Ode to joy

Chapter 213

Fan Shengmei listened, and recalled her good times, "It's not your fault, and it has nothing to do with melon eggs. Like the two of you, you are a good girl at first glance, and boys are also afraid of being rejected and losing face if they come together randomly. A good way is to go with boys who are familiar with the scene, we introduce each other and get to know each other naturally."

"Ah, so, but if it's a beautiful woman, someone should rush forward. Like Sister Fan, and Andy."

"That's more likely. Did you try it later?"

"One failure is enough to blow me away. I dare not try again in the future. I still study honestly. But I still want someone who loves me purely, not after my colleagues, after asking others, after being introduced , understand my work income and family background, recognize that I am a suitable marriage partner, and then come to pursue me. I want to fall in love."

Fan Shengmei blurted out, "I want to get married."

The two looked at each other with complicated expressions, and they both knew that the other was telling the truth, which is rare in this world.But Fan Shengmei came back to her senses and hurriedly said: "I didn't intend to sing against you. I'm old and want to be stable. Finding a suitable partner to marry is the first priority."

Guan Juer smiled and said: "I don't want to be suspicious. However, for a while, I was really upset. I was often hit, and I almost doubted myself. Now I am not afraid to speak out. Once Xiaoqu wanted to create a chance encounter. Introduce her to a friend, but that friend fired at Andy as soon as he came up, and didn't see me at all. I only found out later, you think, Andy's grade and age, as long as you think about it rationally, it is not Xiaoqu's plan The female neighbor who launched, but I was completely invisible at the time, and I was very desperate at that time."

"I didn't expect it, I never heard you mention it, and I didn't see you show it."

"Whoever has the guts to mention that matter, it's too late to feel inferior. Fortunately, when I come here, someone can still see me."

Fan Shengmei was surprised, looked at Guan Juer, and said: "It seems that Xiao Xie is a good comrade."

"Maybe." Guan Juer replied briskly, and then laughed out loud. "So I thought, really, Sister Fan, you're talking angry. I can't imagine how to marry someone who doesn't love...Uh, I'm talking too much." Seeing Fan Shengmei's widened eyes, Guan Juer suddenly Realizing that he was too happy to lose his temper, he hurriedly slammed on the brakes to stop.

"No, seeing you so happy, I'm really happy for you, it's rare for you to be like this."

"Yes." Guan Juer blushed, and lowered his head, "I originally planned to be single for the rest of my life..."

"Don't talk nonsense."

"Really. My income is decent, and my ability is enough to solve my own problems. Why do I need to find someone I don't love to live with. Except for the difficulty of explaining to my parents and relatives, it is still very easy to convince myself that the most important thing is to have a purpose and be happy. .But if there is someone who loves each other, it will be different."

Fan Shengmei's heart was suddenly touched, but she answered irrelevantly: "Xiaoqiu may be the happiest person on the 22nd floor right now."

"Hee hee." Guan Juer couldn't help laughing again, "Xiaoqu predicted that Xiaoqiu might often preach to us the idea of ​​a happy life one, two, three." She looked at her watch, "I'd better go out quickly, Find a place to copy the bill and send it to Xiaoqiu."

"One more congratulations, I'm happy for you."

"Actually, I'm also Meng Lang, and I don't know what will happen in the future."

"Let's talk with pleasure."

"Yes, haha. It's more comfortable to say it."

Guan Juer dressed up beautifully and went out.Fan Shengmei lay down in the room and watched the door close, lost in thought.Her income is more decent than Guan Juer's, and her ability is more than enough to solve her own problems... After thinking about it carefully, she remembered that her so-called decent income started not long ago, when she was desperate for her family and her father fell again From the next day, she finally had some extra money on hand, and she just remembered!She quickly took out her salary card and checked her income for the past few months online.After checking the balance, she couldn't help but smile wryly. For the first time since she started working, she actually had extra money on hand, more than 2 yuan.It's in vain that she has been living diligently and frugally for the past few months.

Fan Shengmei dragged the mouse with her finger, and subconsciously dragged the screen up and down, but her eyes kept jumping after the number.I don't know if the optic nerve is tired or what, but her eye sockets are moist.

