Gu Xijue's "Warm Love" Collection

Chapter 32 is full of my love for you (standard edition) (32)
Episode [-]: He, She, and Them
1. She and him and him

"Let's get married! Don't say much else, as long as I live, I will treat you well."

When Xu Weiyu said this to me, I was watering the dying aloe on the balcony of my hometown.After listening to it, I asked, "Are you proposing marriage?"

Xu Weiyu took out the ring, and said earnestly and affectionately: "Yes, I won't kneel when I kneel. We have been friends for more than ten years. Anyway, I have kneeled on one knee for you hundreds of times in my heart. Okay. Alright, then it's settled."

At this time, the younger brother ran over and said, "What is the decision, you kneel down!"

then……

Wei Yu: "Don't interrupt children when adults talk."

Little brother: "Aren't you proposing to my sister? You have to kneel down!"

Wei Yu: "Whether I kneel or not is none of your business?"

Little brother: "Anyway, you, want, give, me, kneel, kneel down! If you propose marriage, kneel down to me! Kneel down to me!"

I:"……"

Every time I recall the scene of Xu Weiyu's marriage proposal, I feel like an outsider.

2. Not a honeymoon

Bali is a place I have always wanted to go to - because of a Korean drama "Love in Bali" I watched when I was young.

Out of "frugality", I bought a flight ticket with a connecting flight in Hong Kong, but in Hong Kong, Xu Weiyu frantically updated her electronic products - the ticket money was saved in vain.

Departing from Hong Kong, it took nearly five hours of flight and finally arrived in Bali.

In the taxi to the hotel, I said to Xu Weiyu: "Some men with religious beliefs in Indonesia are allowed to have polygamy, and they can marry up to four, and the country doesn't care about it."

Seeing that he was listening seriously, I asked, "Are you upset that you were born in the wrong country? Believed in the wrong religion?"

Xu Weiyu immediately retorted: "How is it possible!"

I thought he was going to show his loyalty, but I heard him say: "How could I give up all kinds of food for the sake of a few women?!"

After a while, Xu Weiyu said again: "By the way, I took a nearly ten-hour flight to Frankfurt back then. At that time, I was very unhappy. People said that as long as you persist in a long-distance relationship, there will still be results, but at that time you were still If you don't fall in love with me, we will be far away, how scary you say."

"I'm feeling fine."

Xu Weiyu said in English: "The driver stopped, I don't know her."

I don't know if the driver didn't understand, or he thought we were too two, but he ignored us... Fortunately, it wasn't too embarrassing.

The biggest advantage of going abroad with Xu Weiyu is that you don't have to worry about communication issues, which is what he often shows off in front of me.

Unfortunately, there are many Chinese-speaking people in Bali, including many local businessmen.

Xu Weiyu buys water: "Hi..."

Indonesian businessman: "What to buy?"

"You can speak Chinese?"

"Yes. What to buy?"

Xu Weiyu came back resentfully with water: "The boss speaks Chinese quite well."

3. Seeing Love and Killing Again
When the younger brother came home during the summer vacation, Xu Weiyu was the one who picked him up at the airport.

I was on a business trip at the time, and after listening to Wei Yu relay the conversation between the two of them, I was very speechless——

As soon as Gu Xiaodi got into the car, he gave Xu Weiyu a look, and he opened his mouth and said, "I want to eat seafood, crabs!"

Xu Weiyu: "Have some brains, okay? It's not the season to eat crabs yet."

Little brother: "I, anti, positive, want, eat!"

Xu Weiyu: "Okay, I'll buy it for you, and then I'll bring you a bag of persimmons, you're satisfied."

Little brother: "Eating persimmons and crabs together will kill you, you really think I'm a fool."

"Sometimes you're quite smart." Xu Weiyu patted his younger brother's head, "Good boy! Good boy! (Hello dog tone)"

Little brother: "..."

One day after I came back from a business trip, I said to Xu Weiyu: "Come over tonight, little brother, he will stay with us for a few days."

His expression changed immediately.

Me: "Are you scared?"

"It's not that I'm afraid, it's that it's very annoying! It's not that you don't know that he yells endlessly. Fortunately, he is in his early 20s, and he is still like a child!"

I said to myself, you are not like a child.

The night my brother came, we decided to go out for dinner.

As usual, the two children started arguing before they went out, because neither of them wanted to be a driver and they took advantage of each other.

Me: "Can I drive?"

The little brother pointed at Xu Weiyu and said, "Why didn't you drive it? Why did my sister always drive it? Aren't you a man?"

Xu Weiyu humbly said: "You are a man, go ahead."

