understand man in seconds

Chapter 9
The man who can't live without his mother

Understand a man in five seconds and understand a man in seconds No. [-]: Mabao

Features: All mothers must have a mother who loves and takes care of them, especially in single-parent families.Mabao's mother will regard her son as the best man in the world, and feel that no one is worthy of her son.

Ma Bao will tell her mother almost everything.Any problems that cannot be solved will be handled by my mother.

As long as the mother is opposed to something, Mabao will definitely oppose it; whatever the mother approves of, Mabao has no ability to resist.

Love code: falling in love with him is worse than falling in love with his mother.

Real stories to understand men in seconds No. [-]: Ma Bao

In this chapter, I want to talk about a type of man that has appeared more and more in the past ten years, called Mabao.

The man in the previous chapter was called Xiaoman, but in this chapter he was named Xiaobao.Although it is a pseudonym, all the stories come from real cases.

Xiaobao was born in a Northeast family, but lives in the South.

When Xiaobao was in his teens, his father passed away unfortunately, and his mother took him to remarry to the south.

Because the stepfather is from the south, and Xiaobao's mother is afraid that her son will suffer, so she behaves very strongly everywhere.In the new family, it is still Xiaobao's mother who has the final say.

Mother loves Xiaobao very much, she is afraid of melting in her mouth, and afraid of falling in her hands. Just one question about reading, I don’t know how many moths have happened, choosing a school, choosing a teacher, choosing a teacher, etc. Classroom, choosing the same table, and even the parents of Xiaobao's friends in the school have done a survey.

Taking care of his son like this, of course Xiaobao followed the rules and never dared to go one step further.

After finishing high school, I thought I could be free, but on the contrary, my mother forced Xiaobao to lower his ambition and enter a university in the same city.

Directly lowered from one book to two. The mother didn't want her son to go to a good school, but she heard too many examples of children who went bad after going to college. She felt that her son was too young. Go to a school that is almost the same!

So, Xiaobao went to the university in this city.On the first day of school, his mother took Xiaobao to sign up, and then helped him make a bed in the university dormitory, fetch water, buy a meal card, and then left the son there for a night.

From the second day on, Xiao Bao became a day student, going home to sleep every day.

Because his mother found out that his son had been bitten three times by mosquitoes. Mosquitoes are so fierce in autumn in September!His mother said that Xiaobao had never been bitten by a mosquito since he was born.Those are all broken places, I can’t live anymore, I’m going home to live.

This is all right, Xiaobao's chance to be independent for the first time in his life has been stifled.For four years in college, he only studied in school and had to go home after school.

His mother doesn't let him fall in love, and doesn't even let him have too much contact with his classmates, saying that there are many bad people now, and seeing that he is a local, they will trick him into spending money on treats or something.

After graduating from university, Xiaobao actually didn't learn much, and he didn't have any interpersonal relationships.But it doesn't matter, he has a good mother!

His mother straightforwardly helped him find a job, and even paved the way. From the boss to the boss's boss, it was all his own relationship. As long as Xiaobao went to work there, he would be safe and sound, and nothing would happen. will come out.

To this day, Xiaobao no longer has the intention of resisting his mother's management.

On the contrary, I feel that what my mother said is right.For example, let's talk about the class reunion. Others have to dress well when they go to the class reunion, and they all brag about how good their work is!Xiaobao's mother said, what if someone finds out that you are well and borrows money from you?So let him ride his bike in tatters.

For example, his mother felt that the women in the company were all greedy for his family's wealth and power and would not treat him well, so he never dared to associate with female colleagues.

Now Xiaobao is 31 years old, but he still has no ability to live.The clothes he goes out every day need his mother to take care of them and button them for him.Not to mention washing dishes and clothes, he doesn't even know how to turn on the rice cooker to serve him. He just eats every meal by himself, and his mother struggles to serve him.

When Xiaobao goes to work every day, he must finish his breakfast and then take the lunch made by his mother.Go to work by renting a dedicated driver and car.

It's not that his family has no money to buy a car, but his mother is worried that Xiaobao will have a car accident while driving, so she simply charters a car for him all year round.