Guan Juer went out of the community to buy a bag of fruit, and finally got a call from Xie Bin.Hearing the voice, Guan Ju'er could imagine the sleepy look on the other end, so he called her just after waking up.Before Guan Juer could speak, he smiled.She smiled and listened to the phone all the way until she came to Qiu Yingying's ward.Only to find that it was not Qiu Yingying who was sleeping soundly on the hospital bed, but Ying's mother.She was stunned for a moment, she didn't know which ward Ying Qin was in, so she had to look for each room.Instead, she soon saw Qiu Yingying frowning and talking to Ying Qin.

Seeing Guan Juer, Qiu Yingying drooped her eyebrows, "It's over, Guan, did you really call my dad? My dad called again, saying that you called him again. In fact, it doesn't matter if you call, as long as you talk to me Let me say, I can handle it, but now I am caught off guard, my dad has already gone to the train station. Oops."

Guan Juer thought of countless answers on the way here, but Qiu Yingying in front of her still caught her by surprise. She was stunned for a moment and then calmly said: "First, Xiaoqu called, but I also knew about it later, so I didn't report it."

"Hey, Guan, don't be angry, I'm not blaming you. In fact, I miss my parents very much. Once I get hurt, I become weaker..."

"I'm not angry. I just thought of reconciliation, and I immediately fell ill with occupational disease. You see, I have counted your medical bills for the past few days. Except for the white note for the escort, the rest are invoices. Do you think it is right, right? Sign the back of each slip."

"Ah, so you look like this at work, so majestic. Well, let me see."

Guan Ju'er stood aside with fruit in his hand, greeted Ying Qin with a smile, and said nothing.Everyone didn't find it strange, because Guan Juer always smiled more and talked less.

Qiu Yingying signed and confirmed on the back of each document while reading it.Seeing that she had turned to the last page, Guan Juer set the phone to the calculator mode and handed it to Qiu Yingying to calculate the total price.Qiu Yingying smiled and said: "You really have a professional demeanor. I used to think about how you do things. Is it the same as in the dormitory? So it's not."

Qiu Yingying's calculations were the same as Guan Juer's calculations, and she signed her name on the printed statement.Guan Juer put away the original and handed a copy to Qiu Yingying, "You keep the copy. I have to hand over the original to Aunt Ying for approval. There is also a copy for Andy. I suspect that she herself I don't remember how much I lent. OK, you guys talk slowly, I will go to the next door to find my aunt."

Qiu Yingying said: "Leave it to me. Mother Ying is resting. When she wakes up, I'll leave it to her."

"The concept must be clarified: instead of handing it over to her, you have to hand over the money and documents to her. Andy went to Mr. Bao. She entrusted these accounts to me. I have to be responsible for her and use her money. Keep it safe. I'll go next door."

"Guan, you are so serious."

Guan Juer looked back and smiled, and walked out the door.Qiu Yingying smiled and shouted from behind: "Keep the fruit."

"Xiao Xie asked me to buy this, and he will be there later." Guan Juer stood at the door for a while before leaving.Go to the corridor, roll your eyes, think about it, roll your eyes again, and then go to Yingmu.

Ying's mother was straightforward, and after the calculation was settled, she went downstairs to find the ATM to withdraw the money and handed it to Guan Ju'er face to face without asking Qiu Yingying.At this time, Xie Bin also arrived.

Xie Bin waited for Ying's mother to enter the elevator before saying, "It's quite refreshing."

"Of course it's refreshing. Originally, Xiaoqiu could get people to pay compensation for lost wages and other compensations. At least he could buy some supplements for maintenance, and buy a piece of clothing to replace the torn ones. Now it's all gone. If Ying's family doesn't hurry up, just in case Xiaoqiu I woke up and regretted it. Besides, Xiaoqiu's father will arrive tomorrow morning. I don't know what he will think of it."

"If you don't fight for this kind of thing, it's really hard for outsiders to work hard for her. Let's go, find a place to eat, I'm starving."

"Hee hee, I woke up hungry too. You have slept longer than me. I once ate a seafood noodle shop with my colleagues. It tasted very good. I will take you there. I have always wanted to go again, but I have never been able to find it. partner."

"You still carry the fruit? Forgot to hand it to Xiaoqiu?"

"Suddenly I feel boring, and I don't even want to give away a bag of fruit. Am I very colorful?"

"What else can I do? To do this to my roommate is enough to be benevolent and righteous."

"Maybe I didn't sleep much today, and my temper is a bit bad."

"No, no, you've had enough sleep, don't stop us from wandering around after dinner."

Guan Juer laughed happily when he heard it, and said "arrogantly": "No, I'm wearing high heels, and I refuse to take a stroll."

