Raising big bosses in the age of rebirth

Chapter 511 Hurts You
Shen Gu smiled wryly, and pressed and bullied Xie Linlang who made fun of him for a while.

After feeling refreshed, Shen Gu began to arrange the train to go home.

Grandma Shen finally got to know Xiaoxinan by playing with her, and she was really reluctant to part with it. As she gets older, she naturally likes children.

Xie Linlang asked the two if they should go to Siya with him this time.

The weather over there is also good, and it will be completely cold here in two months. It is quite comfortable to go to Siya, live in the countryside or in the urban area, it’s up to two people to choose.

Grandma Shen shook her head: "I'm old and doesn't like to move. Just come back and have a look when you have time. If we really want us to bring an energetic child, we don't have the strength at all."

The two are quite open-minded.

When the two of them gave birth to their son, they probably gave birth to the placenta and lost the son, so they gave birth to such a wise man. From very early on, the two of them knew that the son was unreliable. Later, the two of them were sent to the farm for special reasons At that time, under the wind of the new wife's pillow, the son made a decision that made them feel cold, so the only sustenance for the two of them was their grandson.

Fortunately, Shen Gu didn't follow his father, looking at the gentle and handsome, in fact, the whole journey was considered safe, and now working and earning a family, isn't it all good, so the journey is safe and sound, as elders , that's enough, as long as you look at the junior who cares, the two of them really don't have anything to ask for.

Xie Linlang sighed for some reason when she heard Grandma Shen's refusal.

Grandma Shen noticed it, and found a time to talk to Xie Linlang alone.

"Do you feel that we are neglected?"

Xie Linlang nodded in embarrassment, not understanding why Grandma Shen took the initiative to talk to herself about this matter, could it be that she revealed it too clearly?

"I guess that's the case. Your mental head has not been very good recently. Actually, do you remember what I was thinking when we first saw you?"

Xie Linlang shook her head. A few years ago, she was still a little village girl who didn't take off her earthy smell. She was considered a scholarly grandma, how did she think of herself at that time.

"At that time, I thought that this girl was really energetic, and her whole body seemed to be full of inexhaustible strength. But in a blink of an eye, I saw that she was very polite and orderly, and she lived a life. I was very satisfied at that time. Later, when I met your parents, I was afraid that your parents would be dissatisfied that our elders only came here, grandma and grandpa, so I was so scared that I quickly promised a bunch of things to go out, and I was competing with your mother who would give more gift money and things."

Xie Linlang vaguely remembered that when Grandma Shen got off the train, she had a happy chat with Qiaojuan arm in arm, and even took off her bracelet and gave it to Xie Linlang as a meeting gift.

Thinking of the meeting between the parents of the two parties back then, and the promise made to each other like a competition, Xie Linlang couldn't help but put on a full smile, that was the happy beginning of her new life.

Grandma Shen patted her hand: "However, after getting along with you and learning about your growth from your mother, I realized that the turmoil and sharpness are not actually the deepest part of you. I just saw it. Well, you girl is easy to take things and responsibilities on your own head..."

Xie Linlang blinked.

"Don't look at me like that. I'm not telling lies. I know from your mother that you have been different from other girls since you were a child. Grandma doesn't love you. You don't care from the bottom of your heart. Dad, mom, brother I have taken good care of you, and you have to pay it back ten times, a hundred times, a thousand times, a thousand times. In fact, sometimes I feel that this is too much.

Lin Lang, I'm not trying to tell you how to behave in life, but I just want you to know that a person's ability is limited, you are already good enough now, don't go any further in getting along with your family, otherwise there will always be It will be out of balance in one day. You are lucky. God dare not treat you too badly. Your parents, brothers and sisters-in-law are all good.
They don't hold you back, and they never take advantage of you, but there is one thing you have to consider, you are only 27, and you have already reached the position of deputy director. Shen Gu mentioned that you voluntarily refused The position of director, or you are now the top leader of the Agriculture and Forestry Bureau. Think about it, according to your ability and development, and the gradually formed optimized network of contacts,

Three years later, five years later, ten years later, or even 20 years later, will your circle, your income, and your position only continue to rise, and what you can get at that time will still be what your brother and sister-in-law can handle Waiting for reciprocity? At that time, it will not be any family relationship, but pressure. I never think that the intimacy of your family is a bad thing, but there must be a degree in everything.
At this level, it depends on how you master it. The nature of your work, I probably know what it is. It's not that I am old so I can see the development of the next few decades, but I think the burden on your shoulders is only It will be big or small. After all, it is about people's livelihood. As long as it is about people's livelihood, even after thousands of years, there will be no gaps.

Think about it, when the child grows up, your work pressure will also increase, and new problems and troubles will appear one after another?At that time, how do you balance your so-called family affection that needs to be taken care of? At that time, it will easily become a charity, a phenomenon bestowed by the superior. You are a smart child, and I have said enough. You should think about it yourself.

All in all, I want you to know that my grandpa Shen Gu and I have never taken care of your little one. For Shen Gu's sake, you would like to give us a share if you have any good things. Give us a thirty or fifty sickness and still give hundreds of them. It has reached the level that most granddaughter-in-laws can't do. There is no need to feel guilty because you can't stay with us and take care of us, you know, Grandma hurts you. "

Xie Linlang blinked again, but this time it was not because of curiosity, but because the eyes could not bear the tears gushing out, cutting off the moisture that blurred the vision.

"Grandma, I'm sorry, I need you to explain me." Xie Linlang hugged her: "Actually, I'm very scared. I don't care enough for the people who love me and care about me. I'm afraid that I will miss an opportunity. When I think about it one day, I feel regret and pain, I want to be good to people who treat me well, so... I was wrong, thank you grandma for teaching me."

Xie Linlang is very grateful to meet such a good elder in this life.

Whether it's parents, grandma, grandma Shen, or even Wang Chaoyang and Wu Guifang who are not related, these people have given a lot of help and support in their growth.

Maybe it's just too easy for me to take all the faults on my own head.

　Tomorrow there will be [-] more, remember to come, cute and cute.

　　
　
(End of this chapter)