Ode to joy

Chapter 204

Bao Yifan was stunned, "Did you go to see it? What are you talking about with my dad?"

"I didn't expose him, but told him from the side, don't try to listen to politics behind the curtain, I will move Wei Guoqiang to sit behind him."

"So that's the case."

"Well. Let's settle it for now. I don't know how to deal with it correctly. It was inconvenient to rush in and ask you at that time, so I had to bring out the disgusting Wei Guoqiang."

"Happy! Let me tell you." Bao Yifan jumped into the bathtub, lay down comfortably, stretched out a hand, and almost called coquettishly: "Andy, come and talk."

"I almost fought with your father just now, and made you look like that. I almost couldn't recognize you. I was so upset. At that time, if I didn't want to scare your father, I ran away and didn't dare to look at you."

"You feel sorry for me."

"No, don't be nasty."

"I've been annoyed to death these two days. They've given me all kinds of problems, including today's meeting. You think, it's only been two days since I took over and I haven't talked to a few senior officials alone. It's a good time to have a meeting. Is it? I knew that someone who is not willing to quit will definitely use all kinds of tricks. You are so ruthless that you hit seven inches. Give me a bad breath."

"Actually, I don't want to hit your father seven inches. I just jump over the wall in a hurry to see you sink. Moreover, I don't want to see you like this, fighting against your father almost by any means. It's more evil."

Surprised, Bao Yifan couldn't help but put away his hippie smile, and looked at Andy.

"Do you know how useless I am? I know that he killed my mother, but I can't call the police. I can only watch him get away with it. Those who had sworn to be loyal to my mother are now looking at the direction of the wind and being taken under his command. On the contrary, in order to show his allegiance, he fought against me even more. He wanted me to forget that he killed my mother. He pretended that there was no such thing as my mother in this world. I kept and sealed my mother’s office. He took advantage of my business trip for only one day Just ruined the office. He deliberately opposed me! He destroyed my authority in the company step by step, deprived me of power step by step, and then he sneered and ordered his courtiers to besiege. It's not that I'm evil, but he is forcing me .If you hadn’t threatened him tonight, he would have succeeded tonight, and my orders would never leave my office.”

Bao Yifan confided fiercely, but Andy's eyes were always on the lock of hair on Bao Yifan's forehead.Not long ago, in the conference room, that lock of hair was drooping listlessly, showing full decadence.But now, with the frequency of Bao Yifan's anger, that lock of hair loosened again, slowly, slowly, drooping.Andy finally couldn't help stretching out his hand, wiped the strand of hair and flattened it.So, her gaze had nowhere to escape, she could only look into Bao Yifan's eyes.She saw a wave of sparkle flashing in Bao Yifan's eyes with the frequency of anger.She couldn't help sliding her finger down slowly, pressing it on the corner of the eye, and the tears flowed out like a bank, warmly wet Andy's fingers.At this moment, Andy's heart stopped being irritable.

"You are not useless. Because when you are mourning, he is making arrangements, and when you are remembering the old love, he is cutting the mess quickly, so you are always passive."

Bao Yifan leaned out of the bathtub and hugged Andy tightly.Both felt that this hug was very different from anything in the past.

"I still don't have time to accompany you later, I'll clear my mind and have a meeting tomorrow morning."

"No. Every step you take is carefully planned by your father. Even if I interfered with you tonight, it is estimated that after the end of the night, he has rearranged and assembled, and tomorrow you will still have to act according to his script. How about Give him an accident. You retire all, give him all of his you, let him play alone, and you start anew."

"It's just in his arms. Isn't what he wants to force me out of the company?"

"Although I don't know much about family, but with my limited knowledge, such as Wei Guoqiang..."

Andy had to do a puke pose to cushion the psychological discomfort of saying the name. "Even though I have only had bad contact with him, he... ouch, you know anyway, compare yourself with your father. How your father treats your mother does not mean how he will treat you. At his age, raising another It’s too late to take over. Let’s take a step back, even if you retire completely, you already have the market, experience, contacts, manpower, and funds. You don’t have to worry about it, and you won’t be worse than today in three years.”

Bao Yifan raised his face, looked at Andy for a while, and said, "Can you let me think alone for a while."

Andy got up and left without saying a word.Bao Yifan looked at her back in confusion, lost in thought.

▼ 11
Everyone noticed that without the most capable and happy Andy and Fox in the article, they would stumble in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.The key is that the husband must be psychologically mature and have strong handling methods. It is a pity that Chinese men are born with an Oedipus complex, which is why there are so many entanglements in Chinese society.

