high school student in a certain school, was exhausted all of a sudden because of the intense competition in his class and the final exam.
, was admitted to the hospital, and lost more than ten catties sharply.During the hospitalization, on the one hand, he was suffering from illnesses, and on the other hand, he was always thinking about his own life.

Studying, for fear of falling behind because of delaying homework, the result will aggravate the condition instead.His friend Wang Dong came to visit him,
Knowing Liu Ming's situation, I said to him: "I hope you think of your life as an hourglass, you know?

There are tens of thousands of grains of sand in the upper half of the drain, however, there is never a way for more than two grains of sand to flow from a narrow hole at the same time.

flow down the leaky pipe.Each of us is like this hourglass, there are many things to do every day, if we do one by one

Just like sand passing through an hourglass one by one, then we can get things done and keep our bodies safe.

damage.On the contrary, if you are recovering from illness while still thinking about memorizing texts and doing exercises, then you will not be able to do a good job.
There are only disadvantages and no benefits, right? "?
After listening to Wang Dong's words, Liu Ming finally calmed down slowly.He remembered what Wang Dong said, "Only one flow at a time
Grain of sand, just do one thing at a time" advice, quickly restored health. ?
Using an hourglass as an example, Wang Dong explained to Liu Ming the principle of "doing one thing at the same time". The image is vivid and inspiring.Liu Ming

After understanding this truth, I realized that only by recuperating with peace of mind now can I make up for the lost homework and really do a good job in my studies.

I am no longer anxious. ?
([-]) Pay attention to keeping the same caliber with doctors and family members?

For patients, especially those suffering from serious diseases, when visiting, we should not only respect the doctor's orders, but also respect the wishes of the patients' family members.

Wish, be tight-lipped, and be indifferent in front of patients, even talk and laugh happily with them, appearing relaxed and happy

.Patients generally pay great attention to every move of their relatives and friends around them.Therefore, it is necessary to advise the patient's family members to be good at controlling themselves.
Especially in front of critically ill patients, you must not show your sadness.Be sure to appear calm and composed.return
Note: When patients have any treatment requirements, they should be satisfied as much as possible.Do everything possible to do what the patient entrusts
Finish.When bidding farewell to the patient, convey the greetings and best wishes of other relatives and friends to the patient, and express that you will definitely come back next time
Hope, so that patients are full of hope and confidence.

(End of this chapter)