Smile is very alluring: the charming temperament you want most

Chapter 9 There is one thing more important than beauty - elegance (1)
- stand with a graceful manner
A woman's temperament seems invisible, but in fact it is tangible. It is manifested in a person's speech, behavior, and gestures in dealing with others.A woman with a temperament, her every step, stretching her waist, sweeping her hair, and the blink of an eye, are like honey flowing and water swaying... This is a naturally elegant temperament with endless charm and delicate fragrance. It makes people feel a sense of beauty, and they can't help but feel excited.

A good gesture is better than a good makeup
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Most is the gentleness of the bowed head, like the shyness of a water lotus invincible to the cool breeze.

——Xu Zhimo
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Some people say that an elegant beauty is a flowing art gallery.It is also said that the elegant posture of a woman, like an invisible elf, will firmly grasp people's senses and sneak into people's hearts.All of these show the moving scene reflected in the elegant posture and the feelings and impressions it brings to people.

In the movie "In the Mood for Love" directed by Wong Kar-wai, which became popular in mainland China a few years ago, the heroine Su Lizhen left a deep impression on the audience with her graceful posture, faint smile, and calm and calm eyes; at the same time, It is also her posture that allows us to see all the magnificence hidden in her heart.

Apparently, this is a gesture of charm.No gorgeous clothes can make a woman fatally attractive.A woman with an elegant posture must be full of charming and lasting charm.

It can be said that posture is a kind of slow airflow around women's bodies, and people can feel the breath emanating from them as soon as they get close.In real life, women who can impress people are often women with good posture.They don't need to wear heavy makeup or fancy clothes, just raising their hands and throwing their feet is enough to attract people's attention, which is amazing.

The great writer Balzac once described a woman's posture in this way: "The half-opened lips reveal a pair of beautiful teeth; the spread shawl allows you to notice her lovely breasts under the folds of the large printed gauze dress, without hindering her." Her modesty. In short, this appearance fully expresses the purity of her childlike soul, especially because there is no other expression to disturb it, which is all the more clearly seen."

We all know the famous movie star Audrey Hepburn. Although she has passed away for many years, no one can surpass her.People gave her high praise, calling her an angel sent by God, because she was an elf with both beauty and love, and her coming was a miracle in the human world.

Seeing this, perhaps Hepburn's big bright and clear eyes have appeared in your mind, and those eyes are shining like beautifully cut diamonds.Her fresh and refined classical temperament is like the shining stars in the night sky, even the moon is eclipsed in front of her.

On the screen, Hepburn has always used natural gestures to interpret screen characters.A book about Hepburn mentions that the director of "Roman Holiday" tested the actors with a scene from the play: the princess in a delicate nightgown performing sit-ups on a large bed.Audrey Hepburn is very fragile, she raised her arms to the beautifully decorated ceiling.And then she does a series of certain episodes in a very natural, mischievous way, while she's doing them, a camera is surreptitiously filming her, but she doesn't realize it.

The result of the test was that Hepburn's posture satisfied the director the most.No reason, it's just that she integrated the most natural posture into the role of princess.The princess is also an ordinary person when doing sit-ups, and at the same time she is a girl, but Hepburn perfectly combines these movements and expressions to create a pretty, pure and radiant princess image.

It can be said that Hepburn's unique style is not expressed by perfect makeup, but her distinctive temperament and her elegant posture.

No matter how beautiful the makeup is, when the beautiful makeup is no longer there, when the traces of the years climb up our faces little by little, the only thing that can still make women shine is the calm, elegant, upright A calm attitude.And these gestures will not get old with the years, but will become more and more flavorful.

Someone saw Mrs Thatcher retired from politics in a supermarket, and found that she was no different from when she was in office, both in demeanor and spirit.She would chat and laugh with cashiers, just like she used to chat and laugh with congressmen.

It can be seen that it is not her beautiful face that made Mrs. Thatcher. For an old man who is over sixty years old, the only thing that can make her is her elegant posture.

In fact, whether it is a young woman in the prime of her life or an elderly woman in her twilight years, we should all remember one thing deeply: time will pass, and the years will eventually bring us oldness. We don't need to force it deliberately, but should Get ready early, cultivate your own elegant and charming posture from daily bits and pieces, and let yourself be beautiful forever with this elegant posture.

Put away those indecent little moves
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The beauty of the body is better than the beauty of the color, and the beauty of the graceful behavior is better than the beauty of the body. Most of the beauty cannot be represented by the painter, because it is difficult to intuitive.

