Raising big bosses in the age of rebirth

Chapter 519

Before eating, Xie Linlang pulled her out and said: "You have two choices now, either shut up and wait in the car. If you want to follow yourself to see the truth of the matter, don't contradict others. Finish this meal."

Ma Jiaojiao restrained herself a bit and kept a relatively silent posture.

After eating, when the family said from the bottom of their hearts that they were making new shoes for the girls, Ma Jiaojiao recalled that the little girls in this family were actually neatly dressed, but the parents’ clothes and shoes were rather shabby. , The male owner's elbows, knees and shoulders were also patched.

To be honest, Ma Jiaojiao has never seen a patcher in the place where she lives.

It has been eight or six years, and the patched clothes in her memory only appeared when she was very young.

If this family really looked down on girls, why would they treat them so well?

"A lot of things can't be seen on the surface. Yes, the names of these children represent the family's hope for their son, but it doesn't mean that the family will abuse their daughter or something. You saw it with your own eyes just now. The girls in this family may have timidity towards strangers or envy towards city people in their eyes, but there is no such gloomy feeling of losing hope in life.

It is undeniable that in our country, the phenomenon of patriarchy is the core of most families, but only by thinking more about everything can we make a correct judgment. "

"Is it because they can't have a son that they have to treat their daughter well?" Ma Jiaojiao seemed to be unable to bear the fact that she misjudged the wrong person, and asked Xie Linlang as if thinking of something; "Could it be that they know about you?" She is also a female cadre, in order to get your favor, so she pretended to be on purpose."

"The children were all born by them. I dare not tell other people's families, but I have been to this family several times, and there is no part of acting. As for the name of this family's child, I really want to have a son."

Xie Linlang didn't want to intentionally hit Ma Jiaojiao, an overly naive little girl, if she told about her poverty, she would probably have her views shattered.

A family without a baby boy is a colosseum for relatives. Whoever is more brutal will be able to dig a large piece of bloody flesh from the relatives who have no sons.

Xie Linlang changed the rhetoric; "Men are relatively more powerful than women, and there are so many girls in this family, and all of them will be married out by then. How lonely the parents will be, let alone the daughter. Will come to visit the elderly more often, but in fact, after most women marry out and have children of their own, it is difficult to give back to their natal family.

Even the life of maintaining a small family is enough. Compared with the daughter's family, if there is a son who can establish a family, marry a daughter-in-law and carry on the family line, he can also support him. This is the lifelong hope of most parents. If you read the scriptures, you'd better observe and understand more before criticizing something. "

Ma Jiaojiao doesn't know if she has a strong physique. After all, Xie Linlang has a daughter. I heard Wang Chaoyang talk with her grandfather before. He mentioned that Xie Linlang gave birth to a daughter. The daughter is clever and cute, so Ma Jiaojiao asked her; " You also gave birth to a daughter, so you don't worry that your daughter will not be able to repay you in the future, and you are not worried that you are lonely?"

After finishing speaking, Ma Jiaojiao felt a little regretful, and the words were obviously over.

If someone has a daughter, what do you want, what is the attitude of the family, and what do you do with yourself? Asking like this is really crossing the line.

Moreover, Ma Jiaojiao could see that Xie Linlang was not actually a high-minded person, but rather approachable and would think from the perspective of the other party, more like a calm elder.

But she is such a temperament, some things have to get to the bottom of it.

Xie Linlang knew what this girl looked like, so she answered her curiosity; "If you want to know, I can answer you, but I hope that when you go out next time, you will ask me something professional or For work-related issues, center the conversation around these questions, rather than this kind of petty personal issue."

"Okay." Ma Jiaojiao is like a primary school student who makes mistakes, so she will be honest.

If Ma Siming saw it, his eyes would probably widen.

Xie Linlang replied slowly and confidently: "My lover's daughter and I don't need to think about the questions we will give back to us in the future. We believe that we can cultivate her into a happy, confident and strong adult. Give her respect, love, and growth. All spiritual and material needs,
She is an independent individual and the crystallization of love that my wife and I are looking forward to. We welcome her and enjoy all the troubles she brings us.

