The happiness of crossing every day

Chapter 715 A moment of pain is better than a lifetime of pain

Some women are smarter than others.

Since the men she met were not good ones, then she simply wouldn't marry.

Anyway, no one stipulated that a woman must be married when she is born.

No one has written that rule into the constitution, saying that it is illegal for a woman not to marry or have a few children in her life.

As a free-thinking, self-independent person, she has the right to decide her own way of life.

She is not a mindless beast.

Nor does it mean that she has to get married once a certain time comes.

As long as she wants, she can do whatever she wants and whatever she doesn't want to do.

Especially in her own field, such as her own home, she can rely on her own freedom to eat whatever she wants and drink water whenever she wants.

Some women's married life is really miserable.

In her last life, Chen Yuanyuan heard about a female colleague who worked as a miscellaneous in the film crew. After she got married, as long as she lived under the same roof with her parents-in-law, her parents-in-law would challenge her with various habits. Refined.

Also known as finding fault.

When she eats, she likes to eat slowly.

After all, chewing slowly is good for your mouth, esophagus, and stomach.

However, as soon as her mother-in-law saw her eating like that, she would unceremoniously accuse her of being hypocritical.

What are you pretending to be, Miss.

He also said that she is shameless and likes to carry it.

If she opened her mouth to argue a few words, her mother-in-law would start to lose her temper as if greatly irritated.

The bowl in his hand fell on the dining table, and then he slapped the dining table hard with both hands.

Then, the veins on her forehead popped out.

Scolding people, hysterical.

"What are you?! How can a junior like you talk to an elder like this?"

"It's such a misfortune for our family that we have someone like you in our house!..."

Some people's mouths are bad and poisonous.

You don't need to use your brain to curse others to die, they just blurt out.

The mother-in-law of that female colleague has such a bad character, and when she found that man, she naturally also has such a virtue.

When her man saw his mother scolding his daughter-in-law, he never persuaded a fight.

I never know what is right and wrong.

He always stood on his mother's side according to his instinct.

He yelled at his daughter-in-law.

"You bitch! Apologize to my mother! Are you a daughter-in-law like this? How dare you contradict your elders?"

"Just like you, you are worse than a beast!"

"Why don't you go to die? You go to die! You dead beast!!"

The man raised his throat, hysterical, and helped his mother finish scolding his daughter-in-law, and he still felt puzzled.

Sometimes, he would hit people directly.

In Chen Yuanyuan's previous life, she watched helplessly that the 30-year-old young woman had aged a lot since she hurriedly got married.

It's more than 10 years old.

After that woman got married, her whole life, in her own self-deprecating words, was really, "life is worse than that of an animal..."

When she was at home, she was picked on by her parents-in-law every day, beaten and scolded by her own man, and angered by them.

After leaving home, she has to spend an extra experience at work.Work harder and work harder.

Because she was married at that time, men didn't care about things, her father-in-law and mother-in-law treated her as an outsider, guarded her every day, and were reluctant to give her a penny.

Therefore, she can only support herself.

Work by yourself, earn money by yourself, and then save a large sum of money for pregnancy checkups, childbirth, and hospitalization for confinement.Money for your body.

Because the man she was looking for had already said it repeatedly in front of her.

"I told you a long time ago that after I got married, I was determined not to spend a penny from my parents. If I did, I would return it back intact. So, you married me, You'd better prepare the money for the childbirth yourself. Or, you can borrow it from your natal family yourself!"

"Because my ability is limited and I can't earn much money. It's more than 2000 a month, and I can only take care of myself. I don't ask you for money, it's already a good thing. So, the matter of giving birth , don't count on me, and don't count on my parents!"

The man often expressed his attitude, and then, after the female colleague worked hard, saved enough 5 yuan, and then spent the money on her own childbirth, the husband she found actually I found her cheeky and came to her work unit.

In front of so many people, her husband had the cheek to ask her for it, "We agreed before we got married, I will take care of your salary from now on!"

"We have been married for several years, and we have one child. When will you give me your money?"

"You, you just don't have integrity! Usually, spending money is extravagant. If you earn tens of thousands, you can spend tens of thousands, and if you earn thousands, you can spend thousands. Whoever marries a daughter-in-law will be like you, a prodigal Girls?"

"Give me your salary card!"

"If you don't give it to me today, after you go back, let's see how my mother will deal with you!"

"You are always shopping on Taobao and Taobao all day long. If you have that time, why don't you know how to earn more money outside? Someone else's daughter-in-law earns tens of thousands a month, how about you? It looks like eight or nine thousand!"

"It's really worthless!!"

……

In fact, in the blind date market, many young women will meet the kind of older men and young men who are eager to get married and marry a wife.

In fact, according to Chen Yuanyuan's years of experience, there is definitely something wrong with those who are in a hurry to marry their wives.

And the problem is not small.

Last time, Chen Yuanyuan had a colleague. She was urged by the man every day, saying that she should meet up quickly and settle the matter quickly.

Then get married quickly.

After she was forced to marry the other party in a hurry, she suddenly discovered that the other party had a hidden disease.

He has epilepsy.

Moreover, he had been married once before.He has a daughter with his ex-wife.Then that daughter also has hereditary epilepsy.

Being cheated into marriage by such a man, if it was Chen Yuanyuan, she would definitely run as fast as she could.

She doesn't care if she gets married again from now on, or if her price has dropped!

Pain for a while is better than pain for a lifetime.

Some men are really, really bad.

Suffer from epilepsy, or have cauliflower, or have other genetic diseases, or have serious mental illness, such as glass heart, cuckold complex, distorted mind, thinking every day whether others will Look down on me and think about it every day, my daughter-in-law can't put any psychological pressure on me...

(End of this chapter)