The reborn peasant girl has space for farming

Can relax all the fatigue of the day.

On this point, Xiaoqing and he had the same idea. Both of them felt that the decoration in the home should be warmer.

"You see, this is really the age difference. I feel that the decoration style you two chose is too plain and not as good-looking as the previous ones!

But I don’t really understand. This family belongs to the two of you. We are definitely not involved. We just have different preferences. This may be commonly known as the generation gap. "

Although the sister-in-law does not particularly approve of the choice of the two children, she will never participate. After all, this is a cabin for two people, so they can make the decision.

"You see, you don't understand. This requires the pursuit of simplicity and perfection, and in this case, the interior of the house will appear more elegant, which we like.

I guess if you decorate it, you will definitely make it magnificent. "

Chengwen knew that his mother and he had different visions, so they also had different choices in many things.

"That's true, but as a parent, it's really good to be able to fully respect your children's opinions. We also have many parents here who bring their children to see the decoration!

Children and parents always feel uncomfortable when their opinions are not unified. When the final decoration is completed, we have to consider the parents’ opinions as well as the children’s opinions. It will not be so complete, and some places may not look so good. Match. "

The most difficult thing for designers is that parents and children don’t have the same opinions. There will always be some quarrels, and designers don’t know who to listen to. There are many places that seem to be very inconsistent!
  In order to make the two more pleasing to the eye, a lot of careful thought needs to be spent on it, so it is not like now, and they will completely follow Cheng Wen's ideas.

"What's that for? The purpose of buying and decorating a house is to make the children comfortable. The main thing is that I buy a house myself and decorate it for myself. It's all based on my own ideas, regardless of the children's opinions!

But this house is for children to live in after all. As long as they like it, then just decorate it according to what they like. I absolutely don’t care, but when I have a house, I will definitely decorate it according to my own preferences. This is your home after all!

So you have to make yourself comfortable. I will not participate in this. I can at most give a small opinion. If others are willing to adopt it, then we can adopt it. If they are not willing to adopt it, there is nothing we can do!

As a parent, you have to learn how to withdraw appropriately. Besides, now that your children are so old, you have to let them make their own decisions. You can't always stay with your children. "

The sister-in-law also knows that the child has grown up, so many times, it is normal to have different ideas from her own, because after all, she has also been through the child's age, and her own choices must be different from those of her parents. A lot of them are different!

Respecting your children's wishes and living your own life is the most important thing, especially when your children grow up, as parents, you must withdraw appropriately!
  After the children get married, it is even more important for the children to take good care of their own families. They can just live their own lives. It is best to help each other!

If you can't help, as parents, you should also make yourself comfortable and don't always inquire about the children's information. After all, the children have grown up and started a family, and they have to let the children make their own decisions and live their own lives. The day you want. “Your idea is really good. I am very envious of it. I used to think that my mother was quite open-minded and allowed me to choose to study and design this industry!
  Back then, our family came from a rural area, so many people felt that I was now doing decoration work for people. Wouldn’t that sound bad?

But my mother didn't think that way. She supported me in every way and gave me a lot of direction. So, seeing you like this, I miss my mother a little. I haven't been home for several years. "

When the designer mentioned this, he did feel a little sentimental. In the first year, he just entered this industry due to his own work. He wanted to learn more from others, and there happened to be an opportunity, so he couldn't go home!
  The second year was because I had to take over a job and couldn't go home. This year, my work is probably all scheduled together, and I won't be able to go home in time.

I originally called my mother and said that I would find a way to go home to celebrate the New Year this year, but looking at the current situation, there shouldn't be much hope.

"It's not easy for children who come out of the countryside. As parents, of course I hope you have a good life. If you want, you can bring your parents over for the New Year. How many children do you have in your family?"

My sister-in-law saw that the designer was not very young, but he was very responsible.

"I am the only child in our family. My mother is not in good health. After giving birth to me, she suffered from severe bleeding. Fortunately, she was sent to the hospital, otherwise her life would not have been saved!

But the uterus was removed, so I was the only child in our family.

I haven't been back for several years, and I don't know how they are doing. If they are willing to come to the city, I would be willing to pick them up, but I also live in a small house now. "

Girls work very hard to put down roots in the city, so they save money for housing frugally!
  I was originally interested in this house, but my salary was still limited, so I had no choice but to give up and choose another house when the time came.

"What a good boy, I envy you very much. Tell me about you. Now you have so many good opportunities, and you can also go out to study. Unlike us at that time, we could only farm at home and didn't understand these at all!

When you grow up, you will work in a factory or farm at home. You are particularly good now, which is really good.

Now the economic development level in the city is good, and the medical level is also good. When you make money, you can take your parents over. Don't be discouraged. It will definitely be possible.

Having a little nest of your own, no matter how big it is, is a kind of warmth, and your parents are in your hometown and are getting older. If you can bring it to them, it is best to bring it to them!
  With you taking care of me, it’s so nice for a family of three to be happy and happy. "

My sister-in-law feels that the happiest thing in the world is to be with her child, so she works hard to live. Every time she sees her son, she always feels that life has more meaning. (End of chapter)