Raising big bosses in the age of rebirth

Chapter 524 Trade Fair IV
The two of them arranged the chairs in twos and threes.

Sitting together and chatting with the guests again.

In private, everyone tried to avoid work and talk about some private matters.

The most concerned is the education of several children, as well as the housework at home.

Xie Linlang said that she is warming up her children recently, and consciously said that elementary school will be the place she will often go to in the future.

"Isn't it because I couldn't spare time last week, so I didn't take Xiao New Year around the school, and this family has also moved. From next week, I can take her to play and get acquainted."

Wang Cuiyun was curious about this. Since he is so busy at work, why should he waste time on this matter, because after the school starts, the child will definitely go to primary school, and it will take six years. Could it be six years? Still can't get used to it.

But she didn't ask, because after a few years, she also knew that my sister-in-law had her own account in her work, and she wouldn't do anything carelessly.

Sure enough, Xie Linlang explained why she did this. "Most people feel uneasy when they go to a strange place. Just like me, when I first came to Siya, I was a little shy. You didn't see it. At that time, I thought I was airborne. There are many people. I wasn't having a good time either.

Adults are like this, how can children have no negative effects? Little New Year looks like he can get close to anyone, but I know the girl I gave birth to. She looks strong on the outside and is cowardly on the inside. Little guy, once going to a strange environment makes her feel uncomfortable, she won't want to go again, and she will start to resist constantly in her heart. After all, she has been in kindergarten for more than two years, and elementary school must be very important to her. unfamiliar
I just thought, primary school is a must, this is unavoidable, what we can do is to allow children to get in touch with and familiarize themselves with the environment of primary school, specifically which way to go, which place is the office, which place I can't go, I have gone this way many times, and she will go to study in the new semester, so she won't be so panicked. "

Xie Linlang still remembers the first time her daughter ate prawns, and she peeled the skin out of curiosity, but it hurt her hands. After that time, as long as she ate prawns, it was basically peeled meat, and she had to turn around to look at it several times. It has been more than a year, and she is still not used to it, and she probably will have this attitude in the future.

She is also slowly teaching the child to be careful when eating shrimp, but the child's temperament is like this, and she doesn't have to learn from the eagle's old mother to adopt cliff education.

When all the female family members heard what Xie Linlang said, they each had different feelings in their hearts.

Qiaojuan also said: "You were very strict when teaching her to eat independently. I didn't expect to think of so many gentle ways for the child in my heart."

"That's a matter of principle, there's no way around it, and if we don't teach well at that time, both of us have to go to work, and if she accidentally coaxes Aunt Xiulan or other elders in the family to feed her, it's not good to be so coquettish."

While talking, there was another movement at the door. It turned out that Mr. Fang's family came over.

Xie Linlang got up and went to the door to greet her. Teacher Fang's lover consciously went to be with Shen Gu and the others. He probably saw that the living room was full of female relatives.

Teacher Fang sat down and asked everyone what they were talking about just now. She saw the excitement in the living room just now at the door.

"I'm talking about children. The current way of educating children is not the same as in previous years. Just eat enough."

"That's right, life is getting better and better, and society has greater demands and pressure on families and children. It is impossible not to change. Besides, the current policy says that one child is good, and the children of one-child families have not yet reached Growing up, I have seen many pampered children, who open their mouths to be fed by grandma at the age of 11."

Mr. Fang is a teacher, so naturally he has deep feelings about education, and he quickly integrated into everyone on this topic.

The more we chat, the more I find that many of Xie Linlang's ideas coincide with hers.

Petting a child is petting, but not pampering. Children must have independent ideas and do their own things within their ability. Don't expect to wash clothes and clean the floor. But eat by yourself, tidy up your own toys and books, put your shoes in a good place, put the socks you take off in a fixed cleaning place, and don’t litter... etc., children can do it, and they need to do it. To guide and educate day by day, education means teaching as an auxiliary means and the central idea of ​​educating people as the purpose.

The adults chatted enthusiastically, but Siyuan at Mr. Fang’s house was a little embarrassed. The living room was full of aunts and a few very young children, and outside was a group of adults chatting about the mountains. He didn’t know where to feel at ease. up.

