Ode to joy

Chapter 248

"What I can think of is to divide your family's property into six shares, your father's three-sixths, your mother's three-sixths. In the future, you will take three-sixths of your mother's and one-sixth of your father's, and the rest can only be Give it to your brother. If your mother transfers four-sixths of the real estate to you, I think you will be satisfied and stop making trouble. "

"You don't understand now. My classmate and I also had this kind of thing. It's not about three-sixths of the division. The classmate's parents died in a car accident together. The problem came when the inheritance was divided. Dad died first, or Mother died first. Different ways of death lead to completely different results. Besides, my mother and I are fighting for one breath, and father can't ignore our women's status in the family. "

"Talk to your father alone, and tell him not to be so unreasonable to your mother."

"I've talked about everything I can talk about, and I've told him directly, and he pretends he didn't hear it every time. I guess we can't talk about it this time, and I can't scare the snake for my mother."

"Advise your mother to take her share of the divorce."

"No..." Qu Xiaoxiao screamed instinctively. "How can Mom and Dad divorce!"

"You are no longer a child. Is it interesting for your parents to spend so much time fighting in the nest and tossing to death? It's better to break up and live their own happy lives."

"Don't listen." Qu Xiaoxiao covered her ears, left the table and went to the study.Dr. Zhao was stunned. He thought that Qu Xiaoxiao would do anything to her father, but she never thought about her parents' divorce.Similarly, I thought that Qu's mother had already lost her heart for her husband, and had already done enough to transfer property, but she still had a little illusion about her husband until now.A woman's heart is really incomprehensible.

Dr. Zhao muttered as he left the table and walked into the study, only to see Qu Xiaoxiao saying pitifully, "I don't want my parents to divorce."

Dr. Zhao spread his hands, hugged Qu Xiaoxiao into his arms, and sighed: "Can't we treat each other fairly? Sigh. Talk to your father."

Qu Xiaoxiao was depressed, "I've had a lot of things recently, I'm so busy with work, and Xie Bin made me mess up. He said he wanted to talk to me about his kindness, but I can't do it if I don't agree. Parents are in chaos again. Ah..." Qu Xiaoxiao screamed out of breath, completely lost her previous style.

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Unreliable young man Xie

I'm planning to discuss "On Xiao Xie's unreliability as a lifelong partner". My long-winded comment actually means "Sister Niba" who sympathizes with Xiao Xie's life experience and understands his deeds, but I don't think other Man is obliged to bear his misfortune."

There is a good saying, whether two people can last for a long time depends not on how much you love each other's strengths, but whether you can face each other's shortcomings.When passion and romance recede, attention must face Xiao Xie's darkness.The impact of Xiao Xie's childhood on his character cannot be ignored.Xiao Xie is sensitive, suspicious, self-protective, aggressive towards others, sometimes arrogant and sometimes inferior, all of which will affect his handling of big and small things in life, and then affect his relationship with Guan.For him, you must understand, tolerate, use the greatest patience and wisdom to resolve the shadow in his heart, and also accept the possibility that you will fail immediately if the other party is stimulated.Is it acceptable emotionally?Is Guan capable of action?Can Guan accept it for a while, or for a lifetime?Having said so much, this has not yet mentioned the substantive problems that Xiaoxie's complicated family may bring.

For example, when Xiao Xie heard that something was wrong with his parents, how did he act?Crashing a car, true or false, jealous of the person his girlfriend had a crush on, and ready to give up and get away.The analysis of its motives and actions will inevitably involve a large article, so I won’t go into details here.When I read it, thousands of words merged into one word "wipe".What kind of brain circuit is this?A big man like this, if it were me, he would have been trampled to death.Falling in love should be a matter of physical and mental comfort, so tossing and tossing, is it falling in love or fighting wits?
From the perspective of Guan, in terms of emotion, it is by no means deep.It's true that the two were sweet when they first started their relationship, and it's true that they were both devoted to it-but the question is who is not in love?Let's do the math: How long did the two know each other?How much do you know each other?How many times have you had an appointment?How much time have you spent together?When you see the critical moment, Guan believes in Andy more in his heart.It may not be enough to use this little bit of emotion to support Xie's big mess.Look at ability again.Is Guan capable of handling her relationship with Xie?So far I have not seen Guan optimistic performance.Her response was either evasion or impulsiveness.Cricket is right, Xiao Xie still has fun when he meets her, but it's hard to say if he meets her.In dealing with the conflict with Xiao Xie, Guan not only failed to do anything remarkable, but instead exposed his own weaknesses.

