A leisurely life that begins with the possession of a game character

Zhang Lan meant not to rush, but to settle his mentality first and then come back. Qin Changyue asked Zhang Lan if he could do a two-pronged approach. He should worship Bodhisattva here, and Qin Jiawen should go see a doctor later.

The main reason is that Qin Jiawen is really not young anymore. If you can move forward on anything, just move forward.

There's nothing wrong with it. Although there really isn't any spell that can lead to red threads, it might be more effective to give Qin Jiawen a spell such as calming the heart and clearing the heart so that he can avoid going into a dead end when thinking?

For older singles like Qin Jiawen, it is easy to get married as long as they take the initiative, put down their posture and accept the gap.

There is no shortage of money, there is no shortage of houses, and the household registration in Kyoto is very easy.

Zhang Lan nodded and said: "That's okay, then I'll make some preparations and let Brother Jiawen burn incense and pay homage to the Bodhisattva later."

After worshiping the Bodhisattva, Qin Jiawen called him if something happened in his work unit and asked him to come over quickly. When leaving, Qin Changyue also wanted to go with him, but Qin Yongjun stopped him and said he would leave after dinner.

It's usually not easy to come here once. It's okay to have a meal before leaving. If Qin Jiawen's unit has something to do, he will go to work.

After Qin Jiawen left, Qin Changyue's originally smiling face turned into a sigh, nagging that he shouldn't have listened to Qin Jiawen's mother in the first place. At that time, if he had found a well-informed family to marry, how could there be so many problems.

Qin Changyue's nagging and complaints were dissatisfaction with Qin Jiawen's mother, saying that the girl she introduced to Qin Jiawen was so suitable, but Qin Jiawen's mother was just unwilling. If someone says that a family is not good, the character of a single-parent family is definitely not good.

As a result, now, the girl Qin Changyue introduced at that time got married soon, gave birth to twins not long after the marriage, and now lives a very happy life. What she found was something she wanted, but what happened was that she just got divorced and even made her nephew unwilling to go on a blind date.

Zhang Lan comforted her with a smile. In fact, there are some things that you don't need to worry too much about. Maybe he just hasn't arrived yet, so he will go around in circles when the time comes, and he will naturally get married and start a family when the time comes.

By the way, Zhang Lan gave her an example. He had a junior high school classmate, Guo Rui, who was shorter when he was in school. He was already in the third grade of junior high school. His body and appearance still looked like that of a primary school student.

When he became an adult, he would only be about 1.6 meters tall, which was probably not enough for him. At that time, Guo Rui's studies were not bad, he performed very well in the college entrance examination, and he passed every exam.

Because my family was relatively poor, I chose the civil engineering major. The few years after graduation, I have been working around the construction site. Because of my height and appearance, I have never been successful in dating.

Even later, Guo Rui went through various tests on the construction site for this reason. The salary level continued to rise, but it was difficult to find a partner.

His parents back home were almost dying of anxiety, but there was nothing they could do about it. It's said to be 1.6 meters, but that's the height after wearing height-increasing shoes.

In addition, I have been immersed in studying all year round. After graduation, I have been working on the construction site, and my interactions with people are very average. I just fail every time I talk to them.

Guo Rui himself is a little insistent, and his parents in his hometown are not willing to be backward compatible. When Zhang Lan chatted with him in the past, when it came to blind dates, Guo Rui often said that he did not get married for the purpose of procreating offspring. , After studying for so many years, if you force yourself to get married just to reproduce offspring, then what is the point of studying. At the very least, he must find someone with whom he can communicate effectively. He doesn't want to say something casually and end up with two people on separate channels.

This lasted until last year. According to what Guo Rui later said, he was forced by his mother to meet with someone through an introducer. This introducer is a kind of matchmaker in the township who charges a fee. It costs a few hundred yuan to introduce one person, and then after two people become friends, the fee ranges from a few hundred to a few thousand yuan.

The introducer took Guo Rui to the girl's home to meet her. When meeting Guo Rui, the girl's father talked to Guo Rui and his family, and then let the two of them talk on their own to see if it was a good fit.

Under this situation, the woman felt that Guo Rui had been deceived. She had no intention of going on a blind date at all. Before meeting Guo Rui, the same introducer had led people to her home more than ten times.

I don’t know what was going on that day, but the woman felt that Guo Rui was quite pitiful. I was originally short, and my family was from a rural area. Guo Rui said at the time that I was studying civil engineering, and I was often homeless.

Feeling soft for a moment, she relaxed and said that she would go out with Guo Rui. Her plan was to explain to Guo Rui that this kind of introducer was unreliable and they came just for the introduction fee. The subsequent success would cost thousands of dollars. Charges are just lip service.

This kind of introducer focuses on how much it costs to introduce a person. It only costs a few hundred yuan for a meeting with you, and sometimes you can get a good meal.

If the man is attracted to the woman but the woman is still hesitant, the middleman can make a lot of money from it.

The woman had good intentions at the time. After she went out, Guo Rui asked for a meal, but she refused directly. After explaining the cause and effect clearly, she asked Guo Rui to make it clear to his family that giving money to such a person would be a waste of money. As long as you give money, He can take you on a dozen kisses a day.

As for whether they can succeed, they only charge you an introduction fee, and the follow-up is up to you.

Guo Rui thought it was nothing at the time. He was going home on vacation at that time, and he was so deceived that the introduction fee was only one or two hundred. He couldn't stay at home for a few days, so he threw away one or two thousand to stop his parents from nagging him. At that time, it was more than 10,000 yuan a month, and for Guo Rui, who also had a bonus at the end of the year, it was a good deal.

Because of the girl's persuasion, the two of them started talking about each other after adding WeChat. After chatting for a while, the girl felt that although Guo Rui was a bit shorter, he didn't seem to talk much.

But once I got to know him, he was completely different. He was funny, he knew a lot, and he was able to tolerate his own stubborn temper.

Guo Rui also completely forgot about what he and Zhang Lan had said before about having common topics after getting to know each other several times and going out for dinner and shopping.

No matter what common topics and mutual communication, as long as two people identify each other, marriage will be mutually accommodating. You tolerate me and I tolerate you. It is best to be together and make each other happy.

After that, the two got engaged and married soon. During the Chinese New Year, Zhang Lan and Guo Rui met. The woman was already five months pregnant, and the child was due to be born soon.

This kind of thing means that as long as he is destined, everything will be quick. As an elder, don't put too much pressure on him. For things like marriage, when you were young, it might be useful to pressure him into a blind date or something.

After he reaches a certain age, instead of forcing him to go on a blind date, you might as well let him get in touch with more people. If he gets in touch with more people, he will naturally take them home. (End of chapter)