After all, he is considered a half-child, he can't get into the topics of his aunts, and he can't understand the topics of his uncles either.

Fortunately, Shen Nianlin came over to play with this brother with a puzzle, and it was a relief for him.

"Brother, I know that older children don't play with children's toys. I borrowed you to play with them. My father made them. It's so difficult that even children don't understand."

As he spoke, he handed over a plate of puzzle pieces.

This jigsaw puzzle is no longer a simple jigsaw puzzle in the world. It is a jigsaw puzzle made by Shen Gu himself. Some of the pieces are so similar that most children would be at a loss if they get it.

This puzzle aroused Fang Siyuan's interest. He also got on the carpet, took off his shoes and began to puzzle alone on the table next to the sofa. At first, Shen Nianlin wanted to go over to help, but when she found that the little brother was thinking seriously, she Played with younger siblings.

Although the younger brother can only speak a few words, he is also very interesting and very cute.

Not long after, the food was ready. Aunt Xiulan came over and shouted to set the meal. The women in the living room moved, and the men also moved the big table outside to the living room, unfolded it, and then the dishes were served one by one. .

Xie Linlang went to the kitchen, and then began to arrange the dishes and drinks.

Today, in addition to white wine and beer, she also prepared some homemade wine. The children have soft drinks, arctic orange flavored soda, and soda in glass bottles. The children are very happy.

Even Xie Linlang usually controls how often the children eat sweets. Today, each person on the table can drink a bottle, so how many children can't be excited?

"Oh, this is homemade wine." Meiling said curiously.

She also likes wine.

In fact, it is the inventory in the space. It is rare for everyone to get together like this, and there are also many female relatives, so they just take it out and share it.

The dishes on the table were getting full and couldn't be put down. There was still a sweet soup that was not served. There were two cold dishes and six hot dishes on the table. There were three meat dishes in the hot dishes, two vegetarian dishes, and half of them were meat and vegetarian dishes. Two plates of dumplings, and a duck with sliced ​​ginger.

Aunt Xiulan introduced that this is called ginger duck, which was taught to her by a friend she knew.

"Thank you." Wu Guifang and the others said politely.

Xiulan smiled, and was dragged by Qiaojuan to sit down; "Just now you secretly didn't ask us to come into the kitchen to help you, it seems that you are afraid that we will learn your trick."

Xiulan pursed her lips and said she was anxious: "Try it, it's my first time making this dish, if it doesn't suit my taste, I'll immediately replace it with sweet soup."

"This dish is enough, don't be too busy."

After all the dishes are served, a new problem arises, this big table cannot accommodate so many people.

Although Xie's family didn't have the bad habit of women not being allowed to sit at the table, Qiaojuan offered to bring a few dolls to eat. Teacher Fang said that she was an elder, so how could she be allowed to sit at the small table.

"This is my daughter's house, I don't pay attention to those things, as long as everyone eats happily." Qiaojuan got up after speaking, and was pressed down by Xie Linlang.

She smiled and said: "I can sit down if I have nothing to do, just sit and eat like this, at most I will trouble the gay men and hug the baby."

Shen Gu was the first to hold his own child in his arms. Shen Nianlin was only a little over six years old. She had a little flesh on her body but only weighed thirty or forty kilograms. Shen Gu didn't have any pressure to hold her.

Xie Sen also hugged his son, and his daughter was in Wang Cuiyun's arms, and was later carried away by Xie Guoju.

Now there are three more seats, and everyone squeezed again, barely sitting down.

If you want to eat, you can't stand up, and you help each other to hold and pass it, and you have a lively meal.

The children were full without eating much, and clamored to go down to the field to play.

Ma Jiaojiao and Li Yiman, who were the youngest at the scene, were embarrassed to sit all the time, and hurriedly found an excuse to get off the table to watch some children play.

It was mainly a few men drinking and chatting over there.

It is said that it is to have a dinner to celebrate the joy of housewarming, but in fact it is to give an address and invite a few relatives and friends to have a lively meal, without any restrictions and no procedures.

