Nongmenfu girl's daily life

Chapter 375 Isn't this self-deception?
Jiang Yunxiu felt that she had been wronged very much. If she hadn't arrived at the medical clinic and her personal maid suddenly had a stomachache, she would not have come here alone.

"I... I didn't bully her."

Jiang Yunxiu wanted to cry a little, she was a bit of a steamed stuffed animal since she was a child, and she was not very good at explaining.

"You didn't bully him, why is he crying? Oh, I see, you are the family who bumped into him, right? Why, you don't want to pay? His legs were broken by you, and he doesn't know what will happen when he recovers." It’s too much for you to be unwilling to lose money! He is very poor. His only daughter was captured as a virgin to sacrifice to the river god. His father and mother have passed away, and his daughter-in-law has also passed away due to dystocia. , is pitiful enough, you still bully him..."

The half-big boy complained about the injustice, blamed him for a while, and told Zhang Tiezhu's tragic experience.

Jiang Yunxiu finally understood why this man didn't want to live anymore.

The reason why Jiang Yunxiu is kind is that she was brought up by her grandfather. His grandfather would always tell her that if something happens and you feel unwilling or wronged, then think about people who are worse than you. The mood will be better.

So, she kept doing it...

Even if her husband brings many concubines back to the mansion, she will feel uncomfortable, but she will recover soon, because she will think: at least I am not divorced, so I don't need to make room for those concubines.The lady of the Chen family was miserable. Her husband went to Beijing to rush for the exam, and was arrested by others. He became the son-in-law of a wealthy family. When he came back to visit relatives, he gave the lady of the Chen family a divorce letter.

Even if she can't give birth to a child, she will comfort herself in her heart: Look, the concubines are so upbeat, but those children can only call their mothers, and when they call them, they can only call them aunts.It's really pitiful that the child born in her womb can't call her mother.

So for those concubines' occasional harsh words and occasional small troubles, she can generously let them go. Whoever makes them concubines is already pitiful enough.

This kind of ostrich mentality, sometimes, she knows is not good.

But always learn to be optimistic, and deceive yourself to make yourself happy, otherwise, how can you... survive.

Do you want to feel sorry for yourself, wipe away your tears all day long, complain that your husband doesn't love you, that your husband spends his days and nights, that your husband dotes on his concubine and kills his wife, that your stomach is not up to snuff, and that God is unfair?
But no matter how much you complain, what's the use.

The husband will not love himself, the concubine will not leave, and the stomach will not live up to expectations.

She even suspected that someone had drugged herself. After those concubines came in, they were afraid that if they gave birth to a son-in-law, their concubines' children would lose their status, so they did not hesitate to drug themselves to prevent them from giving birth.

She has seen many doctors, and the doctors all said that she is in good health and it is impossible not to have children.

But, it just...can't give birth!

The grandfather of the half-grown boy yelled, as if telling him to distribute the medicine, and he comforted Zhang Tiezhu, "Uncle Tiezhu, don't be sad, I'll help my grandfather first, if there's anything wrong, you can shout Me, I'll come."

After the half-grown boy left, Jiang Yunxiu said softly, "My grandfather is a very optimistic old man. She told me that if you are pessimistic and uncomfortable, and feel wronged and want to cry, you should think about people who are more unlucky than yourself. , the mood will be comforted and gradually get better.”

Zhang Tiezhu slandered inwardly: "Grandpa, what kind of stuff do you specialize in teaching? Isn't this deceiving yourself and others?"Not advisable!Not advisable!
(End of this chapter)