I, who lived in seclusion for thousands of years, was exposed by yearning

Chapter 389

"Of course I understand. Don't you mean that when you want to make a move, first stimulate others to do it, and then fight back with what you said is a legitimate defense."

"No no no..."

"No, sir, that's not what we mean."

Everyone waved their hands and shook their heads.

Although the old man's meaning is correct, he can't say that in front of the camera.

What if the children are taught badly.

"Old man, we are all educated people, so let's not talk about whether to do it or not."

"Yes, we still focus on peace."

"Grandpa, I want to ask a question."

"Just ask."

Zhang Zifeng recalled the post he saw for a moment in his mind, and said to his grandfather:
"Didn't you just say that an apology can be accepted but not necessarily forgiven? But I once saw a post on the Internet. It was a girl who accepted someone else's apology but didn't forgive others. The girls around said that she It's very stingy, and it's very fussy. And if the two of them have any disputes again, everyone will think it's the girl's fault, and it must be the girl who remembered the previous incident."

After she finished speaking, she frowned slightly and asked her own question:
"I agree with your acceptance, but I don't necessarily forgive you, but if you don't forgive me, let yourself fall into this storm of speech, what should you do?"

She had seen a lot of this in school, especially among girls.

Those girls felt like they were messengers of justice, they concluded the mistakes and helped others to speak.

So in order to avoid the harm caused by the storm of speech, do you have to forgive the other party when others apologize?

"Be fearless first, and then use your own way to treat your own body."

Ye Qing heard his granddaughter's narration, tapped the wall of the cup a few times with his fingers, and then gave the answer.

To experience the storm of speech, you must first strengthen your heart, and not caring is the first thing to do.

After all, the mind is fragile, and after listening to it for a few days, you may become autistic or depressed.

But today's children really don't know the difference between good and evil.

I thought I was standing at the highest point of goodness, but in fact it was nothing.

After he finished speaking, he swept his eyes around the children around him, and then turned to the camera with some seriousness:
"Giving kindness is not blindly following without eyes or ears. If you are really kind, you need to grow your brains, first clarify the correct three views, and use your brains to see the truth of things before speaking for others. Both Smart people, who would not let go of a little thing."

What he said should be clear enough.

The brain is a good thing, so why do you have to be someone who doesn't have a brain?
"Yeah, if it's just a small thing, how can you not forgive it. It's just that people nowadays just follow the trend without thinking about the root of the matter."

Hearing what the old man said, Huang Lei nodded in agreement.

He has also heard of such things, especially those who are rich or famous, they encounter more such things.

As long as something breaks out on the Internet, and the truth of the matter is not yet clear, most people will help the victimized party, and the spearheads are all those who are higher in status.

What's more, sometimes it is clearly the so-called victim's fault, but some people will still say that they have already apologized, so don't be reluctant to forgive what happened to your family.

"The old man is right. It is right to be kind, but you have to be kind with your brain, don't go with the wind, and use your own judgment." Guo Degang also said.

"So the brain is a good thing, it needs to work more."

Peng Yuchang also nodded.

He felt that the words the old man gave him before could finally be used to talk about others.

"Leave that to yourself."

Yixing put his hand on Peng Peng's shoulder and patted it twice.

"Brother Yixing doesn't take you like this. I also have brains and three views, and I can distinguish between good and evil."

Peng Yuchang pouted.

Although he knows that he is sometimes stupid, he still has some brains anyway.

Besides, his three views are still very upright, so he won't blindly follow the trend to criticize good and evil.

"Yes, yes, at this point, you are still great."

Yixing nodded and smiled.

This Peng Peng is really interesting.

Ye Qing looked at the two children and smiled, then put the cup in his hand aside:
"It's getting late, Dalei, take Yixing to cook first."

"Okay, just now you have a chat with the old man, I will show you some Lu cuisine today."

Huang Lei stood up and replied.

This Degang is from Jin City. It just so happens that he hasn't cooked Shandong cuisine for the old man yet, so he can change the taste for the old man today.

"Then you have to do it well. If I pick out the fault, your reputation as a chef will be gone."

"Can you find fault?"

Hearing Guo Degang's words, Huang Lei raised his eyebrows at the other party.

That expression doesn't match the question at all.

You can say it in your mouth, but the feeling is actually that you dare to find faults?

But in terms of seniority, he is a little higher than Degang's seniority.

"How can it be."

Guo Degang naturally saw the meaning in Huang Lei's eyes.

He has lived here for two days, so how could he say that the cooking is not delicious.

Isn't there a saying, don't offend the cook if you offend anyone, unless you don't want to eat anymore.

"Then you talk, old man."

After Huang Lei finished speaking, he entered the kitchen with Yixing.

"Degang, judging by your relationship with Da Lei, it seems to be pretty good, right?"

"Yeah, I remember when Qi Ling was on the show before, when he saw Mr. Huang opened his mouth, he called him uncle."

"Who is Qi Ling?"

"He is Teacher Guo's son, and Qi Ling is also a very interesting person."

"It's just that your child is called Uncle Da Lei? What are your seniorities?"

Hearing the child's explanation, Ye Qing turned to look at Guo Degang.

Why does this seniority sound so weird.

Da Lei's age should not be much older than De Gang's, right?

But why did Degang's son call Da Lei the uncle?The difference in seniority is a bit high.

The audience in the live broadcast room also became curious.

"Speaking of this, I also remembered it. When Qi Ling came to be a guest last time, I saw Lao Huang saying that he was an uncle. I was curious at the time. Now that I mention it, I can know the answer."

"This seniority is really weird. Although our old Huang has a lot of status in the entertainment industry, but Lao Guo is not low. Qi Ling is called an uncle at most, why is he called uncle?"

"There is only one fact. Lao Huang's seniority should be higher than Lao Guo's, otherwise Qi Ling wouldn't call him that."

"No way?!"

"Since looking forward, everything is possible."

"Forget it, let's listen to what Lao Guo has to say, Lao Guo, please tell us quickly."

While the audience was urging for an answer, Degang's answer came from the screen.

"The relationship is good. Several younger generations in the family have a cooperative relationship with him. Our music industry is an industry that pays attention to seniority. In terms of seniority, he is above me."

(End of this chapter)