After the men at the dinner table had eaten and drank enough, they all helped together, and those who cleared the table cleaned up the table. Qiaojuan took her son out to return the chairs. Aunt Xiulan said that the dishes and chopsticks were soaked first, so they didn't let the guests clean up together.

Sometimes people wink and be polite, but these tasks cannot be done with peace of mind.

After a meal, the guests and the host had a good time, and they chatted for a while after they were full, and everyone left one after another, but Xie Linlang informed Li Yiman and the others, saying that there was a new task for them after work on Monday .

Several people expressed that they would wait, and then left the big courtyard of Xie's family.

After finishing greeting the guests, Xie Linlang thought about asking his mother and sister-in-law what happened.

During the meal today, he still proudly talked about a lot of money to be confident.

I didn't say this directly, but there is a stock market trickster between the lines.

Wang Cuiyun held the child tightly.

Well, she didn't know what to say.

In fact, Xie Sen has indeed changed a little bit, but Wang Cuiyun has always thought that she is already very happy compared with most women. She can get hundreds of pocket money every month, and the expenses of food and clothing at home should not be taken from her pocket money. Buckle, the food she and the children eat is above average, and they are actually living a very comfortable life.

As for Xie Sen sometimes speaking with a kind of condescension, Wang Cuiyun thought about it, this is actually not a big deal.

It is said that men become bad when they are rich, but Xie Sen only changes, not bad. When she smelled the perfume on him when she picked up Xie Sen by the roadside, Huang Gouzi kept swearing After all, even if Xie Sen met that woman who offered to send it up outside, he would directly tell her that there was a daughter-in-law at home, and he would disdain that kind of woman.

In this way, it is enough.

Wang Cuiyun thought.

She didn't say what was on her mind, but Qiaojuan said it simply, what can't she say about her son.

So I said to Xie Linlang: "Your brother, this is an advantage, so the money started to shake up. It looked fine before, but a while ago, I ran a new road and I guess I met a very rich businessman." , made several thousand in one trip, and now he did not hide the money he made in a year from us, and after deducting expenses, there are still tens of thousands, tens of thousands of dollars, which is something that many people can't save in a lifetime Money, he earned it in a year, and he started shaking, let me tell you..."

The mother's complaints were only out of concern, and she actually wanted to get an idea from her daughter, can she lower Xie Sen's arrogance a little bit, or else she is really afraid that Xie Sen will come into contact with so many people and things outside, in case One day, you can't tell the difference, you can't grasp yourself, and what should you do if you go astray.

Regarding this point, Xie Linlang also felt that it was inappropriate, but Xie Sen was an adult, and a man 'businessman' who had been in the mall for several years.

No matter how reasonable she is, it is probably useless in front of Xie Sen, and if Xie Sen gets angry, it would be bad if Qiaojuan and Wang Cuiyun were involved in the attack.

"I didn't have an idea about this matter for a while. Let's just look at it this way. I always feel that it is a blessing in disguise. If he is too arrogant and doesn't know how to restrain himself, he will always run into trouble. Naturally, there will be some troubles at that time." The society will teach him." Xie Linlang said; "Don't worry about getting angry, you two, the third brother has been clever since he was a child and is more able to judge the situation. Since he has this behavior now,

That is, he thinks he can do this. When he hits a wall and suffers setbacks, he can figure it out by himself. My opinion is not to preach to him. It is useless and counterproductive. "

Also.

Qiaojuan looked at Wang Cuiyun: "Daughter-in-law, I know you have been worried recently, thinking about Xie Sen's matter, you are usually the most convinced Linlang, now you have heard what she said, I don't feel bad That brat's arrogance, my mother loves you with two children, and I feel uncomfortable."

Wang Cuiyun's tears came out immediately, it turned out that she was not alone in the sadness or in the conflict, it turned out that her mother-in-law saw her discomfort.

"mom……"

Wang Cuiyun leaned on Qiaojuan's shoulder, restrained her voice and cried.

For many days and nights, she was troubled and hesitated.

Fortunately, more than half of the mental settlement has been resolved now, and the rest, it depends on the time to take away those melancholy little by little.

Both mother-in-law and aunt-in-law are on her side to help her think about it, so what is she worrying about?
(End of this chapter)