God-level Golden Hand

Chapter 411 The Difficult Man

Xu Jingxing said that Mengmeng is a gentleman, which is actually a bit exaggerated. It is not so easy to breed a real gentleman in this society, and it is even more difficult to breed a gentleman.

However, that woman does have such a temperament.

When it comes to a gentleman, you must first understand the meaning of a gentleman. According to the conventional understanding, a gentleman is a man who is as gentle as jade, just like Hetian jade, which looks warm and feels very honest when held in his hand. Describe a gentle person.

But Xu Jingxing has another interpretation method.

For him, judging whether a person is a gentleman is not based on appearance and actions, but on the inside. Only when the heart is as gentle as jade, as generous as jade, and as warm as jade, such a person can be regarded as a gentleman. Is a real gentleman.

A gentleman must have the gentleness and generosity from the heart, the magnanimity and grandeur that are rooted in the bone marrow, and the tolerance and charm that nourish the soul.

When getting along with such a person, you can naturally feel the ease and warmth that is down-to-earth and gentle like the spring breeze on the Buddha's face.

Such a person is a real gentleman, and it is precisely because of such an inner character that those gentle and refined temperaments and behaviors can be bred. It is the inner character that comes first, and then the outer character, not the other way around.

Just like the gentleman in the West, a gentleman and a gentleman are a strong and attractive personality, with a heartfelt respect for others. Such a person is humble and polite in life, and his words and deeds are Conform to the inner code of conduct, instead of saying that helping a lady to open the door and pull a chair is a gentleman, that is at best a gentleman's behavior.

Like a gentleman, so is a gentleman. They are a self-restraining code of conduct, a noble character that moves people, and a noble life practice.

Such behavior cannot be imitated by you deliberately imitating it.

For example, some people seem to be gentle and elegant, but when they get along with them, they are always depressed and feel uncomfortable; but some people seem to be casual, but in fact they can think of you everywhere in the process of getting along with them, and they will Make you subconsciously want to approach them.

The so-called gentleman is harmonious but different, which probably means this. It means that a gentleman sticks to his own principles of doing things, but he can get along well with anyone.To achieve this, a strong and inclusive personality is naturally required. Without such a personality and thinking, one can only be a hypocrite who thinks differently.

Of course, having said so much, I just feel that the woman named Mengmeng seems to be a bit of a gentleman.

He had been in contact with that woman for a long time, and only chatted a few words through video, but he noticed these from the details.Therefore, even though they just chatted a few words across the void, they couldn't help but feel a little curious in their hearts.

It was also because of this that he felt that Qian Dong's chances were not great.

Let's just say, Qian Dong is not an ordinary person, and he has some charisma, but how to put it, he must not meet the standards of some people. One limitation, not to mention the woman named Mengmeng, that woman does not seem to be the kind of person who particularly pursues material life, so Qian Dong's biggest advantage is gone.

If there is no money, what is Qian Dong himself?He was just a rather interesting middle-aged fat man.

Or Qian Dong didn't have such a keen intuition as him, but he just instinctively liked that woman's character, so facing his slightly exaggerated question, he nodded embarrassingly in admission.

Seeing that Qian Dong had admitted it generously, he was speechless for a moment, and subconsciously wanted to persuade him, but after thinking about it, his relationship with Qian Dong was not as close as he imagined, and he also knew about that cuteness. Shallow, everything is his guess, what if that woman likes a mature man like Qian Dong?
Therefore, it is better to be such a wicked person.

Thinking of this, he nodded with a smile, "Then I wish Qian always can embrace the beauty as soon as possible."

Qian Dong chuckled, showing an expression that men could understand, and then shyly said: "Then you have to help me, brother."

"Ah? What's the matter with me?" He was a little depressed. He didn't want to say more because he wanted to avoid this kind of crap. How could he be dragged into it in a blink of an eye?
"Ahem, it's not, then what, brother, have you made an appointment to drink tea with her? Then bring me..." Speaking of this, his expression was a little low, which was not common on Qian Dong.

Qian Dong respected him on weekdays, but respect did not mean being humble, even when Qian Dong asked him for calligraphy and painting, he never used such an attitude and tone of request, at best it was an equal transaction.But now, because of this woman who only met once in the video, she actually talked to him in a flattering tone...

It's just that this request was a bit too much to be honest. He was invited to be a guest, but he brought a stranger with other intentions, which didn't seem like a serious way of being a guest.

But just refuse, and you can't open your mouth, because in these days of getting along, Qian Dong has always been polite to him, and even offered to make friends, but when he turned around, he didn't even make such a small request. If Ken agrees, it will appear that he is a little unreasonable.

Alas, a man who is in spring is indeed the most difficult to deal with.

He thought about it full of resentment, then nodded, "Okay, I will definitely call you when I go to the appointment."

Qian Dong patted him on the shoulder excitedly when he heard this, "My brother is very interesting, if this thing can be done, I will give you a big red envelope to thank you, the matchmaker."

Red your sister!
He rolled his eyes, "Mr. Qian, don't blame me for not reminding you. That woman is not ordinary. If you come to the door rashly after me, it may be self-defeating. It doesn't matter that I am hated by others, but I'm afraid you will never have another chance." .”

"Ah? What should I do then?" Qian Dong immediately panicked, "Brother, you, can you help me find a way?"

"Mr. Qian, you're just embarrassing me. If I have a good solution, am I still single?" He spread his hands helplessly, expressing that he was really powerless. It's all too willing to get involved in this matter. No matter whether this kind of thing succeeds or not, there will be troubles. If there is an awkward situation, it will be even more uncomfortable for him to be caught in the middle.

Qian Dong blinked, and asked with great interest: "My brother is still single?"

"It's not an honorable thing, am I lying to you?" He asked helplessly.

"Hehehe, do you want me to be a matchmaker for you? I know a lot of good girls, the kind with good personality, figure and appearance," Qian Dong became interested.

(End of this chapter)