Me: "Forget it, don't drive, it's rush hour, take the subway."

On the subway, I was sitting in the middle, and two children, one on the left and the other on the right, kept their heads down and played with their mobile phones without talking.

I asked: "There are quite a lot of places to eat later, what kind of cuisine do you want to eat?"

Both Xu Weiyu and the younger brother quickly raised their heads to ask for advice, I quickly stopped: "I shouldn't ask, I'm determined, let's find Jiahang to help with food."

Wei Yu smiled and said: "Those Hangbang restaurants, there must be dead people queuing up."

Little brother: "Then you go to line up! My sister and I will go shopping for a while."

Wei Yu snorted and said, "Did you daydream! Come live with me, it would be nice if your room fee is confiscated, and you want to take advantage of me."

Why does this last sentence sound a bit ambiguous...

Because it was in the subway, the younger brother could only suppress his voice and say angrily: "The house is the down payment paid by my sister."

But Xu Weiyu was repaying the mortgage in the later period.

As soon as Xu Weiyu heard it, she smiled and said: "Okay, the house belongs to your sister. But your sister is the property that I paid the down payment more than ten years ago, and now the balance payment has been paid off. The property of the property is still mine. Is it right? Come and fight with me after you learn Chinese, Xiao Mian."

Little brother: "..."

Then I got off the subway and went to a certain restaurant. Sure enough, there were crowds of people, and I had to wait in line.

Little brother: "When are we going to eat with so many people? Sis, let's change to another one?"

Wei Yu didn't want to wait, so I had no objections.

Finally changed to a Cantonese restaurant.

During the meal, the younger brother said: "Sister, a friend invited me to go to a nearby city in two days."

When Xu Weiyu heard this, he took out his wallet, took out a coin, and said earnestly: "Are you going to get a one-way ticket that you can leave without returning? It's [-] cents for you."

The younger brother was finally furious: "Can you not talk to me?!"

I don't know if I can see the two of them talking well in my lifetime.

When I was cleaning one day, I found a longhorn-like worm on the bookcase, and I couldn't help screaming: "There is a worm (the worm is pronounced in the Jiaxing dialect with two shongs)!"

The younger brother heard the sound and ran over: "What? There is a snake?!" When he saw clearly what it was, he said with a little disappointment: "What, it's a bug."

Xu Weiyu, who walked over together, said, "Did you learn Chinese from your zodiac sign (dog)?"

The little brother didn't understand all of a sudden, and his expression was a little dazed.After about five seconds, he finally understood: "Your whole body is learned from your zodiac sign!"

Xu Weiyu: "I belong to the tiger, and the tiger is the king of animals—don't tell me about the lion, it doesn't even qualify for the zodiac competition. As your king, go, open the refrigerator and give me a bottle of Coke."

The two of you were watching TV together just now, how can you say "turn your face" and "turn your face"...

I heard them bickering again and again, saying: "Everyone makes a concession, the sea and the sky are bright, OK?"

Xu Weiyu: "He told me to die, what a step, it's like falling off a cliff, okay?"

4. Reasons to be single

Lan Lan asked us to have dinner, and the head of the dormitory, Amin, said: "I don't have time, I have to go on blind dates on weekends, and I have to meet four people this Sunday, so I can't arrange three meals. Alas, the business is too busy, so we can only add another meal." It's midnight snack! Let's talk about the party when I have a partner."

Lan Lan agreed with Daren: "See you when she has a partner? Then it seems that we will never see her in this life."

On that Sunday, Amin called me: "I couldn't eat the night snack, and that person turned me down in the end."

I persuaded: "It's almost enough, don't ask too much."

Amin: "I'm not tall, it's because I'm too tall!"

I:"……"

The expert later comforted Amin in the group: "Actually, you look okay, but you are a little darker, a little fatter, a little shorter, a little temperamental, a bit of a big mother in dressing taste, and a good personality, but you are stubborn. A little bit, a little bit of repentance, a little lazy. It’s really hard for me to understand that a person like you can’t find a partner. What’s wrong with this society?!”

Amin: "That's right!"

Watching this kind of friendship, I was deeply moved.

Amin said again: "My dad said that he was going to buy me a second house. He said he was going to marry me off. It seemed a bit difficult to use a house as a dowry. It's really a real dad! Love you old man Dad, whoa!"

Everyone: "..."

Lan Lan later concluded: The reason for being single is either that she can't find a suitable one, or that she can't forget someone.

5. Destroy Xiaoxin in a second
Friends came to play at home, drinking tea elegantly, while talking about their ideals with me: "When I am rich and calm like water, I want to face the sea with my lover and dog, and the spring flowers will bloom."

