Thank you for making me so strong

Chapter 37 Unstoppable Temptation Outside the City
After staying in the unit for a week, Xia Yu couldn't bear it any longer. She thought that Li Xue's excuses such as her grandmother's death were irresistible to the leader, so she also began to rack her brains to find a way to leave school and go home to have a look.

It happened that there was a foreign affairs work meeting in the city, so Xia Yu used this reason to escape from the school. Before leaving, Xia Yu saw that Mr. Zhang and his group were still working overtime, and felt very sympathetic.

She walked into the house and found that the house was as messy as a hotel.

"I'm finally home. Seeing you enjoying the holiday at home all day makes me feel unbalanced."

"How can you, a wage earner in a private school, be compared with me, a university professor?" Zhang Jie said.

"Different is different."

"You just know?"

"Now, there are two kinds of work: mother's children and stepmother's children. You employees who work in state government agencies are the biological children of the state, and everything is protected by the state's laws. Those of us who work in private enterprises The practitioners are all children raised by stepmothers and are not protected by national laws. We are exploited by capitalists at any time, but we have no right to resist."

"Don't complain, it's better to act than to be moved. The school I mentioned last time is still asking for people. Let's find a way to find people to go in. That's the right way. Otherwise, our family's life will not go on. You see Bei Bei, now the homework book is full of dragons and phoenixes, and this parent meeting, the teacher called his name again, if this continues, the child will definitely be useless."

"Originally, I was looking for a job to live a better life, but now this job has made my life a mess. I have to find a way."

"You don't just talk but don't practice, the heart is not as good as the action."

"I have a classmate inside, I'll call and ask." Zhang Jie immediately picked up the phone and chatted with the classmate.

Xia Yu can't wait to leave the unit immediately. When she first came here, she was afraid of losing her job, but now she realizes that if she continues to work, she will lose far more than she gained.

Principal Wang always encouraged her to work more, and Xia Yu found that her boss drained all her blood and sweat from working so hard.My point of interest is not in administrative work.The so-called Director Jin, Principal Wang, Director Liu, David Zhang, and other directors who are in close contact with Xia Yu are all shrewd businessmen with eyes full of interests and profit commissions, and Xia Yu is naturally at odds with Xia Yu.

Xia Yu likes to teach alone without competing with the world, but her current job is full of intrigue, money and interests everywhere.Xia Yu worked for Principal Wang. She has been busy for a year, doing boring chores all day long. All the kung fu learned in school back then has been completely wasted, and all the credit and benefits are written on Principal Wang's head.

The most terrible thing is that there are old and young, and if something happens at home, there is no chance to ask for leave. It is really meaningless to stay in such an inhumane unit.Xia Yu's mind is full of job-hopping, but she has never found a suitable breakthrough. She is like a headless chicken, jumping around the wall in a hurry, but finds nothing.She didn't dare to resign, so she gritted her teeth and persisted.

Xia Yu began to envy Teacher Zhang, who taught students without losing their majors, and could get a good class fee, and could find a good job as soon as they left school.

"How is it?" Seeing Zhang Jie chatting with his classmates for a long time, Xia Yu asked.

"I asked, that school needs science and engineering majors, not liberal arts teachers." Zhang Jie said helplessly.

"Hey, I said that there is no pie in the sky, and I have to hang around in this ghost place for a while. The revolution has not yet succeeded, and my colleagues continue to work hard to find new jobs." Xia Yu was hit again and felt very uncomfortable.

"At your age, finding a job is harder than reaching the sky." Zhang Jie sighed.

"You think I'm willing to hang out there? I'm more anxious than you to escape from the tiger's mouth."

"Wait a little longer, I think there should be a way, I'll look for another opportunity."

"we can only do this."

After Xia Yu's thought of leaving her job was blocked, she was depressed for a long time. Xia Yu didn't want Teacher Zhang to know about these experiences, but she was very depressed, so she often chatted with Teacher Zhang to relieve her emotions.

Xia Yu discovered that recently, Zhou Ning took the initiative to get close to her.Xia Yu was very happy. Besides Teacher Zhang, she finally had another friend with whom she could communicate.

"Sister Xia, I heard that your husband's job is very stable, and he still works part-time outside to make money?" Zhou Ning's mouth was very sweet, and he said what Xia Yu liked to hear.

"Hehe, so-so."

"Sister Xia, please pay more attention to the people around your husband. If there is a suitable one, don't forget to introduce it to me."

"This, haha, I will pay attention to it." Xia Yu realized that she was born to be a matchmaker. She didn't know why many people asked her to introduce their partners. It seemed that she knew many elites who were waiting in line to go on a blind date. In fact, Xia Yu's social circle has decreased significantly recently.

When Xia Yu heard these words at first, she felt that others thought highly of her, so she took it as an imperial decree and spent all her time inquiring everywhere, even digging three feet to find someone with similar qualifications, and introduce suitable candidates for her friends.

Gradually, more and more people made such requests, and Xia Yu couldn't take care of them. In the end, in order to complete the task, she had no choice but to coax and deceive a living person of the opposite sex to meet them, regardless of whether their conditions were suitable or not.If both parties are dissatisfied, I will shirk and say that I have not met, and blame my friends.

