A leisurely life that begins with the possession of a game character

As for doing things to pray to gods and Buddhas, in Zhang Lan's opinion, it is unnecessary. The most important thing is to relieve the knot in the heart.

From Qin Changyue's few words, Zhang Lan could almost guess that the reason why Qin Jiawen never got married probably had a lot to do with the failure of his last marriage.

First find out what happened in the last divorce, and then analyze the specific situation in detail, and you will basically be able to figure it out.

After leading the people to the Buddhist hall and offering incense, Zhang Lan asked about the previous marriage.

Qin Changyue was still talking, with Qin Jiawen occasionally adding a word or two.

Qin Jiawen has always been relatively honest, and his daily interactions are similar to that of a otaku. He is usually interested in machine tools and has a special workshop at home. After work, he studies his machine tools at home and polishes various parts.

When they got married for the first time, Qin Jiawen's parents were anxious to have a grandson, and they kept going on blind dates. The conditions were relatively high at the beginning. As time went by, Qin Jiawen's parents' conditions gradually declined. Whether they were from Kyoto or from other places, as long as Qin Jiawen If you want to marry someone, that's fine.

Finally, Qin Jiawen's mother introduced a girl who was three years older than Qin Jiawen through an acquaintance in the work unit. The girl is from out of town and works in Qin Jiawen's mother's company. Her salary is similar to Qin Jiawen's, and she is a contract worker in the company.

At that time, Qin Jiawen's conditions were there, and there was nothing on the girl's side, so everything was fine from the beginning of the relationship to the final engagement and marriage.

The betrothal gift was a symbolic gift of 10,100 yuan. Qin Jiawen and Qin Changyue took the money to buy the jewelry. The girl didn't mention anything, so she bought whatever she wanted.

After getting married, Qin Jiawen's parents also thought that there would always be inconveniences with their new wife, so they let Qin Jiawen and his wife live in a house. The old couple lived in a house by themselves. If they didn't live together, they wouldn't have so many conflicts. .

The first two years after the marriage were similar. The woman had no special requirements. No matter Qin Jiawen's relatives at home mentioned it, they were full of praise.

It was not until later that the girl's job in the unit was transferred to the official establishment and her household registration became a Kyoto household registration, that things began to change.

Qin Jiawen is nagging at home every day that he earns too little money to spend, but even if the establishment is changed, the two people's salaries are almost the same, adding up to just over 10,000 a month. Since there is no mortgage to repay, the simple daily life of the two is enough. of.

Qin Jiawen ignored her at first, but then he became more and more aggressive, pointing at Qin Jiawen's nose and saying that Qin Jiawen was a waste and made little money. He no longer does housework. Qin Jiawen often scolds him for not doing well when he does it.

After that, she couldn't even spend the wages of the two of them on her own, so Qin Jiawen had to go to her parents to get some from time to time. Forget about cooking at home, we have to go to this restaurant or that restaurant from time to time, because both of us are in a regular work unit and have holidays and so on.

From time to time, he would think about traveling when he was on vacation. When he ran out of money, he would force Qin Jiawen to ask his parents for it. What they often said was that Qin Jiawen was the only one, so the money was all reserved for him.

Gradually, no matter how much I can bear it, the woman gets annoyed and scolds her all the time, scolding her for being underpaid and scolding her for not doing the housework well. They also often compare themselves with each other, how much money does so-and-so's husband make a month, and what does so-and-so's husband buy for his wife. Later, I basically had no communication with Qin Jiawen, except asking for money. Even when it comes to married life, wages are paid. Just bring the wages and let you touch them, otherwise don't even think about it.

In the end, Qin Jiawen simply told his parents that he wanted a divorce, but the girl had the same face in front of Qin Jiawen. She acted very normal in front of outsiders. She smiled with everyone and was gentle and generous in her dealings with others.

Qin Jiawen told his parents that he wanted a divorce, but Qin Jiawen's mother didn't support it at all, saying that the girl looked pretty good and was a bit spendy, but it wasn't a big problem.

Later, when Qin Jiawen saw her at home, he would get up and leave. The two of them were never alone together.

At this time, Qin Jiawen's parents saw both of them acting like this, and knew that the girl was probably different from what they saw, and what Qin Jiawen said might be the truth.

So I went to the middleman who had introduced the girl before and asked him to persuade her. After all, it was okay for two people to have such a quarrel. It was really not possible to divorce before they had children.

The intermediary didn't quite believe it after hearing this. This girl seemed very nice in the workplace. She worked very hard and treated people well. When I first entered the establishment, the middleman thought that he had introduced a good matchmaker and specially approved this girl to come in. Why is it that now it is about to get divorced.

The middleman talked to the girl once and persuaded her that it was time for you to have a child since you had been married for so long and you were already in the establishment, so you should stop working so hard. From the perspective of the intermediary, the reason why the two people have so much conflict may be because they don’t have children. It would be better to wait until they have children.

The girl performs very well in front of outsiders, but she gets even better here with Qin Jiawen. After the middleman found her, she still looked the same. Qin Jiawen, who was still sarcastic, went to complain to someone, but he was a loser. By this time, Qin Jiawen's anger had reached its limit.

Not long after that, when Qin Jiawen paid his salary again, the girl asked Qin Jiawen for money, but Qin Jiawen said directly that there was no money. That night, the girl made a big fuss at home. When Qin Jiawen was making parts in the workshop, he went directly into the house and smashed the workshop where Qin Jiawen used to kill time.

In anger, Qin Jiawen said harshly that he would get divorced tomorrow, pushed the girl out of the house and locked the door. This was so serious that the girl directly called the police, saying that Qin Jiawen was experiencing domestic violence and wanted the police to arrest him.

Because it was a demolition and resettlement community, the neighbors all knew Qin Jiawen's parents. After calling the police, the neighbors called Qin Jiawen's parents. After Qin Jiawen's parents arrived, the girl still said the same thing. After learning what happened, the police persuaded the girl that I can take him away tonight, but you have to think clearly, once taken away, you will really not be able to live your life anymore.

The girl threatened that she and Qin Jiawen couldn't get along with each other for a long time and took him away quickly. She wanted Qin Jiawen to go to jail.

As soon as he finished speaking, Qin Jiawen's mother became anxious and said, "Our family has not treated you badly. My son has wanted to divorce for a long time, but I pressured him to keep him from getting divorced."

Qin Jiawen's father, who was nearby, simply said that he should leave as soon as possible. Let Qin Jiawen go to the police station to resolve today's matter first, and then go for divorce tomorrow. Just pushing someone out of the house is going to send my son to jail. What will happen in the future? I need to get divorced as soon as possible.

Qin Jiawen said that he would meet with the Civil Affairs Bureau tomorrow and left with the police. As a result, not far after leaving the community, the police asked Qin Jiawen to get out of the car and left. They told Qin Jiawen not to go back tonight, and both parties remained calm. (End of chapter)