Let's talk about it and thank you.Some people have compared Andy with Xiaoxie. When it comes to the inner dark room, I think there are several differences between the two people: First, Andy is always aware of his personality flaws, and has always responded positively and rationally. So far, the old appearance has been changed; and is Xie aware of his own flaws?Are you willing to face it seriously?So far I haven't seen signs of it.Andy is more sober than Xie, and better at introspection than Xie.Secondly, Andy's nature is kind and upright, open-minded and principled; while Xiao Xie's character is not good, she may be kind, but judging from her current performance, she is far from being upright and principled.Furthermore, from the perspective of attracting the opposite sex, Andy is at the level of a goddess: in terms of software, wisdom and beauty coexist, and he is also simple and unsophisticated; in terms of hardware, he has money and his father has power.How can Baozi not be caught tightly, sighing that he is lucky in his life; and Xiaoxie, everything can only be said to be in order, and this is not to mention his complicated family situation.Rationally speaking, Andy is more attractive to the opposite sex, which makes it easier for the other party to bear her inner flaws.

Having said so much, in the end I would like to thank Xiaoxie Children's Shoes - he brought us infinite gossip with his bad luck, inspired everyone's collective memories of young love with his first love, and brought us a lot of love with his bizarre life experience. He won the praise of "Nai Da You Niu" and "This is okay?!", triggered countless discussions on criminal psychology with his remarkable behavior, and even ignited everyone's enthusiasm for discussing police stories with his own profession. .Xiaoxie children's shoes, whether you are cannon fodder or not, will always live in our hearts!
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Guan and Xie really like each other, and the mutual attraction is very natural and smooth.Therefore, Guan can learn to deal with emotional relationships through this relationship.Xie can learn to face her origin through this relationship.If both of them study hard and pass the test or even get a high score, of course these two people can build a harmonious and beautiful marriage!The process of learning must be painful and struggling, and it may also be broken.But if they give up immediately, Guan and Xie will still stay in the state before learning, without any progress!Parents nowadays don't want their children to get hurt, but if they don't let their children bleed once or several times, how can children experience the wisdom of controlling life?

In today's update, the details of the confrontation between Dad Ying and Dad Qiu are very exciting, because the two people's skills are evenly matched, so the result is quite harmonious.Dad Ying's action is reasonable, Dad Qiu understands that sister Qiu's marriage should be to climb high, so how can Dad not understand?Father Ying watched his son and Qiu's relationship grow deeper and deeper. Father Ying didn't come to Haishi often, and the raw rice was almost ready to cook, so how could we not find out more about the reality of Qiu's family?What's more, if you come here like this, you can give the Qiu family a blow and kill the woman's arrogance, which is really beneficial and harmless!Fortunately, Sister Qiu has such a father, who speaks principles when it is time to talk about principles - move out immediately, and bows when it is time to bow - and helps to be discharged from the hospital with a smile on his face.Everywhere is the little Jiujiu in Daba's heart.In the end, Dad Ying readily agreed to the marriage of the two families!

Let me tell you, the match that Naida found for sister Qiu is really good. The two families are well-matched, with similar outlooks, tough--the man is slightly taller than the woman, and soft--the two young ones get along harmoniously.Even if Ying's mother Ying Baobao has a lot of problems, there are many problems in the Qiu family, not to mention that every family has a hard-to-recite scripture, Ying Qiu's is already very good, if there are no big troubles in the future, It's okay for a lifetime!It really took a lot of time for Naida to arrange such an arrangement for sister Qiu!
Growth is the theme of "Ode to Joy". Love is an opportunity to face your inner barriers. Naida, you are really high in EQ and IQ. You are a master of observation, experience and writing. You have really benefited a lot, thank you .Although Andy, Guan Guan, Xiao Qu, Sister Fan, and Xiao Qiu are not by my side, through your writing, you brought them to my side, making me, like Guan Guan, in this period when many concepts are formed, to be the same Can learn a lot and benefit a lot.

I am also very grateful to those sisters and sisters who followed the article together and shared their life experience. Thank you for making "Ode to Joy" more attractive and valuable.

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