Seventy: The vicious female supporting actress struggles daily

Chapter 166 Chicken Soup for the Soul
In early December, a sleet came suddenly.

The temperature dropped to the lowest in an instant on this day, and people in the capital put on thick cotton clothes one after another.

"Jiang Yu, aren't you going home today?" After class, Song Mei and Jiang Yu walked out of the classroom with their textbooks in their arms.

Jiang Yu shook her head, "I still have to go back, Jiang Chuan has caught a cold these two days, I have to go back and have a look."

"Then go back to the dormitory first, and go back in my raincoat."

"it is good."

Putting on Song Mei's raincoat, Jiang Yu went to the shed to roll out her bicycle and rode home.

There are very few pedestrians on the road, and the trees on both sides are no longer green except for the evergreens. The whole city seems to have fallen into hibernation.

The rain and snow hit her face with the icy wind, making her feel cold and sore. She preferred cashmere sweaters and down jackets to the cotton-padded clothes she was wearing.

Although the cotton clothes are indeed warm, they are all made of pure cotton, but after sweating, the air permeability is very poor, especially the cotton shoes on the feet, after walking too much and sweating, the moisture will not escape, and then the feet will feel cold .

Stepping all the way home, after entering the door, I saw that Xiuxiu had already returned.

"It's quite early today." Jiang Yu took off his raincoat and put it in the plastic basin at the entrance, "Is there no one in the shop?"

"The weather is bad, so the business in the store is slow. Sister Xu Lan asked me to come back. I don't feel relieved that Xiao Chuan is alone at home with a cold." Let him sweat after drinking the ginger soup, and he will be fine tomorrow."

"I think so too."

The two then worked in the kitchen, preparing to make some noodle soup tonight. There was still a fish at home, and another pot of fish soup was boiled.

"By the way, Jiang Yu." Xiuxiu looked at her nervously, "I might have sex with someone else."

"Who is it?" Xiuxiu is only 19 years old after the new year, and it is quite appropriate to talk to someone in this age. Besides, the person you are talking to won't get married right away, and you will have to get along for two or three years. "Where are you from, what do you do?"

"It's a local in Beijing, four years older than me, and works in the Electric Power Bureau."

Jiang Yu thinks this job is not bad at present, and the age is also suitable.

And when all external conditions are met, it also depends on the person's own conditions.

"Xiuxiu, I can't interfere too much in the matter of your partner. If you like it, of course you can agree. It is certain that we have a good relationship, but no matter how good the relationship is, it will be folded in this kind of thing. My only There is only one thing I want to tell you, protect yourself and don’t give yourself to the other party easily. People’s character is good at hiding, and many times you don’t notice it at all, but when you understand the other party’s personality, it’s too late to regret it gone."

"I understand what you mean." Xiuxiu nodded.

She knew that Jiang Yu was doing it for her own good.

"Of course, if we get along, it also depends on the family situation of the other party, such as the personality of his parents. Don't think that love is a matter of two people, it is a matter of two families. A bad relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law may affect the relationship between you two. Personal feelings, no matter how strong the love is, will be wiped out by trivial things sooner or later."

"I will." I have to say, Xiuxiu really didn't expect this, but Jiang Yu's words reminded her.

She was used to getting along with Zhao Caihua and several daughter-in-laws since she was a child, and felt that most mother-in-laws were as tolerant and magnanimous as Zhao Caihua, but Jiang Yu reminded her and woke up by the way. There is no shortage.

"Another point, actually, I don't recommend you to date now." Jiang Yu said to her very seriously: "You are still working in Sister Xu's shop now, and you can open your own shop after learning from Sister Xu. But you are married, and the future Your parents-in-law will urge you to have a child, and when the child is born, you are destined to be tied up at home with no time to spare. But Xiuxiu, if a woman wants to live a comfortable and wonderful life, do you know what is the most important thing?"

Xiuxiu thought for a while, "Find a man who treats you well?"

"Wrong!" Jiang Yu bluntly refuted her whimsical point of view, "The first thing is to be independent of personality and economy."

"As long as you become independent in this aspect, your future will not be tied up in the small world of 'family'. You don't need to look at your husband's face to get living expenses every month, and you don't need to have to make a lot of calculations to buy milk powder for your children. .Personality and economy are independent, and your waist can be straightened.”

"Xiuxiu, you have not been in the capital for long, and your vision and thinking have been limited. I know you, cheerful and lively, straightforward, and courageous. Your future must be bright. You can't be so young at such a young age. Your own future is locked in a small world, and when your vision and thinking are completely released, and your personality and economy are completely independent, you will find that you can join hands with even the most unattainable man."

Jiang Xiuxiu's cheeks were flushed by Jiang Yu's fierce praise.

"I'm not as good as you said, don't praise me, I'm sorry."

"If you were not good, I would not have brought you to the capital." Jiang Yu did not brag, this girl is really good.

"But I think that man is pretty good." This may be the first time Xiuxiu's heart has been moved.

Jiang Yu smiled, looking at her with gentle eyes, "Then get along for a while, if it's not suitable, you can break up. So I told you just now, no matter how strong the relationship is, you can't easily confess yourself. "

"Break up if it's not suitable? That's not good."

"There's nothing wrong with it. That's how feelings are. We get together when we get together, and we break up when we don't get along. You can't stay together for a lifetime because of embarrassment and the other party is not suitable. Anyone's time is precious. You are like this, so is he. Otherwise, the next few decades will be endless torture for you."

She has such a personality, she can fall in love with a momentary feeling, but she must be cautious when getting married.

Well, I never talked about love in my previous life, but it didn't prevent her from instilling chicken soup for the soul to Jiang Xiuxiu.

Jiang Xiuxiu was nervous before, but now she feels that she has suddenly become enlightened.

"Then I'll try everything with the other party first, and if you don't get along well, you can help me."

"of course."

Jiang Xiuxiu is delicate, but not savage.

Maybe he grew up loved by his parents and elder brothers, so he will be more or less delicate.

But in the past three or four months in the capital, according to the word from Sister Xu, Xiuxiu is really working hard to learn, and now she is very familiar with receiving guests.

Xu Lan was still sitting in the store collecting money before, but now the store is completely handed over to her, and all aspects are handled properly, Xu Lan is very relieved.

It is also because of this that Jiang Yu does not agree with Xiuxiu's premature marriage. Compared with being bound in a marriage where she does not know what the future holds, and waiting for a man to give her some living expenses every month, she is fully capable of living a chic and comfortable life with her own abilities. life.

(End of this chapter)