Buy a house with 30,000 yuan and live in a small town

When Lao Li's parents heard about it, they were so angry that they almost had a heart attack.

"If my son really didn't take care of anything, where did she get food and clothing? Before she moved to the city, she still had a job in the town, but besides food and drink, her little salary was not much more than food and clothing. Can she afford Bai's clothes? Can she afford bags and cosmetics?

How did you get the house in the city, and didn’t it cost my son’s money? Did she ever repay the IOUs one after another?

After moving to the city, she stopped working and used her children as an excuse whenever she talked about it. Why, my child goes to school every day, does she need to be a 24-hour nanny? She said it was for the sake of the child, and look what harm she had done to my eldest grandson.

My grandson is only a little old and his schoolbag is not even big enough. She signed up for so many cram schools. I asked, where did the money come from for these expensive cram schools?

If my son doesn't care about anything and she goes out to eat with this person and go shopping with that person every day, where does the money come from?

They spend my son's hard-earned money and still think that my son is worthless and can't give others a good life. What do you call this? Is there such a person? "

The old couple originally did not support divorce, and wanted to persuade their son to step back and endure it for the sake of their children. Besides, there was no such thing as divorce in their time. Which couple could live without friction and unhappiness? It’s not all just make do.

But after learning the doctor's diagnosis from their son - although they didn't understand what "depression" was, they only understood that if this disease is not taken seriously, the consequences will be serious.

The key is that the root cause of this disease is still in the child's mother.

The balance in the hearts of the old couple tilted instantly.

Later, they heard that their daughter-in-law had ignored the facts and slandered their son, and the couple completely supported their son's divorce.

She received a notice from the court when she was still letting Lao Li feel confident in her parents' family.

Negotiations failed and Lao Li filed for divorce.

She couldn't believe it and went to the court as if she was angry.

During the pre-litigation mediation, she wanted a house, money and children.

The house and money are the guarantee of current life, and the son is the guarantee of future life.

In addition, she feels that this is the son she has carefully cultivated for more than ten years. She also hopes that the child will be admitted to the top university in the country, fulfill her dream, and make her face bright.

Money and house didn't matter to Lao Li, but the custody of the child was absolutely impossible to give her.

The two were arguing, and the mediator suggested asking the children for their opinions.

Li Yu has been helped by Lao Li these days, and it seems that he has recovered a lot.

Relatives can attend the pre-litigation mediation, so the elderly on both sides and the brothers or sisters of both spouses come to support.

Li Yu also came and volunteered to listen.

When Li Yu first proposed, Lao Li didn't want him to come over at all, because he was worried that his condition would worsen after seeing the woman. But Li Yu insisted, and Lao Li had no choice but to agree because he was concerned about the child's emotions.

As soon as the mediator asked Li Yu for her opinion, before the child could speak, she cried and played the family card of "mother and child are connected".

Seeing that Li Yu had no reaction, he wanted to pull it.

Lao Li subconsciously hurried over and pulled Li Yulian over with a chair, protecting him tightly.

Relatives on both sides started a new round of quarrel over this.

The mediator tried hard to persuade him, but he still couldn't stop. However, Li Yu's words made everyone instantly mute and even their movements stopped.

Li Yu stood next to Lao Li, looking at her on the other side of the long table, with complicated emotions in his eyes: "I choose my dad, and you don't want the money or the house, because you cheated on me, I saw it with my own eyes. "

In the stunned silence, Li Yu accurately stated the time, place, the man's appearance and what he was wearing at the time. Li Yu said: "That day when I was in cram school, you didn't pick me up and let me go home by myself. I was walking on the street and passed by a bookstore. I went in and read for a while, and then I saw you and me through the window of the bookstore. He came out of the hotel diagonally opposite, and you still..."

Li Yu couldn't talk any more.

Lao Li reached out with his long arms, hugged his son, and pressed him into his arms. Then he felt the clothes on his chest were wet, and heard his crying voice: "Dad, I'm sorry..."

Li Yu didn't want to talk about it at first, he just wanted the matter to rot in his stomach.

He felt that after his parents divorced, they would most likely become strangers, but after all, they were once a family. Even if he was a child, he still wanted to be decent, not to mention the father who was hugging him at the moment.

But she went too far, really too far.

How could she want everything and leave nothing for her father?

The last time he left his job temporarily without asking for leave and couldn't contact anyone for a long time, Lao Li had been fired from the engineering team. When he secretly called someone to introduce a job, Li Yu overheard him.

As soon as this incident came out, she was definitely at fault. In order not to affect her future remarriage, her parents firmly opposed the court and demanded a private settlement.

If something breaks out, she will be nailed to the pillar of shame. What will she do for the rest of her life?

She herself felt guilty, and it was hard for the lion to open her mouth.

Finally, after mediation, the house and the children belonged to Lao Li, and the money in the bank account was split half way between them.

When the divorce papers were in hand and she moved her belongings out of the house, both father and son felt the same sense of relief.

Looking at this home again, it seems that the space has become larger, the windows have become brighter, and the haze has disappeared.

But Li Yu didn't want to go back to school anymore. After the last love letter incident, he felt conflicted in his heart.

He really couldn't forget the feeling of having his self-esteem severely trampled to the ground by the person closest to him.

Lao Li took him to see a psychiatrist again.

However, this kind of wound has to be healed slowly by himself. In view of the child's psychological endurance, the doctor suggested that Lao Li try to change the environment if he has the ability.

So Lao Li asked someone to transfer Li Yu's school through his connections. It is an experimental middle school closer to home. It is ranked many places behind the city's No. 1 middle school, but it is much better than the schools in the town.

Originally, Lao Li wanted to sell his house and take his children back to the village, so he could study in the town. He didn't care whether his grades were good or bad. As long as his children could be happy in the future, he would be satisfied.

A friend persuaded him: "It's better to keep the house. The old communities in the south of Shinan have been demolished. If this area is demolished and rebuilt by then, it will be too late for you to regret it."

If you are really unlucky, change all the decorations in the house. Isn't that what you do yourself? It's not troublesome to get a simple outfit.

Besides, you don’t care about your child’s grades, but what about the child himself? Now it’s all about academic qualifications when looking for a job, let alone in the future? You should stay in the city if you really think about your children. "

The love letter thing is based on a real case

I heard it from a friend

Her relative's child, who was in the third grade of junior high school, received a love letter from a girl and was discovered by his mother.

During that time, the child's grades declined, and the mother decided that early love was to blame.

I went to school to find the girl's class and scolded her in public. It's shameless to say that people don't learn well and have no sense of shame. A little girl knows how to love and love without studying all day long...

After the girl finished her work, she went to her son's class again, carried him in the corridor, and trained him for the entire class...

I really felt suffocated when I listened to it!

Fortunately, these two children have relatively strong psychological qualities, otherwise, the consequences would be really hard to say...