Xu Weiyu: "Do your lover and dog agree?"

Friend: "Go away."

Another friend came to ask me where it would be fun to go abroad, and asked me if I had been to Greece, Italy, or Spain, and I said no.

The friend looked forward to it: "I really want to see those picturesque places."

Xu Weiyu, who ruined people's dreams for a second, interjected again: "I have longed for those places. Only after I went there did I realize that fairy tales are full of lies, all kinds of mess, I was stolen in the French subway, Go to the police, the police don’t care about it at all. There are also Italy and Spain, where thieves are rampant.”

The friend cried: "Uncle Xu, please don't talk to me, don't destroy my beautiful fantasy, OK?"

My friends love and hate Xu Weiyu for destroying Xiaoqingqing's attributes in a second - hate him for not leaving room for flirting, but sometimes they have to admit that most of what he said is correct.

6. Israel's wife
Xu Weiyu and I have a small house, and we are struggling to repay the loan.

At noon that day, Xu Weiyu came back to have lunch, and as soon as he entered the door, he said: "The time goes by faster than the heart grows old, it's helpless, otherwise, it's pitiful."

I once posted this sentence on Weibo.

"You took the wrong medicine?"

Wei Yu let out a "tch", "I just looked at myself in the mirror when I came up in the elevator, thinking that a person like me with a deceptive face and a good attitude is really born beautiful and hard to give up on."

I couldn't help laughing, "It's hard to give up on a natural beauty, and she was once chosen on the king's side."

Xu Weiyu was stunned for a moment, and said in a coquettish voice: "Little maid can really talk. Tell me what you want, and I will reward you."

In the evening, Xu Weiyu spoke to someone in the study, and the other person said: "Brother Xing (because his screen name is Xiaofu), when are you going to play the game? Please come and help me to do evil."

"Wait a minute, brother is peeling pomegranates to eat."

"I said, can you eat some other fruits? Pomegranates are so time-consuming!"

"Okay, it's too noisy, come after washing your hands."

Xu Weiyu came out of the bathroom after washing her hands, saw me tidying up things, and suddenly asked me: "What do you think of me playing games?"

I said: "In reality, the pressure is already so great, you can't deprive you of recreational activities that can relax you. Of course, if you are addicted, decisively ban it."

"How can I, am I the kind of person who will be addicted?" He came over and squeezed my arm after speaking.

"Brother Xing, are you alright?" A loud voice came from the study.

"Come here!" He dropped my hand and ran away quickly.

Xu Weiyu: "We'll make it quick, my wife and I are still waiting to fall in love with me, I don't have time to fight protracted battles with you single dogs."

Most of the people who play games with him are his old classmates, and some of them are introduced by classmates and play together.

So once I heard someone ask him: "By the way, brother Xing, what do you do?"

Xu Weiyu: "Mainly engaged in wife affairs in Israel."

I:"……"

other side:"……"

7. Thinking different from ordinary people
When she was in primary school, Xu Weiyu learned the violin for a period of time.After he entered junior high school, he basically didn't touch it. Occasionally, it was when there was an activity in the class that required someone to perform a talent show.

Xu Weiyu's level of playing the violin is not very good, at best she can only listen to it.

After work, Xu Weiyu's unit held an event, and he took his violin to the battle again.

When I went home that night, he said to me pitifully: "I was thrown away! That guy, Lao Yang, rewarded me with a dollar, which is too much! With my appearance, I have to throw away five dollars at least." what!"

After winter, Xu Weiyu's mood became very depressed: "I will deduct 20 yuan for being late every time. It's really sad. It's so cold now that I really can't get up. I just want to..."

Me: "What are you thinking? Have you decided to go to bed early and get up early?"

Xu Weiyu: "No. I'm thinking...whether I can pay off the monthly subscription of 600 yuan for being late in one lump sum."

I:"……"

On weekends, when I was waiting for my number to be called at the bank, a little boy, about four or five years old, kept dangling in front of me, so I took out a small packet of biscuits from my bag and handed it to him.When the two of us were "dealing", the child's mother came over and taught the child: "Next time a stranger gives you something and don't take it. What if it is a kidnapping of a child!"

I'm a little embarrassed to hear that.

Xu Weiyu next to me heard this, and said with a smile: "That's right!" Then she turned to me and said, "Don't give food to strangers casually in the future, in case I see you cute and kidnap you away."

There was no irony in what he said, it was purely funny.

The child's mother next to me also laughed out loud, thanked us, and took the child away.

