The open life of peasant girl kapok

Chapter 707
"So people need to know how to be flexible. Like our third uncle, I don't know how to be flexible. Let a Funiang demon stay at home, and make the family restless. If I were third uncle, I would have let her go away."

"Handmaiden? What do you mean?"

"The literal meaning is a kind of person who takes helping her mother's family as the most important part of her life and is addicted to it. It can also be called helping the brother and the brother and helping the brother and the devil. Our third aunt is the representative character."

"Pfft... Isn't it just that everything is moved to her mother's house, and she is so polite." Shen Baicha laughed.

Seeing that she is much gentler than before, Shen Mumian thought for a while and said, "Since our sisters have talked to this point, I will remind you one more thing. You must hold on to the dowry you brought to the Zhou family. Now In this world, when a new daughter-in-law first enters the house, the mother-in-law is the head of the house. Some mother-in-laws are not bad, but some mother-in-laws have shallow eyelids and stare at the things in the daughter-in-law’s pockets all day long. Your future mother-in-law is such a person, I think Then she will try to deduct money from you, don't be stupid, take out everything, even if Zhou Baobao coaxes you to pay in the future, don't take it out."

"Women also need to plan ahead. Your dowry can only be reserved for your children. Don't be stupid, you take some money when your man needs money. If your mother-in-law is sick, you should be more filial. When your aunt is married, you also give some. Tell you that the cost of these circumstances should be paid out of your family estate, not your dowry."

Seeing that she was still in a daze, Shen Mumian said, "I have a question for you. Zhou Baobao told you one day that he wanted to do business, but he didn't have any money. He asked you to pay for your dowry, and this is not a small amount." , but all of them, do you pay or not?”

"Get it out? Isn't this doing business?"

"Hehe, it's good for you to pay. Maybe he will succeed with this money? Then you will become the grandma of a rich family. This idea is good and conducive to family harmony. But sister, I'll curse you if it's not your sister." , but life is inherently impermanent, what if one day you are killed by an accident? Do you think that men will guard you and not marry? At that time, other women will come in and enjoy everything you have given .Since ancient times, stepmothers have been so vicious. Once a stepmother comes in, there will be a stepfather. Once another woman enters the door, all the hard work you have put in will not be available to your son or daughter. So a man needs money to let him figure out a way. Otherwise, the money will come from your family."

"With a dowry in your hands, if the situation I mentioned happens in the future, your dowry is the capital for your children to survive when they grow up. There are thousands of situations in the world, and what I said is only one, so be careful Do you understand your dowry?"

"Understood." She said it so clearly, wouldn't she be stupid if she didn't understand.

"As long as you know."

The reason why Shen Mumian told her this was because she was afraid that she would be stupid and couldn't play with Anshi and Zhou Beibei, because the dowry she prepared for her was not a small amount, but nearly a thousand taels of silver, and those people couldn't help thinking about it.

"But sister, what you said just now is correct, but why did you pay for the medicine shop for brother-in-law?"

"Are you stupid?" Shen Mumian gave her a blank look, "Firstly, this money is not my dowry, but our family property (that is, the joint property after marriage), and secondly, the land deed profits of the pharmacy are all in Xinxin Under the name of Leopard, understand?"

Shen Baicha nodded clearly.

After chatting with Shen Baicha for a while, it was noon, Shen Lanfeng was not there, she felt that the days were extremely long, and after chatting with someone, it was only noon.

In the afternoon, I thought that the people I bought would live in the mountains, so I went to order some bedding and other odds and ends.

(End of this chapter)