Later, although Xia Yu still fully agreed to the person who asked her to introduce her, she still got into her left ear and out of her right ear.Because Xia Yu found that if everyone agreed to their requests, her own abilities would not be able to meet them at all.

What's more, Xia Yu found that many friends with excellent conditions came to her to help introduce their partners. It was not because there were no opposite sex around them, but because they were dissatisfied with the opposite sex they were with. There is room for choice, and it's time to find the biggest ear of wheat.

Xia Yu introduced a few spare tires to others, but they were finally eliminated, making Xia Yu feel that she has no taste and thankless effort.

Therefore, it is not easy to be a matchmaker in modern times. It is often empty to fetch water from a bamboo basket. Xia Yu doesn't want to eat radishes and worry about it.

"Thank you, sister Xia. You don't know my situation. I am divorced and have a child. Life is not easy. Now I live in my parents' house. So, if you know someone who is divorced and has a child, you can introduce me."

"Ah, are you divorced?" Xia Yu was taken aback.

"Yeah, there is no way, and I don't want to take this step. It is very difficult for me to raise a child by myself, and outsiders like you can't understand it."

"I thought you were not married, how old are you?"

"There is no distinction between young and old in divorce, but it is impossible to stay together. We were all colleagues in the same unit, but the unit earned too little money, so my husband went to work in a company in Beijing, where the income was relatively high. I originally I thought he would go home after a few years of work, but I didn’t expect that he had an affair in Beijing and he resolutely divorced me. I regret it. Before my husband went to Beijing, he was worried about me and my children. I didn’t want to go, but I wanted to call He earns more money, so he insisted on asking him to go to the company in Beijing. I never thought that the family would be broken up in the end, and the chickens would be up and down. At the beginning, I encouraged him to go, and I would not have taken this step. Now I know that the separation of husband and wife is the biggest enemy of marriage, but now I know it, and it is too late."

"The past, let it go, don't think too much, the key is to look at the future, only the future is the most important, you are still young, you will have a chance."

"My dear sister, you don't know. Men are very realistic now. Back then, there were more people chasing me, but now I am not what I used to be. Many people look down on a woman like me who has children. Besides, I My job is also not stable, so, sister Xia, please take more care and pay more attention, if there is a suitable one, even if it is divorced, I can consider it."

"I'll keep an eye out."

"Actually, I don't have any conditions. I just hope that the other party has a car and a house, a stable job, a career establishment, not too old, a degree is good, and looks are not too important. As long as they grow to be over 75 meters Can."

"This? Hehe."

Xia Yu thought to herself, such a condition is not high?Xia Yu found that some women were very impersonal. They were all in their thirties and into their forties. They also had a lot of blemishes on their faces and a few white hairs on their heads. Their other social experiences could be considered mature.But when it comes to the mentality of finding a partner, it seems that I will always stay at the age of eighteen or nineteen, and I will never grow up, super narcissistic.

They never face up to the market conditions in the marriage market, never face up to their own choices, and are still dreaming of Cinderella and Prince Charming.Of course, in real life, such adventures also exist. Anyone can have a dream, and other people's dreams have nothing to do with her. On others, tell them to find a partner for themselves according to their dreams, and push all their pressure on others.

Xia Yu felt a lot of pressure after hearing her words.I thought to myself, where are there men with your condition around me?

"I'm more realistic, knowing that I'm not worth what I was back then." Zhou Ning said frankly.

Zhou Ning really knew how many bowls of dry rice he could eat, it was so realistic, Xia Yu sighed.

Recently Zhou Ning often eats with Xia Yu at noon. The content of each conversation is the topic of meeting men. The male lead often changes, but it has not been fixed.

Xia Yu listened patiently for several times. After Zhou Ning's male lead was changed a few times, Xia Yu couldn't listen any longer and wanted to avoid it.In all fairness, the men around Zhou Ning are all pretty good, with good jobs and good looks, but they don't catch her eyes.

Xia Yu's work is a headache, and she is full of worries every day, and she is not in the mood to listen to Zhou Ning's romantic affairs. Besides, Zhou Ning often does not date men for the purpose of marriage.

Xia Yu found out that she was too familiar with Zhou Ning, and many troublesome things happened.

Zhou Ning's self-esteem is very strong, her income is not much, and the money of one person needs to fill the mouths of two people. In addition, she regards money as dung, likes to follow the trend, and likes to shop online without restraint, so the economy is very tight.

Zhou Ning sometimes borrows money from Xia Yu: "Sister Xia, I don't have a bank card with me. My family lives in a high-rise building. I don't want to go downstairs when I get home. Do you have pocket money? Lend me some first."

"Yes, how much do you want? If you want to spend money in the future, don't be polite, just tell me." For the sake of her friend, Xia Yu took out her wallet without hesitation, took out a few big bills, and handed it to Zhou Ning.As a friend, Xia Yu felt the need to lend her money.

Zhou Ning thanked Xia Yu for taking the money without hesitation. She recognized Xia Yu's words very much, and borrowed money more frequently.

After a long time, Xia Yu found that she had become Zhou Ning's backer. She felt that being relied on by others was an invisible burden, so she deliberately distanced herself.

(End of this chapter)