Smile is very alluring: the charming temperament you want most

Chapter 28 Be an Interesting Woman and Meet Your Best Self (2)
In the European Union, Greece is the second-to-last country. Except for shipping, agriculture, tourism and related handicraft manufacturing, there is nothing to show for it.But the Greeks don't care how strong their country's economy is, what they care about is being able to enjoy their lazy life——

For the Greeks, the weekend is the day when the ironclad should be rested.This point can be seen from the "whole rest" of all specialty stores on Sunday.In fact, not only specialty stores, but all stores are also closed, even restaurants are no exception, even if there is an endless stream of tourists.

In Athens, company employees generally show up between 10 and 11 in the morning and leave work around 7 in the evening.Therefore, Greeks often start dinner at 9 o'clock, and then go to a bar or cafe for a drink to let the body relax slowly and immerse themselves in the cool sea breeze at night.

Vacation is the most important part of Greek leisure life.There are more than 2000 beautiful islands scattered like pearls in the Aegean Sea, and there are more than 170 inhabited islands, many of which have become vacation paradises.Greeks go out with their families to enjoy the sun, sea, sand, and quiet nights with sea breeze and beer on the island.

The infinite artistic inspiration of the Greeks may have been brewed in this laziness, and every tourist who comes to Greece will slow down.Today Greece is a holiday destination that the whole world yearns for.For the Chinese, the name Greece alone can generate countless romantic imaginations.

Don't feel that enjoyment and leisure are impossible in a fast-paced life.We might as well take a look at the advice of the famous American psychological counseling expert Richard Carlson in his book "Make Things Easier"-take a "mini vacation" every day. He wrote: A short break from whatever you're doing on this "mini-vacation" will do you a lot of good.That is your special time, and if possible, make it an integral part of your life.You may want to meet up with a friend for coffee, lunch, an early morning walk, surf the web alone, go for a run, watch the sunrise, walk the dog, sit and meditate, whatever it takes to relax you. "Mini vacation" can not only help you decompress, but also an important hub for adjusting your body and mind.

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No matter how tired or busy you are, as long as you have an emotional state of mind, there is no problem with being lazy all the time.It is not sinking, let alone depravity, but the best seasoning in life.In this way, I bring instant freedom to my soul, life can become relaxed and full of poetry, and the feeling of happiness will come unexpectedly—like standing on tiptoe, you can touch the sun.

Give life time to make your dreams come true

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All efforts are to pursue the realization of the inner beauty of that thing, don't lose your ideals and beliefs.We must firmly believe that everything is for a better future.Don't rush God's arrangements, give life time to realize your ideals.

—American journalist Anna Louise Strong

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Do you have a dream?If your answer is "no", then you will not have too many opportunities to be appreciated by others, and your life will not be beautiful enough.This is definitely not alarmist talk, because dreams are the support of a woman's spiritual world and the green space of a woman's soul.A woman without dreams has a shriveled or even barren soul. No matter how beautiful she looks, she will not be attractive. This is like a diamond that has lost its light.

In this regard, the philosopher Zhou Guoping once said: "A person with a dream and a person without a dream live in completely different worlds." If you travel with that kind of person without a dream, you will definitely feel It's boring.When there is a bright moon in the sky, at most they say that the moon is like a pancake, and they will never have the pride of "when will the bright moon come, ask the sky for wine". Facing the vast sea, they only see a big pool of water, and they will never be like Andersen Thinking of the daughter of the beautiful sea...

Some women originally had dreams, but as they grow older and social competition intensifies, various trivial matters in life occupy most of the time and give up their dreams.When it comes to dreams, some people will shake their heads helplessly and say that dreams are just an impossible hope after all; some people will even laugh at them and say that dreams are just children's arrogance.

If you think the same way, then you will often feel lack of energy, physically and mentally exhausted; feel that life is like a pool of stagnant water, boring and boring, and you can't see the cycle of hope!Because nothing can replace the weight that dreams occupy in a person's spiritual world, and cannot replace the spiritual pleasure it brings.

A woman who is really kind to herself will always be kind to her dreams, relying on her dreams to cultivate her own sentiment, cultivate her own temperament and self-cultivation, and add a pink negative to the gray reality.Undoubtedly, the life of this kind of woman is bound to be colorful and more able to win the appreciation of others.