In short, other people's family is worried about the security of life in old age, worrying about helping other people's education, but my family can't, and my wife and I are not short of retirement money. If you have a child just to think about how old she is For retirement, if we think about only one daughter, how should we find a way to make her pay for us and force filial piety, then my wife and I will not give birth to her. "

Even if it is difficult for every family to recite scriptures, but in her family, Shen Gu will take the initiative to recite more than half of them.

In other words, her family's situation has never been the so-called most people's view of future generations.

Ma Jiaojiao didn't speak, and then followed Xie Linlang all the way to visit, investigate, and record. It wasn't until she got into the car and drove on a country road that Ma Jiaojiao regained her senses.

I can be regarded as a girl who was loved and grown up in my family, but since I was a child, my parents really whispered in my ears that girls from other people's families are not as happy as her. They have to wash clothes and quilts in winter, and their hands are torn. If you want to wear a beautiful dress like hers, other girls can go to college even if they don't want to go to school.

And she always praised her for being no worse than a man, and she would definitely be able to lead a good life with her parents in the future.

Now hearing Comrade Xie's words, Ma Jiaojiao felt that the words she had heard since she was a child were correct, and was it the confidence that she could be so proud and even self-confident.

Children are not for comparison and retirement.

These words suddenly broke into Ma Jiaojiao's heart.

It also made her question and deduce what she heard and saw in the past ten years of her life.

Xie Linlang just wanted this girl to stop being so impulsive, because Wang Chaoyang had hinted to her before that this girl would probably stay in Siya for a few years to accumulate work experience, so she would be her colleague if rounded up.

To make her calm down and not be like a cannon, Xie Linlang is willing to pay a little more attention.

But I didn't know that my sincere words made the girl languid for several days after returning home, without much energy.

Only when she heard that Xie Linlang was going to the countryside did she actively beg Wang Chaoyang that she wanted to go together.

Xie Linlang was also called by Wang Chaoyang and said, "This girl really likes you."

"Huh? Like me? That's fine." Better than hating yourself.

"It is said that this girl has a bad temper. Lao Ma told me that his granddaughter is very arrogant. He was worried that you would not get along with her, but the girl begged for you as soon as she heard that you were going to work in the countryside. Her attitude was quite low. .”

Xie Linlang spread her hands: "Follow if you like, as long as you don't cause trouble, I'm never afraid of others learning something."

"I know your temperament. By the way, you said that you are going to teach this child Nian Lin elementary school this week?"

Xie Linlang nodded: "Yes, the child is grown up, and it's less than two months before the summer vacation, so look after the school early, and you can take the child to get used to it from time to time, so that the child will not be afraid when he sees unfamiliar places when he goes to school temporarily. "

"You have always cared about your child." Wang Chaoyang boasted, allowing her to take two days off this weekend.

"Thank you."

"You're welcome, tell us when you've chosen a school, let us be happy for her, and she'll be a primary school student soon."

"Okay, please take care of me."

On Friday, Xie Linlang went to the countryside again, this time to her own area. When she came back, she brought a small rooster that had been killed, and fried it when she got home.

The meat is tender, Shen Nianlin likes it very much.

It was mentioned on the dinner table, tomorrow Saturday, I can go to the primary school.

Shen Nianlin happily said that was great.

The two parents were happy to see their children looking forward to going to school.

Xie Linlang got up the next day and helped Shen Nianlin comb a beautiful hairstyle. She put on bright little hair clips and a cheongsam-like skirt. This was tailor-made for her by Wang Cuiyun. Shen Nianlin's belly It is a bit protruding, and the arms and legs are also stronger, just like lotus joints. It is not as thin as a girl of the same age, so sometimes it is really difficult to buy clothes.

I don't know if the little girl has inherited her father's growth genes. She is six years old and has this body shape. When she goes out, people will ask her if she is seven or eight years old and where she goes to elementary school.

In fact, Xie Linlang is not short either. She left the north where there are many tall people and went to the south where there are many short people. Her height is even more on the average line. Wearing a pair of low-heeled leather shoes and a cadre uniform, she is in good spirits Full of temperament female cadres ah.

But compared with Shen Gu, the whole person is a little shorter.

The family is well prepared, and all three primary schools have gone.

