The happiness of crossing every day

Chapter 465 Boys and girls are different

"Grandma, don't you say that?!"

"Actually, boys and girls are the same. Why are girls losing money..."

Chen Yuanyuan's voice was gentle and soft. After saying this to Jiang Lijuan, Jiang Lijuan jumped up as if she had been stimulated by some kind of stimulation.

"Yuanyuan, why are you so confused?"

"How could it be the same for a boy and a daughter? If they were the same, why would there be such a large group of people in the countryside who would drown her immediately after giving birth to a girl? And they still drowned in the cesspit."

Gao Jiangyuan, who was sitting on the side, was silent for a while after hearing this.

Then, because he was a little anxious, he took the paper and started to work on himself.

Jiang Lijuan saw that her son was gone, so she broke up with Chen Yuanyuan like this: "Yuanyuan, you are young, and you don't understand many things. I understand this matter. So I will explain this truth to you right now , break it up and say!"

"Don't listen to people outside saying that boys and girls are the same! That's all a lie! I'm just going to settle accounts with you now."

"For a baby girl, you have to bring her up! Generally speaking, you have to raise her for 18 years, right? During these 18 years, the food, drink, clothes... what kind of thing? No money?"

"When she gets married, how much dowry money can the man give? The dowry money is too much, and people say that I sell my daughter. If I don't give the dowry money, they say my daughter is a bargain. The dowry money they gave is still worth it. Not to mention the cost of raising one's own daughter for a year in some families!"

"Besides, this girl doesn't want to stay here. If she stays, she will become enemies! When she gets older, she really wants to marry out and become a member of someone else's family. So, Yuanyuan, just listen to me and raise her." Daughter is not to please."

When Chen Yuanyuan heard such words, she did not rush to refute.

Instead, he asked in a soft voice.

"Grandma, is that really the case?"

When Jiang Lijuan saw what she said, her daughter-in-law was suspicious, so she said it directly without thinking about it.

"Of course it is true. As a person who has experienced it, how could I lie to you?"

"I have lived decades longer than you, and I have eaten more salt than you have eaten rice. Anyway, I have summed it up, a particularly profound life experience."

"Actually, it's more blessed to have a boy than to have a baby. It's also more cost-effective. Yuanyuan, think about it for yourself. If you give birth to five or six boys for our family, then wait until those boys grow up. When we grow up, our old Gao's family will be able to take in another five or six good wives."

"Daughter-in-law, that's labor!"

"In the family, those who can produce more people and more labor force for no reason will surely be able to live a prosperous and prosperous life in that day."

"Look at those, those who have several daughters in their families without a single son, those parents who worked so hard to raise their daughters, only to wait until their daughters are married, their It's been a rough day."

"The two elders are thirsty, hungry, and sick at home. Those married daughters, who cares about them? They still live their own lives. They don't take their parents seriously."

"Their sons-in-law are after all outsiders who have no blood relationship. Seeing their father-in-law and mother-in-law suffer, they can at most carry a few catties of fruit and a few dollars to see them. Others look at her house The son-in-law, who cared about them with his things, began to praise them repeatedly with their thumbs up, saying that this son-in-law is good."

"But in my opinion, these things are really worthless. I just think that the son-in-law is extremely hypocritical..."

"It's all fake kindness."

When Chen Yuanyuan heard such words, she was not in a hurry to express her point of view.

She just followed her mother-in-law's wishes and said, "Grandmother, hearing you say that, I feel like my mind has suddenly opened up a lot."

"Actually, if you think about it carefully, it seems to be such a reason..."

When Jiang Lijuan heard her words, it resonated with her daughter-in-law.

She immediately put aside her prejudice against her.

He directly brought himself a cup of tea and took a sip.

After moistening her throat, Jiang Lijuan said a little excitedly.

"Yuanyuan, why isn't it such a reason?"

"Let me tell you, if from the beginning, there are really a few dependable people and boys in the family, then the couple don't have to worry about their own pension issues at all."

"Anyway, this girl and boy are all raised, why can't we raise one, which is more cost-effective?"

"This son was born for myself, and the daughter was born for someone else's family. Especially those daughters who choose to marry far away, Yuanyuan, let me tell you, it's better to give birth to such a daughter from the beginning. She drowned in a cesspit..."

"..."

Chen Yuanyuan heard her mother-in-law say such heartfelt words to herself at this time.

She really wanted to give her a thumbs up at this moment.

She took it.

Completely convinced.

She had never experienced this era before, so how could she have imagined that, logically speaking, people in this age should be that kind of simple and kind.

Not so much patriarchal.

However, when she got in touch with this era deeply, Chen Yuanyuan felt that in this era, once the warm gauze covering her appearance was lifted.

That is a cruel world.

"Mom, you just said that there are many families in the countryside who drowned directly in the cesspit after giving birth to their daughters... Is this true?"

"Aren't you scaring me?"

"How come I haven't heard of it before?"

When Jiang Lijuan heard her daughter-in-law say such a simple sentence, she murmured in her heart, this daughter-in-law is really simple-minded.

It's no wonder that she was raped by her own son when she was only thirteen or fourteen years old.

For such a simple-minded person, if her son doesn't want her, what will happen to her? Just thinking about it in her heart now, she knows that she will never be able to please her for the rest of her life.

"Yuanyuan, what I told you, do you really think I'm lying to you?"

"Patriarchal patriarchy can be found everywhere."

"Actually, it's not that I really don't like girls. Let's put it this way, I'm a lesbian myself. How could I not like girls?"

"The reason why I'm telling you these things is that I mainly want to tell you that this girl is a loser. It's not worth raising a girl!"

"The group of people in the countryside, after giving birth to a baby girl, throw things everywhere."

(End of this chapter)