A few times when the flu or something spread, the mother simply refused to let Xiaobao go to work, and took more than a month's leave to stay at home.

Under such meticulous care, Xiaobao finally successfully turned into a flower in the greenhouse, unable to withstand even a little wind and rain.

But no matter how many flowers there are, he still has the time to spring!

A few years ago, Xiaobao didn't know what bad movie he watched (mother's words), and he became full of enthusiasm, and he wanted to fall in love with all his heart.At that time, when he was commuting to and from get off work, he would often meet a girl who was said to be very pretty.

And Xiaobao said that every time the girl saw him, she smiled at him, she must be interested in him.

So Xiaobao fell in love with each other.

But the problem is, Xiaobao doesn't have the courage to strike up a conversation at all, so how can he know that girl?

His only solution is to come back and ask his mother for help.

Although the mother is not happy that her son is looking for a partner by himself, but after all, it is the son's first love affair, and the mother will do it no matter what.

The mother began to squat at the entrance of her son's company, and her hard work paid off. It took a week to finally wait for the girl.Sure enough, she boldly rushed forward and asked the girl for a way to contact her.

The girl was still baffled at the time, but Xiaobao's mother bluntly said that since you have liked my son for so long, girl, I will give you a chance to date today.It stands to reason that your conditions are not enough to enter my house, but it is still enough to accompany my son to fall in love.

The girl was so angry that she almost called the police, but she didn't know what was going on until she called the security guard.In fact, why did this girl fall in love with Xiaobao? It was simply because she was a sunny person and always had a smile on her face. It was Xiaobao who pretended to be affectionate and thought that the other party was smiling at him.

With such a big oolong, Xiaobao's family has become a joke.Mother was very upset.

She thinks how outstanding her son is, there is nothing in heaven and earth, and if she is given a chance to fall in love with that girl, the other party should kneel down and be grateful, how dare she not like Xiaobao, this girl is absolutely blind.

After this incident, Xiaobao no longer dared to fall in love by himself.It wasn't until he was 30 years old that his mother became anxious. After all, carrying on the family line is a big deal!
So he arranged various blind dates for Xiaobao.

Xiaobao's mother put forward many requirements for the girl. First of all, she must graduate from a university, preferably a graduate student, because the future genes must be considered.My son is so smart, if the daughter-in-law's IQ is not enough, won't it affect the grandson?

Secondly, the height must be more than 1.6 meters five.Because Xiaobao is not tall, for the sake of family genes, he needs to be neutralized.

And then, girls must be upright, don't want anyone who can sing and dance, don't want anyone who can drink, don't want anyone with a bad temper and a loud voice.

According to this condition, there are quite a few girls, but they were very puzzled when they saw Xiaobao, they couldn't figure it out!Why do you have to be a graduate student with an ordinary second-year graduate degree?Your own height is only 1.6 meters five, why do you want to find a girl taller than you?
Xiaobao's mother told the introducer that her son is a beautiful girl, extremely intelligent, he has been a genius since he was a child, he knows astronomy and geography, he is more handsome than Andy Lau, he has no flaws at all, he is the most perfect man.

As a result, the girl came over to take a look, what, he was just a short and fat man!
This kind of wrong product happened several times, and the introducer couldn't take it anymore, and asked Xiaobao's mother to be realistic and lower the requirements.

But Xiaobao's mother is really not lying, she really thinks her son is so good.Can recite ancient poems at the age of two or three, isn't it a genius?He knows everything when chatting with his son. Doesn’t he know astronomy at the top and geography at the bottom?Isn't Xiaobao more handsome than Andy Lau?What's so good about Andy Lau losing weight?

After a long time, Xiaobao finally found a girlfriend.In the mother's eyes, this girl is indeed a little ordinary, not worthy of her son, but for the sake of reproduction, it's fine.

But before falling in love, the mother had a long talk with the girl, and the content was nothing more than how to take care of Xiaobao in the future.The conclusion is to say with a sigh that Xiaobao is still a child and deserves to be taken care of by the girl.

The girl actually endured it at that time.

