A leisurely life that begins with the possession of a game character

From the perspective of Zhang Lan and his wife, we know that you, the daughter-in-law, want to make money, but there is no need to force the whole family to go up.

Now there is a house in the city, and Uncle Zhang Lan's salary is enough to cover the monthly loan repayments and daily life.

You young couple usually work hard on your own and save some money. When the children are older, you can buy a house. There is no need to push the family so hard now.

Wang Tao was seriously ill, and as soon as his condition stabilized and improved, you started driving your family out to make money again. Are you really going to risk your life just for money?
Sometimes families that look happy to outsiders actually have their own troubles.

Except for her strong personality, Wang Tao's wife is pretty good in other aspects. She just puts too much emphasis on money, but she is also working hard.

And he is also a very neat person. I heard from Wang Tao that since getting married, Wang Tao has basically not done much housework. The main reason is that his wife dislikes Wang Tao for being unclean.

Inside and outside the house, he washes clothes, mops the floor, cleans the house and cooks. In terms of home hygiene, Wang Tao even mops the floor, but his wife occasionally finds it objectionable that it cannot be done clean.

When the family is harmonious and family members work together, even if they work a little harder, they still have success. But if a family has its own ideas, each does its own thing, and holds each other back, both the rich and the poor will be poor.

Originally, the whole family wanted to buy a house. Grandma would help take care of the children, and the son, daughter-in-law, and grandpa would work. They would focus on saving money without any quarrels, and they would soon be able to buy a house.

But suddenly my son fell ill, and my grandparents felt resentful. In addition to taking care of the child, their daily life began to have quarrels.

Wang Tao and his wife had to repay the mortgage they originally had. In addition, Wang Tao's income dropped after he fell ill and he was not in the local area. His wife usually had to tutor the children and could not concentrate on work, so her income was not as good as before.

Zhang Lan was curious about why the attitude of his aunt and uncle changed drastically after Wang Tao fell ill. Wang Tao was silent for a long time before explaining that since he was hospitalized and discharged from the hospital, he has been working in other places. His parents felt that Wang Tao and him As soon as my daughter-in-law was born, she began to want to save her daily salary so as to have a way out.

Zhang Lan thought for a moment and nodded to express understanding. But after talking for such a long time, Wang Tao still hasn’t said why he came here today?
It turns out that the reason why Wang Tao was at home these two days was because his wife gave Wang Tao an ultimatum: Either he can go back to work, and the two of them can take care of the children and pay off the mortgage together.

Either come back and sign the divorce, if you can get through it, get over it, and if you can't get over it, let it go.

Wang Tao and his wife have feelings, but they are still young. Today's young couples cannot live a lifetime relying on feelings. Wang Tao's physical condition made it impossible for him to explain to his wife. Although he knew that his wife might have guessed his current situation, he did not dare to say this to his wife.

After today's news spread on the local short video platform, Wang Tao got interested and came to see Zhang Lan because he wanted Zhang Lan to see if his hidden physical illness could return to normal.

At this point, Zhang Lan understood and simply asked Wang Tao about his conjecture. The result was that the reason why he and his wife did not have sex since he was hospitalized was either because he was worried about the recurrence of the disease or simply because he had no other choice.

He went to the hospital for a checkup, and the doctor said that it was probably the lumbar nerve that was compressed when the disease first broke out, which ultimately led to the hidden disease.

As the treatment time is too long, the result is that although the nerve is no longer compressed in the later stage, the impact is indeed irreversible.

Now the emotions of Wang Tao's wife and the rest of the family are gradually starting to conflict. Although there are some financial reasons, the fundamental reason is that Wang Tao, who originally acted as a lubricant, has unconsciously become the creator of negative emotions. Sometimes it is not important for a family to become poor due to illness. What is important is the emotions the family members give each other.

If someone among the family members is constantly generating negative emotions, such as crying about poverty, selling miserably, endlessly belittling and suppressing children, or even taking the smallest matters to the forefront, they are actually asking for emotional value from family members and turning a person into an emotional person. black hole.

They hope that their family members will become what they want them to be in order to fill their inner dissatisfaction with the current situation, and they also need to constantly vent their emotions to the family members around them.

As long as family members are in this kind of emotional black hole environment for a long time, no one's temper will improve. Instead, they will have a lot of resentment, because everyone has a lot to suffer and a belly of grievances to vent.

Even if you endure it silently, you can't escape the day when it explodes. If you don't explode in silence, you will perish in silence. You face several powder barrels every day, and there is no other way to choose except burning and explosion.

Wang Tao had his own problems and was unwilling to face his wife and family at home. His parents felt that Wang Tao never came home because there must be a conflict between the young couple. After the adjustment was not good, they began to get defensive.

And Wang Tao's wife is not really stupid. It's okay if the time is short. But if the time is long, Wang Tao, not only will you not provide any emotional value to others, you will not even be able to provide help in life.

It's normal to be so angry that you mention divorce. This kind of ultimatum doesn't mean that you really want a divorce, but it forces Wang Tao to come back and solve the problem.

Wang Tao's current concern is not to solve problems such as quarrels, but to cure his hidden physical illness. Because no matter how good the words are, in the end it is the actions.

As long as the fundamental problem is solved, Wang Tao feels that everything else is trivial, otherwise other things will be suppressed in a short period of time, and eventually he and his wife will still be unable to get along.

Zhang Lan asked Wang Tao about his symptoms. He had symptoms before he was hospitalized. He would not have constant back pain, so he didn't take it seriously. He thought that the problem of back pain would be solved.

Later, after I was diagnosed with femoral head necrosis, I felt even more that the condition was compressing the nerves. As long as the condition stabilized, there would be no problem.

Because this kind of example is very common, it is not uncommon for femoral head necrosis to eventually lead to paralysis of the lower body. He also searched online for cases like Wang Tao's, and found that there were people with the same symptoms, and after taking medicine to control the disease, most of them Most will return to normal.

Wang Tao himself thought so, but unfortunately, he did not return to normal after he was discharged from the hospital after treatment.

Once the cause and effect are clear, the next step is to treat the disease. It was a simple matter. They were unable to have sex because of illness. Then Wang Tao felt that he could not face this reality. His parents felt that the two of them would separate sooner or later.

His wife thinks that Wang Tao, you have to come back and speak clearly and give her a happy message. But Wang Tao didn't want to give it. He wanted to save it. After hearing today's news, he came to Zhang Lan to see if he could make the Bodhisattva appear.

. (End of chapter)