understand man in seconds

Chapter 4

Catch a few little secrets of Gao Fushuai

Understand Men in Five Seconds and Understand Men in Seconds Part [-]: Tall, Rich and Handsome
Features: Every tall, rich and handsome man will have his own career and something he is good at.Regardless of whether they are rich or poor, they all have the experience of earning money and doing business by relying on their own hard work and talent.

In other words, every tall, rich and handsome person is a professional expert in some field.Moreover, tall, rich and handsome people generally have a good appearance, good taste and tutoring, which is essentially different from rich and rich.

Love code: There is no shortage of girls around Gao Fushuai, but they have relatively high aesthetics.They fall in love, but choose their wives carefully.Most of the tall, rich and handsome hope to find a woman who is truly worthy of them.

And this woman, in addition to being beautiful, is more importantly, spiritually independent.

Real Stories Understand Men in Seconds Part [-]: Tall, Rich and Handsome
I talked about the rich second generation before, and it has been clearly mentioned that the rich second generation is completely different from Gao Fushuai.

But many people always blur the boundary between the two, so I want to open a chapter to talk about what it is like to be rich and handsome.

Because of the environment and the problems in the circle, I have met quite a lot of tall, rich and handsome, almost all types and personalities.Today we are talking about a relatively calm and dull type.

This man is a researcher.The so-called researcher is someone who does research in a certain laboratory or a certain university. If he has achieved certain results and written some papers, he can be regarded as a scientist.

This researcher is named Xiao Nuo.

Xiao Nuo's family is quite rich.In a big city, his father is a high-ranking government official, and he is quite famous in the academic world. He is really a scholarly family and the second generation of officials.

Generally, the second generation of officials, just start a business, open a company, and make some money.

But Xiao Nuo was different. He plunged headlong into academia. He got very good grades in school since he was a child. Later, he studied abroad. The European Max-Planck Laboratory wanted to keep him, but he refused and returned to China.

After returning to China, he stayed in a university's academic research institute for a year, and the topics he brought aroused considerable repercussions, and it was believed that he could raise the academic level of the university to a higher level.

But just because he was so outstanding, Xiao Nuo was envied by many people.The academic world is similar to the officialdom, with all kinds of exclusion and siding.Xiao Nuo only wanted to do things on his own, and never liked to participate in such silly things. When someone provoked him, he didn't bother to move out of his family, so he simply resigned.

After resigning, Xiao Nuo found some classmates and started a company.That's right, part of his research results are still the current high-end technology, which has considerable application value.

Although Xiao Nuo wants to rely on his own strength and does not want to rely on his family background, he lives in such a group and circle, and he has a special relationship waiting for him in everything he does.

As soon as the company was opened, many monopoly companies came to the door immediately, wanting to do long-term technology licensing.Xiao Nuo started the business with ease, and the money flowed in like flowing water.

Xiao Nuo was not short of money, and now that he has the means to make money, he lost interest in doing business immediately, so he simply handed over the company to a friend, set up a research room by himself, and continued to do research.

Don't think that Xiao Nuo is the kind of technical geek, although he is very technical and very nerdy, but in fact, he loves to play and travel.In the years of college, I have traveled almost half of the world.

He is tall and handsome, and he goes to high-end places.Moreover, what he usually uses, eats, and drinks are beyond the reach of ordinary people.It's not that he's after luxury goods, it's just Xiao Nuo's ordinary life.

As such a person, naturally many girls like him.

Xiao Nuo is less than 30 years old, but he already had double-digit ex-girlfriends.It's because he's homely enough, and he doesn't want to take the initiative to pursue people. That's because the girls are chasing him!
Although his girlfriends change frequently, all the ex-girlfriends praised him, saying that Xiao Nuo is the best type of boyfriend.

He is a decent person, he doesn't go out to eat, drink, prostitute or gamble, he spends generously, basically he can buy whatever he sees, without considering the price and value at all.He has his own pursuits and hobbies, and he is willing to devote extra effort to a research project, and he will not be like a rich second generation.

