The prodigal Fu Jin has tricked me again

Chapter 551 Modern: Love to Wear Father's and Ladies' Clothes (4 words)

Dong Ejin smiled.

I really understand.

At that time, he not only kept pointing at the camera angrily, but also kept sternly yelling, with a black face, which was actually fierce and scary. The paparazzi ran away because they were afraid that the guy who was eating would be smashed.

Although the process is very cool, the result is obvious - the one who suffers is himself.

Because this fact cannot be changed, the current industry situation is like this, relatively chaotic and irritable.

About an hour later, the pictures captured by the paparazzi went online, saying that the traffic star was playing big names and angrily pointed at the reporter.

Yan Yan had already asked this point in the interview just now, because ordinary people are the most affected by this kind of thing, and everyone wants to know Qi Jin's opinion on this matter: "When he is flirting with reporters, you usually stop him." Look at him, or don't say anything, just stand aside and wait for him to finish? Because you don't look like someone who would scold him with him, hahaha..."

Dong Ejin was silent.

Didn't she say that she was the one who cleaned up the mess for him behind his back and even beat up the reporter?
Euphemistically: "If the child is nearby, my first priority is to protect the child from being photographed, and try not to let them feel this kind of malice."

She glanced at Yin Yu and held his hand: "The common wish of our husband and wife is to hope that the child will not be affected, and live a simple and happy life."

When Yin Yu heard her admitting that she was his wife for the first time in front of outsiders, her heart was extremely tender.

Dong Ejin helped Yin Zhen clear up the public's misunderstanding of him in front of the camera: "Yin Zhen is actually a person who is cold on the outside and hot on the inside. He has done a lot of charitable acts behind the scenes, but the reporters didn't take pictures of him. It's a pity. I didn't mean to praise my husband for how well he did, but I just wanted to clarify for him."

"He is not a person who can lose his temper casually, and he can even control his temper better than most people in this world. It's just that he has a relatively straightforward personality and doesn't know how to be euphemistic. Just said it."

"For example, some time ago, I often saw him making various headlines, saying that the popular traffic niche was pointing at the camera at the airport again. In fact, he didn't scold the other party at that time, but just had a black face. He stretched out his hand and didn't point at the other party. , but I hope that he can walk to the side, don't pretend to be others, and don't block the way of others. It's just a waving, and the result is written like that by the media. Then some black fans went to his Weibo Scolding, saying that he is not polite, that he is a public figure and has a glass heart..."

Yan Yan was also speechless when she heard it: "Wow, then this is really... so actors are sometimes quite helpless. The public understands actors only by reading articles written by the media, and they can't understand the real appearance of actors. At that time, I was miserably hacked by the unscrupulous media, and I was really wronged."

In particular, most people think that actors should bear the huge pressure corresponding to earning that money. Even if such pressure should not exist, it is even unfair to actors, but based on their If the income is high, it must bear such consequences.

It's actually kind of ironic, especially when most people think so.

In this world, sometimes because of money, it is easy for people to lose their normal and fair judgment.

"Yes, so Yin Yu didn't want to accept variety shows before, and then I persuaded him, I said you should do more shows similar to reality shows, so that everyone can know the real you. You don't need to deliberately pretend Become another character, or specialize in shaping the character..."

"At that time, he was very annoyed by the media, and programs like reality shows can let people understand themselves as soon as possible, but they are also the easiest to expose a person's shortcomings... Because he was afraid of attracting false reports from some bad media, So he is quite resistant to doing the show.”

Dong Ejin paused, and said: "But at that time I tried my best to persuade him, I said you are pretty good, don't care about these, just show your true self, the public will definitely accept you and like you. "

Yan Yan continued: "That's why he did that show afterwards."

She smiled and said, "I've watched your show, and the effect is quite good, and many people really got to know Yin Yu from this show. The character there is his truest character, right?"

Dong Ejin nodded.

Yan Yan said: "That's really cute. I think it's very interesting to interact with you sometimes, but it's completely contrary to the public's perception. The audience has always had the impression of him being serious and indifferent, but with you When we get along, it's a completely different way, acting like a baby, being cute and being a rascal... The fans are very cute about him."

"Furthermore, fans don't like their idols getting married and having children, especially when fans are chasing him enthusiastically, he suddenly has a wife and even a child... But you are very lucky , because the fans have accepted it, and they especially want you to be together."

"Yes..." Dong Ejin nodded: "We are indeed very lucky."

Especially when she found him not long after she came to this world and was able to help him.

She is lucky.

"Nowadays, many celebrities are dressed up at the airport. I told Yin Yu just now that I don't like makeup, but I have to. I'm afraid that I will be ugly in other people's photos, so I have to wear it. Because of Yin Yu, you are also It has attracted much attention, for example, if you go to the airport or something, will you also have this kind of worry?"

Dong Ejin smiled lightly and said: "Oh, this one is very rare. Because I have a private jet, I usually take a private jet when I travel, which is more convenient. But if I am on a business trip, I will book a ticket and go to the normal airport, because the other company will send someone to pick me up. Then I received my whole itinerary. Because I was on a business trip, I paid attention to my makeup, and I had a little idea of ​​what the media would look like in the photos."

"Private jet!" Yan Yan sighed with a smile, "Sure enough, it's different from ordinary people."

"What about the child? Are you worried about the child?"

"Nowadays the media is so boring. They even have to dig out what clothes the child is wearing, and then post them on the Internet. They analyze the child from head to toe in depth. How much is a suit of clothes worth? What brands are they? Have you ever been on any of them? The show? This kind of... In fact, it is wrong to popularize these views to children from an early age, especially instilling the concept of famous brands and not famous brands in children. I think it is very secular. For children, their world should be like that, very clean Upright and pure..."

