Daughter's Portable Space

Chapter 361 The plan to keep filial piety

With Qin Shaotian's guarantee, the big stone in Luo Yunrui's heart was finally let go.

Before that, although she pretended not to care about her aunt's remarks, she still had deep worries in her heart.

The lethality of gossip is sometimes a little bit more cruel than a sword.

"Okay, Shaotian, you can handle the outside affairs. As for the Qin family's affairs..."

"Rui'er, you don't need to interfere in the family affairs. Although we may stay here for a while, the second aunt is used to doing things here. No matter how bad it is, my mother will be there. If you are free, take care of her Brother Hao, I think he has lost a lot of weight these days, so he should make up for it."

Qin Shaotian interrupted Luo Yunrui's words. Although Luo Yunrui is the eldest mistress of the Qin family, there are some things that she really doesn't need to intervene when the elders are still there.

"Shaotian, I understand what you mean, and I don't mean to meddle in the affairs of the family. But, Shaotian, don't forget that there is an aunt at home. To put it nicely, she is an elder who likes to meddle Well, to put it bluntly, there is such an uncontrollable disaster, even if I rest, my heart is not at peace."

Qin Shaotian was silent, he was too clear about his aunt's behavior.

However, no matter what, the aunt is always the biological daughter of the old lady of the Qin family, and she is also the eldest daughter.It's fine if the aunt doesn't come to mourn, but since she came, the Qin family has no reason to drive her away anyway.

"Auntie's matter... Otherwise, you should try to avoid it as much as possible. Anyway, we won't be staying soon."

Luo Yunrui glanced at Qin Shaotian suspiciously: "Shaotian, you keep saying that we are only staying here for a while, but the filial piety is a full 27 months. Could it be that you don't want to be filial piety anymore?"

With a wry smile, Qin Shaotian looked at Luo Yunrui with deep helplessness: "Is it okay for me to keep filial piety if I don't want to? If that's the case, I really don't want to keep it. It's a pity..."

"What are you going to do?"

"In terms of keeping filial piety, the first seven, seven, and 49 days are the most important. We have already lost a lot of time. In fact, we have not caught up with these days at all. Apart from these days, the first year is also extremely important. What I think is, why don't we just stay in Luzhou City this year, and return to the capital after the Chinese New Year is over next year."

Luo Yunrui stopped talking, she lowered her head and pondered secretly.

The old lady of the Qin family passed away on the first day of the first lunar month. Because the road was extremely difficult to walk, even if the second master of the Qin family wrote a letter and sent it to the capital that day, when they received the letter, it was already the first month of the lunar year.

And the whole family of Qin family wanted to deal with the affairs of the capital roughly, and when they rushed all the way to Luzhou city, they had already passed the old lady of Qin family's life.Especially after Qin Shaotian went back to find Luo Yunrui and his mother, it was delayed for several days.In this way, even if they really stay in Luzhou City until next year, it will be less than a year if they are fully charged.

Just, is this okay?

The three-year filial piety period is 27 months to be precise, but it is also particular.

The first year is all about filial piety, all the rules must be followed, absolutely no mistakes are allowed.The next year and a half is still in the period of filial piety, but correspondingly some things can be ignored.For example, visiting relatives and friends, unless they are people who pay special attention to these things, most people don't care so much.

After the 27-month filial piety period is over, you can officially get rid of the service. By the way, those who want to hold a wedding can prepare for it. Some people who are studying to become officials can also leave home.

"Shaotian, do we only obey the filial piety for one year? Will we not be gossiped by others?"

Qin Shaotian shook his head: "It's not like that, Rui'er. Let's put it this way, we naturally have to observe the three-year filial piety, but no one stipulates that we must observe filial piety in the old house, right?"

"You mean, Shaotian, we will go to the capital after a year?"

Regarding some etiquette matters, Luo Yunrui admitted that she was a little confused.You know, she has never been to a private school, and she doesn't even have a teacher to teach her.All of her knowledge and skills, either came from the Luo Zhang family, or were taught by the wife of the Luo family later.

In this aspect, Qin Shaotian is different.After all, he went out to study since he was a child, and later worked in Taichang Temple.Although Taichang Temple is different from the Ministry of Rites, the yamen in charge of royal sacrifices must be more proficient in matters of etiquette than Luo Yunrui, a woman who stays in the back house all day.

"Yes, we will leave Luzhou City and go to the capital in one year's time."

As he spoke, Qin Shaotian sighed slightly.In fact, he didn't really hate the old lady of the Qin family, even if he really hated her, since this person is dead, all grievances and grievances will be wiped out.The reason why he did this was mainly because the old lady of the Qin family passed away on an inappropriate day.

