daily quirks

Chapter 63 Breaking Up With Cold Violence? (1)

As the saying goes: "Long-term pain is worse than short-term pain.".There is also a saying: "cut the mess with a sharp knife.".It can be seen from this that in everyone's eyes, simply and decisively may be a good way to solve the problem. Just imagine, if someone wants to kill you, are you willing to solve it with a knife, hit the vital point, and kill you on the spot, or are you willing to be killed with a knife? Slash and bleed to death?I believe everyone will choose the former. Long-term torture is far more uncomfortable than one-time injury. This can also explain why some couples have been married for many years, but they are separated because of some small details in life, and some couples divorce vigorously and resolutely. Still sitting and eating together for years to come.

A few days ago, I happened to see a Sina big V talking about cold and violent incidents in love.It probably means that if you want to break up, break up, don't let it be so cold and violent. My best friend is relatively simple, and I always think that it is my problem that I am reviewing myself and trying to please my boyfriend.

Then I randomly searched for things about cold violence, and I found that, in fact, when you are in love, you often encounter cold violence, and many of you don’t even know it is cold violence.

A friend I met, Mumu was one of the girls, the kind of girl everyone knows who has encountered cold violence.

Mumu and her boyfriend Liangliang met in college, they were classmates, and even from the same hometown. The two met at the hometown meeting when the university just started. At that time, Mumu only thought that Liangliang was really handsome. Generous and decent, and very good at talking, he is the type of male god that girls like.

I believe that Liangliang also had certain feelings for Mumu at that time, otherwise he would not have secretly asked for Mumu's phone number and QQ after the hometown meeting, and then started pursuing Mumu crazily.

Mumu is the kind of girl from a pretty good family. She is not rich or powerful, nor does she have any bullish background, nor is she a second-generation official or rich second-generation girl. She is just loved by her family and has a good income. She is also an only child. Six people spoiling one, isn't that spoiling heaven, so Mumu has been living comfortably since she was a child. Although she can't say that she can stretch her hands to eat and open her mouth, she rarely does housework.

When Liangliang first started pursuing Mumu, everyone was a freshman at that time, and Mumu indeed had a unique temperament that some girls did not have.Liangliang thought to herself, her family background is not very good, and the girls she met before were not the type of Mumu. Mumu is full of self-confidence, and she behaves like a lady. Haagen-Dazs, wearing Louis Vuitton, even the worst sneakers are Adidas.And what about Liangliang?That's Meters... Bonwe.

So when facing Mumu, she is a little spoiled and self-willed, Liangliang thinks it is quite normal, is this a princess disease?At that time, Mumu was a princess in Liangliang's eyes, okay?It is not an exaggeration to say that just one piece of clothing that I admire can last a year.

So at the beginning, Mumu didn't know anything, but Liangliang endured it and accepted it. Who told him to chase a princess?

When Liangliang first started chasing Mumu, he knew that Mumu had everything, so he didn’t give some things like others, such as small gifts, because Liangliang knew that people would not appreciate the things he gave. I don't know, if I come here because of Mumu's preferences, then I will go bankrupt and I won't be able to afford it.

So Liangliang took the considerate route.

During that time, every time Mumu left the kettle at the door, it was already full when she remembered to fetch water; every morning she had classes, couldn’t get out of bed, and had no time to eat. When she arrived at the classroom, she found Liangliang at the door. Carrying the prepared breakfast; the weather is cold in winter, and the way back from evening self-study is very dark and cold. Liangliang will carry a warm handbag and flashlight to accompany Mumu back to the dormitory.In this way, Mumu also gradually began to pay attention to this boy whom he had a good impression of at the beginning.

Although this boy looks very poor, and the clothes he wears are not up to date with the trend, apart from his good looks and natural height, there is nothing that Mu Mu likes.These days, what's the use of just being able to speak? Is there still a shortage of boys who can speak in this university?
At that time, Mumu had only started school for half a year, and there were many suitors around her, some of them were from good families, and there were also some excellent seniors. Every time there was a festival, Mumu would always receive many gifts, all kinds of various.Expensive ones like Burberry scarves, Tiffany jewelry, and even Coach bags.There are also some cheap ones, such as perfume and lipstick, which are not very expensive, but the kind that girls can't refuse.