That's why I often say that when a girl is in a relationship, she has almost no sense at all.She can't react to the problems that others can see at a glance on weekdays.

Anyway, the two began to fall in love.During the dating process, it's okay for Xiaobao to live at home all the time, it's okay for the girl to go home for dinner every date, and it's okay for him to serve him meals and vegetables in front of his mother when he gets home.

What really made the girl explode was that once Xiaobao's mother quietly asked the girl to talk, and the content of the conversation turned out to be all kinds of physiological common sense, such as sexual indulgence hurting the body, such as men's sperm and ten drops of blood.

The girl was puzzled at first, but later she realized that she and Xiaobao slept twice this week.

And Xiaobao would tell his mother everything, even explaining honestly about having sex twice a week.As soon as his mother heard that the intercourse was so frequent, she became anxious at that time, and hurried to find the girl, and asked her to pay attention, so that Xiaobao would not hurt himself.

The girl turned her face on the spot.If this can be endured, then this woman deserves to be killed by Mabao.Fortunately, she came to her senses and escaped from the clutches of the devil in time.

Later we heard that Xiaobao got married once, but not long after, he got divorced under his mother's insistence. After that, until he was 40 years old, he lived happily with his mother.

Understand men in 5 minutes and understand men in seconds No. [-]: Mabao

The first characteristic of Mabao:
Every mother must have a mother who loves, manages and takes care of him.

Each of us has a mother, and basically all mothers love and care for their children.Not only is this okay, it's human nature.

But the relationship between Mabao and mother is different.Their mother had only one thing on her mind, and that was her son.The son is heaven, and the son is everything in the world.So, she can completely destroy her own life for her son, or she can destroy someone else's life for her son.

As long as it is what the son says, it is right; as long as it is what the son wants, others should sacrifice.

This is for the mother whose son can destroy the world.

The second characteristic of Mabao:

The mother will have an irrationally high opinion of her son, and convince her son of it.

Almost every mother of Mabao feels that her son is the best man in the universe.

In this world, there is simply no second person who can surpass him.

But anyone who is better than his own son in terms of objective data can find out their more serious shortcomings, and even make up various shortcomings.

And this kind of evaluation of the son will also be instilled in the child from an early age.

Therefore, you can see all kinds of unreasonable self-confidence from Mabao.

They obviously have many shortcomings, but they feel that these are their own advantages.The evidence for their thinking is also very simple, that is, "my mother said it".

Mothers' evaluation system for the world and their values ​​all come from their mothers.Mother thinks he is the best, he is the best.

The third characteristic of Mabao:

Moms will tell their mothers about almost anything.

When we were bullied in school, we usually told the teacher, or went home and told the parents.Once you reach a certain age, you won't do it again.

But Mabao is different. They grow up physically, but never grow up psychologically.

No matter what happens to them, their first reaction is to tell their mother.Whether it's work, relationship, or anything, there's nothing my mother doesn't know.

It is actually not uncommon for Xiaobao to tell his mother the secrets in the room.Sometimes, even if Mommy doesn't say anything, the mother will ask.

If you're with Mommy, don't expect any personal secrets.After you quarreled today, you don't have to wait until tomorrow for the fucking call to come to your door.

The fourth characteristic of Mabao:

Ma Bao will always listen to his mother, as long as his mother asks him to do something, he has no ability to resist.

Because Mabao has lived in the care and love of his mother since he was a child, they actually have no ability to leave his mother's sphere of influence.

It's like telling the teacher as soon as something happens, and you have to do whatever the teacher asks you to do.

Most of the mother's treasures are, on the one hand, the mother's baby, and on the other hand, they are also the mother's accessory.

So, if someone wants to be with Ma Bao, the only possibility is to have a good relationship with Ma.

If mom likes you, this man will be with you no matter what.

But if mom doesn't like you and wants this man to break up with you, even if this man loves you to death, he will definitely break up.

And they don't take it as something wrong at all, they just think it's filial piety.His mother wouldn't think it was wrong, she would only think it was for her son's good.

In the end, the only one who was hurt was the woman.Anyway, the other party is a kind mother and a filial son, and the abandoned girl can only be a villain.

(End of this chapter)