What's more, he is tall, rich and handsome, and he will definitely have face when he goes out. There are servants and drivers in the family, and basically nothing needs to be done by girls. Although he is not particularly romantic, he has a memory like a computer, and he will never forget any anniversary. .

If Xiao Nuo has a shortcoming, it is emotional uncertainty.

But this matter can no longer be changed by manpower.A typical tall, rich and handsome person like Xiao Nuo, no matter where he throws it, is a first-class dream figure, always surrounded by all kinds of girls.

To put it bluntly, all he had to do was hook his fingers, and any girl would come to him.Even if he didn't hook his fingers, he would rarely be tempted to see his girls.

With a model figure, a star appearance, a net worth of hundreds of millions, and an aristocratic family, how could such a small promise be eaten and lived by a certain woman?

So he started dating girls because of the novelty, and when the novelty passed, he immediately lost the reason to date others, so he had no choice but to break up.Xiao Nuo felt that it was immoral to be with someone without loving her, although many girls would rather him be so immoral.

After Xiao Nuo graduated, she spent a full ten years making various girlfriends.Many are very good.Among them are beautiful actors, singers, and dancers; smart lawyers, scholars, and even several foreign women, all of whom are from wealthy families.

But none of these people became Xiao Nuo's destination, but instead raised his vision and taste to a higher level.In the end, Xiao Nuo found that although there were many girls around him who pursued him, there were fewer and fewer who caught his eye, and even fewer attracted him. He seemed to have found no one he could fall in love with. .

Xiao Nuo was 35 years old and still unmarried, and his parents became anxious, telling him that if he couldn't marry a wife and have children within two years, then they would intervene and complete a family marriage.

In desperation, Xiao Nuo had no choice but to spend more time on finding a wife.

That's right, even though Gao Fushuai has so many girls around him, and has had so many ex-girlfriends, they still can't get a wife.

So whether you can get married really has little to do with your own conditions. The most important thing is to see how high your bottom line is for choosing a spouse.People with too high bottom line will still have difficulties no matter how good the conditions are.

Xiao Nuo embarked on a journey of choosing a spouse around the world, and his friends laughed at him as choosing a concubine.But in essence, he was just dating everywhere.

There are indeed many girls introduced to him by others, and the quality is indeed high, but Xiao Nuo just can't choose.

Xiao Nuo returned home angrily.He was indeed discouraged, and felt that his family would arrange a marriage for the rest of his life.

But things often come to light when things are at the end of their ropes.

That day, Xiao Nuo ran to the bank to transfer money.The amount of transfer is a bit high, more than 1000 million, and must be done in the bank.

With Xiao Nuo's wealth, of course there is a special VIP room for him, but the equipment of the VIP room was broken that day, and the whole hall was closed, so Xiao Nuo could only handle it in the lobby, and the manager asked him to intervene. formed a team.

There was a long line of people in the hall, and when they saw the manager leading Xiao Nuo to jump in line, everyone was very upset and kept talking about it.But when Xiao Nuo opened his mouth to handle more than 1000 million private transfers, there was a sudden silence in the hall, and everyone was stunned.

Just when everyone lowered their heads and didn't dare to meddle in other people's business, a girl stood up and asked Xiao Nuo to line up at the back.

The manager came forward to explain, saying that he was running a big business and so on.

The girl was uncompromising, saying that it doesn't matter if you have a lot of money. If you have money, you can go to the VIP room. If you are not in the VIP room, you must abide by the discipline of the hall.Since everyone is queuing up, there should be no ranking. This is not something you can make yourself noble with money, because this is not a noble occasion.

Everyone agreed with the girl's words.Xiao Nuo thought for a while, but she didn't mind at the end of the line.

That's right, Gao Fushuai's tutors are generally quite good, and they don't need special status and services to show their existence.In other words, their self-confidence is enough, and they don't need to worry about anything.

This is actually a very small thing, and no one remembers it in the past.