▼kaixin
Basically, the woman handles the natal family, and the man handles the husband's family. If it is straightened out, everyone is good.As long as one is not straightened out, there is no end.This transitional period of concept change is bound to have many collisions.It is also good to discuss more.Be prepared.

▼Author's reply

In fact, Xiaoqiu and Ying's family have their own place. Ying's mother refused to want Xiaoqiu because she felt that Xiaoqiu was not responsible enough and had no principles with men. Later, Ying's father made the decision to want Xiaoqiu because he understood that Xiaoqiu was easy to handle and that men came first. Character, both of them are for the sake of responding, just like a feudal patriarch picking a daughter-in-law; while Xiaoqiu desperately wants to respond, which is also determined by her concept of mate selection. She should have a decent job, stable income, decent person, and a good education. The best man she could climb.

As for the role of love between these two people, I think that for Xiaoqiu and Ying, the suitable marriage partner is a lover. They don't need any emotional exchanges in love, they just need to be sure that they can Let's live together in harmony.As for being angry with her mother-in-law, it is natural for Xiao Qiu, she will not feel that she is being angry at all, she will only feel happy - because she is now a family.

Let's talk about Xiaofan again.Miss Xiao Fan is actually a good girl, with vanity and a little unrealistic, so ambitious, but she has a good heart.In fact, she is also a believer who respects men and respects the strong. Although she is proud of her beauty, she has never understood her own ability. .

Miss Fan, she has a heart higher than the sky and a life thinner than paper. She has all kinds of cleverness, but after all, she is limited by her background and experience. In the rescue of a hero, she obviously should have the confidence to stand up straight and be a human being, but she chose to bow her head...

But our Naida is a real mother:) A smart girl, with a few really smart friends, will eventually understand herself and find the direction of life, so I think there is still hope for Xiaofan.

This "Ode to Joy", seeing it now, gives me the biggest feeling, that is, how lucky I am to have true friends in life!
▼Author's reply

I feel more and more that friends are not necessarily like-minded.The key is character.

▼chen
Some readers said that Xiaoqiu's current situation is because she 1) doesn't know people clearly; 2) can't listen to other people's persuasion... Hehe, Xiaoqiu has these problems. It's because she doesn't respect her series of actions... Let me count them down for her:
1. In the second season of "Ode to Joy", when Ying Xiaosheng knew something was wrong at the dinner party, he immediately walked away without saying a word. Afterwards, Xiaoqiu didn't even have the intention of asking Ying to apologize.

2. In the second season of "Ode to Joy", the stalker at the train station.

3. In the second season of "Ode to Joy", Ying ticked her little finger slightly, and Qiu immediately had a secret relationship with Ying's girlfriend behind Ying's back.

4. In this season, Qiu was not ashamed at all when he was beaten for responding, nor did he feel that he should apologize.

5. Faced with Ying's mother's low-level practice of only wanting to use Qiu to be the first bird to attract the attention of Ying's girlfriend's family, Qiu didn't think there was anything wrong at all.

6. In order to understand the urgent need, Dad Ying temporarily nodded and agreed to the relationship between Ying and Qiu, and Qiu immediately couldn't find Bei.He didn't even realize that Ying's father didn't even show his face, so he went upside down, leaving only Ying's mother to continue to teach Qiu!

It can be seen from the above details - Qiu didn't want to respect himself in front of Ying Xiaosheng and his parents.

Just like the old man Mencius taught, "My wife must insult herself, and then others will insult her."Because Qiu didn't respect himself, Ying Xiaosheng and his parents didn't want to respect this woman at all!This is the direct result of Qiu's own behavior, and Ying and his family's reaction is normal and reasonable.

Any kind of relationship, including husband and wife relationship, mother-in-law relationship, work relationship... If there is no mutual respect as the basis, there will be no good ending.Some readers said that Ying Xiaosheng has a house, a decent job, and is honest and kind. To Xiaoqiu, Ying Qin is a blue chip stock. Without Ying Xiaosheng, where can Qiu find such a good husband!Ha ha, this is a matter of wisdom for the wise.

If sister Qiu has been managing love in this way without self-esteem, it is estimated that the possibility of meeting someone who can respect her and love her is indeed relatively small.It is very likely that even if they respect Qiu at the beginning of their relationship, they will gradually disrespect Qiu.And facing the direct result of disrespecting herself, Qiu has never been able to figure out the real reason, so she has no possibility of correction.

Instead of marrying someone with a poor financial foundation, it is better to find a man with a certain financial foundation like Ying Xiaosheng.

(End of this chapter)