daily quirks

Chapter 29 Stupid Kindness

Everyone will always encounter some harmful things done under the banner of goodwill in life. For example, a few days ago, I replayed "Forensic Pioneer", in which Gao Yanbo's wife Gu Zeyao believed in Sister Yu. After drinking the so-called folk prescription given by Sister Yu, she was poisoned to death by mylabris. In it, Sister Yu kept emphasizing that this is medicine, it is for curing diseases, how could it harm people?Obviously everyone in my hometown eats this well, so why did it kill people?

Because of goodwill, so-called unproven so-called folk remedies were fed to a terminally ill patient. Is this really goodwill?Some people have said that a dead horse should be treated as a living horse doctor, just try your luck.But this kind of behavior itself is very irresponsible. The so-called folk prescriptions originally refer to prescriptions that have not been scientifically verified.Moreover, many folk remedies in China contain a lot of toxins. For example, the so-called "Golden Elixir" that the emperors were obsessed with in the past, there are many emperors who died after eating the "Golden Elixir".Looking around now, many people are doing such stupid good deeds.

Every year there are so-called "animalists" who buy tortoises and put them in the water, or buy a lot of birds from the flower and bird market, release them in the mountains, and what's more, they even buy poisonous snakes, rabbits, etc. The release of human beings, these behaviors are actually very stupid.These people under the banner of "protecting animals" are also doing the same thing as Sister Yu, doing a kind of stupid good deed.Tortoises will only drown if they are placed in water; the birds in the flower and bird market have been domesticated by humans, and many of them have lost their ability to survive long ago. Rabbits, rabbits and other creatures are released at random without choosing a location, which may harm the local residents in the released place, or damage the original food chain and ecosystem of the released place, which is not worth the candle.

Every time something unfortunate happens, someone will comment on Weibo of some rich people, why don't you donate money, why don't you donate things, why you, as the richest man, donate so little.However, does it matter how much people donate to you?Have you donated money yourself?A rich man's money is not just for nothing, but earned by a drop of blood and sweat. You have never witnessed their hard work in making money. Why do you decide how much money they donate?What does it matter to you whether people donate or not?Do you remember the great benevolent Cong Fei back then?Cong Fei funded so many people back then, what was the end result?Everyone said that Cong Fei funded a bunch of white-eyed wolves!Some people felt that they were ashamed of being subsidized after they grew up, severed all ties with Cong Fei, and even called Cong Fei to delete his name from the article interviewed by the reporter.Some even went so far as to say that Cong Fei funded himself for a purpose, for hype, and for other purposes.Some even called Cong Fei when he was seriously ill in bed to ask when Cong Fei would recover and make money?Is this something you, a sponsored person, should be doing?Yes, funding is originally a kind deed, an act that does not expect anything in return, but as a sponsored person, you have enjoyed the kindness of others, even if you are not grateful, you don’t have to hurt someone who once helped you like this mind?
Do you think that under such circumstances, these people still need to do these kind deeds?What's more, these so-called charitable acts are not mandatory behaviors. What right do you have to impose on others whether to donate or not, and how much to donate?
I often see some people sigh on the Internet, now that the Internet is developed, cats and dogs can surf the Internet. In a word, it is very easy to be a keyboard warrior.Especially under the banner of goodwill, the whole world seems to be on his side, regardless of who is right or wrong in this matter itself.Everyone just thinks, I did a good deed, I did it because I was kind, you don’t need to praise me, my name is **.

These so-called "**", have you really thought about whether what you are doing is right?When you help a murderer to complain about injustice and ask the victim to forgive, you still think it is a kind deed, is this right?On the show, the host can openly force a child who was abandoned back then to forgive his mother. If he doesn’t forgive her, everyone will say she is wrong, but who is wrong first?While you speak for this mother, have you ever wondered what life this child would have lived without a mother?Under such circumstances, you still think that what you are doing is a kind deed, is that right?
In the face of domestic violence, some people do not condemn the domestic violence party, but instead persuade the victim of domestic violence.You are husband and wife after all, if you are a couple overnight, you will forgive him for a hundred days.In the face of robbery, some people do not condemn the robbery party, but instead persuade the robbed person.He must have had a last resort to rob, so please be kind and forgive him.In the face of being blackmailed, some people feel that this blackmailer is really pitiful. She must be forced to take blackmail. You should be kind and forgive her. It is best to help her a little bit to arouse her conscience and build a harmonious society together. .