But Xiao Nuo somehow remembered that girl firmly.That's right, the moment Xiao Nuo was scolded by that girl, Xiao Nuo actually felt like being hit.

But it doesn't mean that he will fall in love with whoever scolds him, isn't that a bitch?

There are several reasons why Xiao Nuo fell in love with that girl at first sight.

First of all, that girl is very good-looking, very good-looking.There are different types of men’s evaluation of a girl’s appearance—if a woman is sexy, she can sleep but not marry; if a woman is dignified, she can marry, but she doesn’t want to sleep; Usually the woman is not very good looking but kind hearted.

Only when he thinks that girl is very, very good-looking is he truly attracted to him completely.

This girl is not particularly gorgeous, nor is she glamorous, but like the girl next door, beautiful in every way, but without the slightest aggressiveness, making people feel comfortable no matter how she looks at it.

Secondly, the girl had no awe for him.

What is the attitude and emotion that Gao Fushuai encounters the most in his daily life?That is awe.

Some people are in awe of their wealth, some are in awe of their power, some are in awe of their handsomeness, and some are in awe of their high education.

All in all, the women around her are more or less in awe.And this point of awe is why women fall in love with them.

The love that Gao Fushuai usually encounters is not equal.It's like fans' love for idols, that's what women love and what they need.

And this is exactly what Xiao Nuo hates the most. What he wants is a feeling of equality, a feeling that the other party doesn't like him at all, and no matter what he has, she just loves his talent and essence.

In the end, Xiao Nuo found that this girl was very logical. She didn't just rely on a momentary emotional attack like others, but she explained the reasons clearly one by one according to the rules and the situation at the time. irrefutable.

As a highly educated, rich and handsome man who has studied in the most logical institutions in the West, his biggest complaint to many girls is that they are nonsensical, illogical, and live only on their own emotions.

With these three reasons, Xiao Nuo faintly felt that he might have found that person.So he tried his best to find this girl.

The biggest advantage of being rich and handsome is that you have many resources.Through the bank, he easily found the girl's information and contact information.

The girl's name is Xiaowen, and she is a cartoonist.

What about the profession of a cartoonist? The top cartoonists in the country earn a lot of money. Isn’t there a rich list of cartoonists?And some comic artists at the bottom have extremely low income, and they live on paintings published by others for hundreds of dollars a piece.The cartoonists at the middle level can be regarded as having a stable income. They will not get rich, but their income is a little higher than that of the general working class. They have free time and can do their own things and draw their own paintings. They are the most comfortable group of people. .

Xiaowen is one of them.

According to Xiao Nuo's investigation, Xiao Wen has been painting for five or six years. His works are serialized on the Internet and in magazines. He earns more than 1 yuan a month. He bought a small house and a small car. He is very independent.

Xiao Nuo began to pursue others.This girl is not hypocritical. After getting in touch with her for a while, she felt that Xiao Nuo was indeed a top-notch man, and she accepted her.

After falling in love, the girl's life hasn't changed much. She still lives in her own small house, drives her own car, and occasionally makes appointments for dinner or something. She never asks for big things from men. Sometimes when Xiao Nuo gave some branded bags, he was told that he didn't need them.

When I brought the girl home, she was very polite to the old man, but she didn't mean to flatter her. It was normal. As I said before, she didn't have any sense of awe for power and money in her heart. .

Not long after, Xiao Nuo and Xiao Wen got married.All Xiao Nuo's previous girlfriends were shocked.They felt that Xiaowen's background was not very good, and she was not very beautiful, so why did she end up being her?

This matter starts with knowing Gao Fushuai in seconds.

Identify men in 5 minutes and understand men in seconds [-]: Tall, rich and handsome
The first characteristic of Gao Fushuai:
They are generally well-born and well-educated, but they don't eat and drink on the gold and silver of their parents' generation.Most of the tall, rich and handsome have their own careers and pursuits, and they even do better than ordinary people.

If you compare Gao Fu Shuai with the rich second generation, you will find that they are fundamentally different.The rich second generation don't want to do anything, they just want to enjoy; the rich and handsome may also enjoy it, but they are often the best in a certain aspect, and through their own hard work, they get material enjoyment.

