Rebirth of the Mobei family

Chapter 285
Not only Bai Wenli, but even the Yuxi brothers and sisters laughed wryly at this, what can be done, they can only mix with chopsticks.

He wanted to have money to spend, but he didn't want to work hard. Where in the world could he find such a good thing? Qin Baichuan could only sigh when he encountered such a situation.

Bai Wenli expressed his thoughts deeply.

"Brother-in-law, in fact, after the fourth brother got married this time, I planned to let go.

They have all married and established businesses, and they have all become the head of the family. I also have my family. My focus cannot be placed on them. I also have my own ideals.

I just thought about letting them make their own way. If you keep spending money like this, it won't be a long-term thing.There will be a day when you will not be able to do anything. At that time, what will you do if your brothers and sisters are still short of money.

Let's put it bluntly, you are just a worker, and you can earn a lot of money, but it is very difficult for you to help everyone alone, but they still don't feel it, you should find a way to wean them. "

The word Bai Wenli made Qin Baichuan feel very fresh, but he also understood the truth of what his brother-in-law said.

"Actually, I have had this idea for a long time, but I can't stand my mother coming to make trouble..."

Bai Xinyi said later, "If you don't make trouble, they won't give up. If you fail once or twice, they will stop thinking about it. If you make trouble like this, give it once. If you say people don't make trouble, you will go to trouble."

Yu Xi patted Qin Baichuan's shoulder from behind.

"Uncle, I can understand your mood and situation.

But your approach is not advisable. If you continue to do this in the long run, you will only develop the idea that they depend on you. They have no money to ask you to go, and the children in the family have no money to go to you when they get married.

How much money do you have to support these people, don't forget, you still have your own home, and your own life and work.

Sometimes you are not helping them but hurting them. There is an old saying that you can't save the poor.

Poverty is not terrible, what is scary is that people have become accustomed to this way of life, you can find a way to make them stop thinking about it, which can also be regarded as cultivating their own independence. "

Bai Xinyi echoed from the side, "That's right, look at what my niece said, it's still a child's point of view, look at your family is so big, can't you catch up with a child's mind?

If you want me to say that I will try not to give them money next time, and try to earn money by myself. No one’s money is blown by strong winds. Look at my brother who personally sends sheep to the mainland to earn some money. It's a long way. I heard that there are no lodgers on the way, so I sleep in the wild. This is the difference. "

Bai Wenli laughed, "Brother-in-law, in fact, don't make trouble about this, every time you give less and cry more.

After a long time, they have lost their minds, and it's not like we don't want to help. If any family is really in an urgent situation, it's not too late for us to help, and the money will be used wisely. "

Qin Baichuan admired this brother-in-law more and more. This kind of person looks rough on the surface, but he definitely has a brain in handling things.

Being able to move here from northern Xinjiang, where there is nothing left, to the current situation, let alone the fact that the brother-in-law and his wife are working hard, their brains are definitely good.

"Okay, let me give it a try, I don't know if it will work or not."

The personalities of the people in my family are somewhat different from those of the Bai family, and the situation of the Bai family is also different from theirs.

He has both parents. Although the old father is still alive in the Bai family, the old man basically doesn't take care of things. The boss of the family is Bai Wenli.

As far as his brother-in-law's temper is concerned, if he is disobedient and dares to prick him, he will definitely not get used to their problems.

He can't do it. There are parents and brothers and sisters. Although Bai Xinyi is also a sister, her wife still defends her brother very much.

Just because this younger brother has been helping her when she was in the most difficult time, Qin Baichuan gave this little brother-in-law a special look.

"Uncle, let me teach you a good way. If there is such a thing next time, you ask my aunt to come forward. Are you afraid of your wife?

Auntie, you should be more aggressive in the future. You don't owe them anything. This is the most appropriate thing for you to say. Don't forget, you are the hostess of this family. "

Bai Xinyi smiled and stroked her niece's long hair, "Little girl, Auntie didn't hurt you for nothing, next time I will try as you said.

Baichuan, if I am aggressive, you should also cooperate appropriately. I am not unreasonable, but because of the scoring situation. They treat us like a bank, so I have no choice but to speak up. "

Qin Baichuan agreed with a good attitude at the front.

The Bai family was going to have a happy event, so as long as Bai Wenli's ex-husbands and dogs still remembered the brother's affection, they would basically come here to chase favors.

Da Jun and Li Rui heard from Geng Mei that Bai Wenli had also returned, and the two of them had long gone to Bai's house to help.

When everyone was done chatting, Yu Xi called Li Rui and Da Jun together to talk about his affairs.

Geng Mei and the other old ladies hurriedly dealt with the things brought by Bai Wenli.

When Gu Li saw that Bai Wenli had brought so many things, she felt a little bit sorry for Geng Mei's family.

"Sister-in-law, this time the fourth child got married, your family did not miss out."

While busy with the work in hand, Geng Mei said, "Your elder brother said that there is only one brother left to get married, so he has to do his best as the boss.

The situation over there is not optimistic. The third child just got married and doesn’t have much savings in his hand. This is the only younger brother left in the family. There is an explanation for our deceased mother-in-law. "

Gu Li was very emotional, "Sister-in-law, these years have not been easy for you. Wenyi, the third child and the fourth child in our family are all responsible for these weddings. It is estimated that the money you have earned in the past two years has gone here fill.

Our family, Wen Yi, said that he will remember the kindness of his eldest brother and sister-in-law for the rest of his life, but unfortunately he is also pressured by his previous debts and temporarily has no energy for it. "

Of course Geng Mei knew about Bai Wenyi's huge debt back then.

"Gu Li, I really admire you, I know what's going on with our second child, and you're willing to be with him.

When your elder brother and I talked about you, I felt that you were really not an ordinary woman. "

Gu Li sighed, "Sister-in-law, Wenyi treats me well, I think it's worth what I do for him, as long as we both work together, the debt will be repaid sooner or later, as long as my man is here, I'm not afraid of the rest. "

Bai Haoran hasn't seen this cousin for a long time, but seeing that this guy is now fat and white, it seems that this second aunt takes good care of him.

"Haochen, how much did you score in the final exam?"

Bai Haochen stuck out his tongue, "Brother, I didn't do as well as you guys, but my dad said, as long as I try my best, I think it's fine if I don't study well. Very good, I will look up to my uncle from now on."

After Yu Xi finished talking, when he came out of the room, he heard the younger brother say this, so he reached out and knocked him.

"Hey, you can make excuses for yourself if you don't study well.

Bai Haochen, let me tell you, my dad doesn't read much, but he reads as much as we do.

My dad is still studying at such an old age. Is there any reason for you not to study hard? Let me tell you. If you don’t study hard next time, I will ask my elder brother to train you well. "

(End of this chapter)