Wangfu little dumb wife

Chapter 452 You have a very amazing father (3 more)
Song Wei still had some concerns about him.

At the age of fifteen or sixteen, whether it is dealing with feelings or other things, impulse will always be far greater than reason.

Song Wei didn't immediately agree to Song Yuanbao, nor forcibly denied his ignorant feelings. He said very pertinently, "Miss Ye is fourteen years old, and she probably won't have a kiss until she is old. If you are really interested in her, then go ahead Wait for a year, if your mind doesn't change after a year, your mother and I will help you find a matchmaker to come and talk about marriage, how about it?"

"It's going to be that long for a year?" Song Yuanbao muttered with resentment.

Song Wei said: "Whether a decision made by one person is right or not, what you say doesn't count, and what others say doesn't count, time will tell.

You are now swearing that you will not marry her because of your mentality and vision when you were 15 years old. Perhaps after a year of precipitation, your mentality will become more mature and your vision will change.

If you still have no regrets by then, prove your decision is right. "

In terms of education, whether it is Yuanbao or Jinbao, Song Wei has always taught by precepts and deeds, and has never pursued the idea of ​​producing filial sons under the stick.

So far, he has never said a single harsh word to Yuan Bao, nor has he indulged him infinitely because of his guilt towards his brother and sister-in-law.

Song Wei's words have always played a very good teaching role.

Song Yuanbao was very impatient at first, but when he heard what his father said, he slowly calmed down, pondered for a while, then lowered his head, "Father, I know I was wrong, and you taught me the right lesson. I was too impulsive. In just one year, I also want to see if my choice is right or not.”

Song Wei asked him, "Aren't you in a hurry to say kiss?"

Song Yuanbao shook his head, "Anything that can't stand the test of time is a fake. I hope that from the inside to the outside, I can be a genuine Yuanbao. This year, let's take it as a test."

Song Wei smiled and said: "It's best if you can figure it out. I'm not letting you marry. You can propose marriage tomorrow, but you have a choice. You can only do it once in a lifetime. If you can't guarantee that you won't regret it decades later, It's better to spend more time thinking about it, and you have to remember that calmness will not harm you at any time."

Song Yuanbao was really educated now, the eyes he looked at Song Wei were no longer filled with resentment, but filled with endless gratitude, "Thank you dad."

"Go." Song Wei said, "I'm going to be busy too, there are still a lot of things to do in the yamen."

Song Yuanbao returned to Zhao Xi's office, and the other party was checking the accounts of the Shenbing Division during this period.

Hearing footsteps, Zhao Xi raised his eyes, "Did you tell your father?"

"I've said it." Song Yuanbao sat down and took a book casually, his voice could not detect any emotion.

Zhao Xi asked again: "When will you go to Ye's house to say goodbye?"

"Not going for now, wait another year."

Hearing this answer, Zhao Xi was not surprised.

The first impression Song Wei gave him was that he was mature and stable. No matter what he did, he was always calm and above all, and he finished it slowly in the end.

Therefore, Zhao Xi expected that even if Song Yuanbao was enthusiastic, Song Wei would not agree to him going to the Ye family to propose marriage right away.

What really surprised Zhao Xi was Song Yuanbao's reaction.

It stands to reason that he was full of hope before, but he should be very emotional when he was rejected by his father, but now he looks like a normal person.

Zhao Xi was quite puzzled, and asked him, "Did your father not let you go, or did you just talk about it for fun?"

Song Yuanbao closed the book with a serious expression, "I think my father said something very well. He told me that whether a person's decision is right or wrong, what he said doesn't count, and what others say doesn't count. Time will tell." Proof. So I want to know, will I still agree with who I am today, and will stick to my choice a year from now."

Hearing this, Zhao Xi was speechless for a few moments, and then laughed, "Song Sicheng really knows how to teach children."

No one has ever said these words to Zhao Xi.

No matter how smart he is, he is only 15 years old after all, with limited experience. In many things, his perspective on issues is far less comprehensive than that of an adult.

Therefore, Song Wei's words can be regarded as a lesson for Zhao Xi invisibly.

Song Yuanbao didn't know what Zhao Xi was thinking, he rolled the book into a tube and weighed it in his palm, "My father's way of reasoning is different from others, I think this is probably the reason why I have always listened to him since I was a child .”

Zhao Xi gave a rare compliment, "You have a very remarkable father."

"That's right." Song Yuanbao suddenly became proud and straightened his back, "Anyway, in my heart, no one can compare to my father."

Zhao Xi smiled, noncommittal.

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Regarding Song Yuanbao's going to the Ye family to propose marriage, it can be regarded as an end for the time being.

