daily quirks

Chapter 14 Left-behind children
Nowadays, people's work is getting more and more busy. Many times, they can only helplessly choose to ignore the family and children. Many times, parents work outside and cannot take their children with them. They can only put their children with their grandparents. These children, Now they can be called left-behind children.Because left-behind children grow up with their grandparents all the year round, they often cannot feel the love of their parents, and some have to take on the responsibility of taking care of their grandparents early, so many of them become abnormally precocious, and even more withdrawn. May embark on the path of illegal crimes.

Xiaoda is a left-behind child.In order to improve their family's life, Xiaoda's parents went to work in the city, but they couldn't take Xiaoda with them.Xiao Da had to live with his grandparents and sister-in-law.

Xiao Da was found to have epilepsy not long after he was born.At that time, the country people didn't know what this disease was, and they didn't pay attention to it when the symptoms were mild at the beginning. They just felt that the child stayed there suddenly, and felt that the child might be attracted by something.Xiaoda was already very serious when he was discovered. At that time, the county hospital could not diagnose epilepsy as accurately as it is now. Only when the disease occurred, could the specific area of ​​abnormal discharge be detected.At that time, in order to treat Xiao Da's illness, Xiao Da's parents, who had no savings, became even poorer.Especially at this time, Xiao Da's grandma was not happy.Xiaoda's grandmother is a traditional country woman. She knows this, she is epileptic, as the country people call it.But how could Xiaoda's parents give up their child?What's more, with the medical conditions at that time, although not all of them could be cured, they could be controlled.Grandma Xiaoda, who was unsuccessful in persuading her, had no choice but to babble at home every day, pointing fingers and scolding Huai Huai, saying: "Some people~ gave birth to a disabled child, and thought they were very good~" Sometimes they would say: " I don’t have children and I don’t confine myself to confinement, I sit at home every day and eat the mountain~ I have eaten all the gold and silver~ and I have given birth to a money-losing product.” Hearing this, Xiaoda’s mother was not very happy at first, and her heart was even more unhappy, but I'm not in the mood to argue, after all, I still have to take care of my own children.

Xiaoda's grandma found that this trick was useless, so she started to do Xiaoda's father's work.At that time, Xiao Da's father opened a small bicycle repair stall on the street, and he couldn't make much money, but he was not in poverty.Regarding his mother's lobbying, Xiaoda's father didn't say anything at first, but later, every time he came home and saw his wife was not in a good mood, he knew what happened.The next time Grandma Xiaoda said something, she replied: "My own child, even if he is a fool, I admit it." Xiaoda's father just thought that Xiaoda had this problem at such a young age, and it was very serious in itself. Unfortunately, how could I leave him alone and give birth to another one?What's more, if I have some skills and earn a little more money, I can take Xiaoda to a big city to see a doctor, and maybe he will be cured. How can I give up before it is a last resort?
At that time, Grandma Xiaoda only heard that Tian Tian had brought her grandson to take care of her confinement child. Seeing Xiaoda like this, she didn't get better for several months, and Xiaoda's parents were so reticent that they went back to the countryside angrily.When I went back, I told the folks in the village that my daughter-in-law brought a diseased child from her natal family, and gave birth to a child with a diseased child in the mother's womb, which harmed her precious son and planned to harm her whole family.Those people in the countryside have been with Grandma Xiaoda for so many years, how could they not know Grandma Xiaoda's temper? Telling right and wrong is picky and picky.

When Xiao Da was one year old, because of Xiao Da's treatment, Xiao Da's parents were so poor that they spent all their money and barely bought Xiao Da a small cake the size of a palm.Xiaoda's grandma had a grudge and didn't come or call, and Xiaoda's parents didn't say anything.

It was a very hard job to take care of Xiaoda when he was a child. Xiaoda was weak and easy to get sick. When he got sick, he would have a fever. If the fever exceeded 38 degrees, he would be prone to illness.At that time, Xiao Da already had teeth, and every time he got sick, in order to prevent Xiao Da from biting his tongue, Xiao Da's parents had to put their fingers into Xiao Da's mouth and let him bite, every time the bite was dripping with blood.And in order to prevent another attack, the couple could only take turns holding Xiao Da and staring at Xiao Da to prevent Xiao Da from getting sick.

In such a destitute life, Xiaoda was five years old. At that time, Xiaoda's parents finally saved enough money to take Xiaoda to BJ for treatment.At that time, there was no medicine to treat this disease, and the medicine was under research and development. If Xiaoda was willing to participate in the trial, he could get the medicine for free.At that time, Xiaoda's parents, who were almost desperate, saw that there was a medicine, so they had no choice but to become a living doctor and participated in the trial of the medicine.

But God still favored their family. Although the medicine was not fully tested successfully, Xiao Da was the one who succeeded, and Xiao Da was cured.

At this time, Xiaoda's parents, who had lost all their wealth, had no choice but to bid farewell to their newly cured child and embark on a life of migrant workers, leaving Xiaoda at grandma's house.Grandma Xiaoda didn't like Xiaoda very much, but she was also very happy to see Xiaoda getting better, so that she could urge Xiaoda's parents to have another child.And Xiao Da's sister-in-law is a huge flower in this family.How strange is it... When Xiaoda was born, my sister-in-law was on a blind date. She thought highly of herself and was picky. Until Xiaoda was 15 years old, she finally couldn't bear it anymore and married a second marriage who had hepatitis and gave birth to a Daughter, and then mess up the relationship between my family and my in-laws... Sigh, I won't talk about this if it's not the point...