26-year-old Xu Ning is ordinary-looking and has an average figure, but she has always been a woman with dreams.When she was in school, she dreamed that she had a youthful and beautiful smile and had very good grades; when she was working, she dreamed that she had outstanding work ability and met the boy she liked; when she was in love, she imagined having the most beautiful wedding dress in the world, which everyone envied The beautiful bride, longing to give birth to a healthy and beautiful baby...

In this way, Xu Ning is like holding a paintbrush, constantly sketching the outline of life, and slowly approaching the appearance of her dream.She found that dreams are so important, and even dominate her own happiness. If there is no future to look forward to, she will have no motivation to live every day; if she has yearning, she will be full of expectations for the future and have the courage to meet challenges.

At the college reunion, Xu Ning, who is still so beautiful, made the students' eyes shine, especially some female students asked Xu Ning for tips.Seeing those students whose faces were full of life trivialities, Xu Ning asked: "What is your dream?" "This is your misfortune, because a precious thing in life—dreams, is gone." Xu Ning just loves to "dream", but she has more than the whole world.

A dream is a desire for life and oneself in one's heart, and it is a magical thing.With dreams, people will become active, not afraid of challenges and difficulties.Once the dream takes root in your heart, you will always give people a hopeful feeling around you, and others will naturally move closer to you unconsciously.Therefore, don't let the trivialities of life defeat your beautiful self, and weave gorgeous and beautiful dreams for yourself.

The easiest thing in the world is persistence, but also the hardest thing.It is easy because everyone can do it as long as they have faith in their hearts; it is difficult because there are too few people who can really persevere and give enough time to their dreams.No matter how cumbersome life is and how difficult the situation is, those women who persist in their dreams will eventually transform from the ordinary and become a temperamental woman admired by everyone.

Ms. Mary Kay in the United States suddenly received a notice of demotion at the age of 46. The reason made her feel very uncomfortable: she was discriminated against because she was a woman.Mary Kay, who suffered psychologically, decided to establish a company that provides equal opportunities for all women, helps more women realize their self-worth, and enriches women's lives.

On September 1963, 9, under the support of this dream, Mary Kay formally established Mary Kay Cosmetics Company.At that time, the company's capital was only 3 US dollars, the office space was a 5000-square-meter warehouse, and the employees were only 46 ordinary housewives, but Mary Kay was full of longing for her dream and worked very hard.After several years of continuous development, Mary Kay has become a large multinational cosmetics enterprise group, with the best-selling skin care products and make-up brands in the United States. Now it has 9 million beauty consultants, with branches in 130 countries and regions. Turnover of 36 billion US dollars.

Millions of women around the world have become beautiful because of Mary Kay Cosmetics, and they have gained opportunities to develop their careers because of it.At the same time, Ms. Mary Kay was also named the female elite of the 20th century by the American TV website.It all started with a thought, a simple dream, from Ms. Mary Kay.

After Ms. Mary Kay was dismissed, she did not respond negatively, but infected tens of thousands of women with her dreams, so that they could live a beautiful and wonderful life just like herself.If she just thought about it and didn't put it into action, it would be impossible to have such a great achievement.Therefore, if you want to change your temperament and even your life, then take your dream as a "commitment" to your life, and practice it seriously and seriously!
How long has it been since you had a dream?What is your aspiration?do you remember?Stay young forever, buy brand-name clothes and shoes, and have a happy family?No matter what it is, work hard for life, strive for ideals, follow your heart, on the track of time, don't complain, don't give up, you will finally reach the destination in your heart and meet your best self, Life will also be wonderful and meaningful.

Solitude is a good time in life
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A person's world is very quiet, so quiet that you can hear your own breathing and heartbeat.When you are cold, give yourself a coat; when you are hungry, buy yourself a piece of bread; when you are sick, give yourself a piece of strength; if you fail, give yourself a goal; Smile.

——Xi Murong, a famous contemporary painter, poet and essayist

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Most women are afraid of being alone. They always feel that loneliness means having no friends and life is monotonous.As everyone knows, the lack of solitary life is far more terrifying than loneliness.

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