Do you really feel that what you are doing is kind?Do you really think that you are doing justice for the heavens, are you an idiot?Can these people really be forgiven?Could it be that if you don’t have money, or have unavoidable difficulties, you can do domestic violence, rob, or blackmail people?Isn't it the victims who should be most sympathetic?

Every time everyone thinks that they are kind, they persuade the victim to forgive, but is this really kindness?Why is there a law? The law is to punish some illegal behaviors. Why do people not think that these illegal behaviors are wrong, but think that it is wrong and unkind for the parties not to forgive?What's the difference between this stupid kindness and putting a tortoise in the water?Do you think this is good intentions and a good thing, but what results did it bring in the end?

There are some programs that think that by exchanging the children in the mountains with those in the city, the stubborn children in the city can be changed.I feel that I have done what I should do, but have you ever thought about these children who were transferred from the countryside to the city inexplicably, and then thrown back to the countryside by you inexplicably, what changes will happen to the whole person's growth?You think you have done kind things, but have you ever thought about being kind to this rural child?You think you have changed the stubborn bad kids in the city, but what do you think about the good kids in the countryside?You feel like you changed the bad kids, you turned them into good kids, you did the right thing, but what happened?Those so-called children who were transformed by the program became famous one by one by the program, and finally became the so-called "Internet celebrities". Did they really become good children in the end?Not really?What about those so-called good kids?Can you be content with the status quo in the end?Not all of it?Your program has changed innocent families one by one, do you still think that what you do is kind?
Many people think that what they do is good deeds, giving money to beggars, giving them alms.Many beggars have hands, feet, and sound minds, but they make a living by begging.Some people, although their families are poor, live by their own hands.While you were arguing with the small businessman for the fifty cents, you turned around and gave the beggar one yuan because of your so-called kindness.What do you think of this man who makes money with his hands?
Many people think that China's urban management is unreasonable, and why it is not easy to violently drive out some small businesses.But in many cases, the truth of the matter is that many peddlers refuse to change after repeated admonitions, taking advantage of everyone's prejudice against urban management, doing whatever they want, and some even deliberately slander urban management, but what about everyone?Everyone doesn't care about the real situation. When they see the urban management, they will only insult them. They think that the urban management is wrong, that it is oppressing the people, and that it is a legal underworld.But have you ever thought about what the truth of the matter is like?Do you think your kindness is really normal?
Some celebrities take drugs, and those fans feel that it is not easy to be their idol. I hope everyone can understand.Do you know how many policemen are killed every year in China to fight drugs?For the convenience of action, many of them did not even have a frontal photo until they died. Every time they were commended and every press conference, there would be no such policemen. How much did these policemen dedicate to this glorious cause? even his own life.These celebrities, relying on their own fans, are able to wash their hands after taking drugs, continue their acting career in the entertainment industry, make money everywhere, and have fans everywhere calling for understanding.Then when I was found taking drugs, I started to talk about how difficult it was for me and how much pressure I had.Is taking drugs the right thing to do?Can drug use be forgiven?Everyone says to forgive, to be kind.What about the police officers who died for the anti-drug cause?What about the families wrecked by drugs?Who is to be pitiful?Who can treat them kindly?

Everyone says to be kind, to forgive, to forgive, these things, one by one, one by one, what can be forgiven?How much free will is hidden under the umbrella of your stupid good intentions?Could it be that in this society, you are weak and you are justified?Don't you feel like you're doing the right thing?Do you feel that you stand on the high ground of morality, you hoe the strong and help the weak, you act for the heavens, you do what everyone else can't do, you are a hero, you are a ****, do you think you are doing the right thing?Isn't kindness based on being right?Is kindness that doesn’t ask anything really kindness?When you are doing so-called "kind" things, do you really feel that you are weeding out the strong and supporting the weak, and that you are doing justice for the heavens?Is the story of the farmer and the snake really true?Shall we still call on the farmers to take pity on that snake?A group of people who forgot to turn off the lights when they left the classroom during the day held the banner of "Turn off the lights for an hour", thinking that they had saved nature and the world?

Many times, stupid kindness is more terrifying and hurtful than direct malice.

(End of this chapter)