But every time Liangliang's gift is different from others.

For example, at Christmas, Liangliang gave Mumu a talking parrot, which would say every morning: "Mumu, the lazy pig, wake up~".All of a sudden, she overwhelmed everyone, and became the most special gift Mumu received.

For another example, during the New Year, Liangliang gave Mumu a gift of a sleeping aromatherapy essential oil and an aromatherapy lamp, because Mumu complained in the circle of friends about insomnia at night and not sleeping well, and not getting up during the day.

Liangliang's gifts are the cheapest every time, but they are all the most special and the most thoughtful.

The two soon got together at the beginning of their sophomore year. When they first got together, everyone was shocked. Everyone was surprised. With so many people, why did Mumu find the poorest one? Woolen cloth?
The two are also going well together, at least it seems so to everyone, and so does Mumu.

Every time the two of them had some friction, it was because of Mumu's petty temper. Every time Liangliang would first apologize and then beg for forgiveness.

So the two of them had nothing to do until they graduated from university.

At that time, the two made an appointment, and they would go back to their hometown to work. It would be more convenient for them to work and get married at that time, and it would be more convenient to take care of the family. Both of them are only children, so it is always inconvenient to live far away.

Back in their hometown, the two of them soon found jobs and were ready to start internships because they graduated from prestigious schools and their majors matched each other.

As for Mumu, it's better to work, because there are family factors.

As for Liangliang, because of her good performance in school, good records, many scholarship records, and a lot of awards, her job search went smoothly.

At the beginning, both of them were very busy. Although they were in the same city, they got together less often and left more often. Every date ended in a hurry, and sometimes they broke up because of Mumu's princess illness.

Later, Mumu began to realize that Liangliang seemed to be much busier than herself. In the past, she would call herself every day, and every time she got home, she would call or send a text message saying "I'm home~ today...".Now I don’t have a single phone call a day, and sometimes I don’t even send a text message. Every time Mu Mu sends a text message asking "Are you off work?" busy.

Just think about it, Mu Mu, everyone is a little busy when they just came out to work, and a few girlfriends are also very busy recently, they don't see people every day, and they can't make an appointment every time they go shopping.Mumu just thought, everyone should be considerate to each other, Liangliang has treated her well all these years, nothing happened, and no matter what it was, she always apologized first and never got angry.

Mumu just thought, don't bother Liangliang when she's so busy and struggling. Isn't the current effort all for the future of the two of them.

But later, Mumu realized something was wrong.

Because although Mumu and Liangliang are in the same department, they are not in the same major, nor are they in the same class. Although they take many classes together, so they are very close, they are not in the same class after all, and people are still different.However, because Mumu is cheerful and generous, and we often attend classes together, Mumu has a good relationship with the girls in Liangliang's class.

One day, Mumu was bored at work and finished her work. When she checked Moments, she found that a girl in Liangliang's class had posted a small video. The text on it was "Students gather in class, the handsome guy sings very well~".Mumu clicked on it and saw that the singer was indeed a boy in their class, but those present seem to have seen Liangliang.

Mumu was very strange. She asked this girl in private, and the reply she got was that Liangliang did go, and she had a good time, and she didn't leave until very late.

This Mumu felt strange, this Liangliang didn't even have time to call and send text messages with him, why did he have time to attend class gatherings?

But Mumu didn't talk about it, and felt that it was nothing to do just once, not to mention that no matter how busy the work was, normal communication was necessary.

But in a few days, Mumu was slapped hard.

Because of the class reunion last time, Mumu pays more attention to Liangliang's classmates, and sometimes she will specifically open to see if there is any Liangliang in the circle of friends of these people.

Huangtian pays off, finally let Mumu find out.