When Song Wei came home at night, he mentioned it to Wen Wan. When Wen Wan heard that he was reasoning with Yuan Bao, she couldn't help laughing and said, "It's a good thing that kid listened, otherwise he would have to confront us all the time. I'm afraid it won't work."

Song Wei said: "Yuan Bao is not a wayward child."

At most, at this age, there are some unavoidable impulses, as long as the parents guide him well, he will not make any big mistakes.

……

After solving the third room, it's the turn of the second room.

Wen Wan thought about the fact that her second sister-in-law came to find her during the day, she sat down slowly, and said to Song Wei: "Song Jiao has reached the age of marriage, has Mr. Xiang thought about marrying her to someone?"

Song Wei was silent for a while, and then said: "Last year's Shinke Scholars had a few unmarried young talents, one of them was Liang Jun, who was honest and prudent, and he was a good match for Song Jiao. However, in matters of marriage, the parents' order and the words of the matchmaker are important, but it must be combined with the child's own opinion. You can find time to ask someone to bring her here to find out. If she is interested, arrange a feast for the two of them to meet each other. Get to know each other face to face."

Wen Wan complied, and ordered his servants to pick up Song Jiao the next day, and Song Qi followed behind.

The weather was fine, Wen Wan let Yun set up a table in the pavilion in the garden, and some exquisite food was prepared on the table.

The little sisters were taken to the garden as soon as they arrived.

Song Qi was completely attracted by the delicacies on the table, and after sitting down, she buried her head in eating.

However, Song Jiao had a vague feeling that the third aunt's sudden pick of them was not just for a reunion.

"Is there something wrong with Third Aunt?" Song Jiao didn't move her chopsticks, and looked at Wen Wan who was sitting opposite her.

She said with a gentle smile, "Aren't you hungry? Eat something first."

Song Jiao had no choice but to pick up the chopsticks. She was not greedy, so she put it down after not eating much.

Seeing her wipe her mouth, she turned towards the lotus pond in front of her gently, and said slowly: "Jiao Jiao, don't you remember that Third Aunt once asked you a question?"

Song Jiao didn't realize it for a while, "I don't know what aspect Third Aunt is referring to?"

Wen Wan said: "I once asked you what kind of husband-in-law you want to choose. You were young at the time and it was normal to be undecided. Now that it's been so long, have you figured it out?"

Talking about this topic again, Song Jiao's cheeks were a little hot, and she bit her lip, "If my third aunt insists on me, of course I want to marry into a high family and become a young mistress from a rich family, but in fact, it's not me who picks people, but people Pick me. So, if a marriage discussion is to be put on the agenda, the third aunt can just make the arrangements, and I believe in your vision."

Wen Wan deliberately probed, "You have been in the capital for so long, and you have never had someone you like?"

The smile on Song Jiao's lips faded, "Which girl is not pregnant, I would say no, it's fake, but I can clearly distinguish what is a dream and what is reality."

She spoke cryptically, but Wen Wan understood clearly that she was referring to the eldest prince Zhao Xi.

Unexpectedly, the small encounter at the beginning would make her infatuated to this day.

It's a pity that it's not just the hurdle of family background that stands in her way.

If Song Wei was not Emperor Guangxi's nephew and son-in-law, and if Song Jiao and Zhao Xi had no generational gap, Emperor Guangxi might not have chosen Song Jiao to be the eldest prince's woman in order to win over Song Wei.

Song Qi was eating, but when she heard Song Jiao's words, she immediately started to gossip and looked at Song Jiao, "Sister, do you have a crush? Who, do I know?"

Song Jiao was ashamed in her heart, and responded to her sister's words in a low voice, "You don't know anyway."

"If you don't tell me, of course I don't know." Song Qi still didn't give up, planning to get to the bottom of it.

Song Jiao didn't intend to confess, so she didn't reply to Song Qi's words.

Song Qi was not convinced, and looked at Wen Wan, "Third aunt, look at my sister, she doesn't treat us as a family at all, and this kind of thing is still hidden, huh—what's the big deal?"

Wen Wan said: "Everyone has the right not to tell others about their privacy, there is nothing to complain about."

After finishing speaking, he looked at Song Jiao again, "Your third uncle helped to pay attention, saying that there were still unmarried Xinke Scholars last year. They were all good-looking, honest-tempered, and prudent. In a few days, the weather will be completely warm, and I will hold a banquet and invite people to sit in our house."

Song Jiao had been by Wen Wan's side before, knew how the third uncle and the third aunt were, and understood that the couple would not push her into a pit of fire, so she was particularly relieved, "I'm fine, as long as the third aunt thinks it's okay."

(End of this chapter)