The Notre Dame system is arrogant again

Chapter 567 Due Diligence
Aunt Zhao didn't know, and Mrs. Zhao told Boss Zhang when she got home. Unlike Uncle Zhao, Boss Zhang said it without thinking about it.

"It's a good relationship."

Zhao was startled.

"would you like?"

"There's nothing you don't want to do. It's good if someone wants that girl's temper." Boss Zhang snorted.

"What are you talking about, what's wrong with our daughter, don't forget that the shack you live in is built by our daughter!"

Boss Zhang sat on the kang, looked at the fruit trees outside the window, although he didn't want to admit it, but it was a fact, and he had to admit it, so he said angrily.

"Who told her to cover it! Throwing a basin at me, that posture, if I say one more word, the basin will fall on my face. You have seen that girl do this to me!"

"She's still playing tricks on mother, so you can be content." Zhao Shi pursed her lips and smiled.

"You still think this is a good thing?" Boss Zhang raised his voice, "You are used to it!"

"Then it's up to you." Mrs. Zhao moved out, in a good mood, and retorted.

Boss Zhang snorted and changed the subject to ask.

"Is what Aunt Zhao said true?"

"She said it was true, and I said wait until the child is young."

"What are you waiting for? Hurry up and settle it for her. The Zhao family is not bad. They are all fundamental families. They live a good life and their children are not bad."

"Aunt Zhao is a very nice person, Xiaohua shouldn't be offended when she gets married," said Zhao.

"She's angry, pull it down, it's fine if she doesn't give others angry!"

"Then which one do you like? Aunt Zhao said, the three boys can choose at will."

"What kind of talk is this? If it gets out, what will people think?" Boss Zhang thought about it. Big ones, but not too small ones."

"Two tigers can't do it!" Zhao refused, "That kid always bullies Xiaohua and has a bad temper. I see him fighting with other kids, and his hands don't matter."

"Children's fights don't matter, it's fine when they grow up." Boss Zhang disagrees, "I think Erhu is pretty good, he doesn't think too much, and he won't want Xiaohua even if he gets a job in the future. Besides, Xiaohua has a temper It’s not good either, if you can hold it down, let’s just go to Erhu. I’ll ask Uncle Zhao another day.”

"Is Erhu okay? Why do I think that child is so stupid?" Mrs. Zhao dislikes Erhu very much, "I think Dahu is good, honest and loyal, such a child is reliable."

"No matter how good the tiger is, he is too old. When he is young, he can't see anything. When he is old, he will look very big. Who will do the heavy work at home then."

"What about the three tigers, the same age as Xiaohua, isn't it better?"

"It's not good to be too young. His temper is unstable. He has to be coaxed. When the time comes, you ask your daughter to coax him. As long as your daughter has the temper and patience? If you don't fight, let's be two tigers." "Boss Zhang patted his thigh, decided, and then sighed, "This girl is still favored by others, it's really not easy."

Zhang Xiaohua, who heard the story from beginning to end in the outer room, rolled her eyes and said that she never picked it from the beginning. She had picked it several times.

Also, why are you talking about me like that, as if no one wants this girl!

He walked out of the house lightly, walked a little further, and sat down by the river.

Zhang Xiaohua was a little surprised that she brought up her marriage so abruptly, and felt a little unreal, but she was a little moved after listening to the analysis of Boss Zhang and Mrs. Zhao.

She is not a child. Although she is only 20 years old in her heart, she is a mature adult after all, and she knows what to do.

What Boss Zhang and Mrs. Zhao said are very reasonable, but if you have not experienced such a reason, you will not understand it. The little girl only thinks about love. Love is indeed important, but love cannot be the only real life.

And as a parent, I think more about things other than love.

For example, the age mentioned by Boss Zhang.

Many people think that it doesn't matter if a man is older, or even in his teens or twenties, but the premise is that he is rich.

Don't think this is vulgar, look at the news, old couples and young wives have several men who are ordinary people, no matter how good the words are, it's useless without money!

So if you have money, you can make up for the age gap, but if you don't have money, you can't. This is also a reality.

At a certain age, especially for the ancients, at the age of five or sixty, all body functions will decline, not to mention the aspect of sex, just talking about some things in life is very troublesome.

You can no longer wash clothes, walk, hold firewood, or carry water, and even need your care. It is not just a day or two, but years and months without end.

More importantly, his health will get worse and worse.

At that time, if you were 40 or [-] years old, would you like to spend your time taking care of trivial matters of an old man?
No amount of love is enough, is it?What's more, whether there is love or not is another matter.

In addition, getting older largely means that you will die early, which means that you will become a widow very early.

Based on these two points, when getting married in the countryside, the age difference will not exceed three years, and the difference of four years is very big.

Generally, it is best for the man to be one or two years older than the woman.

It doesn’t matter if the man is too young. According to Boss Zhang, it’s uncertainty, and there are many problems, such as not taking responsibility, or being attached to his parents, or thinking of himself as a child, etc.

Boss Zhang said that Zhang Erniu is not thinking much, which is also an advantage.

If a man thinks too much, the city will be deep. If he plays with you, you don't know it. Even if he doesn't play with you, he thinks so much, and it may be very tiring to get along with him.

Apparently, Boss Zhang wanted to find her a simple man to live an ordinary life, even if he was suffering and poor like them.

For another example, Boss Zhang said that the Zhao family is the fundamental family.

Fundamentally, this word means decent people in the countryside, that is, don't steal, don't steal, don't gamble, don't do whoring, don't do bad things, and live according to your duties.

This kind of life may not be rich and powerful, and may have to be resigned to fate in case of natural disasters and man-made disasters, but it is the most stable life.

Those who are all-powerful, the trendsetters of the times, and the big figures who change history and so on, seem to be beautiful, but in fact they don't know how much they have to sacrifice behind them. There is really nothing to envy.

It is better for those ordinary people like weeds to live better.

Of course, everyone has their own aspirations.

In addition to these, the Zhao family is still favored by Zhang Boss because they live in the same village and know the basics. The life of the two families is similar.

As for love, is it the most useless thing in front of these people who have been tempered by life, or survival is important, life is important.

In general, as parents who have experienced it, some suggestions are still very useful.

It's just that it works, and you may have to grow up to their age to understand.

Zhang Xiaohua sighed, although the parents had all sorts of problems, but she did her best to plan.

If she didn't want to go home, she would be willing to accept this marriage. If there is no accident, this marriage will be concluded smoothly, because the parents' consent can basically be settled.

(End of this chapter)