Mumu found in another girl's circle of friends that among the people eating barbecue at a table, there was a hand that looked like Liangliang. After clicking on the video, hey, isn't this the watch I bought for Liangliang? Either it is bright.Watching this video, not long after the dinner party started, Mumu called Liangliang.

After calling for a long time, Liangliang finally answered the phone.

"What are you doing? Are you busy?"

Liangliang was a bit noisy there, and he could hear that Liangliang was in a noisy place, and then suddenly fell silent after a while, Liangliang said: "I'm having dinner with a client. Is there something wrong?"

"Your customers are so strange that you like to drag people to the barbecue restaurant." After Mu Mu finished speaking coldly, he kept explaining brightly and hung up the phone.

Then Mumu received Liangliang's text message, which probably meant to tell Mumu not to think about it, and he was at work.

Mumu didn't say anything, and went to sleep on her own.

But the next day, there was indeed an improvement. At least Liangliang called Mumu before she went to bed, and told Mumu to go to bed early, and she was still working overtime, so don't think about it.

Mumu saw that Liangliang took the initiative to call herself, but said nothing, the two chatted, then hung up the phone and went to sleep.

But Mumu found that, in fact, there was no change in essence.

What is it? Mumu sent text messages, and Liangliang replied, and Liangliang answered the phone calls. The topics were just some daily pleasantries. Not only did they not sound like a couple, but they sounded like friends they were not very familiar with.

But Liangliang never took the initiative to contact Mumu.As long as Mumu doesn't contact Liangliang, Liangliang won't take the initiative to contact Mumu for two or three weeks.

Mumu began to feel that something was wrong, why did Liangliang suddenly behave like this?Did I do something wrong?What made Liangliang angry?Mu Mu began to criticize herself, but after thinking about it, Mu Musi couldn't figure out what she did wrong. In the end, she could only attribute it to her bad temper, and Liangliang was too busy recently.

So Mumu intentionally called Liangliang more, her tone became more gentle, she also began to pay attention to her attitude when speaking, and she also stopped losing her temper.But Liangliang is still the same, cold, and doesn't say much, let alone affectionate, even the daily greetings are very official, just like watching the cold news broadcast, talking about things that are not his own.

After a few more times, Mumu couldn't bear it anymore. Since everyone is unhappy, why not just break up? What's the point of procrastinating like this?Mumu sent a text message to Liangliang, saying that she wanted to break up.

Just after the text message was sent, Mumu was just about to delete Liangliang's number, when Liangliang's phone call came, and she began to apologize to Mumu, which probably meant that she was very busy recently, so there was no misunderstanding. I hope Mumu doesn't take it to heart. I also want to make more money and plan for the future of the two of them. I don't want to break up. I hope Mumu will give me another chance and don't break up. The two of them walked away from their school days. It's not easy so far, everyone took a step back and promised on the spot that they would never treat Mumu like this in the future, and Mumu would definitely reply on time when she sent text messages and ask for warmth.

Mu Mu was immediately amused by this man who almost stripped and pleaded guilty, and the two of them let go of their suspicions and went back to the past.

Mumu found that the breakup was really effective. Liangliang called herself the same as before the next day. It was really just asking for warmth, and the text messages were really answered on time. Mumu was very happy.

Mumu felt that she might be really self-willed. She was a little busy, but she missed her that much, broke up, and did this and that. It was really unreasonable to make trouble. No wonder she was busy and ignored her. It's all your own problem.

Mumu thought that this problem of hers really needs to be corrected. It shouldn't be like this. It's not easy for everyone. I just graduated and it's time to struggle. I shouldn't make trouble like this and break up at every turn. This kind of good man , thinking about the future of the two of them all the time, I should cherish it, how can we break up?

Mumu just thought, the holiday is coming soon, Liangliang should also be resting this time, the two of them will go out to watch a movie together, have dinner, take a walk, let the two of them have a good talk, this is better, get together less and leave less There are always many problems, and misunderstandings must always be clarified. If you hold it in your heart like this, any kind of person will be suffocated.

(End of this chapter)