- British philosopher Francis Bacon
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Look at the streets, in the bustling stream of people, how many beauties float gracefully past our eyes.But when it comes to the specific level of life, there are not so many.What is the reason?

In fact, this is mainly because the seemingly imposing beauties often reveal their vulgar side with every gesture of hand and foot.In other words, there are not many women who can really be elegant and decent all the time.

To be an elegant woman, you must first behave in a decent manner, which is also the most basic etiquette.As a woman, to leave a good impression on others, the external beauty should not be underestimated, but the internal cultivation such as elegant manners and elegant conversation is equally important, or even more important.

We know that the appearance will gradually age with the passage of time, but the elegant, dignified and courteous manner will be like the old wine, which will become more and more mellow with age.

In other words, a woman may not be pretty enough, but as long as she has elegant and decent behavior, they will be better than those women who are only pretty, because this implicit beauty is more moving.And no matter how young and beautiful a woman is, if she appears in front of us as a shrew, it will only make us feel that she is too vulgar and uneducated, and people will avoid it.

After the No. 28 bus arrived at the station, the passengers who got off the bus got off one after another, and the passengers who got on the bus were queuing up to get on the bus.At this time, I heard a high-pitched voice yelling: "Can you hurry up? Why is it so slow ahead? Didn't you have enough food?"

Immediately, people focused their attention on this beautiful girl with a slender figure but a bad eloquence.

It stands to reason that at this time the girl will be shy and feel embarrassed.But this girl got more and more excited. Seeing people staring at her, she even snarled angrily: "What are you looking at? You can't tell me that it's hard to get in the car!"

In this way, some of the people in the car smiled sarcastically, some shook their heads, and some whispered...

In fact, our behavior is actually a silent "language", which can truly reflect a person's quality, education level, and degree of trust.

Our ancestors have long put forward people's requirements for the beauty of manners, that is, standing like a pine, sitting like a bell, and walking like the wind.Someone once said: "Polite manners are like a person's clothes, neither too wide nor too tight."

Nowadays, in social occasions, as small as living at home, it reflects whether a woman's behavior is decent everywhere.A woman who can be called truly beautiful must be a person who is both internal and external, generous and decent.

So, what behaviors and behaviors should we pay attention to in life, and not "sell" our elegance?
1.Don't shake your legs or feet when talking to people

Some female friends will shake their legs or feet unconsciously when sitting and talking with people. This unconscious habit will make others think that you are a frivolous, casual, and uneducated woman, and the impression of you will be greatly reduced. Among them, your charisma coefficient will also be greatly affected.

Therefore, in daily life, especially in public places, female friends must pay attention to this, and don't let this habit "discredit" you.

2.Do not pick your teeth in public after a meal

Out of habit or because of large gaps between teeth and irregular teeth, some female friends like to pick their teeth with toothpicks in public after eating. It affects the appetite of others, and it will destroy your image in the minds of others.Just imagine, which attractive woman would pick her teeth in public after a meal?

Therefore, no matter what the occasion, no matter what the circumstances, it is detrimental to the image of women to pick their teeth in public, and this behavior should be resolutely put an end to it.What's more, frequent flossing is not good for dental health.

3.Do not whisper in public

Often whispering to others in public is a common problem of many women, and it is also an invisible "killer" that destroys women's image.This behavior of chewing your tongue, biting your ears, and whispering in whispers will not only make others think you are a very petty and tell-tale person, but also make others suspect that you are speaking ill of him and feel disgusted with you.

This kind of behavior is harmful to others and has no benefit.Therefore, in daily life, female friends must not develop this bad habit, otherwise it will bring a lot of trouble and distress to themselves.

4.Do not pick your nose in public, spit on the ground, litter, etc. I believe that whether you are a woman or a man, these uncivilized habits will greatly reduce your image, especially women, you should pay more attention to hygiene, civilization, etiquette, etc. .Once similar bad habits appear, it will bring a devastating blow to one's own image.

Just imagine, who would have a good impression of a woman who has uncivilized habits such as picking her nose in public, spitting, and littering?
Therefore, female friends must pay attention to every detail in life and develop good living habits.

5.Don't whine and nag
This is also a bad habit that many women will have.As long as you encounter some setbacks or things that don’t go your way, you will frown and start complaining about this and that, as if everyone in this world owes you something. This kind of behavior is very repulsive. of.