If a person's material comfort comes too easily and does not require any effort, the pleasure you can get in the end will always be insufficient.

It's as if you are tired from shopping, and when you buy something, you will feel full of pleasure.But without any effort, it is easy to get things from others, and I always feel that there is not so much pleasure.

The rich and handsome have made corresponding efforts and have a certain status in a certain cause.So they get the most satisfaction in the end, and they are extremely confident.

The self-confidence of the rich second generation is based on being rich, while the self-confidence of the rich and handsome is based on the fact that the money is earned by themselves.

The second characteristic of Gao Fushuai:
They like beautiful women and have very high aesthetics.

Good looks are the basis for falling in love with Gao Fushuai.

That's right, don't think it's vulgar, it's just human nature.

The basis of a man's love is desire, and desire is linked to beauty.

Basically every tall, rich and handsome man has very good conditions, that is to say, they definitely have no shortage of women.

A friend of mine once said: The symbol of being rich and handsome is that women are no longer valuable in front of him.

In all kinds of situations where there is no shortage of women, there are too many choices for tall, rich and handsome, and there are also a lot of beautiful girls, so naturally they will not fall in love with others.

Therefore, Gao Fushuai has an aesthetic bottom line in his mind.

Girls who exceed this aesthetic bottom line are those they can or are willing to associate with, and girls who do not cross this bottom line will not consider it at all.

Therefore, many girls are always dreaming that Cinderella meets the prince.

Will such a story happen?of course.But the premise is that Cinderella itself is beautiful.

Otherwise, the prince is just passing by.

The third characteristic of Gao Fushuai:
They love beautiful women, but only when they are unique.

The rich and handsome have almost everything: money, power, relationships, social status and women.

And with so many people, what is the most annoying thing?That is repetition.

In this day and age, there are actually a lot of beauties.It is said that beautiful women are economical, leading many girls to think that as long as they have a good skin, they can eat with this face.

This is of course wrong.

Because only the appearance, or even relying on plastic surgery to improve the appearance, will only make this beauty more and more assimilated.

So, when you see a girl of this type, you feel very good-looking.And when you meet a bunch of these types of girls, it feels like everyone looks the same.

Therefore, some tall, rich and handsome people are blind to beauties with awl faces and big eyes.It's not that there is something wrong with the ability to distinguish, but that I have seen too many of this type, and it is difficult to tell who is who.

Only the appearance that does not overlap with other people's beauty and has its own uniqueness will be firmly remembered.

Many girls always feel that their faces are not good here and there, and they want to imitate others and have plastic surgery.

In fact, these differences are precisely what makes you unique.Don't pay attention to the flaws on the face, the flaws are the character of a person's appearance.The exact same beauty, that is the same face.

You have to make yourself beautiful to stand out.

The fourth characteristic of being rich and handsome:
They like people who don't care about them.

At first glance, this point is a bit "bad".

But in fact, there is normal psychological logic.

Ordinary people, if they don't have any spiritual pursuits, just look for beautiful women.Anyway, just look at the appearance, any kind of beauty is fine.

But most of the tall, rich and handsome have spiritual pursuits.They like girls who are different and hate repetition the most.

And the people around you, what is the biggest repetition?It's a woman who fears them, fears them, needs them, and even covets something.

For such a woman, Gao Fushuai is only interested in dewy marriage, and absolutely not interested in marrying home.

The girl who can really make them fall in love and think about it for a lifetime is definitely the kind of girl who doesn't care much about the conditions and identities of being rich and handsome, and who is not very afraid that they will leave.

The greatest value of a woman is that she doesn't care about a man's departure at all.Because after they leave, this woman will not become worse, and will even become better.That woman is independent.

And it is precisely this kind of woman who is not afraid of being tall, rich and handsome that can win their favor and awe.

Therefore, if you want to be a rich and handsome wife, please make yourself a proud princess first.

(End of this chapter)