When Xiao Da was six years old, Xiao Da's parents, who couldn't hold back Xiao Da's grandma, finally gave birth to Xiao Da's younger brother named Xiao Ming.At that time, just in time for the census, Xiaoming's household registration was dropped.Since having Xiao Ming, Xiao Da's life has become even more difficult.

Xiaoda's parents work part-time in the urban area, and their salary is not high. The two of them earn about 2000 to 900 yuan. They have no place to live, so they have to live in the workshop.And because Brother Xiaoda was raised by his grandma, he gave Grandma Xiaoda [-] yuan for food every month.At that time, Xiaoda's sister-in-law opened a clothing store downstairs of Xiaoda's grandma's house, making clothes.In addition to taking care of the little grandson every day, Grandma Xiaoda washes and cooks for Xiaoda's sister-in-law, and visits the store.

Xiaoda's sister-in-law is a very insecure person, and she feels like "someone always wants to harm me" every day.At that time, Xiaoda's sister-in-law lived alone in a room. From the doors and windows to the cabinet drawers, there was no one unlocked. The keys and money go to the toilet, not to mention the usual storefront, and a customer checks out once and locks the drawer once.Aunt Xiao Da didn't like Xiao Da very much at first, because Xiao Da was very curious and always wanted to get closer to her, but Aunt Xiao Da didn't think so, she just thought that the kid might have dirty hands and feet, What kind of good child can the child's mother come from the valley.

At that time, Aunt Xiao Da fell in love with someone who gave Aunt Xiao Da a bouquet of roses.When Xiao Da and Auntie brought it back, Xiao Da saw it and thought, why is this man so stupid, he must have a card to send flowers to women~ This is always played on TV.So Xiao Da secretly wrote "I love you" on a piece of cardboard that he thought was the most beautiful, and secretly put it in Xiao Da's sister-in-law's flower.However, how could Aunt Da Da not be able to see the child's handwriting?He was furious, but he had no excuse to say Xiao Da, so he had to endure it.

Until that night, Aunt Xiao Da counted the money in her bag and found that ten yuan was missing. She thought to herself, this must be the mentally handicapped person who has such a good heart and just came in to steal the money.Xiaoda's sister-in-law told Xiaoda's grandmother overnight.Grandma Xiaoda walked to Xiaoda's room without saying a word, dragged Xiaoda who was sleeping soundly on the bed, and knelt down in the hall.Pressing Xiao Da, how could Xiao Da admit it?How can you admit it if you didn't do it yourself?Grandma Xiaoda saw that Xiaoda refused to admit it, and felt that the kid was not only stealing money but also being stubborn, so she went to the kitchen and took a few glass milk bottles and a huge plastic bag.Walking in front of Xiao Da, Xiao Da didn't understand what grandma was going to do, and looked confused.Grandma Xiaoda tore apart the plastic bag, spread it on the ground, smashed several glass milk bottles, sprinkled glass shards on the plastic bag, and forced Xiaoda to kneel on it.How could Xiaoda be willing?This kind of thing looks very dangerous, but Grandma Xiaoda thought, this little mentally handicapped boy will be like his mother when he grows up, so she forcibly holds Xiaoda down, and Xiaoda feels that the glass shards are about to pierce her. It's time to admit it.Xiaoda's grandma and sister-in-law, like victorious generals, happily called Xiaoda's parents and reported their "records", explaining clearly how Xiaoda stole money and spent it. As if I saw it with my own eyes.

So, as they wished, Xiao Da's parents rushed back to grandma's house and beat Xiao Da severely, regardless of Xiao Da's explanation.

It wasn't until a few days later that Xiao Da passed by the door of his sister-in-law's store and heard that a customer had returned ten yuan in extra change that day, and Xiao Da realized that he had been wronged.But what's the use?My parents wouldn't believe in me either. If they believed in me, I wouldn't beat myself up without asking.

In Xiaoda's childhood life, since he was at his grandmother's house, he was often beaten and scolded for no reason because of his sister-in-law's instigation.Xiaoda's sister-in-law and grandma also told all relatives about Xiaoda's money theft. Until Xiaoda grew up, every time he went to relative's house, he could see that relatives hid the money tightly for fear that he would see it.

So, everyone only knows that Xiao Da and Sister Gu are incompatible, but they don't know why.Until Xiaoda was in junior high school, Xiaoda's parents were doing well in the city, bought a house, and took Xiaoda's brothers to study in the city.Once, during a quarrel, Xiaoda's parents learned the truth about Xiaoda stealing money. At that time, Xiaoda's grandmother happened to be at Xiaoda's house. It was like rushing into Xiaoda's room and dragging Xiaoda out.He said angrily: "What if I misunderstood? How about I just hit it on purpose? You have the ability to kill me now, old woman!"

Seeing this, Xiaoda's parents had no choice but to give up.Xiao Da felt disheartened seeing his parents like this, and felt that his parents didn't even have a basic attitude, even if they couldn't do anything to grandma, but such an attitude made Xiao Da feel chilled.

Until Xiaoda grew up, I met Xiaoda. Xiaoda had certain concerns about marriage and childbirth.Although he is not afraid of marriage, Xiao Da attaches great importance to money.Xiaoda told me that if he had a little more money, he would not have to put his child in someone else's house, so that he would not suffer so much grievance, and his child would not be so indifferent to him when he grows up.Later, Xiaoda got an opportunity and went abroad directly, but he hasn't come back so far, so I haven't contacted him again, and I don't know the current situation of their family.

(End of this chapter)