"But there are always some media that have nothing to write about, and they always gossip about children... Do you pay special attention to what clothes you wear for your children because of this kind of thing?"

Yan Yan recalled talking to a middle-aged male star before: "I interviewed an old actor before, and he said that when she first gave birth to a daughter, she was wearing famous brands from head to toe. The child is ready. But when the second child is born as a boy, he will not be able to wear whatever he likes, and he will not be entangled in the issue of famous brands. Because he finds that buying famous brands is too expensive. Although he earns a lot, he spends the money It's really worthless to spend on this matter, children grow up very fast, and they can't wear clothes after buying them a few times, it feels like too much money, hahaha..."

"Oh, I won't buy some very high-end clothes for the children just because others secretly took pictures. I respect their wishes very much. No matter what, big and small things are up to them to decide."

"I don't treat them as children, I completely treat them as adults. Of course, the warmth that children should have will be given to them, but I treat them as an independent individual. I hope to cultivate them at a very young age. They have this kind of ability, so when they buy clothes, they will be taken to the mall, and then let them choose the clothes they like, instead of deliberately buying high-end clothes."

Dong Ejin smiled: "So the aesthetic views of the two children are also different."

"What does brother like? What does sister like?"

"My younger sister likes some princess dresses, as well as punk clothes, and occasionally wears sportswear and casual clothes... Her clothes are quite similar to her father's. The two of them always wear father-daughter clothes when they go out."

Dong Ejin showed a helpless and doting look towards the father and daughter.

Yan Yan chuckled.

"My brother usually chooses clothes that are more decent."

Dong Ejin's face was more gentle when sharing about the child: "I found that you don't need to deliberately train the child to wear what clothes on which occasions, you just take him to participate in activities, and then take him to go and see more. There are choices. And the choices are very accurate and decent, and they are very suitable for him.”

"I think this is quite strange, because I always feel that they have just a little bit of their own consciousness, know what aesthetics are, and they don't have to listen to adults. But later found that this is not the case, children are very independent , When we interfere with him a lot with the thinking of adults, it will affect him instead. So these two children I never interfere with what they want to do."

"I'm not worried about their future aesthetics."

Yan Yan asked suddenly: "I feel that you are quite open-minded, so if your son or daughter finds someone who is not satisfactory to you in the future, will you interfere with them?"

Dong Ejin thought for a while and said, "I probably won't..."

"Although I like children very much and hope that they can accompany me for the rest of my life, I know in my heart that children do not grow up attached to their parents. They are an independent individual and are not the property of their parents. If you want them to grow up better , as a parent, even if you are reluctant, you must learn to let go."

"Besides..." She smiled slightly, looked at Yin Yu, and gently held his hand: "The only one who can really accompany you on the journey is your significant other, the husband and wife are the ones who can stay together for a lifetime."

"Whether it is a son or a daughter, when they grow up in the future, they will leave us and move out. So they can stay with whoever they want, as long as they are happy, I won't do too much Interference." Dong Ejin smiled calmly: "I believe that the children I raise have certain tastes and abilities. I believe that when that day comes, they will have a pair of discerning eyes to choose the best partner they think. Not going after kids who worry us."

"What do you mean by worry? Does poverty count?"

Yan Yan asked a sharp question: "If your daughter falls in love with a very poor guy in the future, his position is very low and he has no ability. He cannot guarantee your daughter's future, but your daughter loves him very much. Will you Allow your daughter to marry him?"

The first reaction in Dong Ejin's heart was to refuse.

Not because of poverty, but because the other party has no ability.

Listening to her description, I feel that such a person is very hopeless.

When girls are young, they all want to find someone who is handsome, talkative, and humorous... Even if he has no car, house, or savings, as long as the other party can make her happy, then add another must-have Condition: Be nice to her.

But life is not so simple.

Chai, rice, oil, salt, soy sauce and vinegar tea, for those with better incomes, this is nothing at all.But for those on low incomes, buying an extra bag of salt can be a source of contention.

And feelings will only be slowly worn away in this process.

It's not that two people have no love anymore, but that two people are disappointed in each other, which is extremely disappointing.

This kind of marriage, even if it starts with love, after such endless torture, even the initial bit of love will turn into irony.

From the perspective of the strategic development of life, it is best not to start such a marriage.

She is sensible, even if she is very enlightened in raising children, even if their family has infinite wealth and can even support the whole family of that man, she will not let her daughter choose such a man.

Because this man does not have the factors that make marriage more positive.

It’s okay for a man to be poor, he can have no power or background, he can even be so miserable that he is congenitally disabled...but you must have a positive heart that can turn your destiny around.

Otherwise, for a woman, living with an incompetent and decadent man will only make life more hopeless.

She will not watch her daughter commit suicide, so if her daughter meets such a man, she will definitely use some means to separate the two.

But facing the camera, she can only avoid the important ones.

After being silent for a long time, Dong Ejin smiled slightly: "I will still support her love. Girls should have a sweet love at every stage."

"Hearing what you said, are you supporting the child's puppy love?" Yan Yan smiled brightly, and suddenly interjected.

"Yes..." Dong Ejin smiled calmly: "I don't think puppy love is bad, and it's not even like many schools that think puppy love is a hazard to students, and the rules never allow it."

"Look at ancient times, during the Qing Dynasty, even the princes got married at a very young age, about thirteen or fourteen years old, and counting forward, there was even an earlier phenomenon in the Tang Dynasty, which shows that at this age, human beings sprouted such Feelings are normal."

(End of this chapter)