Ode to joy

Chapter 65

"Well, it's nothing, a conflict of ideas." Fan Shengmei rushed to speak, but couldn't help but glance at Guan Juer, Guan Juer and Andy were the closest, and they were the most favored by Qu Xiaoxiao, it seems that Guan Juer knew how to answer It's over, "I really don't like Andy's condescending attitude towards me."

Qiu Yingying still wanted to ask, but Guan Juer took advantage of Fan Shengmei's turn to go to the bathroom, and quickly kicked Qiu Yingying.Qiu Yingying immediately shut up.When Fan Shengmei entered the bathroom, she said softly to Guan Juer: "Andy is a little cold and not very enthusiastic. I frightened her when I hugged her. But she doesn't seem to be condescending. What the hell is going on?" You seem to know something about it."

"Sister Fan had something on her mind a few days ago, and she didn't want us to take care of it. Do you remember? Maybe Andy insisted on helping her, which annoyed her."

Qiu Yingying nodded, then turned around and thought about it, and suddenly understood. "Sister Fan didn't reply last night, but she is very happy today. Maybe there was a twists and turns in the relationship a few days ago? Well, it makes sense."

"No guessing. Let's see what's in the bag."

"Also, I didn't dare to say it in front of Sister Fan just now. Xiao Qu helped me with the idea of ​​running a business. That guy has a bad mouth, but he really helped me, and he was quite right."

Guan Juer was shocked, "Our 22nd floor is getting more and more complicated. I will speak less and express less opinions in the future."

"Yes. I was wrong and you kicked me."

But Guan Ju'er suddenly thought that the so-called complicated, only Fan Shengmei had conflicts with her neighbors, and all of them had been made public.The conflict with Qu Xiaoxiao is because Qu Xiaoxiao looks down on Fan Shengmei and Fu, so what is the conflict with Andy?

When Andy returned to 2201, he forgot about Fan Shengmei and didn't want to think about it.She called Qu Xiaoxiao to report her meeting with Dr. Zhao.Qu Xiaoxiao screamed happily when she heard this, she finally found an excuse to see Dr. Zhao.

Fan Shengmei's good mood was interrupted by Andy, and she took off her make-up and washed her face in the bathroom distractedly.She didn't want to be impulsive today, but for some reason, she couldn't help it when she heard Andy's condescending apology.Why, why, is she inferior?No, she is quite a proud beauty.It's just... she hates it.

While feeling restless, Qiu Yingying knocked on the door, "Sister Fan, the phone in your bag is ringing and ringing."

Fan Shengmei hurriedly rushed out to answer the phone, seeing that it was an unfamiliar phone number, she answered the phone suspiciously. "Amei, I only have you as my younger sister. It's not that I'm desperate and won't bother you. Those people surrounded my house all day. They said that they would either pay for the medical bills or break my leg. One life for another. They Take the iron rod, Amy, they're going to break my leg..."

It's a cliché again, every time I get into trouble, I only think of her as the only sister, and what good is there in the family, I never see my sister as nothing.Fan Shengmei was already on fire, but now she was even more angry, gnashing her teeth and interrupting, "You deserve it! Did you think about today when you hit someone? You deserve it! Hit me, I don't care if you are killed. Is this the victim's mobile phone? Give it to them , I talk to them."

When the sufferer picked up the phone and threatened, Fan Shengmei yelled: "You fight, I support, beat me to death, kill him, save me asking for money every day. Just kill him, I will reward him You [-]. If you don’t beat me, I won’t give you a penny. Don’t be soft-hearted, think about your brothers lying on the hospital bed, beat me to death, beat hard, and kill me.”

After Fan Shengmei finished speaking, she viciously turned off the phone.Qiu Yingying next to her was stunned and didn't know what was going on.Fan Shengmei didn't explain, and got into the bathroom again, panting heavily.Cowards, cowards everywhere.She only hoped that those sufferers were not cowards and taught her brother a lesson.

Qiu Yingying rushed to the door of Guan Juer's room, and looked at Guan Juer who was also dumbfounded, neither of them knew what to do.This time, even Qiu Yingying didn't dare go up to hug and comfort Fan Shengmei.When Fan Shengmei came out of the bathroom, the two went to wash up lightly, and then quietly turned off the lights and went to sleep.

2202 is terribly quiet, Fan Shengmei has been listening to the movement outside, but can only hear distant and vague things that have nothing to do with her, she can't help but feel sad at this moment.And she only shed tears and didn't make a sound, even the sound of pulling a tissue was silenced by her under the bed.

