The fierce wife is the happy head of the family

Chapter 393
Taking advantage of the time when Lin Zhike got married, all the brothers and sisters gathered together to accompany the old man and Lin Jingtang. The old man felt like he was back when they were young, the older one was running and jumping outside, and the younger one was just watching. Mrs. Lin roared occasionally, and the scene was very jubilant.

"Children, you have grown up, and you have experienced many things. You understand the true meaning of life more, and you also understand the truth that you can't force anything, and you need to do everything with your heart. Seeing that you are all married and established, my wife and I are very moved. We are getting old too, and we can’t stay with you for long. We hope that you will be diligent, motivated, optimistic, and happy in the future. You will keep in touch with your brothers and sisters. We will gather twice a year to talk about what you have encountered and what you have encountered. When talking about life, don’t be in a hurry when things happen, discuss things together, those who are capable help more those who are weak, and those who are weak don’t act like others owe you all day long, but be good at summarizing why you are what you are now.” Lin Jingtang As the head of the family, what you say is very important, and everyone listens and nods.

"I'm old, so I don't have any advice for you. You'd better give me a few more children. I want to take them to play." The old man gradually degenerated into a childish temper. Everyone nodded, hoping that he would have a happy time. old age.

"From your childhood, we have taught you a lot of things. We have never been to any place, and we are also short-sighted people. Times are developing, and there are difficulties and joys every moment. We hope you will remember the sadness. Bear with it when you are in trouble, things will pass, don't get carried away when you are happy, and maintain a humble attitude at all times. We must bring out our Lin family's attitude of "being good at dealing with people, being good at living, and being good at ourselves", and don't act like Do you know how timid and shy?" Mrs. Lin was also very serious, she was educating the children.

"Mother, we all know." Lin Zhihe spoke on behalf of everyone, and everyone nodded.

"Today, they are all children of the Lin family. I discussed it with your mother. Neither your husband nor wife participated. I just want to tell you that a man should lower his attitude and be gentle in front of his wife. No matter how angry he is , and don't call your wife's full name, love her all your life, concentrate on it, don't think about three wives and four concubines, and set an example for your children when the child comes; for women, try to be gentle and considerate, Don’t always think about embroidery, learn more from outsiders, learn more about the outside world, broaden your knowledge, broaden your thinking, keep new, and be different every day, that’s the safe way.” Lin Jingtang looked at the children seriously, When they were young, he always took the children out to see them, so that they were all better than other children, and they married well.

"Father, we all remember." Lin Zhishuang nodded. She was really glad that she was a child of the Lin family. Even though she was a concubine, she was treated like a concubine.

"What's the matter with you, you speak so seriously, as if you are about to say goodbye to life and death." The old man was a little sad, and he tabooed the word "Shen Si" the most.

"When I was young, I promised your mother that when the children are married, I will take her around. Listen to me, you are all married and established, and we are relieved. After a while, I will take her with you. Let grandpa and your mother go out for a walk, come back from time to time, and leave the family affairs to you." Lin Jingtang ordered, and the old man jumped up, such treatment is really good.

"So that's the case!" Everyone suddenly realized.

"Zhihe, you are the pillar of the family. The Lin family is the root of many sisters. You must lead the younger brothers to do a good job in the family affairs. You must not underestimate them, understand?" Lin Jingtang made a special trip to look at Lin Zhihe. Son, I am most sorry for you. You have been sensible since you were a child. I paid less attention to you before. I hope you will continue to be sensible. There may be grievances, there may be sadness, and a man will not cry easily. Don't show any sadness, you must maintain a gentle and refined appearance at the moment, you represent the Lin family, understand?"

"Father, don't say that. I'm not wronged or sad." Lin Zhihe shook his head. If he hadn't been born in the Lin family, he probably wouldn't have achieved what he is today. Not all families would give a concubine a chance to have a son.

"And Zhiping, Zhike, you are also men, don't always think that you can think less if you have a big brother. Only when brothers are united can the family prosper. You should communicate and discuss with your brother more, whether it is business matters or For things in life, if you don’t understand anything, you have to discuss it with your two brothers, you know?” Lin Jingtang looked at the two sons again, “Especially you, you have a quick temper and simple ideas, you should talk to them more often. Brothers communicate."

"Father, don't worry, we will listen to you." Lin Zhiping and Lin Zhike nodded.After Lin Jingtang finished speaking, he turned his attention to Mrs. Lin, and he began to make tea.

"You daughters, don't rely on the fact that the Lin family is a big tree and do whatever you want in your husband's house. You must always remember that it is better to rely on yourself than to rely on others. Daughters should be men. Communicate with your husband more, try to be gentle, and try to lower your voice. A little bit, occasionally acting coquettishly, closing the door in the room, occasionally leaning into her husband's arms, and said softly, "Husband, what did I do today, my hands are a little sore, please pinch them" Men want to save face, so they will love you. When you see your father-in-law and mother-in-law, call out more, "father and mother" are of the same mind as your husband and do things for the family. Naturally, they will not make things difficult for you." Mrs. Lin began to give her daughters Instill the principles of being a human being, "When you see outsiders, your mouth will burst into laughter, and you will say "what uncle and aunt" and another sentence "please sit here" and then another sentence, "I'll make you tea." The main thing is to laugh more When I see a woman, I will hold her hand when it is warm, pat her on the back occasionally, listen to her very piously, and give her some advice. Tricky, raised his eyebrows, stared at his eyes, 'You think my family is gone? 'Say a few harsh words, it's really difficult, I picked up the broom and swept it out."

Mrs. Lin spoke earnestly, and everyone listened devoutly, remembering that the old man left long ago.

"Mother, didn't you tell us to be tough girls before?" Lin Zhimei was a little puzzled, "Why do you teach us to be gentle now?"

"Zhimei, you are the happiest. You haven't suffered any setbacks. Before you got married, I taught you to be a fierce girl. I didn't want others to look down on you. After you got married, you gradually softened. Your Husband is naturally useful, and your family will be happy, after all, softness can overcome strength, isn't it?" Madam Lin said softly, and everyone suddenly realized.

"Madam, if I hadn't heard it today, I wouldn't have known that you put more effort into your daughters than your boys." Lin Jingtang chuckled, he was really lucky to marry such a wife.

"I'm just talking nonsense, it's a trick in front of my husband." Mrs. Lin said in a low voice, her arm was naturally resting on Lin Jingtang's shoulder, and Lin Jingtang took her arm, which was extremely sweet.The children were also very pleased to see it.Parents are the best role models for children to follow.

The meeting of the Lin family was over at midnight, and everyone went back to rest. Their partners were waiting anxiously at the door, and they asked what they said when they met. Why was it so late, they all smiled and said, "Thankfully it is The children of the Lin family are treated so well." This made the other party feel inexplicable.

A few days later, everyone returned to their place and lived the same life. The only difference is that they have more confidence and sweetness.

(End of this chapter)