Indeed, what is the charm of a "complaining woman" who is full of complaints and nagging?Therefore, female friends who are still immersed in complaints, please wake up quickly, don't cry when you meet people, and don't nag endlessly whenever you encounter something that doesn't go your way, these will only make your image in the eyes of others worse and worse. The worse it is, the more disgusting it will be.Only by correcting this bad habit can you get the "permit" to cultivate attractive women.

6.Don't make loud calls in public
Have you ever had such an experience?On the bus, a certain lady was talking on the phone unscrupulously as if there was no one else around, her voice almost surpassed that of a car horn, and her wild laughter echoed throughout the entire carriage for a long time.How do you feel at this time?I believe that no matter how beautiful this lady is and how well-dressed she is, most people will cast bored eyes on her.

Of course, this is not an imagined scene. In real life, some women do have such a habit. In order to pass the boring time, they make loud phone calls in public places such as bus stops, without caring about the feelings of others.

This kind of selfish behavior of "building one's own happiness on the pain of others" is very immoral, and it will also greatly reduce one's own image in the eyes of others.Therefore, female friends who want to practice to become attractive women must not repeat this mistake, but should firmly say "no" to this bad habit.

7.Do not swear or curse at any time
This habit is very bad for both women and men.Especially for women, swearing is swearing and swearing at every turn. This kind of behavior is extremely disgusting, and it will make others think that you are an uneducated, low-quality, and self-respecting woman, and your image in the eyes of others It will also be greatly discounted invisibly.

In daily life, everyone has more or less bad habits. Once these habits are deeply ingrained, they will become a natural expression. When you make this bad habit inadvertently and unconsciously, you may not even think that it is going on Little by little it is destroying your image.In order to avoid this kind of unknowing behavior from happening to oneself, if you want to practice to become an attractive and elegant woman, you should fundamentally put an end to such bad habits.

At this point, the famous French actress Sophie Marceau has set a good example for us.

Sophie Marceau was hailed by French men as "French rose", "French charm", "eternal love", "like the scent of Chanel No. 5, this world-famous beauty came over"...in one time During the event, the British "Independent" described Sophie Marceau's appearance in this way: Sophie Marceau exudes an unshakable charm.No matter when and where it appears, the word elegance is always inseparable from Sophie Marceau.Every gesture, every frown and smile, even when she is eating, she always sits at the table, tearing off the bread in her hand, and putting it into her mouth calmly.Referring to her beauty secrets, "Never neglect yourself, never slack off in any small place. Even if I age, I want to age gracefully." The most beautiful sex goddess in France said with a smile, and Make a sweeping motion from head to toes.

Elegance is everywhere, avoid those unnecessary indecent small movements, please slow down your movements, try to be as graceful as possible, and be calm, you will be able to greatly increase your charm index, shape or rebuild your elegant image in the eyes of others, At that time, I believe that anyone can't help but look at you a few more times.

Remember, elegance is not the form of beauty, but the content of beauty.

Woman's smile, half-opened flowers

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If a woman forgets to make up when she goes out, the best remedy is to show your smile.

- American supermodel Cindy Crawford
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Smile is known as the most beautiful expression in the world, so some people say that what makes the world bright is not the sun, but the smile.

May wish to look around our lives, those who are the most popular are often women who love to laugh.Because no one will hate a person who greets him with a sweet smile, which may be the most valuable intangible asset of female friends.

In a small town, there lived a very rich man. Although the rich man had a lot of money, he was not happy at all.

One day, the rich man was walking down the road as usual.At this time, a little girl walked towards him. The little girl looked at the rich man with innocent eyes and gave him a very sweet smile.When the rich man saw the little girl's clear smile and innocent face, the haze in his heart immediately dissipated, and he suddenly became enlightened.The millionaire thought to himself: Why are you unhappy?How nice it would be to smile like this little girl!

A simple and kind gentle smile, but in exchange for other people's sudden enlightenment, this can't help but make people marvel at the charm of a smile.

Comedy master Steed once said: "Smile, it costs nothing, but it creates a lot of value. A smile makes the person who receives it rich, but does not make the person who gives it poor. The smile is Produced in a flash, but left an eternal memory."

In the story, the innocent smile of the little girl ignites the rich man's enthusiasm for life.For a rich man, the spiritual wealth brought by a little girl's smile is very valuable.

(End of this chapter)