▼cad
It imitates the verdict of Dream of Red Mansions, a follow-up work, hehe.

The genius of Tianzong has many fates, but thirty years of prosperity have been wasted.Sad and happy, the Wei family is accompanied by both, and the beauty of the universe is determined alone.

The enchanting and charming face is like jade, and the house is full of gold and exquisite.There is a mistake in the song, but it is difficult to change Zhao Lang's care.

The girl from the Guan family doesn't need to worry, she is gentle and warm around her.When the flowers bloom, there will be a beloved person, and the brows will be relaxed.

Fanghua is a first-class product, but her origin is insignificant.If there is no wisdom and enlightenment, it will be chaotic and scattered.

Don't complain about fate, don't envy immortals, always smile from hard work.The luck of the Ming Dynasty requires hard work, stumbles and moves forward bravely.

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Xiaoguan is the result of enrichment, from material to spiritual.

Xiaoqu light material, almost spiritual.

Even Xiaoqiu was close, but he also cultivated an indomitable little flower.

Andy is a plum in the corner.

Fan, I think she is about to become that worm in the Cordyceps sinensis.

▼Pumpkin

This topic is interesting. I don’t think richness is a tricky thing. How many material conditions are considered rich?

Andy, who is not given material, still needs to play a role in front of the giver. A child who grows up in an orphanage should be the minimum standard of the material supply system. A family like Fan should be able to give her limited material.The other three families are all families who love their children in a down-to-earth way of the Chinese people. The difference is that the conditions in their families are different.

And spiritually?What different families give to children is the spiritual influence with the brand of the family.

In the spirit of Xiaoguan, due to the upbringing and conditions of his parents, he has formed orthodox, simple, pure, rational, and some excessively cautious and so on.

The spirit of Xiaoqu reflects the parents' views on career, money and society in the economic society, as well as the free and outside-the-rule way of thinking, and others.

In Xiaoqiu's spirit, there is the hard work of the working class, the straightforward love and insensitivity to people, the simple happiness and the pursuit of a rich life.

What about Fan?Does her sophistication come from her family's respect for social rules? I always feel that she does things too well, and she respects rules too much.

Andy is indeed different. No one gave her spirit and she carried a big mental burden.So she was too persistent and demanding of others, which once brought her problems.

Therefore, we are all the same, there is no high or low, we just come from different families, with different thinking, at different ages, and we look at these people with our own experience.

People have limitations. What I said above are their relative advantages, and their disadvantages. I have already said a lot here.

Then, how can we find the life we ​​want under the premise of carrying these things? It should be related to what the poster said, giving children a principle, or giving adults a principle for themselves. After having a principle, There should be some methods, follow these methods.

Look in the mirror, think about how to find a way to control yourself and solve yourself like Andy, to grind away your own limitations for a man like Mr. Wei, to find your own way in Xiaoqu's gunfire like Xiaoqiu, Broaden your horizons and find what you want. I think there will be a lot of things like this in the following stories, so let's continue reading the novel.

▼ one by one
Fan Xiaomei is not in her twenties, but a 30-year-old person should have some wisdom, judgment and decisiveness.Although family and origin are not something you can choose, mature people can make decisions and know how to get along with their families.If you can't let go, then it can only be said that Fan Xiaomei still has limitations.

In China, kinship and self, family and individual are often confused, so there are too many people like Fan Xiaomei who don't know how to deal with themselves, and Fan Xiaomei is a typical example.

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Fan Xiaomei can't help but let me feel that the most difficult thing for people is to see themselves clearly.Even though Fan Xiaomei is smart and sophisticated, but because she doesn't know enough about the weaknesses of her character, she will lose her direction at the critical moment, unable to control herself, and will drift with the tide when she encounters a driftwood.But where can driftwood really solve the problem?
Thinking about it carefully, most of the people you meet in your life are not as smart as Xiaomei Fan, or even not as smart and sophisticated as Xiaomei Fan.How to learn to see yourself clearly, analyze yourself, and make up for your own shortcomings is really a great question!I hope Naida can patiently use this pen to guide everyone carefully.

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In Fan's mind, her family is a part of herself.Everyone has a different view of the world, and she fights against the real life in her brain with all her cleverness, for the sake of her decent brilliance in the eyes of others.When it comes to environmental limitations, it is actually common to everyone.

▼Author's reply

Everyone is engraved with the imprint of their origin, it's just the depth.

(End of this chapter)