Datang Imperial Physician

Chapter 119 Children Are Difficult
He acted as a child psychologist very conscientiously. He listened to the big or small troubles, depression, and grievances of the little Zhengtai. Wei Jia was very serious and focused from the beginning to the end, and took the little Zhengtai Li Zhi seriously as an adult. Of course, some of his troubles may be insignificant from an adult's point of view, but the child is serious, it is a big event in his world, adults who listen, please take it seriously .

Wei Jia tried his best to give his own opinions or suggestions in the way of Xiaozhengtai's thinking. If he couldn't understand for the time being, he would ask in detail and give his own answer after thinking about it. In general, this exchange, one big and one small, two people Very happy.Xiao Si is very obedient, knowing that his brother and Wei Chi are talking about serious things, she leans obediently in Wei Chi's arms, and doesn't make trouble. Li Zhi also patted her on the shoulder.Even though she is small, her human rights cannot be ignored and she must be treated equally.

Wei Chi, in modern times, is recommended by so many colleagues to be a pediatrician. The reason why he is so popular is that, to put it bluntly, this guy is very good at communicating with people. His mouth is a bit poor, but this guy He has a wink, and when it is time to be serious, he is absolutely practical and rational, which is admirable.Moreover, this guy is a very good listener, no matter how big or small, as long as someone is serious, he is willing to give the same attitude.Zi once said that attitude is everything.

It is very comfortable and happy to communicate with people who are sincere.Others show you their own world, and you also show your own world to others. When different things collide, there will always be some gains.

After finishing his work as a psychological counselor, Wei Jia watched the two small figures go away, got up and prepared to go home, and just took two steps, when he was stopped by an oncoming female officer, Wei Jia recognized that it was from the palace of the eldest grandson, and would not Was it just waiting for him?
"Master Wei, the empress calls you over."

"Oh, please lead the way."

Wei Chi and others were behind him, looking at the road, it seemed to be an imperial garden.In other words, what is there to do in the garden at this season, but the owner is not him, so he can't let him decide.

Wei Jia passed by, and from afar, he saw Empress Changsun sitting alone in the gazebo, with a thoughtful expression on her face. When Wei Jia came, she showed a dignified and indifferent smile, and said, "Ziyue is here, sit down, today, Ben The palace will trouble you again."

Wei Chi hurriedly said: "Your Majesty is too modest, I am very honored to be able to relieve your worries and troubles for your Majesty, I am afraid that you will not be able to help your Majesty because of your lack of talent and learning."

Empress Changsun shook her head with a smile, and said, "Just now, Pheasant and Sizi, have you gone to find Ziyue?"

Wei Chi smiled and said: "Yes, King Jin and the little princess haven't seen the minister for several days. Today I heard that the minister entered the palace, so I came here to have a chat and listen to two stories."

Empress Changsun smiled slightly and said: "After talking with Cheng Qian, I feel that my mother is not doing well. Does Zi Yue think so?"

Khan, this is serious.Wei Jia hurriedly said: "Your Majesty, I think that it is already very good to be in the position of Your Majesty. I have always believed that human energy is limited. Your Majesty is in charge of the harem and assists His Majesty, so that His Majesty has no worries. Hard work, although I don't understand it, it must not be simple. Whether it is the prince, the princes, and the princesses, they are all very good."

Empress Changsun smiled wryly, and said: "If it's really good, why would Chengqian's feet..."

Between the words and the expression, there is still a little sadness.Wei Chi smiled, stood up suddenly, looked in the direction of the East Palace, and said, "Your Majesty, please see, the East Palace is over there, and the Taiji Palace is here. There is a distance from the East Palace to the Taiji Palace, and this distance is not equal. It was formed in two days. Fortunately, now, His Royal Highness has taken steps, and the empress has also taken steps. If you have the heart, the problem will no longer be a problem."

"There is a saying that distance produces beauty. I think it is not entirely correct. Everything has two sides. A suitable distance is respect for each other, but a distance that is too far is alienation. Without necessary communication, there will be Problems, with the passage of time, more and more problems, many things are formed in this way. Let’s talk about the situation in Chen’s family, my father and I, my elder brother and father, our father and son, only me talking , neither the father nor the elder brother are good at words. Often, the father starts from the father's point of view, and the elder brother starts from the elder brother's point of view. Consciously or unconsciously, they speculate through each other's behavior and words. Slowly, misunderstandings breed, and some Misunderstandings can easily lead to conflicts. The human heart is very complicated, and sometimes you may not be able to figure it out. Occasional communication is necessary. Like a river, if you dredge it often, the water will flow more smoothly. There's also less danger of flooding, still silted up with river sand, and it's only going to get more dangerous."

"Zi Yue is right."

Empress Changsun nodded, and continued to ask: "Please continue, tell me about your experience in dredging river sand."

Wei Chi smirked, scratched his head, frowned and thought for a long time, and said, "Your Majesty, you are both a mother and a woman. I am a man, and my status and status are different. What suits my minister may not necessarily suit you. The minister's method , to put it bluntly, it’s just a few words.”

"Please say."

Wei Chi thought about it again, and said: "To sum it up, it actually means hard work, patience, equality, and mutual respect. I have read some books on education before, and I generally agree to encourage education."

"What is encouraging education?"

Wei Chi turned out all the modern educational theories and talked eloquently, which made Empress Changsun nod her head.His Majesty Li Er and his wife are both smart people, so they don't need Wei Jia to guide them how to teach their children. Wei Jia doesn't think he has the qualifications to point fingers, but, in general, he will turn over some modern things and talk about it. As for what is appropriate and what is not, people will naturally judge.

"...My lady, parents are the best teachers for children."

Empress Changsun was taken aback, and Wei Chi sighed silently, thinking of that night, under the silent moonlight, Prince Chengqian's narration and tears, and thinking of the melancholy of the little Zhengtai Li Zhi, he said cruelly: "Mother, this minister is not in this way." An expert, what he said may not be correct, so let me tell you something about my own childhood."

"Chen's mother is an ordinary peasant woman. She is ordinary, weak, and gentle. Apart from being able to write her own name, recognize numbers, and do a little math, she has little knowledge. But she has a pair of very skillful hands. Although she was a child, her family was poor. , but our brothers and sisters have never felt that life is hard, because our mother never made us feel hard, but made us feel very happy. Now we can remember it with a smile. I don’t think it has to be so, but it can be It is enough to let the children grow up and recall the past with a smile."

The things that have been experienced may not all be good, but as long as you can laugh when you recall it, that is happiness. Although you may not understand it at the time, but when you understand it in the future, you will always gain something. We have been so happy before, I have been loved so much.

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Well, I received an editorial notice today, and I will push it on the homepage next week!I'm going to save up manuscripts!Hey, so, there are still three chapters to be released today, so I'll keep it private first, wow, I'll keep pushing it and explode!

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