The happiness of crossing every day

Chapter 735 Being a mother is actually very hard

A woman who is always abused by her own man, even if she is divorced for the first time, when she remarries, she will find the second man who abused her again.

Chen Yuanyuan used to have a colleague who had been divorced four times.

Then these four husbands were all men who liked domestic violence.

Although there is an authoritative survey in my society, it is said that nearly 1/3 of the men in China have once committed domestic violence against their women.

However, Chen Yuanyuan feels that one-third of the men do not mean that every man a woman meets when she gets married must be a man who likes domestic violence.

A seemingly obedient woman likes to find that kind of bastard man as her husband. In fact, there is no difference between the two of them in essence.

That woman is only superficially well-behaved, but in fact she has a special request in her heart.

And this kind of request is the inner driving force for her to find that husband.

She longs for rebellion and longs for a free life.

But the actual conditions do not allow her to live a more self-contained life.

Therefore, she projects through that need, onto a man who is completely different from herself.

So it can be said that those women who have found domestic violence men as their husbands several times, they actually like to be domestic violence in essence.

……

Therefore, Chen Yuanyuan, who has seen a lot of human nature, is a little indifferent to her daughter's complaints at this time.

She didn't have any special thoughts, she didn't feel sorry for her daughter, and she didn't feel the purpose of what her daughter said to her.

"Girl, you picked that man yourself. Now that you have such a big belly,... well, I think, if you don't have the arrow to turn back, you won't regret it."

"But it doesn't matter. Fortunately, you don't have a marriage certificate with him now, and you haven't held any banquet with him. It's a mess. So, there are remedies!"

"If you want, after you give birth to this child, we will take care of this child."

"You can do what you really like when the time comes. For example, go abroad to study and see more of the world outside."

"It's also like traveling outside and making more foreign friends outside."

When Chen Yuanyuan said this, she looked at her daughter meaningfully.

"A person's life is either long or short. Therefore, the most important thing is to make yourself happy, carefree, and happy."

"You are still so young! It is already very hard to get pregnant now. When the time comes, you will give birth to the child, take care of the child, and raise the child bit by bit. Teach him the principles of life. Let him know the ways of the world. "

"It's not normal to be a mother. You can't do the work of a family by yourself. Then I will have a hard time if your man doesn't help you..."

Chen Yuanyuan and Gao Xinyue chatted while eating.

At this time, Gao Xinyue's mood was relatively stable, and she didn't have that manic tendency.

Therefore, she roughly listened to what Chen Yuanyuan said just now.

However, after hearing those words, Gao Xinyue frowned instinctively.

"Mom, I know all the things you said. I have known for a long time that it is not easy to give birth to children. A few days ago, my legs were very cramped. Then who felt dizzy from sadness. So I think it’s really not easy to have children.”

Chen Yuanyuan shook her head helplessly when she heard such a childish remark from a daughter of her age.

"Girl, leg cramps, dizziness, those are trivial things, the important thing is that after giving birth, you will feel that your body is much different than before!"

"Pregnancy is really hard work. The process of giving birth is also very difficult. Many people died directly on the operating table, never being able to open their eyes again. You must know that the current maternal mortality rate is as high as 1 /2500!"

"There are all kinds of complications."

Chen Yuanyuan shook her head when she said this, "Hey, I won't tell you so much now, anyway, you are pregnant now, you just want to think about how to take care of your baby after you give birth... "

"If the child follows your man's surname, then you don't want me to take care of the child. No matter what I do, I will not take a person with a foreign surname. I am not idle."

"If you must be with that man, then you can help her take care of the child. Carry it yourself."

"If you figure it out and want to study abroad or do something, then I can help you take care of your children."

Gao Xinyue was very upset when she heard what she said.

He straightened his face, and said angrily to his mother, "Mom! Aren't you threatening me?"

"I've always been a down-to-earth person. I never thought of cheating other people's feelings. I never thought of taking advantage of others. I'm not the kind of woman who likes to worship money. I figured it out since I was a child. , this life is really short. So, I have to leave something in this world. "

"Things like fame and wealth, money, etc., are actually not the pursuit of my life. I think it would be good to have a few more children. As long as I have a few more children, those children will Remember me. And, my husband will treat me well."

When Chen Yuanyuan heard her daughter say these words stupidly, she was not in the mood at the time and talked to her daughter.

"You got it!"

"What's the point of having a baby?"

"If you really want to leave something in the world, then you should delve into a certain field and make some achievements. Leave your mark for the whole world. Then let everyone remember you. "

"Give birth to a man... Can you make your children remember you? If you don't know how to make money and have no strength, look at the children you gave birth to, will they take you seriously?"

"As a mother, I used to run a company! I made a lot of money. But what about your daughter? You still have to mock me every time. I said I really don't know. What achievements have you made so far, and then treat me as your own mother, and keep looking through the crack of the door..."

Gao Xinyue was caught by her mother's words, and her face flushed immediately.

Without thinking about it, she shook her head vigorously and denied it.

"Mom, I didn't. How could I think that?"

"You got it wrong..."

Chen Yuanyuan was too lazy to tell her daughter about this matter, so she shut her mouth tightly in time.

Stop talking.

Chen Yuanyuan took a big sip of the mutton soup, and her whole body became lazy at that moment.

delicious!
This is what my man cooked for himself before he went out.

(End of this chapter)