Xie Linlang was asking for her daughter's opinion, but she didn't expect her daughter to have the same idea as their husband and wife, and wanted to go to Fenglin Primary School.

"There's an old man selling popsicles and a lot of kids over there. I like it over there."

Shen Gu mentioned something to Xie Linlang: "What she said was that there were people out in Fenglin who took their children out for a stroll. There was an old tree over there, and many old people took their children to play there. It is probably because of this that a few There is a snack seller there, it looks really lively."

"Yeah." Xie Linlang knew what my daughter was thinking, so she went to fool her.

She can ensure that her daughter has a worry-free life, but she didn't say no to fooling her.

"Actually, Mom and Dad prefer the other two schools." Xie Linlang said solemnly; "But Mom and Dad think that Nian Lin is a smart child. She chose this school because she likes the snacks next to it. There are many students in this school who love to study, so they chose this school, and they will also love to study when they come to school, right?"

Shen Nianlin was in high spirits, so she agreed quickly.

Xie Linlang took the opportunity to approach her step by step, and talked with her daughter about a series of three chapters of agreement.

When the summer vacation is over and you come to school, you can’t just cry when you see other children crying.

When you are in class, you should listen carefully. It is best to do homework by yourself. If you don’t understand, you can ask your parents, but you are not allowed to be lazy on homework.

If a child wants to bully her, he should tell the teacher immediately, and tell his parents when he gets home.

Don't lie, don't bully.

Anyway, Lin Lin always said a lot.

Shen Nianlin agreed to everything, and asked curiously, "Why do you cry when you go to school?"

Xie Linlang kept a serious face: "Because children who are not strong know how to cry when they encounter things."

Shen Nianlin seemed to understand but half understood.

However, this did not affect Xie Linlang's follow-up visit to the school to inquire and prepare for registration.

The tuition fee is quite a lot, seven yuan for one semester in the first grade, ten yuan in the second grade, fifteen in the third grade, twenty in the fourth grade, thirty in the fifth grade, and forty in the sixth grade.

Xie Linlang looked at the standards, and it probably means that the textbooks used are different, which led to such a difference in fees. There are some extra fees for test papers and workbooks in senior grades.

Coincidentally, when Xie Linlang went out, she met a colleague whose sister-in-law was teaching here, and she knew a lot about it: "Although Fenglin's tuition is the most expensive, it includes the fees for books, materials, and school celebrations." Activity fees, prize fees for competitions and events, such as sports events, candy gift fees for Children’s Day, mid-term and end-of-term certificates, don’t they all cost money?
By the way, what is the red scarf fee for the young pioneers? Anyway, it adds up to a lot, and the other two schools are cheap, but people don't care about these, and they charge money again and again when they need it, which is annoying. Here at Lin Primary School, the family has to be responsible for other things, such as pens for their children to write, schoolbags for books and so on. "

"That's really affordable and saves trouble."

It's good to collect them all at once, so as to save the trouble of going back and forth.

"That's right, by the way, it would be better if the family lived near here." The colleague came over mysteriously and said; "There are a few married teachers who live outside here, and it is said that they take their children to make up lessons on weekends. .”

Xie Linlang is not very keen on this, but she is quite interested in another matter; "Why, is it easy to find a house near here? Can you find a house and move here in a short time?"

"Isn't it? Let me tell you, my sister-in-law knows a lot of landlords who want to rent out the house..."

Xie Linlang chatted with her for a while, and the two separated "reluctantly" until the man was about to go home and cook.

"Your colleague is quite enthusiastic." Shen Gu led the child over.

Before the two lesbians were talking, his little girl wanted to run to the side again, so he took the child to play.

Xie Linlang took the child's other hand, and the family of three walked outside the school.

Xie Linlang said: "Her sister-in-law is the kind of middleman who introduces rented houses, so she also told me those things enthusiastically. Don't mention it, I really know a few houses. Let's go and have a look after dinner."

Behind the sudden enthusiasm, there must be some reason. Xie Linlang just grasped the reason behind this enthusiasm, and the message released by the other party happened to be that she also had a need, so she just hit up the conversation.

　The chapter name is really difficult to choose, I feel that my chapter name is not good at all.

　　
　
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