It's fine to pass away on the first day of the first lunar month, but it happens to be the key to studying in Jiege'er and Taige'er.

Don't underestimate the education of government schools, it's not that the Qin family can't afford to hire a private school teacher to teach at home, but Qin Shaotian doesn't like that kind of form.

When he was young, the elder of the Qin family also invited Mr. Private School to teach him at home.At that time, Qin Xi was not yet born, and he was the only child in the whole family. Because he had been working in other places, the Qin family did not have any relatives or friends. Qin Shaotian spent his childhood studying with Mr. Private School.

Maybe it seems that this form is still good, but the problem becomes more and more obvious later.

First of all, without children of the same age as classmates, it is especially easy to develop blind confidence in yourself.In particular, as the only student, Mr. Private School's training comes from his father. In this way, he can't help but bring a little utilitarianism while teaching with his heart.

When Qin Shaotian went to the capital to study, the problem suddenly broke out.

God knows how Qin Shaotian survived alone when he first came to the capital to study.Fortunately, he is a stubborn person, and once he is sure about one thing, he will never back down, and because of this, he carried it through during that time.Either way, it was never a pleasant experience.

However, since then, Qin Shaotian also understood one thing.

Learning is important, but how to deal with interpersonal relationships is more important than learning.

This is also why when Brother Rui encountered a problem, the second master of the Luo family, who was his father, did not notice it immediately, but Qin Shaotian, who was his brother-in-law, was the first to notice it.There is no other reason, just because he has experienced the same thing.

"The ages of Brother Jie and Brother Tai are too embarrassing. If they are still young, like Brother Hao, then it's okay. It doesn't matter if it's delayed for three years. Anyway, I'm here, and even the private school Mr. No need to ask, just let me teach it. If they are older, I don't care, at worst, let them stay in the capital, anyway, there will be no problems if there are nurses and maidservants. "

After a pause, Qin Shaotian looked at the thoughtful Luo Yunrui with an extremely serious expression on his face.

"Rui'er, Jie Ge'er and Tai Ge'er are both boys, and sooner or later they are going to join forces. Originally, Tai Ge'er is the second son, so it doesn't have to be so hard, but because the two of them are similar in age, Almost everything is normal, and I don’t want to deliberately relax with Tai Geer. Therefore, in the future, the two of them may face difficult schooling experiences.”

Luo Yunrui looked worried, but immediately left.

Having experienced all kinds of hardships in her previous life, Luo Yunrui truly felt that suffering a little bit when she was young would be beneficial to her later life.

Even so, she felt very sad in her heart.

"Shaotian, I understand. I can understand when I think about Brother Rui. Although I also hope that Brother Jie and Brother Tai will have a smooth and worry-free life, but they are boys, and it is impossible for them to be as whole as girls." Those who stay in the back house every day. Since this is the case, it is good to suffer a little bit earlier."

There was one sentence that Luo Yunrui didn't say.She knows how much Qin Shaotian treasures her sons, and she believes that even if they want to make them suffer, with Qin Shaotian around, they will definitely be able to handle it well.

"It's not too much trouble. This year should be considered as a relaxation for them. Of course, with me in their studies, I'm afraid they won't be able to relax if they want to. But they can relax a little bit in other aspects. After all, in Studying at home and studying at government schools are two completely different things."

"I understand, then we are going to leave Luzhou City next year. Do you want to inform my mother?"

"You can tell her, but I think she should be a little clear." Qin Shaotian smiled slightly, but he didn't tell Luo Yunrui, this is not the first time their family has done such a thing, when the old master of the Qin family was still alive Well, when the grandpa of the Qin family passed away, it seemed to be handled in the same way.

After getting the exact information, Luo Yunrui didn't ask any more questions, but she disagreed with Qin Shaotian's statement about the aunt.

Even if their room will not stay in Luzhou City for a long time, it is not a reason to tolerate the aunt.Besides, my aunt is not a person who can just be patient!

Just as he was thinking about how to deal with his aunt severely, Qin Shaotian spoke again.

"Rui'er, I might be very busy these days. You have to know, even if it's just pretending, I have to try my best to pretend to be busy for the sake of the court." Qin Shaotian was a little helpless, he didn't have this idea in the first place After all, he has already handed in all the information on hand, and he can completely rest in the future.

However, because of what the aunt said, he had to go around again. To be honest, he also had resentment towards the aunt.

"By the way, if the aunt comes to make trouble again, you don't have to bear it, Rui'er. After all, we are the masters of the Qin family, an aunt who has been married for decades... Hmph, maybe it's time to teach her manners! "

(End of this chapter)