I looked at Xu Weiyu, and he said proudly: "If you have anything to say, just say it."

I touched his head and said, "If you have a husband like this, what more can you ask for?"

Xu Weiyu was stunned for a second: "I've heard this before, what exactly do you mean?"

I:"……"

8. Do not believe in evil

At the beginning of 2015, I went to Japan and drew a lottery at Sensoji Temple - Xiaoji.

After returning to China, Xu Weiyu became angry when she saw the lottery. It included career, physical condition, etc., as well as marriage and family.It is said about marriage and family: The person you are waiting for has not yet appeared.

"What? Hasn't appeared yet? Is Lao Tzu a ghost? Not as reliable as our domestic temples. Poor review!"

In fact, when I was applying for a visa, what I thought in my heart was, when will the child come?

Later, when I went to Suzhou with Xu Weiyu, in a certain garden, I saw a stone turtle, and a tour guide beside him was explaining that you can get rich by touching the head, and you can get money by touching the tail, anyway, you can get money in all four directions.When the tour guide was talking, Xu Weiyu touched all four directions. After the tour guide watched him meaningfully, he said, "Young man, if you touch all four positions, all four directions are empty."

Xu Weiyu was stunned for a moment, then calmly said: "I don't believe in evil!" Then without changing his face, he reached out and touched the stone turtle's head again—to attract wealth.

9. Recognize someone for a lifetime

When I was walking with Xu Weiyu after dinner, a man who looked like a certain Korean star walked up to me. I couldn't help but take a second look. When I saw the ring on the ring finger of his left hand, I couldn't help sighing again. Xu Weiyu next to him immediately said: "What are you looking at, why are you sighing, you also wear a ring on your left ring finger!"

At that time, I felt that all the good men were married, and I was worried about my group of female friends who were on blind dates every week.

Xu Weiyu said again: "Don't you think that kind of handsome is superficial? There is no handsome soldier who has endured wind, rain, sun and rain to defend his home and country!"

Me: "Aren't you just a technician?"

Xu Weiyu immediately became unhappy, and said sonorously and forcefully: "My spirit is fighting bloody battles every day!"

However, not long after, Xu Weiyu entered the hospital in the middle of the night because of stomach bleeding.

I asked him later: "Although you are smiling all day long, you are actually under a lot of pressure at work, right?"

Xu Weiyu smiled and said: "Yeah, in the office every day... lovesickness becomes sick. Do you think it's a lot of pressure?" After the hippie smile, he said, "Don't worry, as long as you are by my side, any problem or trouble will be solved. Can't beat me."

Sometimes, he would lie next to me and start to imitate my insomnia, so the two of us often started chatting in the middle of the night.

Me: "What's in my head, I can't express it in the most appropriate words. It's a terrible feeling."

Wei Yu: "What you wrote, people read it, can understand it, and feel it, that's enough. Don't be too harsh on yourself—this is also a disease, commonly known as self-torture. Brother tell you, human life In this world, you can't treat people who treat you badly, let alone yourself..."

I interrupted him: "Then parents want you to change jobs, why don't you change? They are afraid that you will get stomach cancer in ten years." I also thought about asking him to change jobs, but I didn't want to interfere too much with him.

Xu Weiyu: "They are too exaggerated."

Me: "Jack Ma said that the three major cancers will plague every family in China in ten years' time."

He said to me affectionately: "Don't worry, I will try my best to live longer than you."

I:"……"

Wei Yu: "Because I'm afraid that I'll die before you, you'll have a hard time, you won't be able to sleep well, you won't be able to eat well, I can't stand it when I think about it. So no matter what, I'll live longer than you. If you leave, I won't be able to bear it anymore." Follow you."

"Die for me?" I just thought he was talking nonsense, so I also chatted with him.

But he laughed out loud and stopped talking.

I thought, he can't be serious, can he?

Then I couldn't help but start to imagine how I would feel if he left first...

As a result, just imagining it is already unbearable-if one day, I am left alone in the house where I have lived with him for many years, I know that the most difficult thing is not loneliness, but the hopelessness of missing but not being able to see.

I saw an old lady who lost her lover on the Internet before saying: I started a long-distance love 20 years ago.

I said, "Wei Yu, let's try to never fall in a long-distance relationship again, shall we? Once was enough when we were young."

I waited for a long time without any response, but when I looked back, he had already fallen asleep.

……

He and I met when we were young, and became childhood sweethearts in a ignorant way. One loves to make trouble, the other loves to watch, and he grows up after watching;

A lifetime is so long, yet so short, if you live it, you will grow old.

(End of this chapter)