"Then... eat first, and think about it slowly. I'm so hungry that I have no idea. I can do anything else, but I can't be hungry. When I am hungry, I will go blank."

"When you escort the prisoner in the future, I will inform the prisoner, hee hee. Don't walk so fast, I'm wearing high heels."

"Oh, yes. But you don't know that Chunfeng is proud of horseshoe disease."

"Ah, here is the horseshoe, where is the flattering? I want to improve, I want to flatter."

The two went out noisyly.Guan Juer occasionally felt that he was being "bullied" too hard, so he restrained himself and made a grimace.She is so happy.

▼yoyo
I think Guan Guan has a certain lack of self-confidence, for example, she feels that she is not beautiful enough, and she is also very concerned about this, so sometimes, when someone pursues her because of her work income and family background She, she felt that this kind of love was not pure enough.I think there should be many kinds of love. Is love pure only when you see the shape and don't understand other things?Is the pure love that Guan Guan recognizes to some extent a manifestation of his lack of confidence in himself?

Your appearance, your income, and your family background are all part of you. Because of your appearance, liking you is what some people think. Because of your income, your family background thinks you are suitable for marriage, and also likes you , maybe what they (such as Li Chaosheng, Brother Lin) value more is the impact of these things on your three views and how you treat people. It is also love, and it is hard to say which is more pure.

Guanguan may also have its own limitations to break through. Maybe this is the idea of ​​Nai Da writing this article. I hope everyone can reflect on their own bits and pieces, and see what they need to change, whether it is childhood shadows or family constraints. Well, growth is the most important thing.

I hope that each of them can grow up and develop in the direction of happiness.

▼chen
Top yoyo.There is nothing pure in this world, and human emotions are one of the most complex and diverse things in this world!Guan Guan's ordinary appearance, of course, will bring her a psychological impact.Even for a person with high IQ and EQ like Andy, if she has a short body and acne-prone face, she will definitely have an inferiority complex, and Baozi will definitely not chase after her!In Ode to Joy, I don't think anyone's love is purer than anyone else's.As for the concept of marriage, I personally think that the more complete concept of marriage is that marriage is not just to find a lover, but because two people can live better together than one person, and divorce is not just to find the next one, but to Because life can be better alone than two together!
▼zz
Squeeze a sweat for Guan Guan.Judging from the conversation between her and Sister Fan, as a good girl who has always been hardworking, she has no beauty and is incomprehensible. She has no experience in love but is full of naive desires. She longs for romance and is eager to be passionately pursued. The only irrational expectation in my life.

The greatest compliment a man can give a woman is to marry her.However, for Guan Juer's overly obsessed little head, those who are well-matched and who regard marriage as the goal of love are not pure enough and too boring.Then Xiao Xie appeared in due time.Not Xiaoxie, there will be Xiaoli, Xiaowang, Xiaox and Xiaoy. In short, there will be someone who is very attentive, romantic, considerate and good at laughing with her—a predestined pitfall.

Fan, who is a beautiful woman, has completely opposite worries.Men would ardently pursue her because of her beauty, but no one was willing to marry her, so when she met Wang, even though she was not an ideal match, she was still moved by the sincerity of being willing to live with her, so she agreed.

Anai's writing method is very interesting. The two people are compared with each other, and when viewed together, it can explain many problems.The object of a man's love and marriage is different.Will enthusiastically pursue beautiful women, such as Sister Fan, but marry a woman from IKEA and an innocent family background, such as Guan Juer.Sister Fan will never lack flowers and gifts, and will always be pursued by others, but if she is really talking about marriage, there is only one Wang Baichuan, and she is the only one.Fortunately, Fan seems to have come to her senses. She was originally kind, intelligent, and capable. After she figured it out, she worked hard to be self-reliant. Instead, she would attract men who wanted to live a good life. Ane had almost abused her.As for Guan Juer, she finally found someone who would passionately pursue her and hold her in the palm of his hand, but the day of being abused is not far away.Why do people fall in love with you at first sight, if you are not beautiful?this is a problem.When Brother Xie sees him, it will be very interesting to see if Guan Guan can remain rational and how he will choose. I look forward to Anai's next post.

▼Sydorothy
Many people say they don't like Sister Fan, and I didn't like her before, but after reading today's episode, I feel that Sister Fan is the character closest to life, sigh.

▼Author's reply

At the beginning of the article, many replies said that I didn't like Fan.In fact, it took me the most effort to write Fan and Guan.

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